Texting Signs He's NOT Actually Interested (Part 1) 

T. B. 🤣🤣🤣big sign

i've been talking to this guy for a month and he seemed rly intersted and i rly like him but now he's only asking for nudes how do i get him to stop without ruining our relationship Edit: I've blocked him on everything since he wouldn't stop and i wont see him for some time because or quarantine. Thanks guys :)

T. B. 😂 😂

just a double check if he does this 🤣 Lucky, he's doesn't lol

Seriously 😂

Because we are often left with petty responses like "wasnt feeling you anyways"

Because there is the stereotype of a woman freaking out and going crazy on him. They believe BS stories from their friends and decide, instead, to ghost or string you along.

Why don't more women go with their gut, accept reality and walk away

Yess fr

we'll never be able to conceive the limits of human stupidity

Thanks ❤

Why I can't do it😭😭

@@rosalinasimpson9023 yes you can ....focus on something else, hobby , interest, travel somewhere....you can do it..! Work on you !! ❤️

@@moons4363 your welcome ☺️

Wow juuuuust wow

yeah I didn't want to hear it either cuz the truth hurts , but there it is and I can't deny it

@GuessWho lol r u saying he's gay n I don't agree that gays give best advice anyone can give great advice jeeez

#2 -#8 -#9 ended up blocking him ... time & energy waster 😒

I agree :( my current situation

Girl show that you desever better

Nah I'm just bored. I've watched THE MOST random videos sitting at home all day😂

Yes! That one never fails. It's a matter of if you'll listen to your gut feeling or not.

Its ok though 😩

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Hilarious and true

kristin lee Omgoodness. I just mentioned this to a friend of mine. And then they get mad when you stop responding.

Very true

Absoltly agree on dis fact

kristin lee It's definitely true about the ego issue and I've even heard it from the horse's mouth, so to speak. 🙂

THIS...he texted after mths,and when I reached out he ghosted the call and sent it to voicemail.

Ok😂😂

What if he still initiate convos, just that when I reply,he rereplys really late and sometimes no reply at all? These things are so confusing….why can’t life be simpler

@@user-ym9pm1lb1j maybe he is busy

@@airishviscara2326 Thank you❤️. I wanted to believe, but I suppose it's time to accept the truth.... I just haven't figured out if I should try to get him to like me or just accept this and move on.

He just initiated when I decided to move on weeks ago and then we started talking again. He just checked on me, asking if I was okay. Then suddenly all of my hope goes up again. After he initiated for the first time, I got the courage to talk to him again and then now, I'm still hoping that he would do the first move for us to talk. We just met online, I am the one who did the first move to talk to him because I find him rlly interesting. I'm so ready to forget about everything before, I didn't mind that I may probably ghost him because I thought he doesn't even care about me but after he initiated for the first time, all the thoughts that I should forget him backfired me. And until now, I'm still waiting for him because if you would see our last convo you might be ready disappointed at me. Sorry if my English is not perfect, just want to vent out :D

I got my dogs unconditional love 😂🤣🤣🤣

Yes yes and yep

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lol

keep trying hahahha

That's a big one 😪

Haha haven't texted him for this reason exactly!!! No point as I know he won't respond!

That’s so true.

Alexa Likes indeed 🤣🤣

Alexa Likes yuppppp!!!!

And the minute you realize this, you're single forever. They're all like this

I lost my fate . Been single and no interested on any one . I finally met someone . But he’s seems to be complicated in some areas and i find myself confuse after every date we have . There many red flags but the feeling i get when i think of him or see him i know i like him and haven’t feel this way for years. But theres somethingnof with this guy. I’m ao confused and my brain is telling me to run. What do i do??? I want to live this feeling ! I want to keep getting to know him. So fucked up! Why does this happens?!!!

Sorry single for 7 yrs

@@tzukhi same type of problem here. May be you r fall in love.

Sugarskull80 .. no, wrong!

Sometimes we’re genuinely busy

@@DistortedV12 I’m insanely busy 24/7 but if I like someone back, I’ll be enthusiastic in my response or get back to them within a few hours. I expect the same for someone who reciprocates my level of attention, otherwise-not interested.

Hey I’m a guy and I’m watching what the “other side” experiences because all the advice from men’s channels have failed me. Are you right that almost all girls are actually like that they want guys to reply as soon as they actually can???

