A woman can be unfaithful and have the husband raise another man's child. Then divorce him, claim half his assets and then cohabit in the family home with the birth father of the child. And that's equally for yeah.
@@fidole791 That is very true but the ideology has influenced even those who oppose the ideology And marriage is a horrible contract that only benefits women and incentivizes them to break it
@@bdubs6710 So it has influenced you too. Many women, in fact most women (not those college students in CA) are not feminist and prefer to be housewives. You're saying it only benefit women, well sure you can go pursue you career alone and go hookup bitches here and there but It will never fulfill your life plus you will die alone. The reason men are supposed to make careers in the first place is to provide for his family, it's a sacrifice in the short term yes but looking back you will never regret it. You are kinda right when saying modern society has failed marriage but that still doesn't make it any less valid. If prenups and money is all that matters then you have probably chosen the wrong lady. Don't marry someone you know you're going to divorce, be patient and wait for the right one. Dang this got long
@@fidole791 Sure there is a value in having a nuclear family, a purpose for a man, and certainly it is important for any man to vet for an appropriate partner however that doesn’t take away from the fact that marriage is an unconscionable contract, that all women have been influenced by feminism, and that the risk reward ratio is completely out of balance. I would assume that I am much older than you by context clues within your response and I can tell you I have been married and divorced had children and known many many people and my parents and both of theirs were married for over 50 years and I can assure you that marriage has been changed by culture and as I learned in law school the laws most assuredly are disadvantageous to men specifically. Over 50% of marriages end in divorce did all of these men choose poorly? 80% of those were imitated by women did they choose poorly? Over 90% of child custody arrangements are in favor of the mother what is the divorced father’s purpose following divorce? Women lack the ability en masse to respect a man, defer to a man, or listen to a man. They are promiscuous, argumentative, and entitled to such a degree that they have lost much of their femininity and replaced it with the worst caricature and representation of masculine behaviors. The birth rate in all western/civilized countries has fallen below replacement levels and the majority of children are now being raised outside of the nuclear family. Yes marriage is absolutely a bad deal for men and is completely untenable. It is not even debatable. Read more Hope is not a strategy Learn how to defend yourself The good news is this is only a temporary state of the institution of marriage and there will be a correction in the long term
@@bdubs6710 Look I'm 19 years old and currently single, my goal is to get married someday. I feel for you, I really do, know people myself who has been through the same shit. That doesn't change my mind, reality is that all marriages are doomed to fail and those who last only do it through the grace of God. Modern feminists destroys institutions and have turned natural orders upside down and that's why marriages and relationships overall fail more than ever. My parents' and their parents' marriages lasted because they actually found partners that shared their Christian, conservative views. Those are much harder to find in the 21th century but they still exists, I pray that God will guide me to the right one.
so...if you are married to someone for 20 year, have children, you work and bring the money in, and she raises the children ...after 20 years you get divorced, and you feel like she shouldnt get anything?
@@i.g.m2884 i think its shouldn't be fixed who gets what it really depends on individual cases in some cases woman deserves it in some cases she doesn't
@@fidole791 She's not the only one shown in that clip though? The others were hanging their head down. Amala is the only one who giggled at the end, the others were dead silent.
Went through the same ! We were able to work together on good terms and it was sad but marriage could not survive. We're still on good terms to this day and still care for her.
They will call it a common law marraige and assume you made promises to the woman to get her to stay without a commitment. To quite Admiral Ackbar from Star Wars .... It's a trap!!
I'm divorced, and everything he says is spot on. Even if your spouse cheats, you'll still get F. Luckily, I didn't have children . It's 10 times harder with kids in the picture.
My ex took everything from me. Home kids lover wife car half my money and retirement and my role as father husband provider protector. She was rewarded financially and took everything I valued. NEVER MARRY EVER.
I’m sorry to hear that man. It’s a really hard lesson to learn. I’m not sure if you still have any youth on your side but I understand why many men in their 50’s that get divorced end up taking their lives. To work so hard & make so many sacrifices for your wife and family all to have the rug pulled out from under you a decade before retirement....I get it. So sad. The older I get the less desire I have to get married.
Bruh there is way more than that. Marriage is about having kids and starting a family so you won't die alone. Also don't write in caps lock, it's kinda annoying.
Yup. 20 years value of labor down the drain. Went from being single with my very own house to surviving for several years in a basement apartment. All that done to me by a "church girl". Never again.
NEVER GET MARRIED! NEVER! Guys, educate yourself, go to college, go to the gym, earn money, improve your personality and be successful. Become real men. That way, you can get the girl you want and prevent her from hurting you in the future.
