Do All Lesbians Think The Same?

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0:00 intro
0:20 I have fallen for a straight best friend
1:57 scissoring is a real thing
4:14 I have never had sex with a man
8:18 gay men are more privileged than lesbians
11:08 I have damaged relationships with my loved ones because of my sexuality

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@jubilee Год назад

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@1337ik_ Год назад

i thought the video was "Do all lesbians look the same?" and i got so concerned like i activated flight or fight mode and clicked that notification at the speed of light i promise you

@heehee5472 Год назад

how was this comment posted one day ago but video is posted 30 mins ago?

@sonrisadelsol450 Год назад

@jubilee could you please delete the transphobic comments?

@joclark4619 Год назад

Could you please delete the transphobic comments on this video? There is a disturbing quantity at this point

@iwonthesitatebitch.570 Год назад

so when are yall going to stop including very obviously bepenised ppl on panels/groups meant for women? or is lesbian erasure a past time for ur staff?

@Reionder Год назад

I'm not sure being sexualized should be seen as a priviledge... lesbians being sexualized and gay men being hated are both acts of dehumanization

@Lega1Eagle Год назад

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@leaink9981 Год назад

!!!

@Em-vq7mu Год назад

Yep!! Sexualization leads to violence too, just the tip of the iceberg

@gino-tx2we Год назад

I in large part agree, but imo gay men are just more victimized by society. I say this as a trans woman who has been harassed, and often misunderstood by my family when talking about my female partners. It's just very odd to see people conflating fetishization and dismissive attitudes to actual violence and threats of violence.

@tgr5312 Год назад

Lesbians are sexualized because of how they put themselves out for men to watch.

@rileygudgel8446 Год назад

The gay privilege question got me thinking that a really cool middle ground episode would be "Lesbians vs Gay men", exploring the intersections of homophobia and sexism

@RavensDomain Год назад

I was just thinking this

@space3934 Год назад

YESSSSSSSS

@mst-pierrem5729 Год назад

Great idea.

@miouen9435 Год назад

I thought it was so interesting. They brought up some great points and I feel it could be explored more.

@joeadeleke Год назад

@@skyefuqyou4874 women kissing outside is fetishized by many guys... The reverse is seen as abomination 😂

@israel-fn4cj Год назад

The girl feeling ashamed for having accepting parents actually made me cry because in reality that’s what we all deserve as queer people. It’s kinda depressing that even those who are embraced by their family can’t fully feel their joy because it carries a certain guilt with it.

@hustler212 Год назад

I think it wasn't a shame, it was a hesitation to say that in front of other who had difficult experience with the same topic... You know, in the sense how we don't like to brag about the shiny things we have in life in front of lesser privileged people...

@Trixie91 Год назад

My parents have always been fully accepting of me being gay and I’ve thanked my mom for it countless times that’s it’s a non issue to her but everytime I do though she’s like; it’s just normal to me, why wouldn’t I accept it? She really doesn’t get how parents can not accept it but yeah I definitely have gay friends with parents who don’t

@laurenlewis5907 Год назад

this is beautifully worded

@anonomous8649 Год назад

I can totally see that. My dad is awful to me about it but my mom is accepting. So I've dealt with both sides of that coin. I love that my mom accepts me and treats me no differently, and I wish everyone could be that way.

@gumphrie2906 Год назад

i wish my parents were more excepting it would be so much easier

@eymiaimieme Год назад

i just can’t wrap my head around the fact that some parents literally abandon their child because of who they love

@Criner05 Год назад

Religion is pretty powerful.

@kaeyaseyepatch2363 Год назад

unfortunately the threat of eternal damnation and torture outweighs blood relations for many people

@SpartanGnome Год назад

@@kaeyaseyepatch2363 There's a reason the year is 2023 , even if you go by evolution and randomness theory ... you're still in the red for it wouldn't be evolutionary to be homosexual thus cutting your own argument or sexuality

@Caitilizzie Год назад

@@SpartanGnomeWhat are you talking about? I don’t get what argument you’re trying to say

@johndavolta3124 Год назад

@@kaeyaseyepatch2363 you don't have to be religious. There is pleeeeenty of people who are not religious and don't agree with homosexuality.

@whatisupdawg Год назад

the first question responses stood out, i wish we would talk more about the privilege of growing up around other queer people versus being the only one in a small town and how it can effect people

@Random-sk6hm Год назад

FACTS

@NikolaGog0l Год назад

literally, i grew up without anyone teaching me about queer people. i thought i was incapable of love for years.

@jijitters Год назад

Is that the only reason for those answers being different though? Even when I didn't have queer friends I never crushed on a straight person because heterosexuality is unattractive to me as a queer person and if someone is straight I automatically find them unattractive. I can't relate to or understand crushing on a straight girl.

@acattagite448 Год назад

@@jijitters well you are different then. that doesn’t invalidate their experience

@Caitilizzie Год назад

@@jijitters I’m bi and I had a crush on my straight best friend as a kid before I even realized what it was. After coming to terms with my sexuality, I was less likely to fall for a straight girl, but it’s definitely different for everyone! You can’t help who you end up liking, even if you know they wouldn’t want to be with you. There’s no shame in it, obviously as long as you keep the crush to yourself and respect their sexuality and boundaries

@Ayveh Год назад

To all the goldstar lesbians out there IF a guy ever tells you "Well how do you know if you haven't tried it with a guy" then reply "Well how do you know you aren't gay if you have never tried it with a guy?" Watch them be quiet.

@PROVOCATEURSK Год назад

Men and women are different, simple answer.

@ashleytrashley209 Год назад

@@PROVOCATEURSK no

@davidmarwood775 Год назад

I mean they are though, men and women are different down to the cells in their bodies. We are a sexually dimorphic species, by definition there are differences between the sexes.

@Rainbow_Warrior_Princess Год назад

@@PROVOCATEURSK Simple answer to what, you homophobe and misogynist? 😑Your response was just an empty phrase, an answer to a question nobody asked... 🥱

@thekalenichannel1812 Год назад

@@davidmarwood775 that difference still doesnt mean that women don't know what we want. Same way men can know what they're attracted to without having sex, same goes for women. We know what attracts us and what doesn't

@damagedheather Год назад

okay but the woman in the long floral skirt is GORGEOUS

@cbryce9243 Год назад

They all are IMO

@bun-e9361 Год назад

Agreed, love her style! 💙

@ijustwannabehappier-v4973 Год назад

@@cbryce9243 she said the woman in floral skirt. Maybe learn to respect peoples opinion?

