DEAR INSECURE GIRL 

ayah lahrichi So true and after all character will ALWAYS matter the most, I have mad respect for you for saying that and I also have mad respect for you for having a picture of Selena Gomez for your profile picture

Rubber Ducky haha me too she’s queen 😍

Congrats on 6k likes!

ayah lahrichi When a mean bitch calls me fat.....

Yeah but people change...

damn

Sorry, but Im using this as a quote on my instagram bio if you dont mind?

but one is artificial, created for the requirements of people, and the other is natural .

Thats so sweet thank you 💖💖

I want to be beautiful in every way though

Me too

Jess Daffodil ikr

Listen to me jess .You shouldnt care what really people think or say about you.We shy people try to overthink everything so when we speak we sound weird.We need to let everything come natyrally.Because inside you are a beautiful person

Same alot of people call me it then say it's a joke

Same

yes!! my mom wanted to ban me from social media because i “compared myself to the girls i see there” but i don’t!! i see all my friends looking absolutely PERFECT and i’m like... 💩👽

@@Venus00.1 maybe first fix ur personality

Exactly, I always see beauty in everyone but myself:/

Yeaaaa this is part of it but there’s another part . the problem is that people aren’t seeing the value of their unique features 💕 . The problem is that people don’t see just how beautiful they really are . The problem is the looking in the mirror and saying “I’m so ugly” “Everyone is prettier than me” “I’m not good enough.” The problem is people not seeing that they are they’re own individual human being. No one looks the same as them so they should own the features we have that nobody else got . We are all beautifully and wonderfully made! Everyone’s DIFFERENT! Nobody I mean NOBODY ON THIS PLANET THAT’S FILLED WITH MILLIONS AND MILLIONS OF PEOPLE ARE THE SAME AS U !! So own who u are once u find out who u are 🙃 Much love 💕

Wen you in a country were make up in most schools isn't even allowed and ppl still look gorgeous :)

Yah everyone in my class is so pretty It hurts going to school is scary people looking at my face legit make me feel sick I don't want people to see me

Was just about to write this, but saw this and just thought I'd comment on it instead, this is SO true, my friends are all fit, pretty gymnasts and I'm just this inflexible INCREDIBLY achne prone girl who hates her weight and everything about herself. You can say things like this all you want and "WHO CARES?" Society cares And nowadays society is everywhere.

Abbie Skelhorn Honestly, I feel like this too all of my friends say their ugly but I feel like their all prettier than me/skinnier than me. But if you feel so insecure you should work on what you dislike about yourself and stop comparing ,because Ik that comparing myself to other people is what made me insecure. And society doesn’t like anyone wether your beautiful or ugly etc. Hope this helped x.

@@BBBunny11 thanks for this, I am actually trying to get fitter, I know it's going to take time as I'm only going for runs and snacking less, but I guess you've just helped me know I'm not alone ❤️ x

same i just started crying cuz i saw a tiktok of a girl i go to school with. she looks much better than i do.

Monika Čížková but you wouldn't consider him boyfriend material, be honest.

why the hell not?

i would consider him HUSBAND MATERIAL

Why not? You don't even know him, you can't say that.

What lol im confused Edit: ohhhh i get it 👌🏽 😂

Same..

Dont worry work on smthng u can control if its ur body work on ur stamina and strength u will reach ur body goals if not uk that how physically & mentally strong you are & care for ppl who care for u even when u dont love urself. Looks will go ...always stay happy & live life☺️

Me too... I always cry myself to sleep + I have no friends I’m a weird ugly freak. Every boy I like ends up leaving or calling me ugly. So I guess this is my life

@@gisellegarcia6732 dont cry I used to cry too but whats the point? Workout increase ur stamina get stronger it will enhance ur confidence and looks never last for life.

girl your not alone. I just can’t wait to the day until i get plastic surgery

You're beautiful

Your existence is enchanting

no has very called my beautiful but my mom and she saidthat cuz she called my sister it I'm hideous

Your brautifaul . dont cry plz 💜👑

Nobody calls me beautiful but if they was I would think they're lying😔😌

Same

Same, girl, same...

