Gentlemen in the cream sweater was so grounded and took the time to fully understand and analysis each situation before jumping to conclusions love that ❤
What some of you might not notice is : Mothers sometimes gets jealous that there's someone can take care of their son and now his son wouldn't be focusing on her as much. its normal to feel that way and it's your job as a man,to decide at the end of the day,what's best for you. If you rely entirely on your mother's validation for your own future with another person,then you're not ready for marriage.
Exactly the trust should be set from the way they’ve raised you and should continue to speak and try give advice but at the end of the day it’s your own choice
You guys ever had to grow up with no dad, a mum addicted to crack spending the money for food for little brother on crack. Its hard to treat her with a level of respect that you have never recieved. I grew up looking after my mum whilst she was a crack addict. Sorry if im rude to her
you don't have to be sorry for anything. Our parents are not god. They're humans. They're also living for the first time. They are realising and experiencing a lot of things for the first time ever. They make mistakes and when they continuously do it, that goes to show they don't care. A lot of parents become bad people. I'm sorry to everyone who has to deal with that trauma.
@@Yimika777”religious mindset” isn’t letting your dad beat your poor mumsie every night. That’s sociopathic behaviour. Stop conflating religion with this shit. That’s why more and more people are leaving religion every day.
@@AjeetSingh-xq4yb It's not about taking abuse its about not openly slandering your parents whether or not they deserve it. Most religions push you to be the bigger person and forgive trespasses. You don't have to be buddy buddy with the person but don't harbour hate in your heart.
"Not to lift a finger"...If I truly had the money to never worry financially. My women wouldn't work but Financial stability is crucial for a man's mental health. So, if you can't retire your lady. As your women she has to take some load to help you which in return is helping her because you're in a good space
I feel like someone could mean the world to you, they could be a good judge of character, they might know you like the back of their hand, but you should never make a decision based off an opinion, an observation or a feeling. You should definitely listen and reflect , take in consideration what they are saying. But never make a decision based purely on someone’s pov of a person YOU chose just because you love them. We are not perfect we all make mistakes and misunderstand or misjudge at some point of our lives, we are not perfect. Because you love your family you should definitely take into account their perspective. But remember, YOU chose this person, YOU are investing your time on that relationship. At the end of the day is YOUR LIFE, YOUR DECISION. If there’s something I’ve learned in life is that someone might love you with all their heart, want and wish the best for you and still not know 100% what’s truly good for you.
6:13 what a shit take 😂 it’s case by case leave it at that, no respect should be had for absent parents / abusive parents, It’s easy to say stuff like this but try live it 🤷♂️
Guys, can you do a session when you were not at your best and may have been challenging for your mothers/parents? Maybe those "teenage years" when you made unwise choices/decisions/actions which could have taken your life in a different direction and caused your parents grief, disagreements, and sleepless nights. Just would like to hear about your maturity journeys. Please keep the same 4 panellists
Wallahi, I beg you get someone who ain’t successful like you man to talk about these subjects. Especially bout the disrespecting parents, you need to actually understand if your parents were together or even a part of your life. YOU were lucky
I would hate to have a husband who so easily just wants me to not work. I need someone to push me to be independent on my own so we are able to work dependently together.
If you're pushed to be independent, that's what you're going to become used to and as a result, it'll be harder for you to work "dependently together". That's the opposite of what you would want. In reality, you should be encouraged to become more dependent so if anything, both of you can work together as a team and if need be, you can become more reliant on him when the time calls for it, e.g. during pregnancy and raising up a child.
not tryna violate , but how did dem man meet harry pinero because if you do the maths when chunkz was in yr 7 harry was in yr 12 , so like i genuinely dont understand . but i wouldnt mind hearing out the story
For those that dont know, i prove some verses from the quran signifying the importance to paraents: "Worship Allah and join none with Him in worship, and do good to parents," “Your Lord has decreed that you worship none but Him, and do good to parents. If any one of them or both of them reach old age, do not say to them: uff (a word or expression of anger or contempt) and do not scold them, and address them with respectful
This whole topic comes across as insincere coming from 2/3 of this group. Either keep pretending to be holier than thou religious virgins who have no contact with women and don't speak about these topics, or disclose what is going on in your love lives and speak openly. You can't play this middle-ground. As you can see from the lamentable views, people aren't buying it.