@kid-ava Год назад

@ijustwannabehappier-v4973 how were they disrespectful?😭

@ijustwannabehappier-v4973 Год назад

@@kid-ava Why would they come and say ''all of them'' when the person specifically mentioned only floral skirt? Imagine someone says ''you're a pretty woman'' and another jumps and says ''actually ALL women''.

@lukastaylor8098 Год назад

the whole “i had a vision of what your life was gonna turn out to be” is crazy and so harmful but so normalized. i hope moving forward parents in the future parents allow the kids they have to live the life they want to live, not based on a fantasy of the parents.

@MsEjay9 Год назад

I think it’s completely natural to have hopes and dreams for your child. What makes it harmful is when you those hopes & dreams turn into direct expectations

@SofieArts Год назад

Yeah wtf, every time in my life when I've asked my mom similar things, she just said that she didn't have one and would love me no matter what.

@jaloniwilson Год назад

Well I mean its beyond normal and fine for anyone with children to imagine their future. Every person who has had and will have kids will. It's an exciting thing. It's more about not letting those thoughts become the only possible outcomes for that child. Allowing their kid to carve out their own path and letting your child's interests and experiences shape your thoughts.

@shahrukhkhan8307 Год назад

it's normal. parents think about their kids future. it is ok

@luisfilipe2023 Год назад

Parents will always have expectations. There’s nothing wrong with that

@vko. Год назад

I'm so surprised at the straight best friend thing. As a bisexual, its happened more times than I'd like to admit 😔😭

@mspears_bobobuddytheseniorcat Год назад

The first girl I fell in love with was straight but I was 15 at the time. After that it never happened again thankfully. I've been with my lesbian soulmate for 19 years! ❤️

@stillfangirlingtoday1468 Год назад

@@oop4841 I don't think it's creepy at all. It's actually pretty normal. What is creepy is what you do afterwards. I've also fallen for a straight friend, asked her on a date lol, got rejected and then moved on (after crying for a few months boohoo). We are still as close as we were ten years ago.

@ackzk Год назад

@@oop4841 It's quite common lol

@doublefeature Год назад

same i truly thought more than half at least would say yes. even as a young person, you never fell for yr best friend???

@j4_ni Год назад

it's happened to me since elementary school like what

@vendetta2163 Год назад

wish this was longer tbh

@humanlyhuman5880 Год назад

@cashjones6997 Год назад

Agreed. Only 5 questions seems really short

@Julia-mw1gi Год назад

same

@Magst3r1 Год назад

That's what she said

@vendetta2163 Год назад

@@Magst3r1 😢

@Kenos444 Год назад

Maxine is such a soft spoken and seemingly kind person, even when she was talking about her father. I think most of us who grew up in a fanatically religious househould can kinda relate and the fact that she was acting so mature and understanding towards others experience, is honestly really respectable. English is my 4th language so i might have made some mistakes in my comment, feel free to correct me

@ijustwannabehappier-v4973 Год назад

No mistake at all and your english is perfectly fine.

@koliune Год назад

wooow its ur 4th langauge and its great

@lilqueen5764 Год назад

That's amazing that you know 4 languages i want to be just like you but unfortunately thats hard for me

@Kenos444 Год назад

Thanks everyone haha. Its easier for me cuz i grew up on learning them all ever since i was a child, but I believe everyone can do it with enough passion and effort. It is harder the older u get but dont give up

@s.t.7630 Год назад

english being your 4th language is a big flex omg lmao

@michaellaaa Год назад

When she said “If you’re not gonna love me 100% don’t love me at all” … I FELT THAT!!!! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

@PROVOCATEURSK Год назад

Love is not a choice. Phobia is not a choice. People should understand these simple things.

@michaellaaa Год назад

@@PROVOCATEURSK they should, but some, unfortunately don’t 😢

@funkunko 8 месяцев назад

@@PROVOCATEURSKhate is a choice. you cant change who you are, but you can change yourself to be more accepting. it can be difficult especially if you have grown up in a hateful family, but it is not impossible

@louise.x03 Год назад

as parents going forward, i feel like there needs to be this preparation for anything, for your child to be gay, trans, lesbian or whatever it may be. instead of having your own idea of what your child should be and have expectations that could change at any given moment.

@triniteemoore43 Год назад

exaclty parents get caught up in the idea of pushing their children into what they wanted to be, or what they want for them. They see them as another version of themselves, instead of their own person.

@triniteemoore43 Год назад

@Random-sk6hm Год назад

@user-sy5bj5nd6x Год назад

You should have an idea of what you want your child to grow up like that’s how you lay framework and foundations, what you shouldn’t do is to force things on to your child. Being to forceful is just being a tyrant and being too free and open minded is just neglecting your duty as a parent 🌚 life is all about moderation young grasshopper

@johndavolta3124 Год назад

The problem is that if you take that approach, then society is going to dictate what your kids should be like. Your comment bothers me because you are surrendering your role as a parent and giving that control over to society and social media.

@laineyton Год назад

a lesbian woman admitting she is still attracted to men.. why are people so afraid to use the bisexual label?

@ken-fv9cz Год назад

IDK

@gracep2910 Год назад

it’s not cool enough for them LOL

@Xplreli Год назад

Maybe because she’s not bisexual. Wow shocker.

@beckmcguity6800 Год назад

@@Xplreli Well she not a lesbian either.

@beckmcguity6800 Год назад

That's the biggest issue. Some bi woman complain lesbians don't accept them but they don't accept themselves either.

@h.g.warrender5529 Год назад

I'm confused at 6:40 when Taryn says she wouldn't consider herself fully lesbian, why Jubilee cast her? No shade to bi or pan folks at all, but those are different identities, and this episode is specifically about lesbians.

@sapphicwriter Год назад

Interestingly I don't think I can recall any videos Jubilee has done exclusively about gay men having bi and pan men as well. I could be wrong but it is interesting the difference in Jubilee when it comes to this.

@h.g.warrender5529 Год назад

@@Rosapond918 no they didnt

@nolanclark9159 Год назад

@@h.g.warrender5529 they did lmao

@ylvanilsson971 Год назад

I was looking for this comment. It really does invalidate the lesbian community. Both by what she is doing and by what jubilee is doing. But perhaps jubilee wasn't even aware. Since she has never been with men I can see why she would want to identify as a lesbian but if she still is attracted to men it sounds more like bisexuality with a strong preference for women.

