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Dr. K talks with twitch streamer LilyPichu about Albert, their breakup, infidelity, and long-standing depression. Lilypichu has a long history of depression or low self-worth stemming from her adolescence. On top of this, LilyPichu is an incredibly empathic person, thus people around her who may test high on the sociopathy scale may worsen her depression.
In this video, Dr. K talks with LilyPichu about twitch streaming, her twitch and youtube community, and her depression.
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@HealthyGamerGG
@HealthyGamerGG 3 года назад
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@akshatbansal5578
@akshatbansal5578 3 года назад
43 mins ago??
@bill9379
@bill9379 3 года назад
Ok
@Mr.5ame
@Mr.5ame 8 месяцев назад
​​@Tom_Het 3 years and 43 minutes ago :D
@GuyCN
@GuyCN 4 года назад
Anyone who can talk about their feelings, especially in a very public space, is peak chad.
@VonniXfiles
@VonniXfiles 4 года назад
This. Lily is now chad
@GuyCN
@GuyCN 4 года назад
Chad Lilly Chad Lilly Chad Lilly
@VonniXfiles
@VonniXfiles 4 года назад
@@ezaf5989 Her voice is nice. Not sure if you forgot this (/s)
@igorrotar5341
@igorrotar5341 4 года назад
@@VonniXfiles and opera is good music?
@altf8
@altf8 4 года назад
@@ezaf5989 judging people on things they can't change isn't very chad
@lovefirst6194
@lovefirst6194 3 года назад
these comments about micheal saving the day is undermining the work she went through to be able to be with someone again. she is so strong and i admire her so much.
@victoriatorres406
@victoriatorres406 3 года назад
love this love this love this love this love this
@cayfire129
@cayfire129 3 года назад
She was able to change herself so much that she was able to get into a happy relationship. Having Micheal there just made things better, it’s like the reward for all her hard work❤️
@amberisrad
@amberisrad 3 года назад
i didn't even know who Lily was but after watching this entire thing and scrolling down to the comments and following her twitch and realizing she was in a relationship, im so happy for her. it must've taken a lot to be able to trust and love again, not to mention love PUBLICLY again. i wish her so much love
@rockraise1014
@rockraise1014 3 года назад
This is truth, I also came from Michael Reeves's stuff. But credit where credit is due, everything she had been going through was hard and she did make it through in one piece.
@Nothing.nobody.
@Nothing.nobody. 3 года назад
She is so smart and amazing. I could never do what she did and stay this strong and vulnerable at the same time. So Emotionally smart.
@Philgob
@Philgob 4 года назад
"he cheated on me" "oh shit" lmao tht was funny how he was fully professional the whole time but then dropped this
@TofuAnimations
@TofuAnimations 4 года назад
Philgob ikr
@duke9874
@duke9874 4 года назад
Timestamp?
@duncanbeasley9280
@duncanbeasley9280 4 года назад
@@duke9874 first 5 minutes
@Listlesseye
@Listlesseye 4 года назад
It's not so much about being professional per say, it's about being relatable to the patient speech wise so they can lower their guard and what not, also he's a very casual chill guy if you've watched his stream or his other vids like this! XD
@lazyboi4937
@lazyboi4937 4 года назад
@@duke9874 4:10
@atomicsoupy69
@atomicsoupy69 4 года назад
I love this therapist. He makes sure that lily feels comfortable and doesn’t just jump in to like sensitive subjects. He sort of eases in to the topic and shows body language that he’s not judging her at all. I completely respect therapist and I commend them for the great job that they are doing.
@kesse3794
@kesse3794 4 года назад
And that’s on being a Harvard graduate
@Tyler-bp4md
@Tyler-bp4md 3 года назад
therapists are epic. just because how in depth and high level their job can be. learning how to make someone comfortable for instance can be one of the hardest things to do. its always very impressive to see how they do their job
@BlanBlan19901990
@BlanBlan19901990 3 года назад
@@Bauernade it pretty much is a cookie cutter therapy session tbh
@roman_scan
@roman_scan 3 года назад
I wish I had him as a therapist
@theotakusadventure5845
@theotakusadventure5845 2 года назад
We all need people like him in our life ^^ must be great being part of his familly.
@_silverword
@_silverword 4 года назад
Seeing Lily break down talking about the breakup is so heartbreaking. She's been so strong for the community these past couple months. What an amazing person
@ChiriConCarne
@ChiriConCarne 4 года назад
To think that she's been holding on to that emotion for months.
@matthewp4320
@matthewp4320 4 года назад
Time stamp?
@monsus7129
@monsus7129 4 года назад
@@matthewp4320 4:40
@Ian6279
@Ian6279 4 года назад
@@matthewp4320 when you skim vids and dont see the first 5 mins
@jetswept7427
@jetswept7427 4 года назад
Shes been so strong for HERSELF nerd
@newguidetoearth3030
@newguidetoearth3030 4 года назад
I love how Anok is just coming in and psychologically cleaning up the gaming community, streamer after streamer.
@afscrew123
@afscrew123 4 года назад
@Anzu Wyliei hence why he says in the beginning of every session with a streaming "I cant fix you over the internet" And why hes doing like serveral weeks of months with reckful now to actually make progress.
@newguidetoearth3030
@newguidetoearth3030 4 года назад
​@Anzu Wyliei Ok thanks for interpreting a jest as a thorough analysis
@newguidetoearth3030
@newguidetoearth3030 4 года назад
@Anzu Wyliei Yes. Thats what I said. I made a joke and you treated it like a serious statement. But it isnt a serious statement.
@newguidetoearth3030
@newguidetoearth3030 4 года назад
@Anzu Wyliei I think what you said can be clearly concluded by watching the video and as such a one sentence youtube comment not entirely mirroring the content of the video (in the sense you understood it) but still refering to the video as though having watched it most likely is a joke. Either way, if its just a misunderstanding theres no point in feuding over that, I apologise for being passive aggressive.
@theanonymoustalk
@theanonymoustalk 4 года назад
@@newguidetoearth3030 yeah I took u seriously too, until I saw ur comment
@iareanoob2277
@iareanoob2277 4 года назад
I'm glad she's happy with Michael now. I hope they stay happy and comfy
@UaenOnce
@UaenOnce 4 года назад
And marry each other!!!! And live happily ever afteeer
@liamnoakes511
@liamnoakes511 4 года назад
Yes.
@tilenHD
@tilenHD 4 года назад
at least if they break up i just want too ses a nice break the one taht dosent Make me hate one of them
@Proger-sj8cj
@Proger-sj8cj 4 года назад
tilenHD *That shit scares me , thinking if one of them moves away for some odd reason* Life is full of mysteries
@XTen1000DaysX
@XTen1000DaysX 4 года назад
is she with michael?
@hakseuu
@hakseuu 4 года назад
this turned to a therapy session for me and he isnt even talking to me
@HalfNathan
@HalfNathan 4 года назад
Ikr
@rockym.g.3827
@rockym.g.3827 4 года назад
AoE healing
@minamins22
@minamins22 4 года назад
trueeee
@thermdynamic4627
@thermdynamic4627 4 года назад
@@rockym.g.3827 I'm reading comments while listening and this comment bursted me out of laughter.
@abbywho4142
@abbywho4142 4 года назад
Im literally pausing every 10 minutes just bursting into tears.
