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They exist my dear - the fastest way to find one is consider people. Everyone that comes your way. As long as it is safe to do so and they are reasonably your type or possibly. Try and you'll see God has someone for you. Make sure you refresh yourself when you speak to any new possible person! Don't let bad experiences get in your way.
Girl take that L and then move on, it's good to know he doesn't like you, I mean shit it wud be 100 times better if he did, but atleast now u can move on w UR time and energy
My man calls me “lady” “miss lady” and “little lady” a lot which I definitely haven’t been called before. After meeting his family, I realized his step dad (who raised him) often calls his mom “lady” 😭 it’s so precious honestly that he’s where he got that from
Well he called me mi amor, texted me a lot, took me on expensive date all the time and still ghosted me after a month.. staying single forever because men are just hard to figure out.. confusing as hell lol.
How about let me know and ask me out directly? Most guys who give these hints end up friend zoned as the nice guy. Women like men who know what they want and go after it.
Yeah, but it's also important to have a guy who feels you out emotionally before just thinking about his own needs first. "I like her, so I ask her out now"... and then what happens if the girl isn't sure? She rejects him and he loses confidence and doesn't try again. Plus not everything needs to be an impulsive decision. I personally love a patient guy. I guess to each their own !
Nerves 😬Guys don't take as many risks as they probably should when it comes to women they like. They're hoping to recognize more signs of interest from you first before they take the plunge, unfortunately, in many cases 🧐
They do very much so because the idea of getting the girl of your dreams is extremely intimidating. It's referred to as positive anxiety, the opposite of how we normally regard anxiety in the negative sense 👍🏼
1. He's pushing to hang out with only you 2. He has a unique nickname for you 3. He carefully curates communication 4. He's more interested in your schedule 5. He invades your personal space 6. He'll test the relationship waters 7. He plans out your get-togethers 8. He attempts more physical contact 9. He feels out any jelousy 10. He future flashes with you Welcome!
My crush is too respectful and shy to even try and flirt with me or physically touch me it was even hard for me to notice he liked me back until he told me days ago
Sign #1- you won’t be wondering if he does Seriously, if you’re above the age of 20 and known him longer than a month it will become obvious, even the shy guys will want to take you off the market so no other man can have the opportunity! That’s how you know!
Yah but what if you’re in a relationship and you wanna make sure he’s not getting the wrong picture, like I don’t want him to like me so I gotta know if I gotta be more obvious that I’m not into him yk
I am not a dating expert but out of experience I can give some advice. If a guy immediatly talks about sex like on the first talk/date it’s a no. Wait 30 days or more to give the cookie. If they don’t seem that interested in your life and getting to know you on a deep emotional level then run. Don’t fall in love to soon so you can stay more alert on red flags. He will consistently text you to meet up and go through with it. He will initiate a lot of convo’s. He will not be to vague about your meet up but he will be like I see you at that day that hour and that place. He will not disappear on you. He will be talking about a relationship and really working towards it (not just talking and not doing anything about it) like I said getting to know all of you the deepest emotions and thoughts. The right ones will give you compliments but don’t overload you with it. They just are emotionally stable. Ask about their ex that reaction tells a lot. Some people call all their exes like bat crazy and they might be but it’s all about the way you say something like that. If they blame everything on other people. How he treats his mom and strangers is also important. I guess I have lots more but I will stop here. 😂
Angela Pham I don’t actually know like how to explain this but I just know that if he’s a good guy I fall more slowly than when he’s a bad boy. Like when he is not into a relationship I will fall hard and quick which is bad but when someone is into a relationship the loving him develops more over time gradually. For me it was easy that my now bf was serious bc he was a virgin for a while and he waited for someone he loved and who loved him back to give it to. He gave it to me so I knew he was serious. Also with corona I met his parents pretty early on and he met my family also on the second date or so. That is def an exception bc if it wasn’t for corona we would not have seen each others family so soon but I kinda liked it. When they are just open and honest about everything in their lives you just know that they tell you a lot, then you know. Some people who just want the cookie will give subtle hints that they don’t want a relationship like saying that they have a hard time commiting to someone or that they just want to enjoy and have fun. I mean you can enjoy and have fun in a relationship too but those people mostly mean like I just want the cookie nothing more. If they text you only late at night and invite you to their house way to soon that is also suspicious. Not in corona time bc I saw his house the first date lol but I knew he didn’t want the cookie right away bc we discussed that so it wasn’t weird.