@Rosapond918 Год назад

@@h.g.warrender5529 A lesbian is a homosexual female. Perhaps the male is bisexual, but by their own admission they have only slept with females. I have no reason to believe they are not heterosexual, in other words...straight.

@cherryplumpearlYT Год назад

why they got someone on here saying they're attracted to men ...

@hollowkid97 Год назад

Yeah like..

@basicblisseys3494 Год назад

Bi women invading

@jeonghoonchoi5046 Год назад

Apparently you don’t even have to be a lesbian to be able to call yourself a lesbian????

@quiet_walker19 Год назад

Maybe that's because of her religious trauma or she only likes male characters but not real men

@realSimoneCherie Год назад

Maybe bc men who prefer men but do find themselves attracted to a woman now and then are still called gay. Socially, sexuality comes with stigma like a one drop rule.

@dalal1603 Год назад

As a lesbian, lesbianism is truly the best thing that happened to me, yes I’ve lost my parents and closed one bcuz of it but I cannot imagine a different life. Lesbianism is a blessing. Loved the video, let’s goooo lesbians

@thekalenichannel1812 Год назад

❤️

@avantikajha1109 Год назад

❤

@sls.x2026 Год назад

I also love being me 😊

@nairobi8337 10 месяцев назад

women ❤❤❤ I love being a lesbian too

@funkunko 8 месяцев назад

me too :)

@qrowvx Год назад

please make a longer version of this episode!! this video is wayy too short for the amount of questions that could’ve been included

@ijustwannabehappier-v4973 Год назад

This is why i feel like lesbians are never taken serious or validated. If this was gay men, the episode would be endless.

@qrowvx Год назад

@@ijustwannabehappier-v4973 exactly !!

@smashpumpkins6327 Год назад

fr, like these videos are usually so long and there are much better more significant questions that could have been asked..

@stephanielastname8271 Год назад

this is exactly what i was gonna say, why only 15 minutes??

@aaaaa-bm8oe Год назад

@@ijustwannabehappier-v4973 hate to burst your bubble but there is a gay men episode of spectrum and it was 9 minutes long. This is actually on the longer side of spectrum videos.

@kordencaden5560 Год назад

LETS GO LESBIANS

@Rhea123 Год назад

💃💃🏃‍♀️🏃‍♀️🏃‍♀️

@Rhea123 Год назад

@@shishibenterfa Okay choco Karen 🐒

@iwonthesitatebitch.570 Год назад

and the 1 random straight guy lmfao

@erenjaeger1738 Год назад

KJ is a whole as dude so obviousXD

@nev3157 Год назад

@@erenjaeger1738 maybe transwoman went through one ear and out the other but yeah she's a woman you imbecile.

@sonaverage Год назад

Why’d they bring a woman who’s attracted to men on here?💀homegirl isn’t a lesbian by definition

@adrianghandtchi1562 Год назад

She identifies as lesbian, so she is, therefore, lesbian, to be expressive about some of your attractions doesn’t guarantee that that person feels like they identify as for example, bisexual or pansexual.

@blahblah9992 Год назад

@@adrianghandtchi1562 No, The person above was correct. A lesbian is a woman exclusively attracted to other women. You can't just identify as a lesbian and change the whole definition because you want to.

@reyne8424 Год назад

Neither is the trans women.

@rachellinton6613 Год назад

@@adrianghandtchi1562 if she is attracted to men in any way, she is not a lesbian.

@M00NL9GHT Год назад

@@adrianghandtchi1562 So with this logic, men who are attracted to women can be considered a lesbian then? Stop trying to change the definition of something just because you wanna be included. It will NEVER happen. Being a lesbian means being a woman STRICTLY romantically and physically attracted to women. Period. Let it be that way.

@MrBebopChamploo Год назад

For the prompt "I have damaged relationships with loved ones because of my sexuality" - I don't like that phrasing, it implies the blame is on the women for being lesbians when any damage is really due to their loved one's inability to accept their sexuality. It's the loved one's reactions causing damage, not being lesbian.

@leaink9981 Год назад

!!!

@LeonidasIV Год назад

Damaged as an adjective, not a verb.

@fionaWhatever Год назад

@@LeonidasIV it's about the "because of" part. and i agree, a better phrasing might have been "because of their reactions to my sexuality"

@butter-biscuit2248 Год назад

They should’ve said “relationships with loved ones have been damaged by me coming out” or something like that

@jennam.7268 Год назад

Like Leonidas said, I read it as "I have [damaged relationships (relationships that are damaged)] with loved ones because of my sexuality" not "[I have damaged] relationships with loved ones because of my sexuality" but yeah they could've chosen a less interpretive phrase

@chelsea5595 Год назад

Personally I don’t understand why someone would call themselves a lesbian if they are attracted to men 🧐

@Amelia-V Год назад

She clearly isn't a lesbian :)

@chelsea5595 Год назад

@@Amelia-VYeah I understand if you are around lesbian a lot and mostly like girls and watch lesbian movies etc. why you might casually call yourself lesbian without thinking but to go on a video and talk about the perspective of a lesbian is weird.

@bluewilliams4911 Год назад

Because plenty of people did before the 90s

@Vengurl09 Год назад

yeah I agree even me who feels I can be attracted to any gender but mostly attracted to women wouldn't dare to say I'm a lesbian because of that

@lemonqvartz Год назад

because I can ❤️

@sorafanchick Год назад

Can we do a bisexual spectrum one next? That would be awesome! I love these. (And I'm bi).

@davettadavetta5720 Год назад

Yes, I'll love that cuz I'm bi

@Zeta523 Год назад

@@TryingtoTellYou Why is is such a difficult concept lol? Why is it ridiculous that many people get to reap the benefits of both sexualities? In some species, most of their population is bi. And in humans, bisexuality is more common than homosexuality…

@Zeta523 Год назад

@@TryingtoTellYou It just is more common lol. Read a census. I dont get ur explanation at all. I assume that 2 refers to bisexuality but idk what 1 is. Asexuality? Second, wdym how much it is “meant to have.”