@itspaxx4938
@itspaxx4938 4 года назад
when she said “i thought i’d marry him” i broke
@solistaVT
@solistaVT 4 года назад
and that he wasn't happy :"((
@ijlala3799
@ijlala3799 4 года назад
i know, how evil can albert the cheater be to leave this perfect flower
@serpentphoenix
@serpentphoenix 4 года назад
when does she say that? I watched the entire thing and I feel like I missed it lol
@itspaxx4938
@itspaxx4938 4 года назад
serpentphoenix idk i think it’s around 15-30 minutes in
@jeremylim2421
@jeremylim2421 4 года назад
A lot of women seem to think that
@tankfire20
@tankfire20 4 года назад
Why is it so hard to find any constructive therapy in America, why is a twitch vod posted on RU-vid out of all places the best therapy I can find.
@eminemilly
@eminemilly 4 года назад
True but at least I can talk to my therapist
@kingcurry5139
@kingcurry5139 4 года назад
Well you see, some of the best and most constructive therapy, isn’t streamed for patient confidentiality. It takes balls to LIVESTREAM or make videos on therapy. Looking to other people’s therapy isn’t a good way to resolve or use it as catharsis for your own therapy.
@Billy-rz1jg
@Billy-rz1jg 4 года назад
Unfortunately therapy takes going to a lot of different people until you meet one that works for you specifically. And in the US not all people are able to get therapy because of health insurance issues.
@mihirx27
@mihirx27 4 года назад
Remember, it's not therapy though. *wink wink*
@mychaeljones7526
@mychaeljones7526 4 года назад
STOP.
@Apudurangdinya
@Apudurangdinya 4 года назад
meanwhile michael tazed his way into lily's heart
@moonsaer
@moonsaer 4 года назад
Best comment
@cmac8226
@cmac8226 4 года назад
might have actually tazed her heart as well
@akashverma4280
@akashverma4280 3 года назад
Aww, that's so cute.
@thebleachbartender1312
@thebleachbartender1312 3 года назад
What a wholesome relationship
@evolViral
@evolViral 3 года назад
*Through Lies and Deceit*
@PhoenixLive_YT
@PhoenixLive_YT 4 года назад
the moment she mentions her ex boyfriend he immediately switch his attention to something, what a madlad Lol
@Psydo
@Psydo 4 года назад
@@WellBeSerious12 that shits bullshit way too broad
@WellBeSerious12
@WellBeSerious12 3 года назад
@@Psydo Of course people would start getting aversive, defensive, or threatening with something they'd not understand.
@furkan10ky
@furkan10ky 3 года назад
I just did the test and it says my personality is architect.
@meganutHUGE
@meganutHUGE 3 года назад
@@furkan10ky i got logician, INTP-T
@nerdloser9987
@nerdloser9987 3 года назад
@@WellBeSerious12 the whole personality type thing sounds like zodiac signs LOL
@kuroryu1638
@kuroryu1638 4 года назад
31:15 lily is saying that albert shouldn't get so much hate even thought she is hurting SOO MUCH, god you deserve the whole heaven
@cobi421
@cobi421 4 года назад
bro what is so hard to understand that albert shouldnt get so much hate after losing friends and fans
@kuroryu1638
@kuroryu1638 4 года назад
@@cobi421 he got hate AND losses friend because of what he did, not got hate and losses friend because of the hate
@madhavraghu
@madhavraghu 4 года назад
@@kuroryu1638 Yeah, and she's saying that he shouldn't have gotten that much hate for what he did
@kuroryu1638
@kuroryu1638 4 года назад
@@madhavraghu and for me its amazing that she did that because imagine your boyfriend cheated with your best friend, thats mental and even after that lily is still thinking about albert well being
@madhavraghu
@madhavraghu 4 года назад
@@kuroryu1638 yeah that's true
@jinyboi
@jinyboi 4 года назад
"a lot of people watchign twitch feels disappointment in themselves" hit the nail on the head lol
@krippaxxuseredarlordofthes9940
@krippaxxuseredarlordofthes9940 4 года назад
4Head
@igorrotar5341
@igorrotar5341 4 года назад
agree
@DynomiteKid65
@DynomiteKid65 4 года назад
@@krippaxxuseredarlordofthes9940 Exhibit A.
@kintokisa
@kintokisa 4 года назад
Well, that applies to a lot of people... And "people watching twitch" are a lot of people. So obv
@followingtheroe1952
@followingtheroe1952 4 года назад
Technically that's true of anything
@JaisiTang
@JaisiTang 4 года назад
It scares me how many people hate Lily because of her voice, and how she shouldn’t be sad because she is “lucky”. Just because you’re “lucky”, or have money, doesn’t change the fact you can be sad when something horrible happens to you.
@christiandalecotes2320
@christiandalecotes2320 4 года назад
The only reason I found her channel was because of her voice and her personality earned my sub.
@CarlsCozyCorner
@CarlsCozyCorner 3 года назад
I think people who hate her for her voice are pretty insecure themselves.
@rafay564
@rafay564 3 года назад
hate her for her voice man who tf are those people ? i love her voice
@dmkmn4612
@dmkmn4612 3 года назад
Isnt she just speaking like some anime girl so weebs watch her and donate
@poggers4392
@poggers4392 3 года назад
@@dmkmn4612 weak bait
@beccamistic2218
@beccamistic2218 4 года назад
It just broke me seeing her cry at the beginning..I’m so happy that she’s with someone who truly loves her and wants to show the world how amazing she is right now. Big shout out to Michael Reeves to be always so considerate of Lily’s well being. If you watched her drunk stream, it takes a real man to think about the future and order food for her knowing she’ll be hungry. It takes a real man to accept all of Lily, her sad emotions, her low self esteem, and see her at her lowest point and still love her. He may be young and be quirky normally, but he takes his relationship seriously and puts in his best efforts to cherish Lily. I love them both so much (I’m crying like a proud father don’t judge 🤧🤧)
@sebjink.9037
@sebjink.9037 4 года назад
Either that, or the excessive crack use is making him see into the future
@beccamistic2218
@beccamistic2218 4 года назад
Sebjin K. Ahahaha trueeee
@rage9428
@rage9428 4 года назад
yeah he also told her subtly to "cut down on oversharing" when she was drunk and here she says that she wishes the break up wasn't so public, he literally takes the sad possibility of an end into consideration right now or it's just me reading too much into it
@saritrisnawati9346
@saritrisnawati9346 4 года назад
@@rage9428 well let's not read too much into it, just let them be happy for now. Me personally just take it as him being embarrassed if everyone knows every cute little things he do for his gf, not necessarily worried about what will happen if they broke up. Maybe I'm naive, but I just hope they're happy.
@wrenchguy2937
@wrenchguy2937 4 года назад
Beccamistic i feel u man. Lilys a good person. Ur not the only one fam haha
@Kwebicloz
@Kwebicloz 4 года назад
"Nothing inspires hate as much as seeing the person that you could be." Such a powerful statement. Love these one liners from Dr. K
@AgainstThisWorld
@AgainstThisWorld 4 года назад
people hate her because she has a easy life even though she doesn't do anything meaning to herself to the world or to society in short word is based on jealousy I don't hate her, but I won't watch her I find her friend worse than her that pokimane I think she has traits of a manipulative girl
@ELeonko
@ELeonko 4 года назад
@@AgainstThisWorld But that feeling that she doesn't "do anything" comes from somewhere. It's when people see the end result that I think inspires jealousy. Everyone who has a computer or the internet has it easy compared to 50% of the entire world's population. Yet people in 1st world countries suffer more from suicides and depression than in poor countries. There are a lot of depressed people streaming on twitch (as well as people who have committed suicides that live on social media). If you're not happy with your life, you won't be after you become a streamer either.
@ELeonko
@ELeonko 4 года назад
@Burak Ormanoglu Destiny is a rare example. He has been happy his whole life and he has never had any mental issues. Those people exist in all kinds of fields and they're not limited to only twitch. He appreciates what he has and I believe he would appreciate what he has regardless of streaming.
