As a woman, i love this. There's nothing more attractive than a man who will honour and guard his wife and a woman who protects her honour and guards her haya! To be treated as a trophy wife to be oggled at and flaunted is, in my opinion, the very thing that leads to many marriage issues.
Thats not opinion sister(marriage issues) , its a fact . Ive seen it , heard about it , experiencd it. Not only that , other people get affected with such fitna
JazaakAllaahu khayran ... one of the few brothers who still has gheerah for the deen, gheerah for the honour of the Muslims and the back bone to really tell it like it is! May Allaah تعالى increase you upon good and all of us, ameen!
Well said akhi. This fitna of female speakers on RU-vid is increasing exponentially. Even channels with good intentions are falling for these feministic need to equalize and in turn corrupt the content which is mostly good and authentic. May ALLAH reward you for sticking vehemently on the truth... certainly there's a lot of benefit in such straight uncluttered direct talk
Even green lane masjid ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-o68mf09vh3A.html Sadly they've been drifting further and further. They had 'Shaykh' Abu Usama sitting alongside (sitting alongside supporting/allowing) Hamza Tzortis the philosopher/ilmul kalam in dawah / iera over a number of days and SubhanAllah even after what Imam Ash-Shafi' said about these people. And so many so many other issues in their podcasts, etc. In terms of hiding the sins of your brother these are things they are openly propagating and are misleading the people so they are openly warned against.
@@farisa1116 Even if she does Niqab, so does that mean she can talk in a men's talk show or make a channel and talk in comments? Absolutely not, never! Her place is at home, Palestinian women should not provoke police or try to seem strong, going out to a warzone and getting assaulted and aggressed, she should stay home and only men should go out and work until the situation is improved. Have some common sense man. Do you really think your wife never has bad thoughts? Do you not love your wife dont you want her to be protected ? Where is the ghairah .
Modern western culture makes it like a man is insecure if he has Gheerah. Weddings are one of the biggest Fitnah affecting the muslim community and it's largely due to the fact that muslim men aren't being firm and taking a stance to protect the mothers, sisters, daughters, and wives. May Allah grant us gheerah like that of the Sahaba and give us the strength to protect our haya as men and women.
الحمد الله Thanks to Abu Mussab's lectures many years ago, I learned how sinful these gatherings are. I managed to stop going to these mixed weddings a few years back (including the weddings of very close relatives) and when it was my turn to get married I made sure it was segregated. Family members tried to pressure me into having a mixed wedding - but you have to man up and draw a red line. May Allah put this on your scale of good deeds ya akhi.
It is also Important that the husband is totally clear with his wife and explain to her how men really thinks, it will help her to be more modest Infront of men. Baraka Allahou feek for such a clear and straightforward explanation
Bro, you are saying it like it is easy to tell people straight up. Of course there are women who are level minded and will hear you out. However, I hate to say it, but most women today will argue even if you tell them and clarify it. She is going to call you weird, jealous or overprotective. Just marry someone who is already modest. Why marry someone who has a contrary idea of morality?
@@holdshiftt2run308 unfortunately even among the "modest" hijabis they will not understand this. Almost all hijabis still want a mixed wedding and want to dance in front of other men
@@abcdlkjf that's disgusting if my future wife tells me she wants a mixed wedding and wants to dance in front of everyone I will cancel the wedding on the spot because when you hear things like this then you know that she is not the one
بارك الله فيكم Much needed reminder. Here alot of pple even the righteous ones tell we need to compromise on such things when looking for a husband, but i really can't undrstand how can a modest woman marry a man who doesn't mind other men looking at her especially on the wedding day. I've even been told it's impossible for you to get married without any non mahram seeing you, insane! We need to stop this fitnah instead of asking modest women to compromise.
Subhana Allah, you are making a HUGE point there! I am from the high north in Europe, and, akhi, we are sooo desensitized that we don't think about this, the deeper meaning of dayouth and dayouthness (good word in lack of a better one), we are so used to mixed weddings. It's allmost come to the point where segregated marriages is deemed extreem.
Sisters really have no idea what Men are nowadays. I don't know why, but I think older Muslim Women and earlier generation were aware of Man's nature and behaved more conservatively.