Same

Not always sometimes broken is better as you can build ur selfs together idk

I can relate

me too :/

same tbh

Keanna 303 honestly same ASF I think I'm weird and too loud 😂😂😂

Same like that my main concern..

Same

Jessica Ryan same except people are dissing me all the time. I hate being gloomy even when i smile i look worse and everyones pointing me out

Being introverted socially awkward gets social anxiety and is insecure....is great honestly

Me too. I'm introverted and really arkward. Hardly make a first move when meet new people, so that i just have a few friends. Not only my personality though, i'm also insecure about my appearance:(

Same-ish, I’m also super introverted and shy, I don’t think I have a great body, I mean I guess it’s ok. I don’t think I have a bad personality, but I’ve been judged and hated for just being me, for as long as I can remember, and I can’t help but think about how many of my friends talk shit about me behind my back

Jessica Ryan the fact that you're shy and introvert doesn't mean that you're not nice, intelligent, etc. People who are really interested and are WORTH IT aren't gonna give up on you so easily and will be there no matter what

Melanie Martinez is perfect and pretty so she can say that,but I'm uglyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy

Orange Juice~

Everyone wants what the other ones working...

@@jungwonscactus9425 ooOraNge jUicE

@Ari luvs Jesus yeah but please try your best not to be so hard on yourself

Chloe Moriarty v

FR!!!!

Cutie ❤️

Jeanette Ferreira Sorry for the bad english: we got the same name and i was saying "we got the same name but she's more beautiful than me" then i've watched to the video so... I'm not gonna say it Roman made me feel good

Papafico do you know what our name means? It means 'God is gracious' I think that's kinda cool. God bless you ((:

Jeanette Ferreira thanks 😘

yess me too

Sweet

DJEX 2000 PREACH.

Yeah me too

that’s my biggest insecurity. I hate how so many people think it’s stupid and it’s not a thing, it’s a thing & it fucking sucks.

Exactly. No matter how much I try to love myself people make fun of my skinny body and make me feel so insecured about myself.

I wish that I could be too skinny

Or.. since thats the common thought… maybe we could all just start to be nice with each other from now on, eh? ☺️

Harry's Dimples Lmao really?

Indigenous Guy Of America. I really dont remember writing this, but when he said that sentence i FELT SOMETHING🤣💓

Harry's Dimples Lol :)

Harry's Dimples literally me

I know you posted this message 2 months ago, but hello fellow fandom member 😄

Literally same 😂

Same

Same I'm big

Haha yeah me too ;)

Same, but mostly about my body

Listen to me .You shouldnt care what really people think or say about you.We shy people try to overthink everything so when we speak we sound weird.We need to let everything come natyrally.Because inside you are a beautiful person

Nevaeh Nevaeh thats good that can motivate you 😜🤓😝😛

ikr my mom told me that my body is beautiful but i still felt insecure about it

hi you're beautiful

I'm still insecure and nothing helps I try so hard to be confident but I can't achieve it I'm insecure to the point where I can't even talk to my father or my siblings properly, it's almost as if they're strangers. I can't help but think that if I leave this world no one would care because have no impact on their lives whatsoever

skittles5414 lol bitch no , I'm the most beautiful person you will ever see

couldnt agree more

Pretty much me

Everyone’s beautiful and then there’s me and I can’t even unsee myself the way I do which just makes me feel idek honestly

skittles5414 i hate looking at my reflection in the mirror...I don’t see anything beautiful in me

You got 403 likes

Ugh same girl

666

857

Same I'm crying

Yeah, mostly but not only

Who the fuck cares about other people opinions, i'm a very ugly person and i'm a man who didn't experience romance in life, my age is 20. I have decided i'll never approach someone ever.

Green marble you are not ugly. And you might be like “but I am” or “you can’t even see me”, well yeah I can’t but no one is ugly. Some people might not find you attractive but that’s okay because so many people will. Even if you don’t have romance In your life, you’re 20 dude. You have so much life to live. I honestly don’t have a conclusion to this but you’re beautiful and you might doubt that and you might not believe it but you really are so please approach and meet new people because it’s an amazing experience

@@greenmarble8110 I mean if youre 20 & havent experienced it.. its not that strange.. its not like youre 50. At 20 i didnt experience romance either. A lot of people dont.