Seriously you have all the privilege of a married couple without getting married so why bother and risk losing 50% of what you build, even when the wife cheats on you
Start up a trust, start a business under the trust, build it up, quit your job, have your mother and another trusted family member or friend as co-owner.. have your business pay you a wage or salary (whatever you decide).. she’ll get 50% of that MAYBE.. Easier said than done but there’s hope is my point.. Meanwhile the rest of your money is protected as working capital within the business, use your company card to make your purchases, pay your bills etc.. Put your assets under the company as well - Wish you the best
Marriage is only an L in the US/Western countries with Western women. Get your passports, Bros. Live overseas with your wife's family. Maybe come back to visit every 10 years or so.
I'm one of the 5% that actually has custody, and that's just as much because my ex is a complete waste as my being a responsible adult. Still cost me $150K & 8 years of going to court (and counting!)
Because if you don’t, then you never increase your power, your lineage dies, you stay alone and never build a strong family. A few strong families run the whole world. What they want is for us to all die out.
Because that’s what men have done throughout human history, despite plagues, famines, and wars. Civilization collapses otherwise. Men can’t cease to mate and procreate because the threat of rapacious Instathots is too scary.
@@1214gooner well, times are different now, and the Planet is quite overpopulated, the current economy is not suitable to create a family, we have pedofilic ideologies in schools, slavery system and....crazy, oportunistic women. I dont see the convenience to get married and have children.
Agreed. But Dr. Dre didn't have his done properly. IF you decide to get married... Do it waaaay before the wedding. I would do it before a wedding date is set and at least 6 months out. Each party has their own lawyer. No signing under duress/coercion.
That's incorrect. They *DID* uphold Dre's agreement. He is worth nearly 1 billion dollars. His wife wanted half plus 200k per month spousal support. However, she only got 100 million (not 5) and 0 alimony. Prenuptial agreements don't mean you leave the marriage with nothing. 😆😆 It means you leave with your starting assets, and half of what you can verify was accumulated jointly.
@@rockmyworldmusic My apologies! I meant to say they she claimed to have it being done under duress since it was signed on their wedding day. That would definitely question the validity of it and maybe she would've gotten less than $100 mill. 🤷🏿♂️
I have said this to people years ago and they all stare like im a alien. There is too much risk involved as a man especially if you did well for yourself. The stats prove it and since tiktok and shorts became mainstream, Andrew Tate, fresh and fit, Kevin Samuels RIP, Sneako and this podcast proved it even further im glad men are educating themselves so rapidly its like swallowing the red pill. Simps are diminishing and strong men are on the raise again. We are getting priceless real world experience from people who have dealt before us.
@@imnexup3577 Divorce statistics just 20 years ago must have been a lot lower that it is now. Women understand that they have so much power in divorce court if they don’t like you anymore they won’t hesitate to pull the plug. The system is against men its a cold evil world we live in
Since most males aren’t high value, most males don’t factor in whether they choose to marry or not. In case you haven’t been paying attention, a lot of clownery is happening in the real world. Only very few women are likely to get good husbands. Most women won’t get these husbands. Most men have an issue with controlling pleasure sensory activities to a much more severe degree. That is why most issues disproportionately affect men much more than women: p*orn addiction, video game addiction, alcoholism and substance abuse, sports addiction, social media addiction (who are the consumers of the pics that those types of women post?) and so much more. Even blaming women is a drug. Males usually get lifetime benefits if the woman doesn’t leave. They get s3x, children whom the woman will raise, most of the domestic chores, and caregiving when he is in his final years. The woman earnings will decrease once she has children, but the males earnings increase year on year. Most women have already figured out marriage isn’t worth it for women. It is not just the West, but also in the East where women are allegedly more feminine and submissive than us. The Feminists in the US have nothing on them. Did you know in Korea there is a movement called 4 No’s (no to dating, to s3x, no to marriage, no to child bearing and rearing). Also, it is not just a few women who have this policy. Korea has literally the worst birth rate in the world. Japan is only a little above Korea. The caregiver role (small children, parents, male siblings and the husband and in laws) literally suck the life force of a woman, ages her and decreases her longevity. Many women say that they were married single mothers or that their husbands abandoned the kids they planned and the kids fathers never show up for the kids. So it’s good if males also don’t want marriage.
@Manifest bro the high value thing is bs at the end of the day its all about what you think of yourself. I know plenty of men who arent what yu consider high value nd they have gf's and wives.