@smadworld8515
@smadworld8515 4 года назад
Equal true
@smadworld8515
@smadworld8515 4 года назад
Equal you right try’s jkap a twam
@bruhyote132
@bruhyote132 4 года назад
Lilly is one of those content creators I don't watch at all anymore, but I'll occasionally drop by her streams for a few minutes to see if she's changed at all since the last decade and I'm proud to see her always being her. I have to give mad respects to Lilly because I remember how, back when she hadn't even revealed her face yet, people were always going on about how "oh lilly's voice is so fake", "lilly's probably ugly irl", "lilly this lilly that". Yet... She's still managed to armor through a lot of shit through out all of these years. It's truly fascinating watching what people thought was this "feeble little girl" muscle through all of the psychological bullshit that's been thrown at her and keep pushing forward, I honestly can't think of many other content creators getting this much _undeserved_ hate and not quitting after a couple years. Key word "undeserved" because we all know everyone who's popular has haters, no shit, but I really don't think Lilly's done ANYTHING worthy of her getting all of the hate she's gathered through out all this time. It's sad, but it's good to see that she's strong enough to withstand all of this hatred. I'm definitely no simp, but I can respect Lilly as a fellow human being who knows how to take punches to the gut time and time again and keep getting up.
@VisualConnection
@VisualConnection 4 года назад
I wish that I could thumbs up your comment twice!
@swergelflerberson4453
@swergelflerberson4453 4 года назад
Gay
@MasterXiggy
@MasterXiggy 4 года назад
Bruh Yote well spoken
@jie3135
@jie3135 4 года назад
I hate to be the one to point this out, I really do, but just for future reference theres only one L in lily, also I 100000% agree with your statement and hope you have a good day :)
@Xadadadron
@Xadadadron 4 года назад
@@swergelflerberson4453 If you have nothing valuable to add to a conversation, remain silent please :)
@danjirocisnerosalvarez3724
@danjirocisnerosalvarez3724 4 года назад
Lily being sad: Michael: (Nightmare and goblin sounds intensifies)
@saftschinken2353
@saftschinken2353 4 года назад
REEEEEEEEE
@bobthejester3105
@bobthejester3105 4 года назад
Distant tazer sounds to protect his roomba. Reference when lily voice micheals roomba that curses.
@CarlsCozyCorner
@CarlsCozyCorner 3 года назад
"DON'T WORRY, I'LL TAZE YOU BACK INTO A HEALTHY MINDSET!" ~Michael, probably
@drex5160
@drex5160 3 года назад
@@saftschinken2353 CHUUUUU
@iwoodbustanut7380
@iwoodbustanut7380 2 года назад
@@CarlsCozyCorner that's...both horrifying and wholesome, I've never seen these two words mix till now
@edwardseverinsen5598
@edwardseverinsen5598 4 года назад
I love how he makes it clear that this chat isn't for the fans. If there's an awkward silence, so be it. This is about _her_ and not about putting on a show for the audience.
@supermonkeyyyyyy
@supermonkeyyyyyy 4 года назад
Damn I saw it on stream and even though the doctor tries to stay neutral and didn't know her before you can tell he is touched by Lily's genuine kindness and really wants to help her.
@coop.r
@coop.r 4 года назад
supermonkeyyyyyy yeah you can tell he really wanted to help her because he was saying at the beginning of the stream “At the end of the hour” but then the whole thing ended up going on for like 2 hours and 30 mins.
@mm-dh2bs
@mm-dh2bs 4 года назад
Yeah you can cleary feel that when he trashtalks the haters and says he's being protective of her. I think that's genuinely really cute and great to see on Twitch.
@leonbishop7404
@leonbishop7404 4 года назад
i mean thats the best thing he can do to promote himself
@fliown5413
@fliown5413 4 года назад
@@leonbishop7404 are you hurt ?
@leonbishop7404
@leonbishop7404 4 года назад
@@fliown5413 what? This is true and there is nothing wrong with it
@jeffrey3826
@jeffrey3826 4 года назад
when he started talking about "how people come back to the shitty restaurant because of the food" everything added up and i saw how every single one of his arguments had a meaning to it. I know this is his job but it's really cool to see and super hard to describe. Mad respect for you and lily
@AquilaPainWhy
@AquilaPainWhy 4 года назад
can you elaborate on what this means please?
@Michael-op1lj
@Michael-op1lj 4 года назад
​@@AquilaPainWhy I'm not 100% sure but I think @Quadril is referring to the way Dr K's observations are trying to make Lily realise how great she is, she is the "food" in a restaurant, even when she thinks that on the outside she is ugly, not deserving of her fame or her fans who always tune in to watch her. Dr K is saying that she has value in herself and her actual personality and what she does. He wants her to see that no matter what her outward presentation is (like the service at a restaurant), that the real reason people are there is for her and that what she does and who she is - what she does has value and helps people. For the first hour or so they have been discussing the ways that her sense of worth has suffered, related to her childhood [and her breakup which gave her attention on the internet also lead to her having more fans which she feels undeserving of, because in some way those people "showed up" due to her breakup; but actually 99% of her fans like her for her] Dr K is trying to make her see that "Lily 2" who is the part of her that is afraid of being a disappointment/doesn't feel she deserves her fame, that she should accept and reassure that part of herself and believe in her value - as she would reassure a fellow streamer in her shoes.
@zuzaosowiecka
@zuzaosowiecka 4 года назад
this is very off topic and all but i think it’d be very interesting to see Sykkuno on one of these.
@shaddjimenez4524
@shaddjimenez4524 3 года назад
It’s still on topic, no need to put a disclaimer. I also agree that Sykkuno would be interesting.
@srk3studios138
@srk3studios138 3 года назад
Sykkuno has mentioned going on it very recently, but he said there are things he isn't ready to talk about yet.
@zuzaosowiecka
@zuzaosowiecka 3 года назад
@@srk3studios138 ah yeah i wasn’t aware when i wrote the comment. thanks for letting me know :)
@87turtle6
@87turtle6 3 года назад
@@zuzaosowiecka i feel like he would dodge a lot of the questions
@BigFanOfCocks
@BigFanOfCocks 3 года назад
@Bot Robot I- that sounds really similar to what I do tbh... both Lily and Sykkuno try to understand the hater, knowing that the hater might be going through something and hating to somehow cope with that or is a result of it Both of them are so kind and patient, and I really admire that
@gamerbrain5633
@gamerbrain5633 4 года назад
Broooo, when Dr.K was on the phone and said "Hello?" and Lily responded with "Hi" not knowing he wasn't talking to her, that was so fucking cuteeeeeeeeeeee dudeeee
@Ghashlord
@Ghashlord 4 года назад
i would NOT do this publicly, ever. BIG props to Lily, she has titan balls. Edit: Removing previous edit due to respect for Lily regarding the recent events.
@yayayuki8542
@yayayuki8542 4 года назад
She's part of the boys after all
@Xavier-kg7bt
@Xavier-kg7bt 4 года назад
@@yayayuki8542 TRUUUE
@flare-4779
@flare-4779 4 года назад
Why not? Because of peoples opinions?
@Zero001
@Zero001 4 года назад
I mean back in the day we always said Lily was a 10ft tall buff black dude with a huge dong(almost everyone skipped the last part, almost). Of course she has huge balls! But seriously, she is very brave
@GreenGoblinCoryintheHouse
@GreenGoblinCoryintheHouse 4 года назад
Wait a minute
@guhbuhfuh
@guhbuhfuh 4 года назад
You can really see how she becomes more comfortable progressively through out the video He has an incredible gift
@iGrantWishes
@iGrantWishes 4 года назад
I agree that he's pretty incredible. But I think it's something he earned through years of work, study, and cultivating himself rather than a gift he just happens to have.