This guy I used to hang out with, was almost everything on the list, even called me,”Chief” Because I’m Native American. In the end, he still said he likes me as a friend and started dated someone younger than me 🙃
6:40 LOL that’s so cute hahaha!! The way you said “auditioning to be your boyfriend”… that was well thought-out. I realize my crush puts a lot of thought into the time we spend together and last night, he planned our outing a week in advance and listed exact activities and the schedule we were gonna have. He’s been planning and initiating hangouts with me for some time now actually - it just used to be me initiating for the first few weeks, but then he really began to reciprocate and now he always texts me first. I’m so happy lol. It really is adorable though. I have never had a friend like this before who remembers so much about me, who puts so much thought into each day we spend time together, who seeks out my company so much, who invades my personal bubble so much and unnecessarily… Like, none of my friends (even ones i have had for years) want to see me every day. None of them really care to remember my schedule. When we hang out, it’s casual and usually not really planned. I never sit super close to my friends or hug them. My crush doesn’t hug people either, but he said he could hug me if I wanted it. Gahhh! None of my male friends actually touch me ever, but my crush touches me gently and every now and then, and respectfully. He also welcomes my touch. I often touch him without realizing it, since he’s so comfortable with it. I just now realized that yesterday I grabbed his arm and gently tugged him in the store when we were shopping. But I totally didn’t think about it when I did that! Lol, My crush seems to have done all these things!! I know he and I get along well, and he shows all the signs of liking me but I cannot help but be doubtful. I am a senior and he is a sophomore; we are in college. I’m graduating soon so maybe he’s spending a lot of time with me because I’m gonna be gone!? But he’s told me he also enjoys my company and doesn’t find me burdensome at all, even though I have expressed these worries. He thinks often that he’s a burden to me, but I assure him he’s not. He tells me that time with me is always fun. I really like him. He is so sweet. I want to compliment him more. Maybe I can be more direct because guys tend to be oblivious and he might be even more clueless than a normal dude, so I can cross that line more. I feel so happy when he calls me by his special name. “My favorite senior”. Gosh, it’s really fun haha. I wanna say he’s my favorite sophomore actually. I rely on him and he relies on me. We’re in the same department (chemistry). He’s such a smart man and is super humble about it. He respects me a lot and thinks super duper highly of me - he probably thinks even more highly of me than I know. He’s so talented and charming. I don’t actually think about his physical attributes that much but I love everything about him. I don’t need him to change. I accept it all. If I were to admire him physically, he’s tall, lean, and has nice hair. He doesn’t like his hair and his slimness but I love every part of him. I think he’s really handsome too, and I want to tell him without being too weird. I want to tell him that I miss him. When we come back from spring break, he has a “date” planned for us and he will cook for me. I’ll tell him then that I missed him. And I’ll tell him that when I’m with him, I feel really happy. I don’t think I want to go so direct as to say “you make me really happy”, not yet. But I’ll tell it all to him in about a month. Yesterday I think I flirted with him and teased him and touched him so much at dinner that some acquaintance thought we were dating and asked how we met. Oops. I couldn’t control the sass coming out of my mouth, lol. Gosh, I spent 9 hours straight with him yesterday. I’m just happy I’m not the only one who wants to spend time together, but he seems to always want to see me. He has been texting me every day to see me. I really want to be a bigger part of his life. I’ll do my best to express my feelings carefully. I am just scared of losing him as a friend. I hope he likes me too.
