Let us know more dating questions for Saturday's Podcast Episode! (link to podcast is in description!) We will be recording Thursday so get your questions in ASAP!
I got one....how to flirt😂as a Christian...do I go all crazy....do I not try....do I pull up random verses...like what do I do😂😂 I feel like I only know how to flirt in a world way
I'm 39 and still looking for a spouse, but working on my relationship with God. I haven't dated much at all. It's hard, but I know God has a plan. Thank you both for this. You have so much wisdom💓 love you guys
Such wisdom!! I love especially this idea that your dream person is not going to be someone who doesn’t want to be with you. Hard to hear sometimes but so profoundly true!
How to start a conversation with a guy you like ? Chad : put on worship music in your car, then turn it down , get out and knock on his door and say - excuse me sir, do you have a moment to talk about our Lord and savior Jesus Christ ? Hahahahaha good one !
Seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness and these things will be added unto you. if we just fix our eyes on the King, our desires will be fulfilled. and that’s because our desires will be His.
I just left a relationship not because it was toxic, but I strongly feel that God wants us both to Himself since we are young Please say a prayer for us. I don't want either of us to destroy our lives cos of this
Loved this video! I have been in relationships where boundaries weren’t clearly set and that always created so much room for sin. Also advice from my experiences, just take your time and allow the Lord to guide each step! And if you’ve never been on a date (guy or girl) own that because that is amazing!! Thank you Tori and Chad for the wise counsel you provide for our little fam 💛
I saw a quote once that said something like “keep running towards God and the right one will keep up and introduce himself” 🙌🏻 once again a fabbbb video! I agree, it’s a blessing to be less experienced lol, I wish I hadn’t gained so much ‘experience’
I almost didn't click on this video because this is so not a topic I want to think about because it frustrates me beyond belief... Alas, you guys never disappoint and I do feel encouraged especially after reading the description! Oh and I just have to say, I'd totally watch a 45 minute video without hesitating. We shouldn't leave the other 50% off the Masters Fam out though so I'll be sure to keep an eye out for part 2 on Thursday. One more thing, May's bible study was amazing! Truly just what I needed and Tori's prayer at the end... SHEESH. Hit close to home in the best way - got me all choked up! Really struggling over here but grateful for you guys and the brightness you bring to each one of my days. You're making a difference for the kingdom and I'm honored to be a part of the fam!!
Thank you so much guys! Love your channel. My boyfriend and I have been in a long distance relationship for the past few months and this is very new for both of us. He is moving out my way soon and the timing of this video is perfect!! We both want to honor the Lord and put him first.
The last question is basically what is happening to me.uhhh... I decided to date him. He is my first boyfriend (and I am 22). He accepts me, my boundaries, he came to church with me... I pray for him, and i believe in Gods plans and that He can do everything. It was a hard decision and it is hard every day. But he is basically my best friend, the most loving, trying-hard, accepting human ever. We actually have the same picture of the future we want. It is crazy how similar we are even though we have different beliefs. God is on the first place in my life and i would LOVED it if my husband believed as much as i did. But the reality is so much more complicated.. We have to sacrifice something, it is so hard so so hard to find a good man, educated, accepting... I think there is no right answer, but i can't wait for next video! Greetings and love from Croatia
There will always be a right answer although it might be the toughest answer to swallow. It’s always best to choose God because the goal is always to have a spouse who can encourage/lead you in your faith through the good and the bad times. That’s not really going to be the case with a nonbeliever. It’s a hard choice to make but God is able to see you through your decision in honouring Him with the choices you make. God’s plans are so much bigger than what we can imagine and although the pool might look really small for godly men, He will always come through in some way 💕
@@Akichinay584 I completely understand how you feel. Especially with us being in Europe where atheism is pretty much the mainstream, it is very difficult to find a godly man. Here in the U.K. it’s the same with the ratio of men to women in church being so skewed to be majority women. I’m also in my early 20s and I do see many women in my church young adults group that are in their mid-20s/30s that are still single and wonder if I’ll be in that same position in a few years as well. Although sometimes I do feel discouraged, I just know deep down in my heart that I won’t be happy with someone who doesn’t share the same faith as me. I’ve tried it but it always felt empty and like my faith would be an offence to them in some way because I believe that believing in Jesus is the only way to eternal life. All in all trusting in God’s plan and timing is the challenge. He’s got your back no matter what. We all need to find contentment in whichever season of life God has us in even if that is singleness in mid-30s or 40s. There will come a season where He will grant you the desires of your heart. Don’t lose hope! 💕
Tori loved the quote you mentioned because that’s what happened with me! I stopped really trying to pursue and let God take control and literally less then a month later God sent a girl. It is amazing how God works!
