Whats helping me is I’m done living in denial making excuses for for these men’s actions. It’s simple if he wanted to he would . If he valued me he wouldn’t put himself in the position to lose me. Lol I’m done giving men the benefit of the doubt because they know
Bottoms line is he has to actually be open to wanting a relationship! If he isn't open, ready and willing don't beat yourself up overanalyzing yourself. He can like you and just not be ready. Accept that and focus on yourself, move on and don't expect him to come back.
I got my help from someone, he was the only one who was able to help me bring back my ex husband back to me and he save and solve my relationship problem❤❤❤
I’m livin number three right now and absolutely, he knew early on and he’s makin it happen . It’s the sweetest feeling to allow the 6 dates to unfold and let myself be pursued . I’d recommend it . Oh btw, his name is Elliott! ⭐️
@@knowlove4128 You meet someone, they are nice but you don't want to pursue anything because you don't get that special feeling. If chemistry was that easy you would date anyone of the opposite sex.
I love you, I’m glad i found you years ago and have learned that there are no exceptions to your rules. I tell all my ladies, “My boi Elliot told me that a man will never put himself in a position to lose you if he is serious.” FWB, casual dating, talking or platonic friends are all positions to lose you. Fuck ‘em and forget about ‘em!
Right all this advice n whatever doesn’t work. Not to toot my horn but I’m attractive, I take care of myself, I have a life and love life. Im very humble -and all they want is sex. Whether or NOT u give it to them they leave.
I think it depends on the type of relationship. It took me a while before i was like committed to my girl. 6 months before i called her my gf but i talked to her every day and saw her all the time. Only her. Halfway into the relationship i realized i loved her her like.... Marriage love. Before that it was love but i wanted to live with her and like.... Life changing love
My person was extremely excited to date me and he wanted a forever relationship ASAP... then backed off completely and doesn’t want to meet up with me but texts me every morning and is obsessive about what I’m up to. Lol?? It’s like a never ending day after the breakup. 😂 Just sharing- it used to bother me, but now I just find his indecision to be kind of funny.
I'm in the 3rd category with him and I know it. It's just that I'm not quite ready for that level of relationship right now. We're happy to take things very slowly and let it flow naturally.
When you start seeing relationships as an asset or liability, it's easier to make a decision. What does that person bring to the table? What do they give? What do they take?
Funny you say that. Me and you must be in the same boat. I have seen you on other relationship videos for years Lol. I remember your picture lol. I say that to say I feel the same way. I'm starting to not even feel upset or angry, just done with men (as far as relationships are concerned) in general unless I meet someone highly unusual (which probably won't happen, not looking for it either). I'm moving on with life. Throwing in the towel **swish** lol Ive been out of the market for a while, these videos remind me why I quit in the first place
Interesting video. Went on a great first date with a guy went for a nice meal - he insisted in paying etc (lasted over 5 hours) Good balance of conversation, sharing life experiences, laughter and a little flirting..reciprocal small compliments exchanged and a bit of sexual tension. Second date arranged before the end of the date. Gave me a ride home, small peck on the cheek. Texted and spoke a few times after the date - great energy and vibe. He had a family crisis and was quite stressed, but kept in touch and said we could meet up again on his return to town. However, he went silent and didn’t return my call, or respond to my text. I don’t chase guys, so left it right there! Seems he ghosted me. He was recently single and I informed him I was looking for a r’ship before our date. He said he wanted a r’ship, but nothing heavy straight away, so I agreed to the date. I wonder what ‘category’ he put me in🧐 Any thoughts? I didn’t see it coming, seemed like a masculine, straight up kinda guy.
He TOLD YOU, according to YOU…”Nothing heavy” in the beginning. You’re friends with benefits. He literally straight up told you, re read what you wrote ❤️
good video elliot! last year in may 2019 I started to date a guy who was 30 years old and only had two „girlfriends“, both about only 4, 5 month each. He told me (i was 29) that he dont like to „label things“.. also not with his exes. On my side I had two serious relationships (2 and 5 years) so far, so I wasn‘t sure! But because I just came out of my 5 years relationsship, I took it day by day. He made it clear though on our second date, that he doesn‘t date others and didnt want me to date others. so I needed this to hear, otherwise I would been gone. Sooooooo fast forward to NOW, 1.5 years later and we are in a happy relationsship and he calls me his girlfriend, we talk about marriage and family and that he never felt like this before. we took it slow at the beginning and with no pressure at all. I am so happy we found eachother! (I am sorry for my englisch, I am from switzerland🇨🇭)
He hasn't proposed ? He is probably seeing other girls at the same time. Hope you got your plan B ready. A man knows after three months of he wants to marry you. Dont move in with him. He is waisting your time.
@@munix9351 thanks for your answer. but I don‘t understand. so you mean a man has to propose after 3 month or I should dump him? I personally would never say yes after only 3 month of dating. I need at least one to two years to be sure. because I wanna know him very well.
My husband knew from date 1 he wanted me but he had to tread slowly not to scareME off! He had to restrain himself with me. That’s what it should look like . Also he was newly single. We got married and were happy .