I'm INTJ and my Ni dom is too strong, I pick up the patterns greatly. What pisses me off tho is when they don't tell it to me directly. Like stop with the hints. Even if I get what they're telling me, I probe them into being direct bc that's how adults communicate. I won't be a mindreader forever.
He call me ugly, then proceeded with ugly but cute... when i called him out on that he told me “its a nick name” 🙃🙃🙃🙃🙃 don’t know what to think about this hahaha
No coworkers? It's all I've ever dated! I work in a very male-dominated industry and am currently wondering about one guy in particular. But the dynamic is odder when it's work and no one wants to "get in trouble" AND they're shy. Frustrating. -He hangs around waaay more than anyone. -He immediately answers my texts even on weeknights/weekends/Friday nights -He calls me "Eeyore" which I think of as endearing -He notices new clothes and compliments me -He's not afraid of my more sullen moods But I still am not sure!!!!
Oh Ryan... I've just found your channel from trawling through you tube about how to play it with this guy I'm seeing who's currently going through the cold stage with me... Super hot and heavy at the beginning throwing all of his feelings at me, and now the distant (still there) stage... Well, you've saved me from myself!!! I could well have been that girl who panics and goes all needy and constantly msgs... But no I didn't do it! I'm letting him have his space, do his own thing, and living MY life! I just wanted to say thank you! I love your videos (I've binged about 8 already) and whenever I feel like I'm going to pick up my phone and msg him a moody msg... I've just watched one of your videos and I feel strong again 👊👊 He can come to me!!!
@@datingcoachryanpatrick Romanian guys don't ask questions. For them, their perceptions ''are right'', they're almighty and know everything, they can control your life and just because they know things about you, you MUST fall into their d1cks!
can you make a video about how to tell if your coworker sees you as more than just a work friend and if you should read into those really flirty things they do or just assume it’s because you work together
Sneaky ways don't work for me cause I need a guy that's direct. I can't understand the complicated mind games😒😒😒😔😔😔 I just don't have the capacity for that.
My god! Sorry for late comment i was kinda busy. I can't say anything really, this is a good one. ❤️😍 Please do shout out me for your next video Ryan! Really like your videos a lot. Im looking forward to it 🤗🤗🤗
Hi! I just stumbled across your channel thanks to a friend and I’m having a really hard time and could use advice. There are two questions I have but the first one is: I live in Japan and am American and Japanese men are incredibly shy. Now my friends have told me to date men that have travelled abroad so they will be more open minded and that’s great. I’ve started taking your advice about letting them initiate but like I said Japanese men sometimes feel like I need to initiate because they are generally more shy, respectful and polite. Also because of the work culture (they work loooooong hours and a lot) I never can tell if I need to be the one making the initiation. Should I still be following this let him initiate?
@@datingcoachryanpatrick he used to call me that in the earlier yrs of our relationship we were together for almost 14yrs he was also 10yrs older than me so i guess kiddo fit beings i was 20 & he was 30! BTW I love watching your videos not only is it good advice but its very entertaining as well!
What do yall think about dating a classmate in college? I've been really good friends whit this guy for 2 years and most of that time I was dating my now ex bf. I've since started noticing how much this friend cares about me and tries to comfort me in hard times ect. and I like him a lot... I won't do anything about it yet, because the breakup still hurts, but maybe in the future something will happen with this guy. Idk, is it ok to hope so?
Make sure you're healed up 100% first, because you wouldn't want this friend becoming a rebound relationship. Once you know you're healed, and you still feel the same way about him, go for it!! 🤘
Any time you can still do socially-distanced activities, jump on those opportunities even with the mask and all. Being outside keeps us stable and grounded and continuously meeting new people 😎
Spooky Spectre I offer to FaceTime or even call slot of guys nowadays just tell me they like to text and I don’t have time for that how are you going to have a relationship based on texting
Spooky Spectre yeah I still have hope, just wish there would be someone out there who wants to get to know me for me and actually have a normal conversation too. Thanks for the advice!