@ianparmley1566
@ianparmley1566 4 года назад
@@iGrantWishes He's proving that gifts can (and should) be earned
@ZishaMadeit
@ZishaMadeit 4 года назад
Indeed
@FirebladeXXL
@FirebladeXXL 4 года назад
he learned and improved. i think its so disrespectful to just say ppl are gifted or talented when they got where they are through hard work.
@rickirazerblade9983
@rickirazerblade9983 4 года назад
@@FirebladeXXL if only anyone could get anywhere given enough hard work
@kaiyuuyuu
@kaiyuuyuu 4 года назад
At like 11:00 she tries to compliment his hair and I'm so sad, she's so sweet and I just wish her all the happiness in the world
@theedinghamfam1533
@theedinghamfam1533 Год назад
10:58 *
@VIHXS_
@VIHXS_ 4 года назад
Dr.K is literally a blessing on Twitch. I’m glad he came and did this with reckful and now seeing him helping and hearing out other streamers is amazing to see. Props to him
@finalflash98
@finalflash98 4 года назад
I wish Etika had gone through something like this. It would have helped him come to terms with his different personas.
@milosniffer5293
@milosniffer5293 4 года назад
He had "different personas" ?
@caronimaca
@caronimaca 4 года назад
never really watched him, but yeah I agree. it’s pretty sad
@taku6541
@taku6541 4 года назад
Milo Sniffer I’m pretty sure everyone does u don’t act the same way with ur friends as u do with ur mom right?
@ianparmley1566
@ianparmley1566 4 года назад
@@taku6541 But it can get very confusing when you have to maintain different personas for different people, and it raises the deep question of: Who am I? Do I deserve to exist?
@milkcourier1224
@milkcourier1224 4 года назад
no one knows or could know if he had different personas other than him or someone who personally talked to him.
@fayne3176
@fayne3176 4 года назад
Lily's streams are comforting and funny. She honestly has the only stream that can kick all my stress out the door and make me feel so warm inside. I honestly just wish for her to be happy.
@mattygoodtimes8347
@mattygoodtimes8347 4 года назад
Lily*
@hbuuyi26
@hbuuyi26 4 года назад
same =)
@jakekay1050
@jakekay1050 4 года назад
You could say her stream makes you *comfy*???? Hmmmm???? I'm gonna stop, sorry...
@KaisertigerX
@KaisertigerX 4 года назад
Stay comfy
@MissyJ
@MissyJ 4 года назад
It hurts to hear someone as talented as Lily feel like she isn't good enough for the attention she's gotten.
@Ari-ne2yb
@Ari-ne2yb 2 года назад
Ikr she can play games well, she can play music, sing, animate, sketch, make digital art, is a wonderful and genuine person, can stream well, is hilarious. It's so sad she feels this way.
@matcha6029
@matcha6029 4 года назад
Props to Lily for talking about her real emotions in front of so many people for HOURS. My therapy session lasts for 45 minutes and some days I’ll feel SO exhausted and would never want to talk about my feelings for the rest of the day. She’s talking about something she avoided by drinking yet here she is, accepting her weakness. LILY U R SO STRONG WE LOVE U SM
@comrad3892
@comrad3892 Год назад
Eeee eeeeeee
@UltimateWaifuXD
@UltimateWaifuXD 4 года назад
It breaks my heart to see Lily cry. She's too good for this world. Definitely deserved better.
@PataJuzmo
@PataJuzmo 4 года назад
Just like all the animals she eats.
@warlord23100
@warlord23100 4 года назад
jussi ?
@andrewmemelord3561
@andrewmemelord3561 4 года назад
jussi vegans go to hell :D
@pittaaaabread
@pittaaaabread 4 года назад
@@PataJuzmo ????? How the fuck is that at all relevant to the current issue?
@SonicRainbpw
@SonicRainbpw 4 года назад
Good thing her relationship with albert magically dissapeared
@smellyfish36
@smellyfish36 4 года назад
God bless Dr K, the boomer savior of twitch
@AXharoth
@AXharoth 4 года назад
a boomer is someone who were born right after ww2 . so in around 45-50 so no hes not a boomer
@poppi3362
@poppi3362 4 года назад
@@AXharoth wooosh
@fredwho
@fredwho 4 года назад
@@AXharoth That is where the term originated from. Boomer is a term that can be attributed to any person of any age depending on whether they apply to the characteristics of an actual baby boomer. Boomer is attributed to Dr. K, jokingly partly due to his technological incompetence. I think i can speak for most people and say there is no ill intent in using it.
@6uzhombre
@6uzhombre 4 года назад
@@AXharoth k now go back to league and never come back
@barildan
@barildan 4 года назад
Just Dr Boomer
@ryangil4435
@ryangil4435 3 года назад
I'm not even 5 minutes in and I'm already crying along with Lily. She goes through so much but still puts on a smile and entertains and literally works to make us smile. God bless this woman honestly.
@ryangil4435
@ryangil4435 3 года назад
Also HE CALLED OUT FED SO HARD AND DIDNT EVEN KNOW IT
@a_stinkyzoe2361
@a_stinkyzoe2361 4 года назад
honestly watching this back now and seeing how michael treats her it makes me happy that he puts so much effort in....ofc i'm on the outside looking in and i never knew albert well at all or any of these content creators but just seeing how much pain she was in here compared to now just makes me so happy to see her happy, she deserves the happiness she's getting and i know some pain might still be there, also despite what albert did i hope he's doing ok mentally to and can maybe appreciate things more in the future.
@FirebladeXXL
@FirebladeXXL 4 года назад
i think his style of therapy shows perfectly that you dont have to be empathic to be a good coach. he said it himself: his sociopathy scale is quite high, and yet he manages to do a very deep and cathartic session.
@bobbruh8538
@bobbruh8538 4 года назад
Too many big words got confused
@wibblemu9
@wibblemu9 4 года назад
I really enjoy the way he uses pointed questions
@matsab7930
@matsab7930 4 года назад
DatVocals! In a sense his sociopathy might help him - I get sad just hearing her talk about it and am not sure I could be objective with my questioning and approach as a result of that.
@johnnyperry1471
@johnnyperry1471 4 года назад
Sociopath's are incredibly observant of social cues, it is how they blend in with the emotional masses without truly feeling the same, imitation. They are incredible at picking things up subconsciously and using those things without any effort. An empath while being equally intuitive are unable to separate other peoples emotions from their own, they naturally take things more personally. His disconnect with his patient could be his advantage.
@FirebladeXXL
@FirebladeXXL 4 года назад
@@johnnyperry1471 this. while you cant say sociopaths in general are that observant, when they are they absolutely have an advantage in therapy and coaching.
@jammie7822
@jammie7822 4 года назад
"You're trying to take care of yourself as if you're a normal person, but you're not a normal person. You're just too full of love." 😢😢 Damn dude you didnt have to make me cry in front of my salad
@drosnelochmir6346
@drosnelochmir6346 4 года назад
Salad cries with you
@areziellacson5420
@areziellacson5420 3 года назад
hahahha
@watermalone5782
@watermalone5782 3 года назад
@@drosnelochmir6346 the sauces just drip down the plate
@mellodiyas
@mellodiyas 3 года назад
Time stamp?
@Borderlynx
@Borderlynx 3 года назад
@@mellodiyas 1:34:15 or so
@ReyaadGafur
@ReyaadGafur 4 года назад
1:10:52 "Every gamer is a little bit broken" Yes. Definitely. Broken from several places, like expectations, results, and escaping reality.
