Dealing with breakups 💔ft. Sharifa Namusisi | The Unpopular Opinion UG 

Forgiving and letting go is the best decision after a breakup

Hmmm, sensitive topic...well handled. Kemi dear stop apologising for your Christian values. Your life is inspiring many out there, so stay sure and bold.

I wish all microphones were as loud as Kemi's

Yes to dating yourself and spending quality time with yourself. The next person you meet is just a compliment. It also helps one to heal fully. Quickly jumping into relationships after a break up interrupts the healing process and you end up taking your wounded self into a new relationship.

Beauty in being single, that is power. Thanks, Claire. I am living this testimony

This particular episode spoke to me so deeply! Eh break up pain is an actual thorn in the flesh oh my God! Thank you for this one ladies! I hope to heal! 🥺😊

Such a beautiful conversation. Prim’s experience with her mum. Beautiful lessons for all of us. Trauma does have a hold on us, but we can move past it!

ALSO, bambi producer put in a budget for a mic stand for mukyaala KEMI's mic .... i feel like she needs one on the side to help her handle that RODE {PODCAST style}

Awesome one...The saddest thing is all these phases I have been through and I sat in that space for sooooo long it was unnecessary. Breakups are really painful. I thank God I did not have anything tangible with the person. That part of the silent treatment, I know this too well. I would see even people banging plates and pans in the kitchen so mad at the maid for this one time they were a little late than usual. The thing we fail to understand is these are our personal non-negotiables, not the world so they should not have to tell us what to tolerate.

Prim, your level of healing, learning, unlearning and emotional growth is commendable. I am here for it.

Prim is actually so funny and sarcastic omG! I love it !

Social media has been helpful to me all thru. I just make decisions myself and accept. My relationship of 5 and half years ended when I was pregnant but it wasn't easy for me to cope. I forgave him and we only discuss about the boy. Forgiving is relief.

All these tips are very helpful but y'allllll it's all easier said than done so you have to keep trying, learning and re-learning. My biggest is not looking for closure, not only in romantic relationships but all kinds of break ups.

I love the way Prim is always very very attentive with ya , yes oh yess hihi... Thnx for the episode.

I like when Prim touched the issue of abandonment. It's important that women deal with that by looking closely into themselves.

U people acceptance is hard,like really hard. Naye @sharifah was speaking on a low tone. Thank u ladies

This has been so orderly , everyone gets to talk, a little banter here and there. obugalo for growth👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 Host Sharifah one more time

I love the consistence, I love all your contents these are the conversations I love listening in my own company. Much love ladies ❤️

Ladies, you're really awesome to listen to and double check our selves . Please keep the good sessions coming 🙏🏻

Awesome conversation ladies, sharifa's Mic is too low struggling to hear her, please check on sound. Lots of love ❤️

By the way Prim’s jokes play a big role in these discussions, they sink the point in the head😂

The way I love you prim,my dear ❤️❤️

Nice one , thanks ladies and i love the part of going back for the puff holder and ending up with a child...

we need to have a REAL conversation about being willing to remain single. A lot of people don't enforce boundaries because the alternative is being a single parent or just being single. Goes back to how comfortable are we with being alone

Break ups are an opportunity the universe offers you so that you can meet somebody better tomorrow. Until this happens to you, you won't believe it but it's true. Granted they hurt, no doubt. They hurt at that moment because we do not see a better person that can surpass them at that time.

I kindly request that you please do an episode discussing whether it's possible to eventually love someone we aren't physically attracted to... was nice hearing from Sharifa again.

The way I was waiting for this episode God knows

Exactly, it took me many years to realise that, EVRYTHNG that we are experingin now was manifested when growing up. No wonder, I kept on attracting toxic partner because that was how I was raised by thinking that was love.

Such a useful episode, I hope she does online therapy/coaching ❤️

I really enjoyed watching this. Always always a pleasure seeing Sharifa here. Please come again. Banange Kemi's hair💕...Prim's jokes😂

Wow… interesting just fell in love with this Thanks lovely ladies But am suggesting you give us a session about how to go about fears in relationships like coming to that point of freely speaking to your partner when something ain’t right This has been my hardest thing in relationships😭😭failed to speak up I literally find it so difficult

I love all ur outfits especially Prim’s 👌🏽👏🏽

Thank you guys so much ❤🙏🏾

I feel like. If you really loved someone when you let them go. Because things ain't working out. Wish them the best after. There is some peace you get. From that.

Great episode 👏 👌. Sharifa should become a regular, we need this therapy 😀

This episode all points of the therapist are all valid but the other episode some were lol🤦‍♀️.#Ladies thank you for this,I love it!💯

Awwwww Claire said it all on Revenge part of it....if your a good person and do revenge you will forever regret

Dating myself is key coz wen u r through u know a guy won't take u for granted in anyway u know exactly wat to do n how to go about a heart break or any toxic relationship I have gone through so much heart breaks n this touched mi so much Thx

You know @Phiona and friends, I commend what you guys do here. Because in one way or the other it affects people in different ways. Like the back track topic of attaching your actions to something that has been happening to you or something in the past. That always has a way of coming in on the present. And not only in relationships but also in life as general. Many will silently come here for just that particular point to bring them back from where they were to the best position.

