Dave Winchester, from Kent, has lost an incredible 14½ stones after he learned at his father-in-law’s funeral that his dying wish was for him to join Slimming World and lose weight.
Dave weighed 27 stones and he recalls breaking beds, sofas and chairs due to his size. He was regularly abused by strangers in the street and felt as though he wasn’t being the fun, active dad he wanted to be to his children.
Dave 36, who lives in Ashford with his wife Susie, 35, daughter Heidi, seven, and four-year-old Freddie, says: “I was quite sporty as a child, so my weight didn’t start going up until I left home and was making my own choices around food. Takeaways and convenience food were just the norm, as were nightly cans of cider. Being so overweight left my back and joints in near constant pain - the drugs prescribed by my doctor barely took the edge off, so I depended on extra-strong painkillers I got from a friend.
“I knew I had a problem, but it wasn’t until my mother-in-law told me her husband’s dying wish was for me to join Slimming World that I decided to do something about it. He’d been a member of the local Baptist church and had seen the posters for a Slimming World group that was held there. I knew he wanted the best for his daughter and grandchildren, so I decided to try and tackle my weight once and for all.”
Dave, a data analyst, joined Slimming World Online in June 2018, before deciding to join his local group in person following the coronavirus pandemic. He says: “At first, I didn’t have the confidence to join a face-to-face group, so I joined Slimming World Online and I loved the flexibility of the plan, and how much I could eat.”
With Slimming World’s Food Optimising eating plan, members can enjoy a wide variety of healthy everyday foods, such as fresh fruit and veg, lean meat and poultry, fat free dairy, pasta, rice and grains, without weighing, counting or measuring. This freedom and variety means that slimmers can lose weight without being hungry, and personalise the plan to the way they like to eat.
Dave says: “What I loved about Slimming World was that I could still eat big, hearty portions so I never felt hungry. I’ve tried every diet you can think of - soups, juices, calorie counting... they all worked for a while, but I’d inevitably end up hungry and reaching for the nearest quick fix - usually crisps, chocolate or the takeaway menu. So with Slimming World it was amazing to me that I could lose weight and still have a full English and steak and chips.”
Dave was doing well until the pandemic hit and he says he found himself slipping back into old habits during lockdown, so in October 2021 when Slimming World groups reopened, he decided to join his local group in Ashford.
“I felt nervous because I had this perception that the group would be really cliquey and full of women - and I worried I’d be made to feel even more ashamed for being so overweight than I already was. It was nothing like that at all though; so much better than I imagined. I wasn’t the only guy there and everyone I met was so warm and supportive, plus we all had one thing in common - we all wanted to lose weight!”
Research shows that men lose more weight than women when they join Slimming World, as well as dramatically improving their physical and mental health, boosting their energy, getting fitter - and having more sex. There are now 40,000 men attending Slimming World groups every week and 92% of them say they’d recommend it to a friend or colleague.
After starting to lose weight Dave found that his energy levels improved and he re-joinied a cricket team.
Dave says: “I realised how much I’d missed the social side of cricket, too. I also tried to get the kids to be more active, taking them swimming and for bike rides. By following the Slimming World Body Magic programme which encourages members to be more active, I built up how much I was doing at my own pace, and in time I actually got rid of our second car because I found it simpler to walk or cycle to wherever I needed to be. It’s crazy to think I once avoided driving because my stomach got in the way of the steering wheel, now I avoid it because I’d rather be on my bike! The savings on fuel are pretty helpful too!”
However, by far the biggest benefit to come from Dave’s weight loss is the impact it has had on his family life. He says: “I finally feel like the dad I always wanted to be. Heidi and I went to Park Run together recently and she absolutely loved it. There’s no way I could have done something like that with her before I lost weight, I barely had the energy to play with her at all.
“I hope that her grandad is proud of how far we have come as a family. We’re all active, happy and healthy and I think that’s the life he wanted for us.”
For more information about losing weight with Slimming World visit slimmingworld.co.uk or slimmingworld.ie
27 авг 2024