@memebot69
@memebot69 4 года назад
yes we play games to escape life problems and reality
@icyxel963
@icyxel963 4 года назад
That hits hard
@spicy_taco2267
@spicy_taco2267 3 года назад
:(
@joselleannetv
@joselleannetv 3 года назад
Agree
@marknguyen1886
@marknguyen1886 3 года назад
2:09:50 Dr. K: Did you have trouble sleeping last night? Lily: I have trouble sleeping every night. BREAKS MY HEART :(
@JesusInStripeZ
@JesusInStripeZ 2 года назад
I wonder if she's been sleeping better these days or if that's something that's just gonna stick with her forever
@chillux9404
@chillux9404 2 года назад
@@JesusInStripeZ o
@nukebogdanov2577
@nukebogdanov2577 4 года назад
Every streamer getting in a public setting to discuss their problems with Dr. K is an absolute baller and has no idea how much they are helping us figure out and process our own problems. I can't imagine myself doing that, but for someone to have the balls to do it it's on a such a high level of courage that it deserves praise!!!! Gj Lily, LS, Reckful and all you other magnificent sons of bitches, thank you for doing your part.
@SparklessBubble
@SparklessBubble 4 года назад
@@nicholastho4339 Those guys kinda came to mind prima vista, but I've watched all of the talks and I was able to get something out of every interaction on this channel.
@3InchesofLove
@3InchesofLove 4 года назад
Very thankful for all of this. I’m a marriage and family therapist intern and watching him helps me so much to learn how to ask better questions and what kinds of things he notices
@pwnwin
@pwnwin 4 года назад
want to like this so bad but its at 666, ugh, Satan why?
@bobbymanny8043
@bobbymanny8043 4 года назад
I also think it’s important for us to see our favorite streamers/influencers in a more vulnerable (idk if that’s the tight word) light because I think it really helps us relate to them more as a person and it bring them down to our level in an emotional sense.
@YoshiKatherine
@YoshiKatherine 4 года назад
She's griefing for her relationship, the future she imagined of that relationship. She not only lost her boyfriend, but her best friend. The person she thought got her completely. The one she thought had her back. Being cheated on, when in a long term relationship after 2-3 years no cheating no problems is hard. Even worst if they are part of your friendship group. I went throught this quite young, when I was 18-20 years old. I was at university and seperated from my SO. So it was a lot easier to distract. But he was 100% part of her life. In her videos, future trips. Thats fucking horrible. I feel for Lily
@ushjaba1067
@ushjaba1067 4 года назад
YoshiKatherine and the facts she already in a new relationship. Apparently she’s dating Micheal reeves now
@moki9079
@moki9079 4 года назад
If you look at her with Michael Reeves, you can tell shes super happy!! I admire Lily for being mature and leaving that past behind her. She’s looking forward.
@sophiayamagughi
@sophiayamagughi 4 года назад
Exactly. Man, but for us fans, it really is sad to see. I saw lily and albert irl in may 2019 when they came to seattle and she looked so happy. Smh
@danielhewson4132
@danielhewson4132 4 года назад
margobyun Michael is super affectionate towards her and let’s her be around him as much as she wants. He embraces her hugs openly and she can pour her love onto him. Albert barely let her hug him and he would collaborate with girls while she was gone. All her friends knew Albert was no good.
@juanpunchman5484
@juanpunchman5484 4 года назад
@@ushjaba1067 To be fair If I was Lily I'd tap Micheal.
@zori5503
@zori5503 6 месяцев назад
i honestly want to say to lily that her talking about feelings is my favourite part of her content. thats genuienely one of the only things i watch and it gives me comfort
@begyourpardon3224
@begyourpardon3224 4 года назад
How could anyone hurt this beautiful human being? She’s such a strong woman..
@Yumi9426
@Yumi9426 4 года назад
When my boyfriend cheated on me I wanted the world to know and hate on him. Lily is just so kind to feel bad for someone that hurt her I admire her so much
@kylelilley4814
@kylelilley4814 4 года назад
Everyone copes differently in the face of emotional trauma
@XiaoOoGwei
@XiaoOoGwei 4 года назад
incredibly kind, almost too kind. How can she blame herself for someone else cheating on her? Apparently Albert said the reason he cheated was because he wasn't happy. Like a cheater will ever say, because I'm greedy. Failure of a relationship can be blamed on two people; but the decision to cheat is ALL on the cheater.
@scsi2707
@scsi2707 4 года назад
When I got cheated on, I felt the same but I got hated for absolutely no reason at all. Some people don’t deserve so much hate but some who cheat for the sake of it deserve hatred.
@gracealicemarie877
@gracealicemarie877 4 года назад
Ok I understand nobody really cares but I need to say it. My ex boyfriend and I went to a dance and in that weekend he broke up with me over text. I never really found out but I'm pretty sure he was cheating on me with one of my friends and then was trying to dumb that friend and try to go for my best friend. That day was not fun because I was already dealing with so much crap. I'm so glad my best friend was there for me when it happened, I love her so much.
@scsi2707
@scsi2707 4 года назад
Alice_Wolf _Gacha Only douches don’t care. I care, I understand your problems. I got cheated on for my good friend and they got cheated on for my other friend.
@appleswithpears2667
@appleswithpears2667 4 года назад
having these on Spotify as a "podcast" would be so great
@tannismitchell1806
@tannismitchell1806 4 года назад
or sound cloud
@piliph05
@piliph05 4 года назад
Blackorwhite or pornhub... no? Just me? Okay...
@hsmacaraig
@hsmacaraig 4 года назад
piano tiles?
@brycetaylor9125
@brycetaylor9125 4 года назад
Apples with pears or Pandora.
@chinmuandingguite1738
@chinmuandingguite1738 4 года назад
Amazon basics?
@gummywormjim
@gummywormjim Месяц назад
I totally empathize with Lily on so much of this. It's so hard to feel worthy of good things sometimes. I spent so many years of my life feeling unworthy of happiness and unworthy of good things. Healing and working through those feelings is difficult but it's so worth it.
@bananapie9211
@bananapie9211 3 года назад
this is like a really nice dad cheering up their daughter yk when he’s like Dr K: “ *talk for who??* “ lily: “ *flustered sputtering* “
@vlazurah789
@vlazurah789 4 года назад
The talk about Lily 2 reminded me of Naruto and his struggle with the Waterfall of Truth. Loving the other side of you that is always in pain and accepting this pain, allows you to love yourself completely and become whole.
@OlPalJoe
@OlPalJoe 4 года назад
Looks like Dr. k is a Weeb lol
@neilghosh3821
@neilghosh3821 4 года назад
Carl jungs shadow analysis also fits in this no ?
@OlPalJoe
@OlPalJoe 4 года назад
@@neilghosh3821 *shadow clone
@AXharoth
@AXharoth 4 года назад
@@neilghosh3821 i dotn think shadow is hating yourself but idk could be
@bl4nk451
@bl4nk451 4 года назад
WEEBS DansGame
@unexpectedcolors5068
@unexpectedcolors5068 4 года назад
Holy crap. 3 minutes in, and the amount of intuition this man used to in the moment he asked Lilly to explain to the audience the topic was BRILLIANT to see. 1) Was looking to get a base line of how comfortable she. 2) Saw she was, not at ALL comfortable, and that pushing to hard here was a bad idea. 3) Took a step back to talk about a more positive topic; Sleep. (Which, if you've ever done any research on sleep would be really obvious that this was a really good topic in which you could segway into a PLETHORA of deeper topics) 4) Very, very good balance of asking for specific/tangible answers and making her dig a little deeper for them. And this was in the first 3 minutes... SUPER sensitive with the person he's conversing with.
