Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really loved him so much I can’t stop thinking about him, I’ve tried my very best to get him back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of him, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss him and just can’t stop thinking about him
its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my relationship of 12 years ended, but i couldnt just let him go i did all i could to get him back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring him back.
It is very disturbing how screwed up people are today...Maybe it because so many people are in permanent relationships with their cell phones and have idea how to relate to people..🤔
The only way a woman is not attached to outcome is when she doesn’t care, in that case it is best if the relationship doesn’t start. Completely unreasonable advice.
When he says "Be unattached from the outcome" I don't think he means to "not care for anyone". I think he means you should do what you are doing for YOURSELF, and not with a goal in mind of manipulating a man. For example, say your man has been staying gone from home a lot more lately, and you rarely see him anymore. So you tell him, "May I share something with you? I feel scared, because things have been so distant between us, we barely see each other. It feels like we are drifting further and further apart. That makes me sad, and I don't know what to do." Obviously, you are expressing that you DO care for him. But you are not doing it in a manipulative/controlling way, or to FORCE him to do what you want. You are not threatening him, or giving him an ultimatum. You are simply placing your feelings on the table in front of him, and then stepping back to observe how he is going to respond. Or what actions he will take, moving forward. If he decides he wants to fix things with you, and come closer together-- great! He is a high value man, who truly cares about you. If he decides, "So what if we are drifting apart? I couldn't care less. I was getting bored with you anyway!" Or his behavior reflects this-- then he is a bad egg, and you need to walk away.
#1: Use magnetic feminine polarity and magnetic feminine communication to reveal your full authentic self to him: how are you communicating your emotions, #2: Meet his deepest needs for trust and respect: let him know that you trust and respect him, let him lead, share your heart openly #3: if he does not invest in you then he cannot value you: ask him for help, being open and vulnerable where you do need help, ask for advice or help with an issue you're having #4: He will not come back to you because you want him to, only because he's inspired to. Be detached from the outcome, signal your needs to him in a feminine way, stop trying to get him to do anything, avoid old behaviors: reminding him, guiding him, giving to him, trying to help and provide for him in some way, instead ask permission #5: Men and women are fundamentally different: change ourselves with the law of polarity
I agree, men are supposed to be the providers. But it can be a scary risk to be under a man's leadership... For example, say a woman is a stay-home wife, letting her man be the provider-- and she is seeing a pattern of toxic/narcissistic behavior in him, or even abuse-- how does she leave/walk away, when she has no money of her own, and no other provider? I'm not married, and right now, I do work to survive. But if I were a stay-home wife, and I got stuck in that situation, it would be hard to get out. I don't have any family I can turn to. My parents are dead.
Usually there are signs ahead of time if a man is a good, trustworthy and respectable leader who is caring for your heart or not and if he isn't then you have to be willing to detach from that situation or the relationship entirely if he isn't showing care for your heart consistently
Thats not true. My husband did a silent divorce and i was stressed from work and didn't show him what he needed and he was cheating on me and coming home playing husband. Now we are going through marriage counseling but he keeps saying things like " If this works" he is confused.@MagnetizeYourMan
I have been there in some way with my ex. We have a son, but I started working from home ten years ago when my son was 2. Never let a man control you. No matter how good he seems to be, there are a lot of men that will only treat you nicely when you give them what they want, and when you don't they could make you go through hell. My best advice is for the woman to try to have independence. And If you don't have family it's ok. There can always be a friend or someone out there to help you. But you need to be strong on your own, because people come and go.
Part of this makes me want to puke because really it is just a lesson to be submissive to win a mans love. But the truth is, that for a certain kind of man, mainly an avoidant, this IS the only way to win him. You just have to sell your soul and lose yourself to do it.
Agreed it makes me want to just be single forever. Always advice for women to be submissive and feminine but what if we are more masculine. Does that mean we should just be alone? I’m saying even from a small child I was always top of the class high achiever leader etc. it’s not like I learned it from feminism it’s how I was born.
This is very insightful. It's hard to believe this is how a man thinks. I recently had a man refer to my heart and I was shocked and it was also endearing. i've never heard it put this way. ever. So if i replace the word heart with feelings I think this can make sense to me. Im finding this information resonate with a current situation. i'm always in my masculine so this is going to be interesting. But i find that naturally i'm not in my masculine around him. So maybe you just need an ultra alfa to feel ultra feminine. I actually feel and dare I say it, "submissive" in his presence. Earlier men were not this alfa...more damaged types. so this is new for me.
All of this is so messed up. How about we just respect each other's needs and boundaries. And how about we respect when a woman is more intelligent and capable and just listen to her?
No you need to set a boundary with yourself then and walk away from the conversation/situation or entire relationship (if it continues over time even when you're using what we teach you)