I love how you touched on the importance of seeing that our desires for relationship are OF God!! And I think especially for a woman to know that their desires for a relationship are important. I struggled for a long feeling like I just had to be "desirable" for a man, but this year I learned that it is okay that I have desires too! They are NOT something to carry shame about but to know that God created for a reason.
Also, I love reading the descriptions for each video you post! Can’t wait to see what products you guys are coming out with and I love that challenge of not picking the low-hanging fruit! I can’t wait for part 2 on Thursday ‘Chadizzle and Torisizzle’. Hahaha
Chad and Tori!!! Thank you for this video! Chads explanation of a dream girl.... is so perfectly on point. I’ve struggled with this in my life, meeting amazing people who have so many qualities that I would desire in a partner, but without their mutual interest/desire they are really empty relationships., not that they are bad people, just there has to be both sides!!!
You know what...I better run to make a prayer journal about myself and my future husband. Tori&Chad, I just want to thank you for allowing God to use you. Am really learning so much from you guys. Love yall❤❤❤❤❤❤
YESSS!!! Preach! This was fantastic. Thank you for putting the time in for this video. You guys are so easy going and you make the conversation so natural! Thanks again.
Thank you for this! I love how you two come up with such an interesting mix bag of videos that are so relatable and super interesting and crazy helpful!! 👏 You two are truly God's gifts which we are so happy to uncover and take in as much as we can. May you be blessed with abundance of all that you desire! ❤ Love you both!
Hey!! The last paragraph in the description really encouraged me... Missionary dating is something i have come across the first time...Can't wait to watch the video after work!
I’ve been struggling loving someone who isn’t a believer, but has an openness to the Lord, just still has questions and wondering. We’re not like officially dating, but we pretty much are. I love him so much and he’s my bestfriend and I’m praying that he’ll become a believer. I just want to believe it’s a possibility and no turn him away
A great channel you could check out is @Mike Winger He has great content on the evidence that supports the resurrection and proof that Christianity is true. Just search his name and whatever topic next to it
The bible project is great too! And we totally get what you are goin through, Olivia! It's super hard.. it will be great for him to continue seeking and exploring... So many great resources out there to continue learning!
i dont think turning him away is cool if he loves you too,you can be in a soul mates kind of relationship even if one is beleiver and other is not(my parents) just that you both gotta be understanding
Love the dating videos for us single folks..And your advice is always timely and seasoned in the exact way I need to hear it. Also, as part of the 12 people who read the description😂, just want to say I always appreciate the insight in the description. God Bless You Chadizzle and Torisizzle😂
Such a good conversation! I just went on my first date this year (at 22) and have been navigating these questions a lot recently. Something I've found to be super beneficial for me while learning through this season is to learn first about how to make and maintain solid friendships, and of course solidify my relationship with the Lord. My favorite resources lately are the Prompt Us Podcast and Relationship Goals Reloaded with Pastor Mike Todd!
So good!! Thank you guys so much! FYI when you want to point to the video cards that link to your other videos you mention, point to your upper left corner! I figured this out because when Tori tapped Chad's heart, it looked like the right side from our viewpoint, but obviously the heart is on the left, so for you guys, the video cards are floating on the left corner :) Ya'll rock and have helped me more than you know. Blessings to you guys!
This video was so good!! The description was so good - I am so excited for the rest of the series!! Definitely sharing this video with my single girls life group 💛
whether he reciprocates the feelings or he doesnt it will be for the best because if he doesn't you will be able to move on and enjoy the company of someone who will want to share the mutual affections with you!
i love the T-shirt- merch … idea kiss awkward like a t-shirt 🥰 love the nervous advice and as well confident- this channel can help our young adults!!!
It's so true about how when you work on yourself and your relationship with Christ, it's preparing you for the person you're going to date. I never had a clue how I'd meet my future bf or even start dating. Didn't even plan on it until maybe my mid 20's? I'll be turning 23 soon and I've been dating a gentleman for just over 2 years. God brought him into my life unexpectedly! But I know he did it because I was in a good place in my relationship with God. Also... Such a TEASE!!! I know I've gone on lots of dates now but I still want to know what you're gonna say! 😂
well your tardiness is only acceptable for that reason and that reason only. lololol jk. Can't wait to check out all the messages youve sent (including the formula 1 ones lol) Happy June to our main man, Sam!