@@manifest2203😂😂😂 Modern wahmens are wh0res. You are talking like men get more benefits in marriage. $ex is not a benefit because fu€king someone everyday will eventually lose interest. If he is unmarried he can fu€k so many wahmen. Having children is beneficial for both men and wahmen. There is no guarantee that wahmen will look after you until you die. So what bullsh!t are you projecting. This marriage itself is there to protect wahmen and children and to build a stable society. Not for the protection of men. It is culturally forced up on men. Otherthing is that if any societies population goes in decline then it's wahmens who will be more affected not men. Stronger societies will fu€k you up.
Stay Strong Brothers... you will get ZERO sympathy/empathy from most women on this subject. They'll gaslight you with things like "but if you truly love each other, then you wouldn't have anything to worry about!" Counter: "If you really loved each other... you wouldn't need a government-enforced contract to stay by each other's side "
It's sad to see a man get married nowdays, agreed total L for a guy. Another L is when the bride wears white at her wedding like she is a virgin. She lying right out of the gate
The problem with marriage is people get married for the wrong reasons. You marry someone because you love that person unconditionally for the rest of your life. Not because "its just time" or "i want a baby" or "he's got money" or "I'm insecure and I need somebody". Get me off this planet please !
@@torakka2ow640 my parents are still together so you are going to have to actually put some effort into discrediting me. Marriage is a business, if you marry for love you are beyond help.
@@michaelfriend3990 I hate to say this but you are not the rule rather, you are the exception to the rule. If your wife earns more than you then you are in for a huge disappointment in your life. But Good luck anyways!
@@ededwards7226 ofc, I understand marrying a woman in the US is a heavy risk, especially when many of them don’t have traditional values. But do people think buying an extra Gucci bag or Rolex watch will genuinely make them happy 45? I don’t want be alone at 45, unfulfilled without a family. I’ll go to to the east side of the world and make a marriage proposal there
How sad. I’m thankful I surrounded myself with responsible and respectable company. I’ve known very few men who didn’t want to be married. Thankfully my husband found me when we were 19 and 20. Good, respectable, Godly men do exist. You just have to choose your company wisely.
Women already know that marrying someone with less money than you is unacceptable. Now men are realising too. Copy women. Only marry one much wealthier than you.
There should be no divorces ... Only in some cases should a marriage be thrown away ... Young girls just don't want to deal with the slightest problem they're out
It’s the same thing with men. There are plenty of poor quality people in this world, you just need to weed out the bad ones and not go for someone that is ONLY attatractive and nothing else.
Not married thank god I'm older I still have high school friends 10 of them all of them are miserable 9 of them are divorced and the men are financially destroyed no way .
Pre-nups are there to protect income,assets and resources already accumulated prior to marriage. You cant not be married for a while and not have to pay anything. You split what was accumulated during the marriage and you can revise them during the marriage. What I suggest is doing a complete background check including crimminal, credit, job, financial disclosure, social media foot print and lastly a lie detector test for sexual history.
Prenups get thrown out like used toilet paper all the time. All she has to do is claim that she signed it under duress or that he's an abuser and it's gone.
Most prenups are only valid for ten years and as you stated only protect pre marital assets. Assets accumulated during the marriage are still on the table. Also you have to take into account most women will hit you with molestation of children charges, domestic violence charges to get custody of everything they can. Why you ask cause the world protects women from all consequences of their actions. Oh you stepped out on your marriage. Oh shit bitch you have a pre nup. Well here is what you need to do. 1. Go to police and say he molested his children. Boom he is arrested with out investigation and has a protective order stating he cannot see his children 2. Apply for a tro and assert domestic violence charges that obviously aren’t true extra point if you can call the police and fake cry and slap yourself around for red marks. No he is arrested again and removed from the home. He lost his job, home, has a criminal record. Even if the two previous things get thrown out in court. Divorce court won’t throw them out and you have successfully stripped the man of all his assets cause the judge will give you everything. Aka assets, bank accounts, children, 50-75% of his future earnings. MEN DON’T EVER GET MARRIED. MODERN WOMEN, AND DIVORCE INDUSTRY CAN AND WILL DESTROY YOUR LIFE IF YOU DON’T BEND OVER AND TAKE IT. JAIL, ASSET STRIPPING, TAKING YOUR CHILDREN, JOB, REPUTATION MARRIGE IN THE 21st CENTURY IS A TRAP DONT DO IT
Pre-nup's are not to protect what you've earned before the marriage. In the United States what ever assets you've earned before the marriage are yours after the marriage. A pre-nup is to protect or put a limit on what can be awarded in the advent of a divorce.
my divorce cost me 18 million dollars because she had the affair.. 4 million dollars to my kiddos I am okay with.. the 14 million dollars was by law as the 50/50 rule.
