So absolutely true - been there myself. I focus on ketsugi - the Japanese art of mending broken things &making them even more beautiful by using gold paint on the cracks - i apply this to my marriage & our relationship. I would like to see the full version of this podcast.
These are good words and true but it’s easier said than done when you’ve been cheated on so badly. And you are the cheater in your relationship so seems not right hearing it from you.