RU-vid, Tik Tok and Instagram is utterly filled to the brim with these female Daees. Abu Musab don't be confused as well, Wallahi 90% of these female Daees have *zero niqab* and almost always just a khimar and a face full of makeup. Many times their husbands are there with them. It's sickening.
Jazakallaahu Khayran that’s very important topic i when on a Asian nika I was shocked subhanAllah I just walked away straight away may Allah guide this uma ameen
Indeed, this was a very beneficial and funny clip, which explains the reality of those men who wear bigger necklaces than their wives, and possess no shame for exposing his lifetime partner to the wolves... May Allah preserve and protect you, Ahki.
Hear hear! BaarakAllahu feek, my brother! A harsh truth, but a much needed one in today's diseased climate. I can attest to the what the brother is saying. We men(the weak majority) need not much to get the imagination going. Either marry us or spare us, oh fair gendered creatures of Allah!
Subhanallah I couldn't do it especially here in the USA. Sounds bad but it would turn into WWE after 5 seconds!!!!!!!😂😂😂 Alhamdulillah my wedding was in a small Mosque and NO MIXING WHAT SO EVER!!! I know the day will come Inshallah for my daughter and it would HAVE to be a wedding by the Sunnah or I'm bringing the shotgun!!!!!!!!!!
This should also be an advice to sisters in the comments sections& livechats. many post in an informal relaxed manner, often with too much information, be it personal or just excessive uneccessary discussion and humour, leading to overfamiliarity. Usernames are also an issue. curious sounding names and titles which may also trigger interest and attention. Every interaction both online& offline must follow the spirit of what is intended by the command of hijab, which is to deter attention. if they wish to impart important information, it would be better to do this in a formal succinct manner, only if necessary and under neutral sounding usernames.
@Stephanie Asiya I would like to offer some advice. Sisters should understand that being online in public is the same as being outside in public. Posting a photo /video of oneself as a female also contributes to the fitnah that is warned against. A sister who understands and observes Hijab correctly would not go outside and put up a poster of themselves in public for all to see, or stand in the centre of a public space speaking to an audience etc It would also be unusual for sisters to tell everyone their name, there would be no necessary purpose for that& would also draw unwanted attention. Therefore sisters must also maintain this consistency when they are online in public view. Sisters should also consider how brothers are expected to lower their gaze when they upload their pictures. This should be a reflection for sisters to avoid that which may cause fitnah & harm to their brothers in Islam. Also, when an action is intended as ibadah, such as dawah, it must follow two conditions. first, to have the correct intention for Allah alone. Second, to adhere to Qur'an& Sunnah. If these conditions are not met, the action is rejected. This applies when making dawah videos where music is used. This not only nullifies the deed, but instead promotes sin and it's effects. Please consider these points.
@on tw Names& titles sisters may use that inevitably make them stand out. while the intentions may be innocent, this doesn't negate the point that such things draw attention & therefore sisters must consider how they present themselves& question the purpose& possible effect. We are all aware of how it can easily become a distraction & what may follow from that.
@@user-eh7cd4me9h names are not attractive or a sexual thing. If men are so weak that they can't even handle someone's username then they shouldn't be on the internet. They shouldn't even have a smartphone.
@@user-eh7cd4me9hlol what attention? If a man is seriously so weak that he wants to stare at my username for an extended amount of time that's his problem. I'm not responsible for crazy men
Jazak Allah khayraan bro love your content A handsome man isn’t handsome but a man who guards his women. Kindly refute these liberal youtuber muslimahs who encourage and never refute this trash.
Barek Allahu Feek habibi. May Allah (subhana wa ta’ala) increase you in knowledge, sincerity and the continued ability to touch on subjects were a lot of people don’t want to go near. Jazek Allahu Kheir khaye
The problem is not just men, the women also don't fear Allaah these days, they display their beauty and go out on public. Even those with hijab. The purpose of hijab is to cover you from head to toe. So fear Allaah and cover up sister; don't display any beauty outside.
May Allah bless you and bring you to more guidance آمين يارب العالمين Much needed video, def going to send this to any brothers who going get to get married. Anybody who knows others going to get married, share this video to them to help them avoid this trap of dayoothness.