Back during the MGTOW channels 5-10yrs ago, i remember one cited how a woman got out of her prenup by crying to the judge by saying she was forced to sign it under duress. And when the judge asked what was the duress, the woman said that if she didn't sign it, her husband would not marry her. Long story short, the judge agreed and threw out the prenup.
Men should 100% boycott marriage and cohabitation until no fault divorce is abolished, default 50/50 custody is established and child support is based on regional cost of living instead of % of income. Boycott completely until these changes are made.
Will no happen bro, there are too many simps and whiteknigths who think they can take advantage of this situation. Those guys who always support women for getting appreciation are the real problem. We need unity of men ,but most men(simps & Whiteknights will not support us)
Guys do not marry even if you think she is right for you. Many things can change over time especially feelings and if you were to ever get divorced, you are on the losing end. Until everyone gets treated equally in divorce laws, it is simply not worth it to get married.
Make Men Great Again! Rule #1: Never marry the woman, just live together (if possible, long-distance relationship is recommended). Rule #2: If you happen to get married, sign a prenuptial agreement. Rule #3: Never ever let your partner know about your income or wealth. Rule #4: If separation is on the cards, move your money elsewhere before the separation, and never let her know your next move. Rule #5: Never even agree to split your fortune on separation, real men don't obey rules made by weak men. Rule #6: Never pay child support more than necessary. Children's food and stay do not cost more than $300/m. Child support does not have to be linked to your income but to the child's needs. Never follow rules made by weak men.
#1: They can sue you anyway if they live for a time in your house. #2: Government can throw them out. It's dangerous and unreliable. #3: If you don't trust your partner, there is no valid reason to get a relationship with her. #4: Counter measures are always good. #5: Agree. But the government is going to hunt you down. #6: Agree. And make sure your kids know the reason why you did that when the time comes.
@@aleca8910 #1: Thats unfair and that is what we want to change. #2: If a legal system created by law makers does not work, I am not bound to follow rules. I create my laws and ways. #3: No need to necessarily trust your partner, there are other factors that unite. Only fools trust woman. #4: Agree. #5: Obviously the state is after you, but it was just a call for my fellow men to go around the law or fight to change it. #6: Same as above. Children require nothing else after their needs are met. They should understand.
The smartest thing the devil ever did was convince people he didn’t exist and get others to do his work for him. Encouraging young men to live their lives in sin instead of remaining celibate or getting married is horrible. It creates nothing but problems. Then people want to question why our society crashes. It’s people like you promoting modern liberal ideals ^^^
Finding a girl nowadays without a promiscuous past is like maybe 1 in 100. How many young girls do you know that are virgins. Then compatability good luck. They all have been indoctrinated into feminism and hate real men. You are there bank account daddy number two thats it.
If you have a good lawyer prenuptials can be changed more red tap ,but it can be cut ..I can say this to MEN. If you have nothing get married ,if you have something BEWARE.. because all your doing is betting against yourself , best thing to do is learn your rules on divorce, because if you learn after your divorce it's going to be even more DEVASTATING.
also nkt good advise because you can have nothing at first but then afther 5 years or so you can be rich and if the women then decides to divorce rip all you worked for 😂
@@chilipepper9938 obviously you have never been married nor have you own a business or been in contracts with anyone ...if you had you should know nothing is in cement...that's why it is called LAWYER'S they do the grunt work & get the outcomes you need ..NEVER forget THAT.
@@keepyourjobkeepyourjob7530 I’ve done all what you claim to have said I’ve not done. I counsel a lot of young men on the laws in their jurisdiction. Most lawyers are not on your side, and I’m close to them and the judges for which I routinely attend fundraisers. I went through a divorce with a trial lawyer which most judges hate. I escaped with no alimony, no child support and 50/50 custody - which is considered a win in a state which awards 80% custody to mothers. I know other men who got an idiot lawyer who is eventually going to fleece their client. Judges don’t want a trial. In fact most lawyers do not make money, unless they are top of their practice. You see divorce is a 55 billion dollar industry and growing. I’m just here as you to help other men, so don’t take it the wrong way.
@@chilipepper9938 good stuff ,I didn't take it the wrong way some men do not understand legal issues, when it comes to that my advice to young men or any man is to learn your rules on divorce before you get married & not after ..I'm happy for you on your win with the financial side ..the custody 50/50 is like a hell Mary, but hey that's another story .but I hope some men are reading this ,dialog so they can get a good ideal on exactly what steps to take on a divorce.
