I love the training aspect of your teaching! It's so little spoken of, and yet we see so many parables about what you sow, you reap, and about being diligent as well as not a sluggard in proverbs! Thank you!
Personally I think there is alot of discouragement using Christian dating apps. It would be interesting if you guys talked about helping people process how to go about engaging men and women on dating apps.
So some of my thoughts is that I don't think leveling up is a good starting place if the woman is not mutual. If there is expressed intentionality then there is motivation to continue to invest and finding ways to "level up"as you say. I wouldn't level up on women who don't give me the time of day. In thr dating world I don't see this being necessary. Once the relationship becomes a serious commitment then doing those leveling up things is appropriate. Becuase women can decide later on and day "hey we I see us as more just friends" and get used by them to get a dopamine high rather then being genuine and authentic interest.
Have you guys taken time to talk about infatuation? How infatuation can be a good thing and how it can be a negative thing depending on a person's motivation for why they are dating.
HOW TO PURSUE A WOMAN: 1. ITS NOT ABOUT YOU 2. ITS NOT ABOUT SECURING YOUR NEXT DATE - ITS ABOUT HONORING HER- make her feel seen, pursued, protected, considered.. 3. U GOTTA WORK FOR IT!- dont expect to get the effort back or take notes of what u did for her..love does not seek its own! how to have a good date? 1. CALL IT A DATE, NOT A HANG OUT! - be honest and call things as they are 2. U NEED TO COMUNICATE THE DATE AT LEAST 24 HOURS IN ADVANCE! - respect her time 3. BE TOUGHTFULL TO HER! - focus on her, make her feel seen..plan the little things, be kind and make her feel safe 4. FOLLOW UP AND AFFIRM AFTER THE DATE! -tell her you will contact her tommorow, and DO THAT!
