I'm just about to delete his number. It wasn't even a relationship, it was a situationship on his side but I loved him so much and finally got rejected... but keeping his number on my contacts makes me want to check his last seen on WhatsApp and seeing him online for hours makes me feel burning inside. I just want to move on with my life and forget that person who didn't even really love me. But I'm not sure what to do about fb..should I unfriend him or block because unfollowing or muting won't work because I always search his name and look through his profile 😢
@@juliannecantarella812 it’s been hard. Especially that I have to see him from time to time. He broke up with me through text then blocked me on WhatsApp then ghosted me. I know I didn’t do anything wrong. I guess cultural differences.. he is Muslim and I’m Canadian. It really does still hurt. It’s been almost 9 months.
I understand that it can be painful and I am sorry. Though... I am a big believer that, someone's rejection IS God's protection. If we look at his behavior and see how he ultimately treated you, it doesn't speak well of his character. Long-term I believe he did you a favor. You want someone who treats you kindly, and with respect. It sounds as if he lacks the ability to do so. I am not sure how long your relationship lasted, but regardless, he should have been more forthcoming and he should have ended the relationship with a face-to-face meeting not via text. I believe that after you get through your pain you will emerge stronger and with a deeper insight into the type of person, you would ultimately want to share your life with... while there is no time limit on grief, know the pain will go away. Sending love to you and a big hug! oxxoxo
That's a little more complicated for sure. Having kids adds a much different layer of complexity... but I have worked with divorced singles who found limiting the interaction and only speaking/communicating when necessary made it much easier. If you are living separately, I would design your living space with as few reminders as possible (no photos, clothing, or trinkets). As the kid's age, you will also find there will be fewer reasons to interact with her. That said, disconnect from her on all social media platforms and don't pay attention to the noise. If you share friends, don't ask them about her. You've got this! It WILL get easier. It just might take some time.