ThankQ guys i appreciate your kindness. I'll try speaking to people more often, who need romance anyway.

Cordero Roman 💛

Your thoughts or advice about depression? How to overcome it? Besides the pills and psihotherapist? Because I been through all that and it doesen't help. I have one more, but I would like to hear this first. Peace.

Cordero Roman - hey handsome How can i marry you? I think im in love with you 😍

Cordero Roman your Video helped me so much, my problem is or I mean the reason why I don't think that I am beautiful is that I've been bullied from 1st grade to the middle of 9th grade. (We have 12 years of school here in Germany) 9 years! And Just because a girl thought I stole her "best friend" but I didn't notice that she thought that she just began to bully me until nobody wanted to so sth with me anymore. I thought that I am worthless and ugly but through your video I feel better now. Because although you're not a part of my real life I have the feeling that you believe in me. In us. Your community. You're such a great RU-vidr and I wish that there are more people like you in the world. I always thought "what ist wrong with me?" But now I figured out that there's Just something wrong with the way some people react. I mean there were so many people in my school, telling me "you're such a pretty and nice girl and I think that you'd be a really good friend but if I do sth with you I might get bullied too." And I was so shocked about that. I am in therapy since 1st Grade but I get better :) Now I have built so much more self confidence compared to the past and although I don't have much confidence I see the Change. And you were a part of it. Now I have some good friends ( unfortunately one of them isn't at my school) because I tried to ignore the haters (and it worked a little). Next year I'll go to a different school and I am so happy for that because it is a special school where I'll have the oportunity to also do my bachelor in psychology. You were one of the people that made me happy, believe, remember your projects in the past where you told people that they're beautiful for example? That was when it began and I want to thank you because YOU are such a great person and without knowing it you did so much for me I can not thank you enough! Thanks for everything!

Cordero Roman You're amazing I love you

EmmaScrips The World thank you for those words seriously

I...thanks. Really.

It's hard to love yourself, I don't see how this really helps anybody. Thanks for trying though

Hard to believe...

Sweetheart, if your parents want to put you down that is horrible and I’m at so sorry that this is the influence you have. But don’t let them get to you. I understand this is beyond hard. But they are not right and they will never be right when saying things like this. Nobody can take away your value and I am going to be here and plenty of people will support you. Queen, I don’t mean to sound hypocritical, but appreciate yourself. Love the life you live and who you are. I know people can ruin days , weeks, months, or years. But they can’t control you. Let your personality shine and smile every day. Look at yourself in the mirror and say ‘I love myself for who I am’. It may seem crazy but it helped me fake it I until I make it. Good luck and I wish you all the best things life can put your way. ❤️❤️❤️

noooo,u are nottt,find your self ,,,its hard but it will pass

The thing is, i am insecure abt myself but the thing more hurt me is when my parents says that i am useless. I don't even look at the mirror cause i think it's gonna make me more stressed. I wish i have someone to talk with... I am just 13 so i think it's too early is make a change on my appearance.

Well yupp!! M insecure about my smile, weight, And almost everything! And today one of my friend she call me fat! She said Omg! Girl u are so fat Just look at me I'm so thin And I just like Okayyy~ yess I m Then after some talks I just hang up After this I felt soo much Low! Like I literally cried😔! And when it comes to parents My mom and dad And my family members They just teasing me cz of my weight, they call me bull And that's really hurts, like I infront of them I just laugh but I cry alone in night! And M trying to love myself! And I think u should also try❤️

GOOOUURRLL DONT FEEL SORRY FOR YOUR SELF IT NEVER WORKS

bts armies here too.... periodt.

actually i was ~~dab~~

Huh❤️... Saranghae ❤️❤️❤️

Faith Zianna same lol

i dnt rlly stan bts but i really agree in his word. judgemental society sucks man

Daniel Lau That’s extremely true..

Daniel Lau Ikr

Daniel Lau that is so true!!

True, but then again..

