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It took 2 years and 8 months for my divorce to be final. It was 2 years and 8 months of hell! Thanks to you, Rebecca, for helping me through! And also my own attorney! Great women with unbelievable knowledge of this type of human. I AM FREE! I AM GETTING MY HEALTH BACK AND MY PEACE! THANK YOU!
I literally ran away several times. It's been 9 years of trying to escape and I finally have the knowledge to get away this time thanks to people like Ms. ZUNG. THANK YOU SO MUCH!!
I'm year 8! If he allocated the time and effort into keeping a job rather than utilizing and abusing the court system to financially devastate everyone (including the new 16 and 19 year old's future) it would have been impressive on what he could of accomplished.
I filed divorce papers in August with my narcissist husband of 38 years. I did this because there is a restraining order against him for 3 years because of domestic violence and I’m wondering what my backlash is going to be. All our children are grown adults and the only thing I’m asking for is half our assets. Just wondering if the narcissist will fight me and if he does how do I handle this?
I’m going through something very similar with a narcissist, who has been charged with domestic violence and unlawful confiscation of marital assets. There is always a danger when you try to get what it is rightfully yours. I haven’t figured out a way yet to handle what she “might do or might not do“. In my situation before I was brutally discarded, she insidiously and preemptively made it almost impossible for me to recover or get what was legally mine. There is always the possibility of danger and without a doubt there will be backlash. I wish you well. Some days I don’t give a damn anymore and that seems to help but I can’t quit. 🙏
@@peterknyk1942 at this point I don’t want any of the contents just the house and property. The server is serving 23 Oct and I keep praying it goes well. This is all new territory for me and sometimes fear grips me to the core and there are other times I don’t care one bit. I have learned that I can never ask why he shattered my wrist because he will turn everything around on I deserved what I got. I’m really learning a lot from everyone here. Thanks a million to everyone.
@@deniseritchie4674 these situations that they put us in are becoming almost frighteningly similar when I hear stories about what others are going through. It makes me sad…. I also feel that she can have all the contents and marital things. In fact, she’s taken a lot already. All I want to do is, like you, to be able to stay in my home, and on my property that I have worked so hard to keep up and make into a nice place to live. Everything to her is a monetary transaction, and after what she did to me monetarily I don’t have much leverage left. I keep praying that justice will prevail, but I also know that often justice is for so many of us “an accursed mirage”…. certainly, for them, justice is a one-way street! But, I keep hoping ! 🙏🕊🙏
The best advice is: try and prevent marrying a narcissist at all. Prevention is better than having to heal from is my humble opinion. What do you think about that good advice? Thank You once again for your nice videos. It is very appreciated! 🎉🎉🎉
Hi Tanya, I feel you should watch these videos from Rebecca Zung, I think it helped me. Good Luck, I know how difficult it is. I have walked away 2X in my life. Losing everything and starting over. Sending Hugs ❤❤
How does the court system not see this? It's kind of blantant. This isn't the only issue in the court system, especially in regards to Family Law - but it's a big one, that's glaring! You wouldn't have to negotiate if you didn't get involved with the shitheads to begin with.
Hi, Thanks so much for all you do. Can you direct me to how to locate someone in Gainesville, GA area, that can represent me in divorce, and who knows how to deal with a narcissistic husband. I am 74 years old. I am planning to go and live with my daughter in Montana. I'm so thankful to have realized what I have been dealing with all this time. I have to go. There is no other alternative. Thank you for any help you can give.
AMEN !!! 4 yrs gone from the relationship w/no contact … almost 3 yrs (& 15,000 $ ) working w/a lawyer & NO SETTLEMENT… Hawai’i State divorce laws are weak & TERRIBLE for women … I am now moving forward pro se
All hell will break loose tomorrow when he gets an email from my attorney stating I want out … how / what do I do he’s got to come home after reading it … what can I expect???
Been trying to get divorced for over a year. I was waiting for the 12 month mark to file "no fault". She still hasn't moved out, and then filed "at fault" at the 11.5 month mark, claiming I'm violent. I'm violent...yet she and her daughter still live here. I still have to wait 3 more months just to finally get a retired judge for arbitration. The only leverage I have is that she stopped sleeping with me almost 4 years ago, yet started on Valtrax sometime this year. She never had chicken pox, so not shingles, and I certainly didn't give her herpes. I'm hoping keeping that quiet will motivate her to not fight this much longer.
How do I get my attorney to understand that what you are speaking to is exactly what I have lived?Please, no generic message reply. I have forwarded the link to this video.
It takes time. I signed up for Rebecca's divorce master class and sat with my attorney to watch it. I've been in the process for over a year and half and my attorney is still surprised by what goes on. Although it's expensive it takes time for people to see the crazy.
After three months, he says let’s just put it behind us and move on. How is the victim supposed to move on when they won’t even communicate they won’t even acknowledge you really exist. He’s been crying to go see his 5060 year old children. He ain’t left yet, so what is he waiting for?
She got half of the House but it didn't have that much equity in it. Now that it's over she wants to get married again. I told her Hell to the Nahl..😳 She has half of the house but I gained my whole Sanity and Peace, now that I live alone.👍
