DATING FOR LOOKS? | The Slumflower Hour podcast 

Once I started judging men on their actions rather than their face, my self worth grew exponentially. Can’t trick me anymore lmao

“ no sexy man formed against me shall prosper”! Amen!!!!👏🏾❤️

And every single one of your episodes is the tiny voice in my head. So thank you for bringing it to life.

"My wig is secured" loooooooooooooooooool

Chidera, I'm seriously addicted to your podcast ❤ I'd love to hear how you distinguish between men who are genuinely invested in your well-being as friends vs. men who act friendly but are actually just waiting for an opportunity for sex with you to present itself.

slumflower GIRL have you encountered those men that have a princess attitude?? this is an epidemic, i swear. it’s like they have to one up you on your own standards, talking about how THEY are the prize. i CAN’T, it’s my biggest ick but i want to learn better how navigate it (and beat them at their own game hehe)

Thank you thank you. I’ve always had a prejudice about good looking men feeling they were told so many times from childhood on that they were good looking that it made them less motivated to be of good character, be even less of a good human. Same with women.

We are focused! Lol

19:51 Amen oo

Why doesn’t anyone say that with age and new events in life, women’s preferences change and those who were attracted to them at 20 may not be attracted at all at 30, and so on?

I just love your personality, queen!

I love you and am grateful for you !

I like the new set up

I didn't know I had valued the appearance until it was mentioned. This is now going to change

Also I love this hair on you😍 you look beautiful.

Oooh! First one on here 😍😍😍. I'm beyond delighted.

i really appreciate how raw you are, i have a lot of these realizations and have been trying to work as a plus size 23 yr old tanzanian american girl how to get over the internal bias’ and date people who are more aligned with me. its been so hard bc i realized that internally i have a huge obsession with the person i end up with being someone that all those people who deemed me unworthy and unattractive would be jealous over and have created this idea that i need an attractive man to prove that i am attractive and not fat and ugly like everyone made me feel. ive come so far as far as my confidence and finding myself and my style but for some reason that is the one thing i can’t shake, do you have any advice for that? overall i think you always hit the mark but the truth is just like men some women have the inability of being honest with themselves bc the lies they’ve told themselves hurt more in their minds than the lie they are living.

Love this Episodes look

Nothing wrong with it i dnt like fat tings or ladies with huge gaps in their teeth everyone has their preference

Hear me out....

Oooo you’ve updated the view 🫦💰 money came inn