@aurimasturkus289
@aurimasturkus289 4 года назад
well, he's from Harvard. No wonder he is smart
@aurimasturkus289
@aurimasturkus289 4 года назад
@illogicalrelish born and raised
@thomaskhan5021
@thomaskhan5021 4 года назад
@@aurimasturkus289 In Harvard born and raised In the lecture hall is where I spent most of my days
@psy__guy__9884
@psy__guy__9884 4 года назад
I'm a doctral clinical psychology student and I can tell you that this guy is the real deal. He has such an incredible way of building a therapeutic alliance with streamers. He makes it seem so effortless. I hope I can be half the clinician he is one day
@danielchun8420
@danielchun8420 4 года назад
@@psy__guy__9884 Hey man I hope that you can get there one day. The world needs more people like you and Dr.K to help us through our struggles. Thanks for your efforts! :)
@dblanque
@dblanque 3 года назад
I just rewatched the entire interview for 1:23:30 and Dr. K's ascension to a higher plane.
@ahobby
@ahobby 3 года назад
We all have moments like that :) Still, I laughed. Because it's relatable :D
@endokenji94
@endokenji94 2 года назад
I rewatched that bit ten times and still don't understand what happened
@MNoir
@MNoir 4 года назад
I'm just 16 minutes in but I have to agree so so so much with dr. K when he says people follow Lily exactly because she's a complex human being with feelings. Sometimes watching youtubers that only share the positives of life makes me feel a disconnect & also makes me feel weird and aweful for not always having good days. The world needs more people like Lily who are so honest, so that maybe we can heal eachother a bit
@danielhe9131
@danielhe9131 4 года назад
“Nothing inspires hate as much as seeing the person that you could be.” - Dr. K 2020
@nabeelfarooq3573
@nabeelfarooq3573 3 года назад
1 year exactly and this is my first time watching the video and it really shows a more detailed lily
@Outlier117
@Outlier117 4 года назад
“Where did you get the presumption that you have to control being sad?” Damn I felt that......
@honesty1381
@honesty1381 3 года назад
Lily apologizing for crying and being sad literally breaks my heart bc I love her so much and she doesn’t deserve this pain😭😭🤍
@momijinohanako
@momijinohanako 4 года назад
It saddens me so much that Lily feels that she's not talented, doesn't deserve success, etc. Just the fact that she's the one earning probably hundreds of thousands of dollars, enough to help her mom buy a house (!), and she and her brother still talk about her as the "failed beta"? I wish she could see that talent doesn't always come in the form of good grades or achievements like that. Sometimes just your personality and your ability to NOT conform to these standards of success could be talent in and of itself. For example, the fun in her piano streams is because of her interest and how she's having fun with her instrument. Nobody cares that she doesn't have a music degree from some esteemed university. Hope this conversation helped her in understanding this.
@natenso5291
@natenso5291 4 года назад
God, I've watched Lily since early 2012, and I've never seen her like this. I'm really glad she felt comfortable enough to truly talk about her emotions and how she feels.
@siegpasta
@siegpasta 4 года назад
he's just a great psychologist with alot of confidence. that's why.
@orionl7406
@orionl7406 4 года назад
Natenso i never knew she was an OG streamer PogChamp
@YoXeV
@YoXeV 4 года назад
is he a real psychologist?
@siegpasta
@siegpasta 4 года назад
@@YoXeV YES. One from Harvard University.....
@witchsorrowful1918
@witchsorrowful1918 4 года назад
@@YoXeV He teaches and practices psychology at Harvard Med School.
@cryfest
@cryfest 4 года назад
Lily is MASSIVE CHAD. I would never do this.
@jojofuckingsucks9785
@jojofuckingsucks9785 4 года назад
simp
@MarcusOwnsYou
@MarcusOwnsYou 3 года назад
She’s an amazing person ☺️
@bananapie9211
@bananapie9211 3 года назад
@Petal lanes chad: brave
@Huntracony
@Huntracony 3 года назад
@@avrilisraven Oh, come on! It's LilyPichad!
@fungling7982
@fungling7982 3 года назад
@matchafields chad is pretty much the personification of everything masculine lol
@NachoPerez03
@NachoPerez03 Месяц назад
Gotta leave a comment. Dr K., your videos are like free therapy sessions; they give me so much insight on what could've caused my brain to treat me so negatively, and help me unlock memories I had completely covered up (past traumas i suppose) which, I feel, are bringing me closer to the true origin of my negative mentality. Thank you so much, take care. And lots of love to the community, we're getting better step by step!
@bixierin951
@bixierin951 4 года назад
Lily is literally the sweetest streamer, i]and I love watching her because she’s genuinely so entertaining! I defiantly do feel like she does at times, but it’s more so with friends. When I was depressed I’d stop hanging out with my friends because I never felt as if I deserved them.
@owenconnaughton7088
@owenconnaughton7088 4 года назад
Damn, what an amazing quote from Dr. K, “nothing inspires hate like seeing the person you could be”
@blarblablarblar
@blarblablarblar 4 года назад
a nigga TRUUUUUUUUUU
@ntw3394
@ntw3394 4 года назад
1:33:00
@gameplaydesigner7329
@gameplaydesigner7329 4 года назад
She wants to be a cheater
@reduXstereo
@reduXstereo 3 года назад
It's not an amazing quote. It's just a jumbled version of saying jealousy inspires hate and strife. You shouldn't hate seeing the person you could be. You should learn from it not become hateful from it.
@arraikcruor6407
@arraikcruor6407 3 года назад
@@reduXstereo he didn't say be hateful, he says that inspires hate. 2 completely different things.
@kolbypham7318
@kolbypham7318 4 года назад
I'm a neuroscience major looking into becoming a psychiatrist and Dr. K just keeps reminding me of the good I can put into the world some day.
@cameroncarley7958
@cameroncarley7958 4 года назад
I know this is a little late but good for you man
@rockym.g.3827
@rockym.g.3827 4 года назад
Keep it up bruh
@minamins22
@minamins22 4 года назад
this is rly late but i'm rooting for you!!
@tailopezbutnolamborghini4862
@tailopezbutnolamborghini4862 4 года назад
As a fellow vietnamese, I will also do good for the world by fixing teeth :)
@rockym.g.3827
@rockym.g.3827 4 года назад
@@tailopezbutnolamborghini4862 I am 1/8 vietnamese, that counts too right?
@MemesnShet
@MemesnShet 4 года назад
Damn this guy is really good on catching stuff and details on the fly and dissecting,organizing and connecting them
@MemesnShet
@MemesnShet 4 года назад
Hearing someone that’s so cute and adorable cry has like a *x16 sad bonus*
@auniquehandle
@auniquehandle 4 года назад
1:23:35 this guy just got ascended to the heaven for a second
@GodProTheMostProGamerEverNot
@GodProTheMostProGamerEverNot 4 года назад
Lmao
@christinechang780
@christinechang780 4 года назад
Lol yea what happened ???
@eviuze6259
@eviuze6259 4 года назад
Lmaoooo yoooo what was that I'm fucking dead
@Reezy030
@Reezy030 4 года назад
Dayum Dr. K has some strong ass meds there
@jmanruules
@jmanruules 4 года назад
I hate you XD fuck
@tarapapi
@tarapapi 4 года назад
Good on Lily on finally embracing the 6 foot black man she truly is.