To me guys always came up from the other side - the direkt dating side. There never was a guy friend who wanted to hang out with me first and then maybe make a move on me. I think, it was the saddest realization of my life - that no man I've ever been with actually cared about ... me like in me as an individual. They were just in love with a delusional idea, who I would be. And they wanted to sort me in their life, like the missing puzzle piece I wasn't. As a woman of almost 40 years I put a halt on dating and started working on my personality first.
I have a guy "friend" that does make plans and has given me hugs-even walks me out to my car when I leave! However, his work schedule is insane and his iPhone died, so he has to use his landline to call me. Not that any of that is a problem, but during the week, by the time he gets home on week nights, he's exhausted and I don't hear from him till the weekend usually. He does want me to go with him to pick out a new phone, though! So, from your video, this sounds promising! Thank you again! I love what I'm learning!
Can you do a video on how to cope with a "break" / knowing if there's a possibility to get back together versus knowing when to move on? Would be so helpful!
Hey Mallory! I'd definitely check out my video "How To Get Over A Guy Who Broke Your Heart" here- --> ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-Fy1AjNZtfeA.html 🙏
He does every singe one of these every single day! I told him I liked him and he said he just wants to be friends. I told him last Tuesday that we can't see eachother until yesterday and when I saw him he was on cloud 9. He brought up at least 7 times how much he missed me and how the whole week he was so sad because he was alone and just wanted to text/call me. Our friendship has always been flirty and thats why I thought he liked me. So now the week is done Ive pulled back more and he's upset that there's a "divide" between us now. He keeps bring it up and I don't know what to do...
One guy I've been texting with since the beginning of quarantine is doing something that confuses me. We know each other for years (since 17, like, he already slept at my house and we are used to see each other every couple of years because of mutual friends) and things got a little flirty a few months back. He makes sure to initiate contact every week at least, but the quality of those texts are getting lower... If you aren't putting a real effort, why keep texting me at all? We never got physically intimate in any way, and now I'm not sure if we ever going to... Can you shed some light in this behavior? Thank you for those videos, you're funny as hell
I think you being able to recognize the quality of his communication going down is HUGE! That type of skill set and acknowledgement of what's actually happening with this guy will literally save you *years* of headaches dating the wrong guys. I think it's definitely a NEXT! on this fella 😉
I’ve had this online friend for almost 2 years now and we were always friendly with each other and he always teased me and we kinda were always sarcastic with each other, but recently he’s been more flirtatious and he’s been wanting to talk to me more and more. Of course we have never actually met each other irl, but the signs you listed other than having to be in physical contact, he all checked off for. The schedule one is the one that sticks out the most as before he usually was online and I was online so we would get on together, but now he initiates Trying to get me to play games with him and everything. I’m not sure if that makes sense, but this video helped!
Honestly, it's really hard to gauge in an LDR when the guy isn't around. LDRs are just *rough.* I want to help you all find men much closer to home if I can, just to be forthcoming with you 👍🏼
Everyone is you pushed out!! That puts everything in a new perspective --- it is YOU who is hot and cold, forward and introvert -- regarding your own reality, there is no other, they do not have free will
Ugh 😩 that #5 sign has given me so much hope , even though he’s given so many clues I still doubt it.. it turns out due to the lockdown we had not seen each other for almost 7 months 😞 I drove from far away to meet him work related and as soon as he saw me he said with a huge smile “yeyy you finally made it “ and hugged me 🤭😱 he had never done before I thought he didn’t want to handshake because of the virus 🤔 I’m way shorter than him so I think he thought he’d be safe 🥴
Hey! I have a friend who showed many of those signs and itˋs always something magical in the air when I am with him, but then he suddenly asked me if I would be interested to move in with him as friends, could it mean that he really was just friendly after all and not romantically interested?