In the year and a half that I've been single, I haven't met any guy who saw me as relationship material even though I'm a high value woman and don't hook up with guys until there is a commitment :/
I gave him the ultimatum so I wasn't the his cake and eat it too girl, plus he didn't get the benefits, so that probably made him also not want to commit even more
Ladies..can still get it wrong by dating waaay long....is it reciprocal? Is he taking you for granted? What's to his advantage? 'If you hear hooves, look for horses not zebras'....
Dude looks like you're on medication. I've been watching you for awhile now and your demeanor has changed I hope you're all good my friend and I hope that your youtube channel still beings you happiness if it doesn't switch it up and do something that brings you happiness xx
You are the most funny man who teach woman 2 be good 2 themself! No ladies these man are not jurks we let them be jurks ... thats the scary thing bout people! When we get 2 much power we become nasty from time the time!
I got my help from someone, he was the only one who was able to help me bring back my ex husband back to me and he save and solve my relationship problem
Use actions never words. Start being distant and hang out with your female friends. Space is the ingredient that gets a man to wake up. Never words. They will always use your words against you. Always!!! Step up your looks and stay busy. Stoo replying him so quickly and he will chase you again.
I got my help from someone, he was the only one who was able to help me bring back my ex husband back to me and he save and solve my relationship problem❤❤❤
Mine, we have the issue of we were first love college sweeties. Lived together and were engaged. 24 years later we're back in touch, but why would I assume I'm still what he'd want? But then also, why is he reaching out every day and getting jealous?
I got my help from someone, he was the only one who was able to help me bring back my ex husband back to me and he save and solve my relationship problem❤❤❤
Everything you do will be analysed and questioned. You will feel your walking on egg shells unless he has done work on himself to heal before even considering another relationship. Whatever you do don't let his insecurities impact on your own mental health. Men are great at messing you up emotionally because someone hurt them, when we have to pick ourselves up and dust ourselves off constantly due to so male egos.
Leave him. If you stay. He will have no respect for you. I.e he is trying to manipulate you. He should have never told you that. He will now use that empath confession as a pass.
What if I am hanging out with my ex who has once placed me in the wife category but it didn't work out but we're still hanging out? And no, we never ever had sex nor is he trying. How has he categorized me?
@@ElliotScottDating I ended it because I had a hard time dealing with his bipolar. It caused a hinder. But he told me that he still loves hanging out with me, and no, sex is not even in the picture.
What if he tells you he deleted his apps after date 4 and asks you to do the same - takes me off the market, progresses appropriately - then 1 date later completely disappears?? Last convo was him saying we need to make plans to meet soon. Then nothing... No response to my texts (over 1.5 weeks I only sent 3) and made 1 phone call with no call back....(talking for 2.5.months)
Ehh. If it's a cycle that means you we're a starter. Could have a g/f or fiancé or you said did something within that time period he doesn't like. But like what they asked, did you have relations, that'll wrap everything up quickly. When he comes back with the most bogus excuse, do not whine, do not explain do not join the roster🙅🏾♀️ **blocked.
I got my help from someone, he was the only one who was able to help me bring back my ex husband back to me and he save and solve my relationship problem❤❤❤
I got my help from someone, he was the only one who was able to help me bring back my ex husband back to me and he save and solve my relationship problem
I got my help from someone, he was the only one who was able to help me bring back my ex husband back to me and he save and solve my relationship problem❤❤❤
Don't delete shat. Keep dating others ( keep your legs closed). when he brings up being committed, say to him "sounds exciting what are the benefits for me if you put all your attention on him" let him be clear. Shut up and listen to what he says. Xx
It happens to me, i though we had plan to meet up in person. And talk about the future. Until i caught him still using dating apps. I Confronted him About it to get a clarify. Until he reveal the truth he still wants to look for others. And said if we meet someone else we need to accept.oh my… he just wanted to string me along. Now he just wanted to befriends. Im done.. atleast i found ealier.
I got my help from someone, he was the only one who was able to help me bring back my ex husband back to me and he save and solve my relationship problem
I got my help from someone, he was the only one who was able to help me bring back my ex husband back to me and he save and solve my relationship problem❤❤❤
Black White cinematography 4th July cool; mb wont please everybody. warmer do clips inside🥶 😁 btw kren means cool in Indonesian...kinda confuses the meme....
I honestly do not think there are right words to choose. First I dont think anything is wrong with a talk, and I'm putting alot of emphasis on a talk because just one should suffice. You won't scare the right guy off, I think women look to have a certain approach or words, i really don't believe it changes the outcome. Nothing wrong with a nudge, to say whats on your mind. But men go for what they want, just in general i believe. 1st he will take getting to know you seriously. I look at it as each level builds off of the other. You swipe each other, you have some conversations text and phone, you pique his interest enough he wants a date, look pretty be feminine. Then he sees more interests a second date. I promise it's not a man in this world if he is serious about dating and getting to know you, he will want to keep seeing you, dating you. If he is anywhere in between playing games wishy washy. Inconsistent he is not the one.
I went to listen to another one of your videos and the profanity was so bad I had to turn it off. You can make your point(s) much more effective without such vulgarity. Will not tune into you again.
