If im being completely honest, as a Christian man i personally dont like dating multiple women at the same time nor am I too fond with the woman im dating to be dating other men at the same time as me. For me, if im putting all my time and effort into one woman, and I decide "you know, i like everything about this girl and im ready to be in a realtionship with her" but she ultimately chooses another guy she was dating, that leaves me hurt. It made me feel like all i was was an option. So overall it just feels wrong to me for either man or woman to date multiple people at a time. I know obviously alot of people are going to disagree with me but its just my personal opinion on the topic.
Thank you, from a Christian perspective this makes sense for me too. It's okae if it does not work out with that one person, then we part ways graciously and move on to the next date. One person at a time please.
You both ‘invest’ solely in each other and it still doesn’t work sometimes. At least this way less time and effort is wasted on one that doesn’t have a sure end result. But I respect your opinion.
Kate and JJ, thank you for this video! I’m starting to be more chill in this dating process thank to you and the Heart of Dating community. But I have a question: where did you found these 4 men? I’m on a catholic dating app, and doing this “chill” dating through this app. But, if there were no app, where to find those men? Where did you found them? Thank you and JJ for your ministry