@@ToriAndChad haha !!! Bro CHECK YOUR MESSAGES ASAP ! (I’m pulling a Stacey on you lol 😆) I didn’t mention any details in my personal message. I’ll share it when you’re free to talk
@@ToriAndChad no problem 😉 tori and chad hope that you guys enjoy 😉 😊 ☺️ upon this rock by newsboys it’s a long song 🎧 🎵 🎶 roughly about 4:40 which is a full second but it’s definitely a half second roughly 4:39.
@@ToriAndChad I told you it’s a fun song 🎧 🎵 🎶 fun fact not ashamed was the very first album 💿 to be produced in the USA 🇺🇸 and their producer was actually steve taylor and Steve Taylor was interviewed on Christopher Duffey RU-vid channel and when I saw him he was the guy that produced newsboys albums in America like not ashamed and going public and etc.
Thank you guys for making this video!! I love that everything comes from a Christian perspective, I was looking for videos like this a while ago and now I’ve been watching you guys for the past 1-2 months! 🤍
Love the way y’all begin your intro! Welcome to our CHANNELLLLL😆 This vid ended too soon. Just to add another question to the pile lol, how important is chemistry in a dating relationship? Thanks guys for all your hard work and time spent on the channel. Love your dedication. Praying for y’all
I was so excited to see this because it is so relevant for me! I'm currently struggling because I met someone recently who loves Jesus, deeply cares about people, has all the character traits of someone I would want to marry, and has shown an interest in me. I've gotten to know him a little bit in group situations. However, I'm not sure I'm really that physically attracted to him, and obviously that's not what the main priority is, but I'm having a hard time distinguishing between if I have feelings for the person or if I just enjoy being around them in more of a platonic sense. Not sure what to do because he is obviously a great guy. Also I know that isn't really a question but I thought maybe someone else was in the same boat and this question would be beneficial to more than one of us lol. Maybe it could be used in a future video or podcast?
ive been in relationships, but ive never been in a relationship with God in the center, so it's kinda like ive never been on a first date lol. because im pursuing something COMPLETELY DIFFERENT than i would have in the past
I thought I would disagree with something, but you guys surprised me in a very good way. I'm Catholic☺️ and obviously Protestant theology is different in some ways, but this was a great video. I think if you read "The Theology of the Body" or "Love and Responsibility" by Karol Wojtyla you would love it and go deeper in this kinds of topics. 💛🤗
Chad and Tori, my husband and I had the most awkward first kiss ever. We still talk about it to this day and laugh about it. But at the time we said and I quote “we will never ever ever kiss again.” On that note we celebrated our seven year wedding anniversary in February. We have five children their ages range from 6,5,4,2.5,5 months. We have three girls and two boys. But I am learning to appreciate and embrace the awkward moments of our relationship and you were right they do make it interesting in the years to come
This video is so helpful!!!! Truly gave me a clearly idea of all the thoughts that were blurred in my mind... Let's enjoy the waiting season all you single people and enjoy Chad's lame jokes hahaha and love God 🤗🧡
As you should! U guys are great together I can really see how God blessed both of you when he brought you together:) super encouraging to see! Happy for both of you :)
Y’all are so awesome❤️ It’s so interesting to hear y’all’s perspective on different boundaries and things in relationships, because I grew up quite different! Growing up in the Slavic Christian community, parents are pretty strict with boundaries (which include no kissing before marriage, sometimes some parents don’t allow holding hands or hugging either, as well as not being alone together for too long, etc). What do y’all think about that? Because I dont know if I’d be able to not hug my mans or hold his hand 😂🥺but some people stay away from that and are just fine :) one boundary I’m not willing to pass is kissing before marriage though... I’d wanna save that for marriage:). I think the more I grow up the more I learn about the importance of boundaries, and it’s such a deep topic! ❤️thanks for everything y’all :) such a power couple I look up to ☺️
I never told the guy i really liked 5 years ago & I was trying to reconnect the friendship again & I can just move on since he moved far away.& he's been single all his life. I know God someone has for him.
I Love this quotes You’re not walking to a relationship to feel better about yourself but you’re walking with somebody to grow and build upon that… When you wannna Succeed as bad as you wanna breath then you will be successful (Mr. x motivational speech), and if you want to be in relationship as you want to deeply breath that’s when you’re gonna make mistake inside your singleness, keep in a r/n ship that does not control you, you’re not better in a r/n ship, you’re not worse outside of one. And it’s gonna make dating so much more clear, if u know who you are first, If you don’t know who you are and if your dating is trying to figure out who you are you’re not to figure out much. The longer you have to yourself (your singleness timing) get to know who you are and your identity in Christ will make you to have healthy r/n ship in the future. How long we should be in a r/n ship to consider marriage, you should always be considering marriage, Date responsibly. (You should guard others heart to as you guard yours.)