@TryingtoTellYou Год назад

@@Zeta523 The human body has a blueprint. Anything that falls outside the blueprint is a mutation and was not meant to happen. Asexuality is no different. You have a deformed part of your brain that is not according to the human blueprint. Bisexuality, as I'll explain for the second time, suggests that the brain has evolved such that it may lust for both sexes, which is frankly inhuman.

@zidane8452 Год назад

@@TryingtoTellYou bisexuality is the most in the lgb community, and that's a fact

@addy8078 Год назад

I’m still shocked about the first question. I thought it was a universal gay experience to fall for a straight person at some point. Maybe not your best friend, but in school having a crush on a straight classmate is so common! But they mostly had gay friends? DAMN They don’t realise how lucky that is!

@gracep2910 Год назад

yeah that’s cause 90% of these girls (and guy, lol) are not gay

@bronte4356 Год назад

I was thinking the same thing 😂 all of my fellow queer friends have admitted at some point to crushing on a straight friend.

@Lilyium 11 месяцев назад

They may be slightly aromatic, could just be that they don't have the normative "crushes" kids get. I'm demi bi and I don't have crushes easily.

@MangoPanic Месяц назад

Yeah I've never fallen for straight friends because I already know they're off limits, but like, random girls I didn't know well who turned out to be straight? Absolutely.

@haveaheart16 Год назад

The fact that a parent could just stop talking to their own child is so heartbreaking to me. Like at the end of the day, regardless of what your beliefs are, that’s your CHILD.

@jumpstreet2425 Год назад

its not heartbreaking to me anymore. Its called life. Its young people who make their on choices. Some have problems and some maybe not. I dont feel sympathy for a majority. Its sad sure. Think about the killers, and 304. And their family abandon them... Thats there choice. Shame is low... Thats why I guess so many woman think OF is okay.

@lemonqvartz Год назад

@@jumpstreet2425 ur a misogynist we don't care

@catradorasprmanager7728 7 месяцев назад

@@jumpstreet2425 except it's not a choice. that's like parents abandoning their child for being a different race. it's illogical and cruel

@user-bk9fk2tq2z 6 месяцев назад

@@jumpstreet2425 Those homosexual people are born that way, just like how we heterosexuals are born that way.

@miles62546 Год назад

Why is there a woman labeled here as a lesbian who is attracted to men? Wtf

@baristaz8834 Год назад

I'm just as confused about that one 💀💀

@lemonqvartz Год назад

did u see anyone in that room attack her 🫠

@10101funday 8 месяцев назад

I think she was saying she isn't attracted to men now and wish she tried to just make sure. But she knows she is attracted to woman

@alitzzy Год назад

This felt so short. I thought there'd be more questions. Great group. Would love to hear from them again.

@TheFauxFrenchman Год назад

This doesn't happen often watching these but no one annoyed me in this episode, they all listened, no interrupting, they were great

@nia5193 Год назад

if this episode was about lesbians why did they include a bisexual?

@keekeekakakookoo Год назад

i can honestly relate to their experiences with religion, knowing your own parent would choose their religion over you is one of the most hurtful things to experience. i love my religion but it's also destroyed embracing the part of me being queer.

@hustler212 Год назад

So are you still practicing your religion...? (In the sense if it still hurts you, how could you love it?)

@SpartanGnome Год назад

well if you truly believe in your faith then it makes sense does it not?

@vicnad92 Год назад

Try Hinduism, Wiccanism, Bhuddism, Taoism, etc so many lgbt affirming religions out there.

@SpartanGnome Год назад

@@vicnad92 What for? , they can be gay without religion

@jumpstreet2425 Год назад

@@hustler212 Religion aint the worst. Its plenty of non religious people who dont get down with lgbtq. Just saying, if you think religion is the biggest problem. Ill give you an example from me. Religion or not I'd not except an OF worker. Some people are the same way with LGBTQ. Cause its can change like feminism did 😂.

@poetry_grrrl Год назад

if you’re still attracted to men ur not a lesbian …

@poetry_grrrl Год назад

like the girl in the blue sweater shouldn’t be on this video ..

@suyai7772 Год назад

I absolutely agree with it, when did the girl said that?

@WisteriaHex Год назад

@@suyai7772 around 6:50 or so. She goes on for a full minute about her attraction to men

@suyai7772 Год назад

@@WisteriaHex it’s also crazy how nobody else pointed that out… I hope she does not consider herself like a lesbian anymore

@WisteriaHex Год назад

@@suyai7772 I think because LGBT ppl are pressured into accepting this stuff or the inclus will get mad and shove us out of our own community

@bicuriousdirtbikeboi2594 Год назад

Going back to the gay male privilege thing, I feel like there’s a nuance there. Like gay men are more validated than gay women are, but also historically speaking when things like diseases enter our community, gay men and trans women are way more affected. Also I feel like we tend to get hate-crimed more. Again under hetero-patriarchy, we all suffer, but I don’t necessarily think one of us has privilege over the other when it comes to our sexuality

@hollowkid97 Год назад

And gay men are more likely to be imprisoned and/or executed. Like in pretty much all over Africa and Caribbean

@Random-sk6hm Год назад

Also as mentioned in the video, it's harder to be a gay male in society cos you're 'betraying' your masculinity

@pedroantonio5565 Год назад

True. And that mostly comes from transmisogyny, which directly affects trans women. It ain't oppression olympics, anyway. The two groups are oppressed regarding their sexuality and when it comes to gender, lesbians may experience misogyny and gay men, especially femme ones, may endure the discrimination that derives from transmisogyny. Though there are still white cis gay men who are masculine and may go through their lives being deemed as appropriate Men. That's it

@keekeekakakookoo Год назад

it's just so wild to think that at the end of the day it goes down to misogyny

@Love-sg5pp Год назад

Can you explain how are gay males more validated? Bc I have a hard time believing if that’s entirely true. There’s RU-vid videos made by childish high schoolers asking everyone if they would rather have two gay dads or two gay moms and most of them said two gay moms. It shows that lesbian relationships is more acceptable and validated than two gay male parent relationships.

@valeria6045 Год назад

honestly it is screaming bi and pan phobia that girl that said that she isn't a "full" lesbian cuz she is still attracted to men... like honey you r not even a lesbian

@prasannashetty965 Год назад

Bi Erasure, Biphobic and lesbophobic at the same time.