100% don’t even waste your time with it. It is almost a guarantee that it won’t work out, and you need to believe that when it comes to that time- the woman will hate you more than the ex who beat her, the ex who cheated on her, and you will be public enemy number one. Where you may want to work things out amicably, even if she was running around on you and she was the one who caused they marriage to fail, you are going to be the thing she wants to destroy more than anything in the world
@@mmorti1493 problem is the gold diggers know they don't work. So they actually sign them easier then honest women who may fear the guy wants an easy out when he's actually just covering his ass. I don't agree with the logic behind it, but I recognize it's what happens
Women are like "I wont sign a prenup, its like a contract for divorce" and then tell her friends she is just securing her bag because who will care for her after a divorce while no cared for a man until he had money and no one will care for him after a divorce...so no its not a contract for divorce
It is pretty messed up that women want to be single until they hit 30 and finally marry some guy who was building up his assets all through his 20s and she gets entitled to half of what he built up.
Ask any man thats ever been married if his woman treated him better or worse after he married her and every 1 of them will tell you Worse! What does that tell you? Girlfriend treatment is the best you'll ever get out of her fellas. Dont Get Married. From a man who has been married before. 💯
The problem is with men choosing these poor quality women. If men were not so weak, these poor quality women would get their act together or at the very least be single forever. Most men nowadays want a woman who is beautiful and nothing else, that is a recipe for disaster.
Very true and woman get so heated when told marriage 100% benefits them, All them come out of the woodwork and say “I got screwed in my divorce I only get x amount of dollars” meanwhile her ex lost the house, Kids and has to pay her $1,500-$5k+ a month all while she has a new strange man around his kids without his permission
I’m all for men’s rights and getting women to act traditional and fixing this me too/feminism/alphabet crazy world.. BUT to promote not getting married is crazy and actually evil to society if you’re looking from a religious point. Even though it’s riskier for the man to marry and he could lose half of his life I get that it still doesn’t trump the benefits marriage brings to the children, mental well being of the couple, financial perks, bonding etc. marriage is a traditional structure that helps society no matter how you look at it, yes the government use it as documents blah blah but the reality is marriage is needed for men and women to move forward. I see all of these channels telling women they’re not a “wife” holding them to that standard yet in the same breath saying don’t get married??! I’m an old school traditional man in my 30s I call a spade a spade wen I see it and this is one of the hypocrisy’s I have to call out. Do not stop marrying! It’s better for the children and the future. Get a prenuptial agreement and pick your wife CAREFULLY is what he should be saying.
Agreed after a 20 year marriage myself I gave everything up just so I wouldn't have to fight in court so in my 40s starting over completely and guess what now I have the kids too no child support from her at all she don't call or see them much at all to busy partying I guess. But that's ok because she is a woman yet if it was the other way around I would be treated like the biggest piece of crap
I like the parachute analogy. If before jumping out of a plane the jump leader tells you that you've got a 75% chance of the parachute failing. Do you jump?
Been with my chick 11 years now.. no kids.. not married… never having kids.. never getting married… lol 😂 I’ll buy her a ring but marriage is overrated.. a complete waste of money.. and honestly from all the “newer” relationships I’ve seen from friends… 99% of marriages are ending in divorce… something weird happens after they get married… everything was fine for years before… once they say “i do” it’s about a year later and life’s miserable and they are divorced 🤷🏻♂️
Problem is they arent trying for kids immediately after their honeymoon. Women get happiness from kids. Guys, if you do get married, you need to get her off birth control asap afterwards
The reason it ends up divorce. Once a woman has guarantied commitment, she loses interest. But if the commitment is not on a license, she has to worry she can be replaced. If you look up Briffault’s law, it starts to make sense why
Dr Dre was having an affair on his wife. If he didn't want to get divorced and have to pay her money then he shouldn't have been doing s*** like that either.
Cali will happily award a cheating wife the house and kids after destroying her family home. So quite frankly, nobody gives a god damn about the cheating even though I agree.
I think you shoukd have them sign an agreement and take a lie detector test, i.e body count, do you genuinely love me, are you honna stick with me through thick and thin, you arent just marrying me for my money/resources etc. Im a traditional woman who still has her virginity intact and i 100% prescribe to traditional genser roles, id be more than willing to take a lie detector test, and i think if you have a good, honest and genuine woman too it wont be a problem for them. Feminism has screwed up women, but there are still good women out there. Please dont give up on us men. We love you, appreciate you, respect you, and are grateful for all you do for us. Stay safe kings, and God bless.