@ReyaadGafur
@ReyaadGafur 4 года назад
this is a what moment
@mlotshwa100
@mlotshwa100 4 года назад
@Ngu MU for real man only the ogs remember
@watyhu99
@watyhu99 4 года назад
omg I haven't seen this one in a comment section of hers for sooo long. Anyone else remember the LilyRaichu channel? too bad all the content was removed from the channel. I remember when this joke was used on like every Lily and Nyanners videos I saw.
@camillegarcia8582
@camillegarcia8582 4 года назад
Ahhhh its good to see an old fan. True fans know that's just a a korean actress that he hired✊😔
@iLLya_
@iLLya_ 4 года назад
@@camillegarcia8582 true we all know tyrone the bald buff 6ft blackman is the man behind the voice
@kenhuang1871
@kenhuang1871 4 года назад
1:54:45 "Living a life of security and comfort is not how you live a fulfilling life" Wow, this hits deep.
@insomnyeon
@insomnyeon 4 года назад
God, when she started crying I broke, I feel so sorry for her T-T I hope she’s doing a lot better nowadays 😭
@yuyufool117
@yuyufool117 4 года назад
Lily is such a sweetheart. Wish her the best.
@kuroryu1638
@kuroryu1638 4 года назад
Roses are red, Violets are blue, When lily's tears drop, Mine did too
@gameplaydesigner7329
@gameplaydesigner7329 4 года назад
kuro blacko does instead of did works better
@atilaluthfi411
@atilaluthfi411 4 года назад
its fucking sad bro
@ilonteri
@ilonteri 4 года назад
Simp
@fluffyelino6707
@fluffyelino6707 4 года назад
Simppppp
@kuroryu1638
@kuroryu1638 4 года назад
@@fluffyelino6707 real mature
@JanJanNik
@JanJanNik 4 года назад
that moment when the doctor whipped out the thick indian accent :D
@joshua_hero19hero22
@joshua_hero19hero22 4 года назад
Lol
@falafel420
@falafel420 3 года назад
timestamp pls
@ElsjeMay
@ElsjeMay 3 года назад
1:24:10 Sorry if this doesn't automatically change to a timestamp. I'm a long time lurker.
@jimhalpert9803
@jimhalpert9803 3 года назад
LMFAO
@CarlsCozyCorner
@CarlsCozyCorner 3 года назад
He is a native indian, no?
@soapyroz4471
@soapyroz4471 3 года назад
I can't afford therapy so this is kind off my way to get answers. I know that actually talking to one is very different than watching a video but in a way this also helps. And it's really great and awesome to have these streamers have the courage to talk about their worries publicly. When I do have the finance and courage to go to one then I will surely go. I heard some people having horrible experiences with some psychiatrists because they degrade their worries but Dr. K seems so caring, understanding, and actually wants to help that it makes me fear less going to talk to one about my worries.
@Alesanascreamokid
@Alesanascreamokid 4 года назад
I love his reassuring sentences towards her sometimes like: 'you're one step ahead (towards healing), etc. And also 'It blows my mind that you don't see how amazing you are". I love how he empowers her in this way! We stan this empowering Doc.
@Vther
@Vther 4 года назад
"some of your colleagues are different in terms of their degree of empath and sociopathy" 100% toast
@YoXeV
@YoXeV 4 года назад
Are you saying that Toast is a sociopath?
@benjaminchristensen1646
@benjaminchristensen1646 4 года назад
@@YoXeV That he probably rates high on the sociopathy scale
@ciello1195
@ciello1195 4 года назад
Like they said in one of the offline "offline" podcast, it's the effort that matters. It's obvious to them that Toast does not necessarily like constant social interactions, but he also will not shy away from asking whether the other person wants to have company, and consider staying despite he doesn't necessarily want to.
@na3rial
@na3rial 4 года назад
I think Toast likely has the highest degree of empathy and sociopathy than most of OTV. His persona is an aloof, big brain character that doesn't give a shit, but he's really good at reading a room and a conversation. He wouldn't be able to navigate that persona otherwise without constantly making off-hand comments that could be seen as rather distasteful, like Fed tends to do.
@Goophy7
@Goophy7 4 года назад
I would add Poki to his point.
@markinutt4016
@markinutt4016 4 года назад
"What happens when you try to sleep?" Lily: NIGHTMARE NIGHTMARE NIGHTMARE
@waddupbroskis1468
@waddupbroskis1468 4 года назад
When she started talking about her high school depression, I swear, that was the most relatable thing i was ever told my whole life.
@mooncide_
@mooncide_ 4 года назад
im so glad lily talked to this guy. you can tell by the end of this how much he seemed to watch over her and be protective of her. im so damn glad she had someone to finally allow her the space to have these deeper discussions and let out all her sorrows. ive always been interested in lily's opinions on stuff. she really is someone i relate too especially when it comes to being an empath and stuff like that. i really want lily to be so happy she really is one of the more sincere and loving people ive ever seen like it blows my mind.
@void3793
@void3793 4 года назад
I hate the way she thinks but you can't blame her for it. You can't blame someone for their mindset. But its really frustrating to see someone think like that. She blames herself for HIM not telling her his feelings and HIM cheating, damn that makes me angry.
@jameswest2875
@jameswest2875 4 года назад
Simp
@GxmeyMusic
@GxmeyMusic 4 года назад
@@jameswest2875 beta
@isaiah8047
@isaiah8047 4 года назад
@@jameswest2875 Claps all around boys! He said THE word!
@wallr54
@wallr54 4 года назад
Theres a lot of people that think that way. The downside of critically thinking too much about yourself is you begin to think that everything is your fault and on your shoulders. Ive been lucky enough to never be cheated on but every relationship thats ended in my life i think what I could’ve done better. Always without out a doubt is has to be my fault because if its not then i cant do anything to improve. I know how unhealthy it is and i can see that in people like lily but its been a struggle to come to terms with how i feel. I really felt lilys words about not feeling good enough and feeling lucky in life.
@Cuhsidy
@Cuhsidy 4 года назад
simp
@wh7988
@wh7988 4 года назад
I love this so much because lily keeps asking people to "talk about feelings" but no1 ever seems up to it. Im glad she could have this conversation.
@edwardseverinsen5598
@edwardseverinsen5598 4 года назад
1:12:35 Wiping his eyes, I respect that. He cares and it genuinely upsets him that she doesn't see her own value. I think that's fucking awesome.
@adrian.joker1338
@adrian.joker1338 4 года назад
she's honestly one of the most genuine streamers I've seen and I watch her just because she's just such a normal person that's just dealing with stuff we can all relate to, super brave to be talking about all this stuff on such a public platform.
@najrenchelf2751
@najrenchelf2751 Год назад
Oh yeah, the existence of this VOD is a manifestation of the strength of Lily's soul - the fact she was willing to do this on stream gets crazier the longer I think about this! 💖
@violetplasma4061
@violetplasma4061 4 года назад
1:32:27 deadass sounded like micheal
@violetplasma4061
@violetplasma4061 4 года назад
i swear to gawd i think lily thought so too
@nat2057
@nat2057 3 года назад
I've legit been thinking the same thing, the whole stream through
@essitchi5978
@essitchi5978 3 года назад
YES EXACTLY UNDERRATED COMMENT
@mrlivingzombie1288
@mrlivingzombie1288 3 года назад
Yea lol
@takaodu62
@takaodu62 4 года назад
That entire talks rings in my head like the Yoda quote : " Fear leads to anger - Anger leads to hate - Hate leads to suffering"
@nug9g
@nug9g 3 года назад
There's something about Dr K that brings me comfort. Like when he talks about stuff I feel like I can focus on the topics that I can relate to or that I think are important. Because when I'm talking to my therapist I do it in the morning when I'm not really in the sad zone so I end up just ranting about stuff like racism and sexism etc. But I feel like when I watch Dr K before a session I feel like I can stay in the zone of thinking about what I can control. Thanks Dr K you really have helped me out too with the things you talk about with other people.
