Wtaf...OP 2 is stupid. Absolutely stupid. I'm so glad he left her. Gonna lose her mind over nothing, then hides while ignoring him for A WEEK, and then wants to pout about how it's "not fair" and he should put up with her ridiculous bs. No. Absolutely not.
Story 2: I don’t even know how to explain this level of crashing out Op really started having a mental breakdown and jumped to cheating accusations and temper tantrums because she saw a text conversation between her fiancée and HIS SISTER.
The sheer irrationality of it sounds like some serious unchecked trauma. And that's something she needs to work on alone before any relationship she may have in the future because good God
Story 1: Glad the OP opened their eyes and finally rose above the abuse. It takes a lot of strength to do so. I hope they live a long, happy life away from their father's abuse. I'm sorry they had to live under such a man for so, so long, but the fact she's free of him and is living on her own terms, far, far away from him means that she's shown that strength, and has a good support system from her partner and her friends. I hope she's doing well, and continuing to live her best life out there, free of her abuser. Story 2: OP immediately jumps to cheating claims and then begs for help when she jeopardizes her own relationship by jumping to that conclusion. She claims there's trust, only to immediately break that trust at the first sign? Bruh. I get it. Being cheated on sucks, but just hearing him out would have stopped this in its tracks, yet she ran off to her sister's and refused to apologize for her behavior, hiding from him and ghosting him. _And she claims it's unfair for HER?!_ HA! Stay alone if you're going to act like that.
you dont understand officer, my mind went blank so i am not responsible. no, no, no that wasnt me. my mind went blank. i am not childish, my mind just went blank
Story 2, how the fuck you not put those names together? Everyone at some point in their life been called a nickname by family and friends and SHE had to heard and said it as well. Then, instead of talking it out, she ran like a coward who didnt want to take the L, the shame, because of her insecure mind went back to what happened with her ex. Is she calling her ex fiance, her ex? Is she seeing him as her ex? She is reliving in a dead and gone relationship that she should have gotten help mentally and emotionally from. She was not ready for a new relationship if this is a reaccuring thing. He simply understood she was hurting but even he has his limit, everyone does, there's so much a person can take before they crash and burn. And to say 'Its not fair' girl, this isnt a game, this isnt school life. This is the real world where he doesnt need your consent to end a relationship or marriage. He tried and tried, but he was done. He was right to laugh at her, I would have too. All I can say it get some help when you know you need it, and heres a famous quote from TFS 'Don't fuck up'
Story2: wtf she completely nuked her relationship over nothing. If something that happened years ago still effect you like this then 1 you need some serious therapy and 2 you’re not ready for marriage. Communication is a must and you communicate worse than a 12 year old child. Glad he got out of there before he knew it she would be claiming he’s cheating with the mail lady since he took to long to sign for something. Oh and the neighbor who walked by and said a simple hello but what about the nice cashier who just said have a nice as y’all finished y’all purchase. Smh insecurity like hers doesn’t go away especially when you havent worked on getting better it actually gets worse. I’m sure there were plenty of moments of her accusing him of one thing or another with another. 😮💨
Story 2: so she’s an idiot and a child in an adults body who doesn’t confront her partner and runs away to her sisters place to avoid accountability for her stupidity (she need help, or she’s cheating and projecting on him) bc she knew the sister’s nickname. You can’t make this crap up. He’s right, she refuses to see it from his angle and just wants it all to be brushed under the rug. No honey. That’s now how this works
You have to personally know OP and her family to say that. This is just a reflection letter, not an aita post. There's no one to judge.This letter is just to help OP process grief. I am not sure why this story was added to this channel, tho.