Sam Green same sis same

Sam Green same

Ye same

I feel you i do the same

Listen to me .You shouldnt care what really people think or say about you.We shy people try to overthink everything so when we speak we sound weird.We need to let everything come natyrally.Because inside you are a beautiful person

You are beautiful in your own way. Wanna know why? "Beauty" is, in most cases, predefined, standardized and normalized. BUT THERE IS NO SUCH THING AS "NORMAL". We're all differen't, we behave differently, look different, we don't all have the SAME genes. How can you standardize things, or in this case, people, if they differ from each other? You are what you make out of yourself, of course, but you're beautiful no matter what. :D

I know I'm the opposite of beautiful :/

Juliana Thomas ah same. Throughout the day I watch myself and sometime I act different and I hate it.

Same I think I'm ugly and I don't like having a big butt because I feel like men are staring there but I also feel like I'm annoying all the time with my friends

Me

Me too :(

Juliana Thomas relatable

And..? Go on… then you should say; AND aim for it

I have the same problem I'm really quiet and shy around people I don't know and more outgoing around people I do know

same i'm superr shy and quiet soo most of the time i come off as boring or just no one wants to hang out with me most of the time i act like i don't care but it actually does kinda hurt me💔

chelsea BSG same here

Same it makes me depressed how I see all these other people that can easilystart a conversation and have it end in a positive note I don’t to new people at all at this point cause the same thing continues to happen to me

Same!! I felt hurt a lot of times because of this, too...

Mbti/16 personalities flashbacks

Oh yess, awesomenessnessness ❤️🧡💛

My hair is not the focus of this video XD

Cordero Roman haha I know it!!! I felt bad considering the topic and almost deleted it but...such is life! It's about the personality and what's on the inside...I've got it, promise ;)

LOOOOOOOL

star579 lmao

@@corderostevenroman but we all like your awesome curly fries, i mean uh hair hehe x’D

same girl

Hey now. I have big thighs! And big thighs are pretty. Look at Beyoncé! Rock your thighs 😄

Id kill for your big thighs i have a huge butt but skinny thighs i look weird and try to do excersises for my thigs and ect but yeah love your self and your body gurl 💜

Jaelene Marchena sweety, I was once you. For all of middle school I kept finding the smallest things I didn't like about myself. I'm 16 years old now and for the last year I've felt amazing. I gained a bit of weight (a little chubby) but I learned to love the way my legs jiggle and yes being hairy sucks, but it doesn't define you, you're beautiful and I want you to know it will get beter, the teenage insecurity will pass, I promise you. If you need any more advice or someone to vent to my kik is iris_bvb, please feel free to send a text. Us girls gotta look out for each other rather than constantly hating on each other ❤

Iris J. Ten Geusendam I want advice!!! I have been literally crying about the fact that I am not happy... I am trying to recover from my disordered eating but the voices keep getting in my head. The fact that people are going to remember me or named me as the "once skinny girl" stresses me out 😖 it's like people expect you to be the same and stay the same and I have honestly been having a lot of bad thoughts and I just feel lonely...

Nice

“You only get one life, don’t spend it hating yourself” that’s beautiful 👏👏

tell me about it

Claire & Maddie Watch the video, What every 8th grader needs to here.

So true !

You okay? stay strong, youre beautiful

good for you

Thanks 💕💕

latvijazija Definitely not quick and easy, took several years to truly get rid of that head bully. But catch yourself in the moment and replace and it will gradually get easier

Thank you for the good advice, you are right :) And I’m happy for you!

I wish I could gain wight. Iam very skinny even though I eat a lot. People ask me of I have a eating disorder. I really can not help it I tried everything. So please be happy you can gain wight, it means you can control your weight. I can't.

FUK AINT THAT THE TRUTH I FEEL BETTER ALEADY HAHAHAA

Lmao

Yes me too 😊

...at first sight😂

Wow❤ I rlly needed this in my midnight anxiety-filled emotional breakdown.