Maybe. I'd say if you have any romantic interest in this guy, though, I would definitely *not* move in with him any time soon. That would smother this thing immediately...👌🏽
I m glad RU-vid algorythm made me discover you ! You make me laugh and smile till i'm listening your advices. Which I do not need cause I m already confident 😏 (Stéphanie from France)
Well.... I'm pretty sure he does ... 1. He talks to me literally everyday 2. He wants to video chat atleast once a day 3. He literally wants to hangout the whole day with me 4. He's always asking me about my day 5. We hug 6. I find him blushing sometimes 7. I find him getting awkward when I look at him too long or make eye contact The only thing is , today he didn't walk beside me . And I guess it doesn't mean anything bad ,now he knows I don't like that. But he explained that his mind was elsewhere ( he's still dealing with stuff from his past person he liked) And he does it to other ppl too lol . But that is a real thing and some ppl are just fast walkers and they get into ther minds and don't realize . That's the only thing that made me doubt it ...
Omg I think the guy I've been seeing for a month is subscribed to your channel... he does every one of these step by step omg thank you. I think he likes me likes me.
Thanks Nic! Planning to build success stories out of *everyone* who joins this week, so I hope they take me up on my offer at www.boyfriendblueprint.com/enroll before the week ends! 😜🤘
what if he seems to like me as more than a friend but he constantly mentions meeting up with his female friends (he has a lot...). not sure if that means he is not interested?
Happened to me just now actually. A guy I like is constantly drooling over one of my best friends when we all hang out but he never texts her or wants to hang with her. He only does that to me. It's better to let him go honestly. People who try to make you jealous or get a reaction out of you that way are not upfront with their feelings and that's not what anyone deserves tbh
Crap! It's 50/50... Either he hides emotions really well, or he's just nice 🤣 but he's done the following! • He noticed my schedule one day • He sat by me pretty closely and we walked each other to class while WALKING CLOSELY • He rubbed his neck and shared some 'flirty' jokes • We both got into deep conversation about our interests as musicians and God • He scared me as a joke and DEEPLY apologized because he felt bad. Like... He felt BAD. • And he asked me to draw him 🤪 Which I did. 🤷♀️🤷♀️🤷♀️
Man listen....im beyond confused. He tests me. He's constantly chatting w me but stays w the mixed signals. Dude....im over the tests, etc. He remembers everything I tell him. He is attentive etc. I'm annoyed
I am part Irish. Lol. Irish guys have a nature that shows their testosterone alittle more than the average guy. Often, tough men. Women often weigh less than a man, too. So your his lite/lightweight. Easy to be around and liked. M arr
I need advice. Someone please help. So my best friend is a boy. I really like him but I don’t know if he likes me back. He texts me hearts, good morning and goodnight texts, he calls me cute names, and he is protective of me. I don’t know if he does this stuff because he is my best friend or he likes me. I don’t know if I should confess and I don’t want to ruin our friendship. Please help.
How to know if a guy likes you an age old question honey for the girls out here I know you won’t listen I know you won’t read this but please just try and understand I know where you are I’ve been there I’ve cried I’ve hurt I was the one that could never ignore him he’d always say sorry but never correct the mistake I’d be the one left on read for days at a time💔 it hurts really really bad but 6 months passed I told him I couldn’t do it anymore his exact words “yeah I was gonna break up with you just didn’t know how” he lead me to believe he loved me I was the one who “technically” ended it but came out the one most hurt all I can truly say is get off these videos the quotes women are very stubborn but strong❤️ you will make it through this just know nothing gets better with silence or spite❤️💪
So i’ve been talking to this guy (btw we are 14 😬) and he lives 2 hours away... he is best friends with my child hood best friend who lives next to him. I have met him in person a couple of times and now we’re talking... he has given me serval “hints” that you have mentioned but i’m not sure if i’m overthinking it!! a couple things he has said (mostly over facetime and texts) is how he misses me and he comes up with fun things to do when i see him next... one of the things he sais a lot is how when i come up he wants to be my cuddle buddy ( all of his friends and my best friend do this all the time it’s normal) and he wanted to watch a romantic movie (because he’s obviously a romantic kinda guy) he also mentioned how my best friend and her boyfriend could come over and watch it with us! (please if i’m way over thinking this someone tell me). he also mentions A LOT how i should just move to his town and we joke about a lot... we get into a lot of deep conversations and a lot of them are about love and that type of stuff... so i just wanna know what’s happing here??? ( btw i do like him )
I think a guy should tread lightly with number 9 b/c if you really like someone, going out of your way to make them jealous could backfire and the person could think he isn't really interested, just playing games or just a player overall.