@oliviafouser Год назад

The gay privilege question is so interesting, because I feel like it’s different societally vs socially. Societally and historically it’s easier to be a queer woman because we aren’t paid as much attention and thus avoid some of the harsher persecution gay men have faced, meanwhile societally being ignored is actually the issue queer women face because we’re invalidated and given less space in society (an example being that there’s literally one lesbian bar in all of LA that just opened last week, meanwhile there are dozens of gay bars in WeHo)

@marvin2678 Год назад

Being Shot or Not having a own bar.....yeah really though choice

@jesusbarrera6916 Год назад

well, go and make your own lesbian bar...

@alexlesbean8739 10 месяцев назад

Actually I would disagree with the “societally” statement. I think that’s a privilege for for fem lesbians but when a masc lesbian is in public they get harassed. They can’t even go to the bathroom without someone telling them to get out or even calling the cops on them. I think it really depends. Like I know that masculine gay men might not be hated in the same context as feminine gay men when they are out and about just like fem lesbians and mascs

@nehalilisays 8 месяцев назад

This reminds me of the difference between male and female queerness in football/soccer. For the men it's mostly taboo to the point they get pretend-girlfriends while the women are almost expected to be queer - but of course they still have to deal with misogyny anyway.

@katarinachiogna-solovey3560 Год назад

Why was a bisexual woman in a video about lesbians......

@Noa...... Год назад

Just because you are with a female and/or have a strong preference for females, it does not mean you are a lesbian. Bisexuality exists.

@rebeccamarcinko7735 Год назад

facts

@sofiabruiz17 Год назад

Lets not tell people what they are or erase their sexualities, thats literally what the bisexual community has been fighting to avoid for years since it happens to them. Dont be that person

@Noa...... Год назад

@@sofiabruiz17Not when they literally come out to admit their attraction to the opposite sex and then say they are lesbian because they are with a female. It is like when I said I was straight, and I am bi-erasing myself.

@Amelia-V Год назад

100%.

@itsmeandrea138 Год назад

as i answered in another commet: stop labeling everyone as bisexual or fluid having had sex with people of your opposite sex in the past, or not being 100% into people of your same sex (of course that doesn't mean 50%, but maybe to be 90% into people of your same sex) doesn't make you bisexual bisexuality exists, but don't abuse and overuse that word

@adri.c4 Год назад

Maxine is so beautiful and I really hope she knows she's loved even without her father accepting her

@PaulHo Год назад

It's astonishing that they fell back and stood grouped together on their respective lines instead of just maintaining the default distances. I was not expecting that and don't know why every other group would only move laterally. It was so much easier on the camera, to frame everyone and to not have them turning around for the entire time or only staring at someone's back. Wow.

@6thgraderfriends Год назад

It makes me think since they've never done it before like this, that they asked the contestants to do it this time. I agree, it makes it easier to watch the screen.

@PaulHo Год назад

@@6thgraderfriends I think women on the same team just don't have any qualms about coming together, even when disagreeing.

@yourmom48402 Год назад

i relate a lot to the girl who felt bad because her family is very accepting.I’m so incredibly thankful my family was just completely okay with it and didn’t treat it like a huge thing at all. it hurts my heart hearing people talk about how their family’s have treated/are treating them because of how they are or who they love.I hope that i can share the love my family gives me with others.

@justanotherlesbian6335 Год назад

Oh I’ve been WAITING for this one! I relate hard to the girl who said she felt bad bc she had accepting parents. I feel like the only coming out stories we get involve rejection of some sort, and while that’s the reality for many ppl, it’s also not for some. It almost makes me feel like I don’t have a real coming out story bc it didn’t end in fights and being disowned. I feel very blessed to have support from my family and friends, and I feel like coming out would be easier if there were more stories like this portrayed in the media. It’s not always going to be horrible.

@CaliTeacher1 Год назад

That’s my daughter 🥰

@AddaMeirelles Год назад

All the reasons they said arguing that lesbians are more privileged than gay men were signs of misogyny. It's not a "privilege" to be "accepted" only when you're sexualized.

@augustwinston6119 10 месяцев назад

This is the best statement I've read so far. The internalized misogyny are reinforced in these comments.

@ohuntermc9321 6 месяцев назад

@@augustwinston6119I wouldn’t mind fetishisation over violence though.

@ohuntermc9321 6 месяцев назад

What’s fetishisation got to do with misogyny? Do you need to use that term for everything?

@deansbian5607 5 месяцев назад

@@ohuntermc9321yes it is misogyny? women are viewed as objects and so lesbians are even more sexualised by men

@brittanyr140 Год назад

I was hoping to see someone on that last question disagree because their sexuality didn’t damage the relationship; the other person’s inability to love them for who they are is what damaged it.

@leaink9981 Год назад

!!!

@Socialling Год назад

Isnt that basically what KJ said/represents ?

@LeonidasIV Год назад

Damaged as an adjective, not a verb.

@mushroomsalttea Год назад

If you're attracted to men, you're not a lesbian. I can get people who have had experiences with men in the past or thought they had attraction to men and didn't and don't feel attracted to men anymore, but anyone who is attracted to men is not a lesbian. The lesbian label is characterized by a lack of attraction to men. It's incredibly misogynistic and lesbophobic that people keep trying to redefine the only sexuality that doesn't include men to include them. It's gross.

@Mel-wn9gb Год назад

I could not agree more. So offensive.

@gracep2910 Год назад

Yup. Jubilee is insulting.

@qi6ko Год назад

yeah fr there's only one label for non-men who are not attracted to men but plenty of other labels you could use if you like men (bi, pan, sapphic, etc) why can't lesbians have one thing :(

@finlandbaII Год назад

@@qi6koI thought sapphic means lesbian?

@xfsowh Год назад

Also if you're male you're not a lesbian but jubilee had to include a token trans

@kassadinabuser1055 Год назад

Believe me, I'm coming from a place of love and I don't want to offend anyone. But isn't it a bit unfair to lesbians (and gay men) to put a Bisexual in videos like this? And trans for that matter, I always respected Trans but we have such different experiences, mostly regarding to sex and attraction as SEX plays a major role in monosexualities (Homosexual/Heterosexual)

@m-ol5bh Год назад

how does a trans women attracted to women experience attraction differently to a cis woman?? i don't understand

@deanne9900 Год назад

@@m-ol5bh because transwomen are male so their attraction to women is straight (opposite-sex attraction) not lesbian (same-sex attraction) to be a lesbian you have to be a female attracted to females and transwomen are not female

@idkbruh692 8 месяцев назад

@@m-ol5bhbecause she had different experiences than an actual cisgender woman. Her and the bisexual chick shouldn't be in this video. It's called lesbian for a reason.