@@americohagim1131 How long a woman should wait? If you are interested, you will contact them when you can. When you are not, you procrastinate.

That’s love-bombing 🤮🤮 stay away

Too quick in love too soon disappear..it is really painful.

Its not good thing stay away😥😥

Miss Madeline's adventures even though--I do recall my ex falling super hard, super fast for a girl immediately after we broke up--but I don’t think it was just a sexual thing. So maybe it’s not always just for booty. Not sure. That messed me up baddd

I take my time and take precautious steps i dont flirt off the bat but doesnt mean i dont like the girl i see if shes authentic or just wants a Nsa drama relationship i dont have time nor the energy for that.

It really is..

Love that so true

@@lg2573 lol

Yeah, not coming to a "date" is too i think... (Yes it happened to me a few hours ago)

Agree. But I hate the thought that the guy is getting off the hook so easily if the woman just stops texting him. She should at least blast him to let him know he's a jerk, then be done with him.

Ikr . lt's soooo annoying

That’s the worst I don’t even respond

@@aminah761 I agree !

Wyd is jus so elementary level n middle school🤣

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“Can I have your phone number?” He texts me instead. Lol! I should just send him this video and call it a night and just say no thank you.

A real man would not ignore the one he pursued. He would do his best to make sure he gets her time.

Yes we do lmao, we all need a companion and yr a liar if u say no!

Ladies. Smh

Shipa R lol spot on .👍😂💞

Amen

Right, I think it’s the best thing to do😂😂🤣🤣🤣

I did the same but a friend of mine told me that he would think that I really care about him and what he did hurt me, but I don't mind. That's his problem and he can think what he wants. But my mental health is in peace right now and I don't change that for anything. Though, I sometimes miss him, but anyways.

Very good

😅😅same to me...huh!! 🚮Let what flows flows

😂😂

it's better to get that early than later

Same here

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Same

yeah

LMAO ONG

Short texting ALL the time is sign...

HAHAHAHA FR

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same 😂

I wish I can forget this guy whose name is Dan levik I just want to forget about him and I wish I never mentioned anything to him about a fair ride

how to move on without having any heartbreak

Yeah ,its legit

I hope I can forget my ex Nabil 😔

Dating apps have really bad quality guys tbh

It’s such a waste !!! I tried to start dating after my marriage ended and it’s been three years of time wasting with dating apps !!!

Lovecove4 it’s all bad

Dating apps are full of cluster B's . Men also trying to get with woman way younger than them it's gross honestly. I'm 40 why can't I meet a guy my age it's so frustrating. I was in a long term relationship got left for a baby. It seems all men want this so mad.

I’m 48 and separated 6 years and started dating sites in 2017 and I’m still single

So..so..true

So do annoying people

If they ask too many questions and reveal nothing about himself ... he is collecting things to hurt you with later.

True

Yup..so right..

If you leave feeling good, do you think it means they feel good too?

@@peytongomer2305 Perhaps, perhaps not. All I can say is that I've lived most of my life trusting my gut feeling or intuition, if you will. It has never let me down yet.

ItsAllBeenDecided thanks :)

Usually a narcissist

me

Same

Me too. I'm an older woman, quite enjoy being single, but find these newer dating coaches so interesting. It's so interesting to me learning about how different men and women are, how different our psychologies are, and how the same behaviour can mean totally different things to men and women. Also good to know for if I do meet someone I'm interested in.

Me

I'm married watching this to reflect on exes

What's wrong with just being texting buddy's

Nah das not true mane

@@alexplays9838 Some of us just have better expectations than just words on a SCREEN.

@@redfather5342 What are we in high school? smfh.

That’s not true. I’m personally super shy and I’ll feel uncomfortable talking on the phone. Irl it’s okay tho.

Did he ever try to contact you after removing ?

@@prettyvacant3605 Nope. Not a word

You will find the one that deserves you =)

You deserve a guy who think you are amazing!!! He’s out there, waiting for you ......

Me too

Yes, I have just understood it recently, after dealing with some man

SAME

Exactly! I’m so turned off now. We had crazy chemistry but that’s not even enough.

😶

Oh well been made a fool of again.

But I am back in the game. August 1😊

not entirely true tho

Not always. My first night with my husband was very sexy ;

Breaks are super healthy and necessary for sure 😉

Samesie!