Happened to a guy I was interested in. He tried to make me jealous by putting my best friend on a pedestal while still flirting with me and I took it as "He's not interested in me but her". I lost all interest and when we talked in private and I told him "But you are into my best friend not me, so no need to be nervous around me" he was so shocked and tried to explain that he actually likes me and he just thinks she is beautiful etc. I shut him down immediately with "Don't say one thing and mean the other. We are grown up and I need a man who knows exactly what he wants and goes for it. What do you expect from me now after drooling all over her?. First get yourself straight and then we can talk". His shocked face to this day is so satisfying haha
@@nalaa9618 I have been in your situation. But I did not have the conversation about the situation with him. 🙄 It was so obvious... we stopped communicating as time passed...
I, too, have been in a similar situation and I took it to mean that he didn't like me but instead the other person and I moved on. I may have assumed wrong but again, it's best not to play games when it comes to matters of the heart. If you want somebody, make it known to them!
Alright I went to a trip with my young brother in touristic bus, to a far away town, I did not know his name neither his life, when I was in the bus the first time he entered I was sitting next to the window he looked at me as if he found something, after few hours I was talking to my brother he changef his place that was far after me and came beside me in the other side of the seats, so I felt there was someone staring at me but I acted dumb, after few seconds I laughed and when I turned to this man I found him looking me as a crazy man! I was surprised and I did not know what to do I looked at him for other few seconds and then he turned his face and I did too, when I turned back again I found him looking at me. We arrived into this town and went to the hotel, we put our luggage and went back to the bus I sat on my place and here is the surprise he was sitting right after me😳, I looked behind with just a turning eye without turning my face he was looking at me and making his voice loud loud, I could hear all the conversation with his friend but his voice was the loudest, I wanted to play hard to get, so I did not give him a damn, that's day he was always following me as if he was taking pictures with his friends,whenever I turned I saw him behind me, I did not even acted myself and did not know how to take proper picture,the next day he was pushing himself away from me and I felt, it was definitely his game! I acted dumb, and right we were all going to have dinner in a restaurant he sat facing me looking at me with no embarrassment, he did a wrong gesture and fractured his leg while he was in that table he was walking on one leg and pushing the other I looked at hime with big worries but I could say nothing,he was a soccer player and I did not even know, after we went back to the hotel we had a tea there and I saw him saying to his friends I want to serve!! He was serving the sweets with that leg, when he reached me to give the sweet I took it and said thank you he replied with a smile and said "you are the most welcomed, may god protect you" I was like WTH! The next day I swear it was not intentional but I woke up and when I was puting on my pairs of sneakers I did a wrong gesture and I could not walk either 🤦🤦🤦🤦 at first I tried to step on it without being noticed he was after me we where going to a castle, and because of my delay in walking he almost bumped into me! And here what he said to his friend out loud " i can not anymore hold on some beautiful people OHHHH GOD and laughed" i walked quickly I forgot even about my leg when we went to the bus he was walking to go to the back seat of the bus so i did something to test him, I exchanged place with my younger brother, I was sitting next to the walkway of the bus, his friends past without even daring to touch me but intentionally he touched me with his hands as if he was passing by and I felt his message! I went back home knowing nothing about him but I did something I tagged te tourstic agency on purpose on my post and instead of him sending me a request his friend did, now I understand nothing!!! Please tell me if he does love me and how should I act 😔?