@deansbian5607 5 месяцев назад

I disagree. I think having a trans lesbian in this offers a unique diversity of opinion that she even acknowledged in the video! As for the bisexual women yeah… I suppose it is her prerogative to identify as lesbian instead, she has her own personal reasons I suppose

@himalayansalt32 2 месяца назад

@@m-ol5bhbiological women are differently socialized

@TheDesaroo22 Год назад

The last question and answers had me especially emotional. I hope they all know it’s not them and their sexuality that has damaged their relationships, but rather the intolerance and hate on the other end of those relationships.

@colemanxcx Год назад

11:48 I wanna give this girl a hug! My dad is a bishop in the mormon church. I feel her emotions so strongly while she speaks about her family. In the church you are told family is the most important thing. When they find out this type of information they develop this disconnect with you. So much love for people who have to endure religious trauma♥️

@nwauntie64 10 месяцев назад

Being raised in a strict Catholic household, I was told many times I was going, "To burn in eternal hellfire." Not okay to hear that as a teenager. Religious and familial shame is the worst, takes many years to overcome (and a lot of $ for counseling).

@miatame-jb9gz Год назад

How you going to make a video of lesbians and don’t have people who are actually lesbian. That girl in the long blue shirt just said “ I’m still attracted to men”. While the others said they felt disconnected with men and felt something was off. Wouldn’t she be bi? With a preference with woman, cause she said she’s not fully on the Kinsey scale. Lesbian are NOT attracted to MEN

@jijitters Год назад

I agree with you. The complete lack of interest in men is a core experience of being a lesbian, almost more so than liking women is. That alienating feeling is what we all share. A woman who likes men is not a lesbian.

@miurtouissi1093 Год назад

And I don't understand why this is a debate. I don't see this with gay men. Its honestly weird, why is lesbianism viewed as restrictive

@leaink9981 Год назад

yeah seriously the whole point is to ONLY feel attraction to women. Men aren’t even part of the conversation. Feeling misrepresented once again.

@groovydeath Год назад

Not to mention there is a heterosexual male in this video.

@lisica1382 Год назад

@@groovydeath there isnt.

@Lyse4books Год назад

I agree with Jenny’s answer to the ‘gay men are more privileged than lesbians’ because living in a Mexican house hold my mom and I watch gay men relationships on TV and my mom never says anything bad or wrong about them. She even know a mlm relationship in real life! But when a lesbian couple is shown of TV she makes a bad comment about the lesbian couple. So before hearing Jenny’s experience, I never knew other Mexicans who are lesbians had similar experiences.

@420chuu Год назад

this is why acknowledging cultural differences and intersectionality is important!!

@jesusbarrera6916 Год назад

that just sounds like your mother is the problem... who is that in any way priviledge?

@ClarissaCloud Год назад

Lol in Italy they hate both, it's a very "Men pov" society , and idk how to describe It but for lesbians Is like "you are kind of acceptable but i don't belive you"

@missmaam2662 Год назад

black households too. Lesbians have been shamed by almost every older black women I’ve met, but gay men are celebrated.

@jigglypuff452 11 месяцев назад

@@missmaam2662 I think that’s like the reverse of lesbians being fetishized by men while discriminating gay men. Sometimes women will do the same thing where they fetishize gay men (look at boys love genre) but are uncomfortable around lesbians and a big reason is they might be attracted to them.

@korneliaklamann8743 Год назад

Bro why is girl who like men here?

@theimplications635 Год назад

literally lmao

@alovehotel 3 месяца назад

Idk… 😭

@Ukrainian-woman-of-your-dreams Год назад

I really like this RU-vid channel because the people of Jubilee come up with specific topics that many people are unaware or scared to discuss. In the future, I would like to see a debate between straight and gay women. But, if there is an existing video of that, then maybe: - a debate between college graduates and college/high school dropouts

@samharris6237 8 месяцев назад

this was so wholesome and i loved the mutual respect between everyone:)

@faithminer640 Год назад

As a lesbian.......was not impressed by the questions asked in this.......:/

@theimplications635 Год назад

same

@mark1h2023 Год назад

The last few moments of the video were very hard to watch. These guests are so brave for sharing their experiences! 👏

@CarlyBurks Год назад

Why is a non-Lesbian on the LESBIAN episode? Why would you let someone who is attracted to men, talk about the Lesbian experience? Jubilee, you should be ashamed.

@ecila26378 10 месяцев назад

why does jubilee invite a trans woman and then ask about scisorring...i was embarrassed for her...i know they wanna be inclusive but idk

@awaawa4809 8 месяцев назад

wait until you find out that trans women can and do scissor too.

@fernandamena9461 Год назад

Omg I love the podcast that Taryn has with Cammie Scott!! Glad to see she was a part of this video 🎉

@Rainbow_Warrior_Princess Год назад

Yes, but why was she there though when she isn't a lesbian / homosexual, but a bisexual: 6:38-6:47 ?!

@anaccfalima Год назад

how can someone who likes men be a lesbian?

@katrina8046 Год назад

Literally, why is that girl on a panel of all lesbians? She's not even a lesbian being attracted to men.

@therotconsumes Год назад

yeah i was wondering what she means by that

@kaileyking3439 Год назад

sexuality is seen as a spectrum or at least more complicated than just being one thing. someone can admit they have had or have the capabilities of being attracted to men and still be a lesbian because on the scale they fall way on the “lesbian” side. honestly it’s also about what label feels best and more comfortable for you

@ariana_208 Год назад

Yes, they can be This is why she mentioned the Kinsey scale. You can be anywhere on this scale Gay------Bi------Straight If you’re leaning much to one side you are that sexuality or bi if somewhere in between

@katrina8046 Год назад

@@kaileyking3439 That's literally not a lesbian.

@ECW5320 8 месяцев назад

From the outside looking in, I really enjoyed this. It made think about scenarios that have never crossed my mind and I wish all of them the best.❤

@jayme2330 7 месяцев назад

I adore how respectful they all were. All listened to everyone's stories with 0 hostility

@l.raquel7551 Год назад

no one ever will damage relationships becuase of their sexuality, if the relationship is ruined is because of the other side's hatred, always remember it will never be your fault

@makinley.s Год назад

The gay men question has so many levels. On one hand, they are generally more accepted into society as who they are. On the other hand, they face a lot of stereotypes and a bunch of other issues that lesbians generally don't (or at least not to the same extent). Its a really hard question, because all identities face their own challenges.