Yeah I hate being single. Sick of mind games. Older men arent even better.

I am done also!

Yes girl

Exactly smh I’m speaking about men between 35-40. Been there

50 and 60 year olds do it too

Yeah. They shouldn't be texting you back if they're not really interested . Bummer

They’re not men...they’re grown boys. 😊

Shoe on other foot mode. Love it.

I stopped taking to the guy I liked cuz I had a gut feeling that something wasn't right

@@Shikiyodo do you like him?

But what does it mean when I’m hard of hearing ? I don’t use call often.

I don’t like calls. Nope. Nooooope. Not at all. Texting is fine, thank you

Awesome, Catharine! Thanks for sharing that! 😉Decent guys aren't afraid to put in the work with you or show you interest pretty quickly. I'm hoping this video helps folks avoid wishy-washy guys who either don't know what they want or maybe are afraid to level with you about their lack of interest 👌🏽

Ryan How can I believe a guy that says that he truly wants to be with you you, but he makes up excuses?

@@jeannettetyge7866 he doesnt want to be with you if he makes excuses as to why he cant be with you

true

Ya its weird

Agreed

They dont want to hurt your feelings or they dont want to stop the attention. People will never be really honest dating. That's why action means more than words.

I agree

Am a texting person!

Heard one say “texting just isn’t a priority to me, it’s verbal communication that I like.” Ok but we are in quarantine and we ft at NIGHT

They never too busy for sports video games or buying some new shoes though lol

@Juairia Jahin my bf did. Apparently you can be 'busy' playing video games & watching movies but at the same time miss me but not enough to call me before bed.... I'm honestly at the last straw now, he's walking a thin line.

@Juairia Jahin thank you, sorry I kinda went on a bit of a rant earlier. Thanks so much I hope you are happy in your life & have people around you who support & love you for who you are.

You make time for what you like/love.....there I said it....all anyone needs to hear.........ever...........

Thank you I really needed this 😭💕

Gotta love a straight-shooter! 🤣

Lol! Sorry, this is kinda funny.

That's messed lol

100% accurate.

I real don't have. A crush. Okay.

Man, I used to be this way. I'm working towards getting back to this point 🙌 no time for bs!

very strong 💐🌻 i got caught up and learnt my lesson. I have now taught myself boundaries and to not ignore red flags. I have worked on my issues from why i was willing to take such disrespect and now i honour who i am... love and light to you 💗🌞🙏

@@dustersinternational221 That is wonderful! It is never easy but once you are able to decipher between what's good for you & what's not you'll be fine. I have been through a lot & those lessons prepared me for how & who I am today.

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Delete them sis! Move on with your life!

same

Me neither

Lmao this is so me! Badoo,Tinder! I'm so done!!!

I hope that changes in the guy department soon, Hannah 🙌🏼In the meantime, congrats on adopting!

Ryan Patrick till I’m 40, this is the way it’ll be LOLZ

All of the decent guys don't like me only mental guys and dirty old men!

@@hannahscott6604 I am 34 and fat do I will be single for life!

Marybeth Langendorf lol...I have almost no men that like me , even the mental and dirty old men . Sometimes but not even those ! Lol

How often did you meet up during long distance?

I’m interested to know as well.

Mine is 8 years

Start having a good time with yourself. Learn a new hobby , self care , make new friends ( not love until you know it ) pamper yourself ❤️ lots of love. You're amazing.

Its alright dear....just endure the pain...cry...till it hurts no more...it is better to be miserable now than marrying him and be miserable for lifetime...u r beautiful.....u deserve a man not a boy....

I recommend you to a man who can help you manifest whoever you want to manifest within two-day ♥ ️ ♥ ️ ♥ ️.

He was the person who helped me manifest back my ex three days ago with out delay💯💯💯.

What sapp him..

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He usually won't keep you waiting too long if he's into you, for sure 😉

Ryan Patrick 😞😞😞

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No no no just a little more sorting through the guy pile is needed, that's all 😉

Ryan Patrick Haha thanks Ryan!

Me too

Me too.

Same here!

Melanie Jones this is happening to me right now 😞

Me too

Sadly its all true.

I felt this too

So now you can stop wasting your time on them so u can find someone who is not this way

LMAO

Lol, same.🤷‍♀️😌

This came up on recommended hmm... I am just bored and I stopped even trying 4 years ago.