You guys make my day....life definitely feels even much better

You guys are heaven sent

I put up with soo much to an extent that if I leave you, I am done. I can’t go back. It’s like vomit that I can’t go back to. That broken road will lead you to your person.

Personally, I know that disaster always happens when physiologically we always expect transfer of blames. We always feel that satisfaction always comes when the other person was the reason why it happened. It takes another level of maturity to decern that you had a role to play in that relationship that you are not in now. Remember it takes two to name it a relationship. So my point is, it all begins with you. Self reflection in most cases gets you to that level after a breakup, it makes you appreciate the journey and also gets you to the point where you have to make the decision of whether you get yourself back up or you remain drowned in that breakup bed.

Prim I like your sense of humour 😀

Mbagala nyoo This is so important to me Thank you ladies

First time here and am resonating with everything #doingthework

I was today years old when I discovered this channel , RU-vid algorithm needs to be reset . Prim is an old soul…very wise. Claire is highly opinionated but needs to think before speaking. Kemi is just the pretty little girl, hope you find love.

How I love Prim 🥰🥰🥰

This is powerful. Thank you

I can’t wait for the episode on toxic parenting because I really need to hear more about it, I could really relate to prim talking about her mom

Understand the love of God for you deeply. You will be amazed at how you relate with people.

Now looking decent 🙌🏽👍🏾🤝🏾

No one talks about how traumatic breaking up really is 🥺

The look Prim puts on when Fiona talks about the holy spirit😂😂

Wow I needed this.thx ladies for sharing😘😘😘

It's not easy to forgive or forget. Regardless one can still move on without doing any of those..... But being alone can cause alot of trouble tho it's the best way one can actually move on. One can be able to think thru things and make decisions

Idek why but after prim talked about toxic parents I realised I definitely have some work to do. I always go to the emotionally unavailable man and now I wonder how far back that is coming from

the "TOLI WAKITaLo nGA BWOLOWOOZA PART"

Been waiting.....finally

"Weyeluse!!" Kyoka Prim

Finally.💃🏾💃🏾💃🏾💃🏾💃🏾 Sharifa is a vibe

Eeeeh Thank you guys This is so helpful 🙏

The topic was fantastic 👏

Always looking forward to your vlogs, this was so profound🥰🥰🥰 thanks guys...much luv from Nairobi.

You should fix very well the sound!! Because in every episode there is someone that we don't hear very well

Councilor forgot to mention the eneshment attachment style in relationships. That one can cause a lot of trauma.

I really want to see Sharifa's eyes. I have tried looking for her video on instagram, tiktok without shades but waaaaaaaaa

That puff holder joke🤣🤣🤣

Let's improve in sound.. otherwise we'll done

Thanks alot for sharing . Learnt alot .moving on.

Deep conversations❤️❤️

This silent treatment has been my thing so much and its Still me until now it actually makes me feel bad about myself because i know i am angry about something But i cant speak out!! u actually end up hurting urself Instead without the other person even knowing...banange i can even go silent when i want to end things hmmm i really need to heal about this

Nice episode but sharifas voice not clear and her shades bitutama

Prim's responses though 🤣🤣🤣 Why is that me?

I love the liberal minds here.... Women reasoning on both ends the boy child and the girl child.... I will keep watching and learning

Prim’s effortless jokes mash me up😂 what do you mean weyeluse??😂😂😂😂😂 for why?? for whom???

Serious point on setting non negotiablesssss........

Prim, you are so smart honey.

Minwhyl on the point of texting n calling an ex after the breakup.......if its the guy who ended it chances are that he is already seeing someone else nga for u yo glued on him so if u over glue best thing to do will be to use u hence a rebound

Thanks ladies

Prim realist 😍😍

I want to be honest I needed the break up. Because I wouldn’t even date myself then

IT ISNT PAINful for those who are emotionally immature

Prime’s mum!! We’re we all raised by the same woman 😂😂😂?

Sharifah is so beautiful damn😍

sharifa's mic......is not clear

I broke up with him but I am feeling the most pain I think 😩 but I think this thing of looking for closure is a bad idea and keep ur phone away when drunk 🙄😩😩

Please do toxic parenthood bambi please

Volume please please please.Not hearing most of what Sherifa is saying

I really really like Kemi’s hair !

Banaye sibyangu. But time heals wounds.

My mama til date is passive aggressive i experienced silent treatment from her not even understanding the mistake that i had done. sorry to say but i find it very toxic.I have tried talking to her about it but it's like a reflex for her.

Next time let all the ladies be loud like Kemie

i hear "WEYELUSE" HA HA HA naye banange PULIIIIIIIMU

We are baaaaaaccckkk

The microphones😥😥

NAYE PRIM

Am nolonger getting breakups... I just simply walk away!! It doesn't take me too long to forget completely and to sum it up am simply left with humanity not that genuine love that could hurt so deep after someone's departure 😏😏😏😏😏

Sharifa's voice is a little low

So interesting thanks girls