@Random-sk6hm Год назад

Gay men also face more animosity than lesbians because of the male gaze and perceived 'betrayals' of masculinity due to them being gay

@ccrans1216 Год назад

Exactly. They’re treated very differently. No, lesbians aren’t taken as seriously. It’s frustrating. We’re also fetishized by straight men, which is annoying, but can even be dangerous. Some men even feel threatened that women can enjoy sex without them involved. I would say on the other hand, when society lashes out at the community, gay men face more of that backlash. People who are against the community see gay men as a bigger “threat” so gay men are put under a microscope. The current societal backlash is targeting Trans people, particularly trans women, and gay men far more than it’s targeting lesbians.

@Imetwurld_ Год назад

@@ccrans1216 gay men ? Lol probably trans people . Most of the hate videos I've come across this days are about trans people seems even being gay is much more acceptable than being transgender.

@Imetwurld_ Год назад

I also feel gay men being accepted depends on the region . I will probably say in most part of Asia for example gay men are far more accepted Maybe because of the bl genre that straight women consume or love .

@himimedak656 Год назад

@@Imetwurld_that's not necessarily true since gay rights and gay marriage is only legally recognised in taiwan in all of asia, as an asian i know the homophobia is far worse here esp from the family since conservative families believe that the son carries on the family name and what not and filicide is a reality we have to face

@victoriagriffin6029 Год назад

I’d love to sit in a circle and talk with these women. They are very open & deep convos are my favorite

@Marutiputra 8 месяцев назад

What's a dude doing in there? kick him out.

@marinasantos1111 8 месяцев назад

its insane

@soul1842 6 месяцев назад

That's a trans woman and they're valid 😁

@Peter1999Videos 5 месяцев назад

@@soul1842 is a guy who like womens , calling himself a lesbian

@daenerystargaryen1440 Год назад

"I'm still attracted to men" why are you here then... You aren't a lesbian

@CaliTeacher1 Год назад

My gorgeous daughter is in this video! 🥰🥰😍😍 the one with the long black hair 🥰 so proud

@Prima679 Год назад

13:58 It’s wonderful to know that there are people who have supportive backgrounds. To imagine a world in which no one has supportive backgrounds sounds dreadful.

@silkisnothere Год назад

I have been looking forward to this episode! For the last question, I think your relationships can also get worse when you dont come out in my experience, since you hide so much of yourself from others and it can get pretty deceptive

@starbutterfly916 10 месяцев назад

9:14 the sister comment was crazyyyyy 💀💀

@daenerystargaryen1440 Год назад

If you are attracted to men aren't you bisexual?

@gl4081 Год назад

Who said they're attracted to men?

@AlzMarioWolfe Год назад

…What

@trixicenby999 Год назад

@@gl4081 She said I'm still attracted to men

@gl4081 Год назад

@@trixicenby999 Idk what to say to that since you said someone else said it

@gideonboateng6471 Год назад

I was confused by that as well.

@djojo6857 8 месяцев назад

the male added as a "lesbian " is just not it i get it ur trans u like girls do you bo but a lesbian is females with females this looks pushed and forced af

@DamselMinnieMandy 8 месяцев назад

lol, no? Theres a lot of trans lesbians, and cis lesbians that date trans girls.

@djojo6857 8 месяцев назад

@@DamselMinnieMandy nope homosexuality is all about what you have down there being the same ... I'm a lesbian I don't do pipi i do vivi that's how we are enough Messing around with reality it's not cute it's cringe 🥴🤚

@DamselMinnieMandy 8 месяцев назад

@@djojo6857 its okay not to like penises, i don't either (i'm bi tho), however it's only genitalis, it's not important for everyone, especially since they really change on HRT and some people get surgeries to further change them, and also, outer genitalia can really vary, through the whole quigley's scale. If you dont like penises that's okay, but there are lesbians that either dont mind them, are asexual, or have no genital preference, and they are also valid lesbians.

@djojo6857 8 месяцев назад

@@DamselMinnieMandy hrt will never make u male or female you will pass maybe but not change biology sorry different opinions here i care more about reality so agree to disagree

@Pr0d3gi 8 месяцев назад

LOL they would never add a ftm for the gays

@lauren8321 Год назад

I love every single one of them sm I feel like we’re besties awh

@cbryce9243 Год назад

The family you always wanted. 💕 💕

@ohshanana2397 Год назад

I’ve never fallen for a straight friend. I usually never befriend someone who I could see as a partner. The only time I did was when I befriended a past crush. After becoming friends,the feelings went away.

@devonmunn5728 Год назад

It would depend on the person. For me even if I am attracted to someone but I can't be with them I would rather have them as a friend then not in my life at all

@bartell20j Год назад

Such a weird thing most people do, not wanting to be friends with anyone they are interested in. Seems like toxic behavior that just about everyone has.

@pumpkinwarrior7138 Год назад

Getting to know someone just makes me like someone so much more It used to be more of a stranger thing but now I’ve failed for most of my close friends! None of em have been straight though (even if I thought one was but I was also like 11)

@melaninkind8783 Год назад

@@bartell20j I absolutely agree with you

@birthdaycake32 10 месяцев назад

>invites troon >asks question about scissoring

@i-love-anime-idols 9 месяцев назад

troon 🤣 4chan speak

@therandomactivist1124 Год назад

I think it's safe to say we all have it hard, that question asking who was more privileged shouldn't have been asked imo

@carolinaalves239 Год назад

It was beautiful seeing most of these girlies talking about growing up with a queer friend group. I grew up (and still am) basically only surrounded by straight people and that’s hard. Being the only lesbian woman in a all group is complicated because it’s genuinely complicated to relate to straight people because your all life is a POLITICAL ACT and most of us have to literally learn to love and be okay with ourselves. This video was amazing, yes for wlw representation. LET’S GO LESBIANS, LET’S GO.

@iarias7028 Год назад

i love jenny’s hair and makeup so much, she looks absolutely ethereal. jenny if u see this pls drop the skincare and makeup routine

@mysteryglor4149 Год назад

She’s a makeup artist ❤

@Caitlin12221 Год назад

I love Taryn but does she even consider herself to be a lesbian? She’s always said she’s attracted to men as well, even in this video. It’s kind of weird that she’s in this video.