Lmao

After watching this, I just realized none of the men I am talking to are interested in me😢. It sucks but thanks for sharing.

@@Mwiizy love will come to you when you least expect it. Don't sell yourself short. Love isn't always obvious. It'll suck a lot less when you start loving yourself. I'll leave you with this: _are you someone you'd be in a relationship with?_

Haha love that Sarah! 😍

Ha ha of course he's busy from something else, (no offense meant )

Liz I been threw this nice to see guys doing this video some guys lie a lot not adll. Man r bad

Maybe you should take a hint at this point?

@@arnie3631 A week after I made my comment here, I broke up with him. Realization strikes and it hurts big time. But I am okay now.. Almost moved on.

@@bucket9805 It'll take time to move on, but good on you for realizing your worth :)

Very well said!

small things make up a whole

@@elenachiritescu2681 Thankyou

He has all of those. Not in a relationship.

@@sayraflores6595 my guy too but just not initiating texts.

Yes that is true, or he notices that you do all the giving loving etc and he feels you took the bait, hook, line and swallowed the whole f*cking fishing rod. Then you are his, he just have to give minimal effort, and the second he feels that you are getting this and are backing out he throw you a bone and most girls fall for this 😔

@Shanice p you are stating a fact....

Yep I have had this happen and it’s annoying.

@@alexandral6997 so hard to know the difference and by the time you do it’s too late.

What if you got a guy who does all the above except never initiates plans for a 2nd date. I feel im in a unique situation so general advice doesnt serve me

I'm so glad to hear that😍 someone caring about you, someone sharing his life, someone chasing you Demi😄 so glad as if I were your friend or a sister. God bless..

@@skipads9790 not anymore

@@DemiFu, really? 😔

@@skipads9790 yes it was false alarm. After 1 date he was like NOPE.

You’re absolutely right, thank you!

Yup so true like during those prime "booty call" hours 😂NEXT!

Hmmm. Unless he has an overnight job, it's almost like he's doing that because he's banking on you being asleep so that you don't call him or he doesn't feel obligated to text again because he's hoping you won't reply immediately. But yet, he did actually text you so it's another way of stringing you along.

Total booty call...

Julie Janasiewicz true

Another angle is that’s when his wife or girlfriend is sleeping and he has true alone time to text you 🤷‍♀️

That's good. I think mine is interesting too but I'm not sure. He asks about me and he compliments me when he's not busy lol

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please pray for me. i have ben in 4 month online messaging/fake love situationship from fb nessenger since dec 2020 and i think the guy is married or living with someone bc he ghosted me for a week last month so i ghosted him but kept looking at his messages, then responded like an idiot bc ive got feelings for this guy but i think hes playing me for a fool. 4-2-21 hes in the military and now i dont trust him. ive ben too honest nd upfront with him about things nd myself so its all so depressing to me

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Yes. I started dating a guy who only asked me out for Saturday nights. I dumped him.

Smaragda G. 😆✌🏽🙌🏽

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Ugh sorry Casy. Walks are good, though! 🙂

Casy 🤣🤣😂🤣

LmaoO

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Which is sad because I'm a traditional millennial.

Also, wtf is “No label relationship” with Gen-Z’s?? I’m a millennial too married for 6 years and I’m thankful I’ve found true love before social media. Thankful that I experienced courting where guys take you on dates and be straight up honest with their feelings. women nowadays need a constant validation in social media and a constant ego stroke for men. Girls be half nude dancing in tiktok only to get men’s attention.. and then what? they still can’t get the love the way they want be love they end up being used or just for a good time and there are very few numbers of young men who actually wanna get married.

@@juliettesleeve6763 So arrogant of you to assume I’m a plain house wife? Are you that one of those women who needs a constant validation form men?? The woman who belittle other women for being a housewife?? You should be ashamed of your attitude mam. I run a milktea business my own and my husband is a Navy who comes home once every 6 months from service. I don’t depend on my husband’s income alone. I struggle on my own too. My marriage isn’t perfect and Bold of you to assume I’m like this and that when you don’t know me haha! It’s funny because you got butthurt on my comment did I offend you indirectly madam?? Lmao.

Yup hopefully a bit of a time-saver 😄Thanks Jennifer!