😄

We need more humans like you 😊

Oh hi people nobody is ugly everybody just has there own taste there will always be one person that thinks your beautiful

Every one is not perfect, they're lying

True lmao. People just want to pretend to be nice.. everyone gives preferences to appearance

@@cupcakee22 that’s why I’m ever insecure about my looks. I would never care about this crap if high expectations were not set on women to be loved.

@@etherealmango831 so true, I agree. I wish society we grew up in appreciated women more for her talent and hardwork than for the genetic lottery they were born with. Most guys likes to lust over a cute girl, all she have to do is groom herself and stay cute, whereas if its ugly/ average looking person, they has to make it up in Academics, career or something else to get noticed. It's a unfair world we live in.

@@cupcakee22 Ikr. It’s very hard and women have to deal with it.

Yeah fr

By himself or others maybe, but either way, he speaks some awesome truths 💛❤️

You are absolutely right ;)

maple syrup I’m near the same age as you and usually when I see myself in the mirror I see all the imperfect body image of myself when all the others see me as a perfect weight. I have been thro one eating disorder and it felt awful. I want to enjoy my life and thinking about food 24/7 is not the way to go. Social media rlly got me.

Im 29, and have had these exact feelings since I could remember.. I finally decided to TRY to stop worrying about what others wanted from me and jusy worrying about what I want. Focus on your education, your career endeavors, your life goals and passions. Thats what brings real beauty to your life.

I'm always so insecure about my body, i care too much about what other people think about me, i must always make sure i don't eat or drink too loudly, that i don't cough too many times, i got a feeling everyone is judging me even though they probably don't, but i just can't help myself

wow.

Cindy Morales his eyes are

Same

PREACH!!!!!!!

Isabella Caterina really 😳😂 in my opinion he looks hot af - you are right it lies in the eye of the beholder

Isabella Caterina SAME

Just because most females like the way Zac Efron looks doesn't really mean anything tbh.

Isabella Caterina THANK YOU! Someone agrees. I also think he can't act

I'm not attracted to big muscles at all, another example.

SuperHuman You - holy this guy is hoot ! Now im in between Cordero and you lol 😆😁

SuperHuman You I used to think that they are actually proud and not insecure, this is actually useful to me...

😂😂😂🤧🤧

SuperHuman You LOL

SuperHuman You bye

Owl Who we always want what we don't have

Funny. A guy called me thick one time and I lost 15 pounds from it

I'm a thick girl but I'm so insecure about my stomach sometimes I wish I was stick thin.

Omg same

Same😭😭

i wish everyone

bruuhhh,wats the fun if everythng was perfect? u would b bored for sure,everythng is complementary

Yeeah, don’t we all hehe xD

I’m human shaped

Im shaped like a 5 year old boy . lmao 😄

Rudi Fletcher I AM SHAPE

I have no shape

I am a blob

are u okay? YES UR BBEAUTIFUL! UR GOOD ENOGU, MORE THAN JUST ENOUGH STAY STRONG

Same and i hate that i feel like that but it's so hard to not think like that

I tried for 20 years to become confident but it didn't work because I was still defining worthiness by wrong standards and by what other people said confidence means. I didn't realize my worth is not defined by my looks or how much attention I get from men, or how loud and popular I am. Find out what really matters to you. For me, reading feminist books did a lot. Honestly I think that it also takes time because the brain is not fully developed until 25 (I don't know how old you are though). I have meds now because maybe the long years of negative thinking have brought me too far, but finding help for mental and mood issues is really important.

GIRL, love yourself no matter what. Because in the end.. Who's the fake one? You or Them?

holy shit you have no idea how much i relate to that wow its in words

I’m quite a positive person, I always encourage others and I’m really hyper and fun but... the thing I’m hiding is my insecurity. I need someone to make me actually positive, despite the fact I’m always the one to be positive in situations.

I'm insecure about both :/

I've hated myself since childhood, character and appearance wise, but now I find the biggest joy in working on making myself a better person and trusting that I can be the best me. Not compared to other people, but to myself. I fail but I also try and survive. I can be kind to myself and others, I can be patient, creative, hard working, courageous, strong... And with peace and health comes real beauty that is not dictated by shallow people and people trying to sell you products.

Same

You go girl!

❤️

Yes, I know ❤️🥺