@Rainbow_Warrior_Princess Год назад

Yes, she says herself that she doesn't identify as a lesbian and that she is still sexually attracted to men and wishes to have had sex with them, so as a bisexual she should not have been in this video of homosexual girls / women, although I like her.

@elini9218 Год назад

Next you should do all bisexuals think the same

@dilfrat3727 Год назад

omg yes!!

@arnaudpierre3984 Год назад

Bisexual women or bisexual men? Or both at the same time that would be intersting

@TryingtoTellYou Год назад

You mean do all bisexuals think anyone actually believes them? Now that be a funny title lol

@squirrel9760 Год назад

@@TryingtoTellYou lmao I keep seeing ur comments I think you are bisexual and I’m the closer how could you care this much

@TryingtoTellYou Год назад

@@squirrel9760 This might come as a shock to you but the average person doesn't appreciate being lied to.

@oopskye Год назад

loved the ep but why was it so short 🤨 there were sm more questions that could’ve been asked I feel like everything was v surface level

@xmhcix5310 Год назад

maxine is so beautiful and i love her outfit!!

@SAR4UH Год назад

On the girl with the skirt about everyone has diff angles and it takes practice I was like yes facts af omg I never felt so seen

@kotasinterlude Год назад

these women were so sweet, such a great group. I loved this

@dmitrydmitry8133 Год назад

so the person in a violet dess is also a woman?

@kotasinterlude Год назад

@@dmitrydmitry8133 Is this a real question? If so, yes. Lesbians are women

@deansbian5607 5 месяцев назад

@@dmitrydmitry8133yes :)

@xSADRIC 10 месяцев назад

This was an amazing episode. They were all so careful and Boing and accepting of each other

@RinaIsForever Год назад

My family didn’t talk to me for months just cause I like females 🤷🏽‍♀️they’re still homophobic (especially my mom) but they’re somewhat over it and when I told my mom I had a girlfriend she was like “well okay…” it was like she wasn’t happy or mad 🤷🏽‍♀️ but idk what happened I just don’t find men attractive anymore like I once did I just look at them with blink expressions ever since I high school I started to look at things differently Ive should of known that anyway cause I kissed a guy and it felt like air didn’t feel anything 🤷🏽‍♀️ that’s how I knew I was not attracted to men and only women I’ve been with my girlfriend for 3 years and I’m so happy 🥰

@moonprevalus8313 Год назад

This is random but do you have any advice for dealing with homophobic parents?😭

@danieltongaww Год назад

I loved this one !!!!!!

@tystkanin9996 Год назад

I would argue that NONE of the women here have "damaged relationships with loved ones due to their sexuality"...It's their loved ones having a stance of conditional love (as opposed to unconditional) that damaged the relationships. None of these women actually did the damage; they are just being true to themselves and that is commendable.

@DEUK4ELUVS Год назад

this was such an interesting and polite discussion !! i really enjoyed it :D

@gabby9025 Месяц назад

The person in the beige overalls, with the striped shirt, and short brown hair. You’re so hilarious and genuine, I love all your responses.

@JustKababy Год назад

Been been waiting for this one😭💯🥰❤️

@megancurtis9502 Год назад

One thing with gay men vs lesbians I do think women being more masculine is a lot more socially acceptable than men being more feminine. Obviously not all gay men are feminine and not all lesbians are masculine I’m just saying that is something that I’ve seen gay men be more oppressed and looked down for. That aside I agree with their other points. Points are valid but I also want to say we shouldn’t be having privilege Olympics in the community we should just try to support everyone where society won’t.

@littlefoxx333 Год назад

I agree with that because I have presented more butch lesbian and honestly a lot of men respect it.

@augustwinston6119 10 месяцев назад

@@littlefoxx333really? I've had the opposite. Women are afraid to be near me and men are disgusted.

@butter-biscuit2248 Год назад

I’m really blessed to have friends that are either queer or very accepting. A lot of my school is also queer and a majority of the rest don’t care. Ofc there’s a few people but they’re the minority. Unfortunately not being cis doesn’t have the same reaction, just because it’s walking on a slack line where you might be outed by someone using their real name/pronouns and not their dead name and pronouns. Hopefully it’ll become safer and teachers will also become more accepting

@meganrivera7579 Год назад

"if you don't love me 100%... don't love me at all" THIS! i hope everyone can have this mentality. it's not an easy mentality to have, but it's very healthy.

@PROVOCATEURSK Год назад

You can´t control feelings. Do parents teach their children nothing?

@brucenatelee Год назад

"Scissoring is a real thing" is a really weird question. Like "No, there's magical parriers keeping vaginas from touching vaginas." Is it asking that lesbians like scissoring or something? I mean, saying something you can choose to do exists doesn't mean that you do it yourself anyway.

@celineb20 Год назад

This was such a comforting video. Everyone seemed so genuine and nice 😊

@TheTarynArnold Год назад

❤❤

@spooky0432 Год назад

@@TheTarynArnold wait I feel like I've seen you somewhere?? I thought you were like some famous lesbian youtuber...

@No-ou1fz Год назад

@@spooky0432 she's w cammie scott i think

@Amelia-V Год назад

Yeah, a bi woman calling herself a lesbian is very comforting and not homophobic at all 🥰😍🖤

@justicefisher-fulmore5645 Год назад

the nicest conduct and important conversation between a group of queer women i love to see it

@hadleyburningham Год назад

Probably favorite on the spectrum episode- just such wholesome answers from each person Totally cried ❤️Would love to see a longer episode

@lovingcix9273 Год назад

0:55 i did this ALL the time and the way she explains it makes so much sense now..

@somewherefar1286 8 месяцев назад

>Video about lesbians >Invites a bisexual woman >Invites a literal troon Define homosexual challenge

@OurLove4Dance 7 месяцев назад

lmaoo truth!!

@melonenjoyer Год назад

Although I have a feeling my parents are accepting of me, I just have this gut feeling of not being accept by others, and it really does suck, I only told a few of my friends about my identity and well some still tend to misgender me, and I had this guy in my class that would try mocking my pronouns infront of me, and me clearly being so uncomfortable (never put your pronouns on your bio :/) and this other time, someone asked me out loud if I was a they/them. It was embarrassing to say the least.