Your message is correct and I agree wholeheartedly but brother please consider speaking in a calmer tone in order to convey the message to the sisters and convince them. I say this as somebody who has been ignorant in the past regarding hijab and segregation, and has now made changes towards the right path Alhamdulilah. When I was in ignorance I was searching for the truth and was drawn towards polite yet direct daees/Sheikhs. They are the reason I changed my actions, May Allah reward them Ameen. I know countless sisters (and brothers) who feel the same way - desperately searching but put off by people who yell and insult them. Again, no one is asking you to sell out or change/bend the truth, just a little work could be done in your tone. It comes across very angry and aggressive which sadly isnt going to call anyone to the right path, which is your goal? May Allah preserve your dedication to calling people towards the Deen Ameen.
طلعت على 🐪 و طلعت جميلة 😂😂😂😂😂😂 thank you for infusing some humor into this Totally agree with this though. We are tired of dayooth men May Allah guide this ummah
I think these should go to those women .. always on you tube trying to lectures us on deen ( Islam) .. I'm glad thank alot akhi coz they weren't my foverite I suspected they were wrong
Allaahumma barik. This is all too common. What security will you feel in your husband if he allows you to be visually feasted on by hundreds of random men in your most beautiful state and has no problem with it. May Allah protect my sisters from marrying these type of men.
Please make a video on why TikTok is harmful, please. I really prefer your clear-cut straightforwardness, not a hint or touch of fraud whatsoever, and the direct, clear speech and all of that. Why is TikTok especially bad, like extra bad? Please make a video on that. May Allah bless you and your family highly and greatly.
Assalaamu alaikum warahmatullaah hi wa barakaatu yah sheikh, may Allah reward you for everything you do for the dawah. A question, what is the ruling with regards to a woman wearing a flower bouquet on her wedding day?
Gheerah isn't the same as unnecessary jealousy. I have debates with my American friends about this. They let their girlfriend and wives walk around in mini skirts and let them post provocative pics online then they end up getting jealous anyways because she gets attention from other men smh .
وَعِبَادُ ٱلرَّحۡمَـٰنِ ٱلَّذِینَ یَمۡشُونَ عَلَى ٱلۡأَرۡضِ هَوۡنࣰا وَإِذَا خَاطَبَهُمُ ٱلۡجَـٰهِلُونَ قَالُوا۟ سَلَـٰمࣰا﴿ ٦٣ ﴾ The ˹true˺ servants of the Most Compassionate are those who walk on the earth humbly, and when the foolish address them ˹improperly˺, they only respond with peace. Al-Furqan, Ayah 63 And this beautiful Surah continues to highlight the characteristics of a believer. Note how it mentions “The most compassionate “ and how it also mentions “ humbly”…. So my question is how can Abu Mussab , call people towards Islam by using such harsh terminology like “Dayooth”. The tile of the video and his attitude in itself is a deterrent and it doesn’t not portray humility at all! I doubt that our prophet (PBUH) adopted such an approach to call people towards Islam. One should only look at the amazing names and attributes of Allah to understand that this isn’t the way to address an issue. Names like Ar-Rafiq (the most gentle) or Al-Wadud (the most loving) . Will give any believer an indication on how Allah is expecting us to act on this earth. Especially when it comes to spreading the religion of Islam. And to title a video “ Dayyoothness “…is probably not the best way. If I was a non Muslim, watching this. I would’ve walked away with a very bad impression of Islam. This negative and hateful approach should be stopped if we plan to further spread this deen on earth.
There is a hadith that narrated about a women being assaulted by a yew in a market. So is that correct to assume that women were doing business in market frequented by men during our beloved prophet time?
It's Haram to post pictures of women المرأة عورة As Prophet 'alayhi al-salaatu wassalaam said reported al-Tirmidhi 1117, Sahih Ibn Hibban and Ibn Khuzaymah
What happens if other men still look at somebody’s wife even tho she isn’t wearing makeup wearing hijab and loose clothes and dressing modestly are the husband and wife sinful?
Good video but the "used product" comment was not needed at all, my daughter or sisters are not products, even if they slip. I didnt expect that form someone who has a daughter. Calm down with the speech akhi.
Mashallah tabarakullah, brother good job But how can you be in false opinions of women not needing to cover the face . The lips 💋 of a woman need be coverd .I pray that the people that have a platform become to the true path in everything.
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