@bloodwolf2609
@bloodwolf2609 4 года назад
We thought Destiny was the raid boss but he was just fodder, lily is the real endgame. She’s got like 10 phases and 4 different forms, this is gonna be nuts.
@lolmanittakesguts
@lolmanittakesguts 4 года назад
Blood Wolf2609 dont even try to enter without Tier 2 BiS
@sinki19841984
@sinki19841984 4 года назад
@@lolmanittakesguts I'm waiting for the how-to video
@wabbasMEpern
@wabbasMEpern 3 года назад
Destiny abandoned his children to live the online edge lord "debate me bro" life. Complete pseudo-intellectual.
@SeigiVA
@SeigiVA 4 года назад
Holy crap... Just watching this has made me think a lot bc I really feel the same as Lily about getting lucky for getting a following.
@IxtothezI1
@IxtothezI1 4 года назад
WHOmegalul?
@user-qd9kw1ce5z
@user-qd9kw1ce5z 4 года назад
I'm glad you took something from this :)
@milesedgeworth110
@milesedgeworth110 4 года назад
@@IxtothezI1 someone who is doing their thing and got followers because of that. Kid
@DaneDLyon
@DaneDLyon 4 года назад
if lilypichu cries, I cry. I dont make the rules im sorry
@halfancdhalf3376
@halfancdhalf3376 4 года назад
why tho? just why?
@mar8408
@mar8408 3 года назад
@@halfancdhalf3376 ive been folowing otv for like a month now, but i feel a very deep conection with lily, we had kinda the same issues with self steem and depression, so its like seeing a friend of mine cry.
@shayanriaz6588
@shayanriaz6588 3 года назад
Same I am watching 05/01/2021 Tuesday 7:17pm I am crying and also I cry watching Albert one as well
@kuyaklyne
@kuyaklyne 3 года назад
You know the rules, and so do I.
@wabbasMEpern
@wabbasMEpern 3 года назад
cringe simp
@itshassanaziz
@itshassanaziz Год назад
I've been going through such a hard time for the last 3 years, just non-stop suffering with no realistic end in sight. And seeing this girl go through so many relatable struggles has been so comforting. It's nice to feel that we're all in this together.
@smam7667
@smam7667 4 года назад
In 10 years there are going to be psychiatrists who were inspired by Healthygamer.
@MisterL2_yt
@MisterL2_yt 4 года назад
yeah, no doubt
@kichakra
@kichakra 4 года назад
I'm going to be psychologist but definetly inspired by Dr.K
@m1rac1e
@m1rac1e 4 года назад
I'm already inspired I'm going to become a psychiatrist
@smam7667
@smam7667 4 года назад
@@m1rac1e Thats great! Good luck man hope you achieve that ambition.
@Krish-bx8vb
@Krish-bx8vb 4 года назад
I just got into medicine this year and I wanna be a psychiatrist too!! I made up my mind a couple years ago but Dr K is definitely inspirational.
@satan4518
@satan4518 4 года назад
Man I cried like a baby everytime Lily started crying
@WinkyDinKdink
@WinkyDinKdink 4 года назад
Thanks, Satan
@alansaulson
@alansaulson 4 года назад
Lol
@falanfilan5798
@falanfilan5798 4 года назад
Satan Even Devil cried
@julieqiuli9360
@julieqiuli9360 4 года назад
I feel you Satan
@largocharles8729
@largocharles8729 4 года назад
Then youre not a demon after all
@scoobble3729
@scoobble3729 2 года назад
It takes so much strength to talk so publicly about your issues, thank you to everyone who goes out of their way to do this.
@aarond9563
@aarond9563 4 года назад
Do I recommend public therapy sessions? Probably not. Am I still watching this? Yes. Will I watch the whole thing at some point? Probably. Am I a hypocrite? Yes.
@kohr3661
@kohr3661 4 года назад
Aaron D its okay my friend, you do you
@greedisbad9890
@greedisbad9890 4 года назад
Public therapy session is good for others that doesn't have the courage to talk about what they been through
@wafflejam9015
@wafflejam9015 4 года назад
Arent we all
@zeekawesomecus917
@zeekawesomecus917 4 года назад
Remember, its just her and Dr.K talking... and thousands of people just happen to be watching.
@bredtimestories
@bredtimestories 4 года назад
Yeah, I definitely wouldn't recommend it, but I think if somebody has the courage to do it it can really help people out there who think they're alone in their feelings. I know I always had a hard time with all the therapists that I used to go to, but when I started going to recovery groups for my drinking I found that through hearing others share, it not only made me feel like my thoughts were more normal, it also helped me to feel safe enough to share where others had before :)
@itsameprincesspeach
@itsameprincesspeach 4 года назад
This honestly made me cry. As he picked apart the points that lily talked about that held underlying issues some of them hit so hard and so accurately in myself, and it really made me feel like I should also be aware of these things. I know it makes you feel a little weird Lily, but I just wanted to thank you. This kind of actually really helped me in my own thoughts.
@theknowone9846
@theknowone9846 4 года назад
I was listening to this at work, and when he said “when you were 15, you probably felt so alone.” I broke. I resonated so much.
@mapotofu1841
@mapotofu1841 3 года назад
1:07:29 "You can't keep up an act that long" just reminds me of those delusional haters who've somehow convinced themselves that Lily's voice is an act that she's somehow managed to keep up for so long
@pivos111
@pivos111 4 года назад
And now Michael Reeves comes with the big boi emotional support so he upgraded to boyfriend material.
@liamnoakes511
@liamnoakes511 4 года назад
pivos111 yes.
@lancehitt0548
@lancehitt0548 4 года назад
And then upgraded again to best boyfriend
@Thewlieee
@Thewlieee 4 года назад
The best boi❤️
@cereall9457
@cereall9457 4 года назад
Michael has been working it up the ranks since the start, in a fedmyster vlog around 10 months ago he let lily win an arm wrestle, but later crushed Albert within seconds. He predicted the future and was protecting his queen gracefully, before she even knew she was in danger. To the simp king, I bow.
@akshhat
@akshhat 4 года назад
@@cereall9457 which vlog was it? I'm curious
@mavodeli
@mavodeli 4 года назад
The "why do intelligent people tend to get addicted to video games" part was very interesting. It makes sense, but I never really thought of it that way. (2:19:58)
@SoldJesus4Crack
@SoldJesus4Crack 4 года назад
Mavodeli it might have made sense. nowadays gaming is so common, that it does not reflect what it might once have done. considering that about 80% (pulling numbers out of my ass here, cba to look up the exact percent) of todays generation play some form of videogames, but the IQ, statistically speaking is definitely not increasing.
@him6008
@him6008 4 года назад
Well for some people it's just a way to cope with the stress of expectations.
@smeliscave
@smeliscave 4 года назад
Thank you for putting a time stamp
@turquoise7817
@turquoise7817 4 года назад
wtf that hit hard
@qaiser648
@qaiser648 4 года назад
468er/ PeaShooter this feels kind of self masturbatory
@TaisharEnder
@TaisharEnder 3 года назад
Wow. Just wow. I watched Michael's interview first, then came here. I'm a super introspective person, and I enjoy watching the content these people put out. I feel like I learned so much through the two conversations. The Michael conversation hit so many psychological resonance points for me and this conversation with Lily really nailed some emotional resonance points for me.
@norwegiannignog2470
@norwegiannignog2470 4 года назад
Get tyler1 on here and ask why hes so alpha
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