Emotional Detachment; Overcome Powerful Negative Emotions Caused by Unhealed Inner Child Wounds

Lisa A. Romano Breakthrough Life Coach Inc

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#emotionalhealing #detachment #codependencyrecovery In this RU-vid video on codependency and emotional detachment, you will learn about the power of emotional detachment and how you can use this mental tool to overcome powerful negative emotions caused by unhealed inner child wounds.
Emotional health improves when we learn to live in a state of nonresistance to what we cannot control. However, when we are codependent, we are suffering from unhealed wounds associated with childhood trauma and emotional neglect. Deep within the subconscious mind are faulty beliefs that are anchored within the fabric of our psyches. These anchors run our lives, and we remain ego-attached to faulty negative beliefs, which in turn impact our thinking and the way we behave and show up in life.
If you are unhappy, depressed, anxious and dissatisfied with your life and relationships, it is time to become curious about why. What happened to you in childhood and your inner child's perception is what is running your life, whether you are conscious of that or not.
I have created a 12 Week Program that is rooted in mindfulness and self compassion. Self compassion is the antidote to shame and the key to healing from the root causes of codependency. You can participate in this program live with group support or take it on demand for 50% off.
To learn more, visit;
www.lisaaromano.com/12wbcp
Lisa A. Romano is a Life Coach and bestselling author who specializes in helping people reclaim their lives through ascending old thought patterns and healing faulty childhood subconscious programs. She is an expert in the fields of codependency, narcissistic abuse, and elevating consciousness. She is also one of the most popular meditation teachers on Insight Timer and is the creator of the 12-Week Breakthrough Coaching Program. If you feel invisible, unworthy, and lack a sense of self or purpose, Lisa's work in the field of personal development can help you gain the self-awareness required to breakthrough.
coach@lisaaromano.com
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@BenAvodot Год назад

Thank you for this video. I’ve been watching you for a while now, and I’ve gained so much understanding regarding my past traumas and how they affect my life. Working towards detachment feels right, and I’ll let it go.

@lisabrummett6075 Год назад

I'm so beyond grateful that I found your channel. Thank you for helping me on my healing journey ✨🙏💗😅

@charlie-obrien Год назад

I began watching your RU-vid videos about 5 years ago when I was in a real crisis over the lasting effects that narcissists and alcoholics had had on my life. I was at the crux of whether the rest of my life would be a success on my own terms or rather I would remain miserable and adrift, steered by others. I have watched intermittently since then and also began to develop better habits around diet and exercise. All of these things contributed to an overall healthier and more "above the veil", me. But the number one thing that has made a difference is the use of meditation as a regular practice, using it to help calm my mind and also to "count my blessings" (so to speak), and to let myself go blank. Today's video reinforced so much of what you have taught and shown me over these past few years and I am grateful, not only for myself, but for others also, that you continue to provide this very necessary message and guidance. Thank you once again and may you always be blessed in your life and in your vocation.

@sunnyadams5842 Год назад

Lisa got me going on meditation - the idea of SLOWING IT ALL DOWN!! - too, and it has made ALL the difference for me too.

@Justin-er2bq 6 месяцев назад

If I just breathe, I, focused rythmic breathing, i feel so much better I just gotta remember that I can use that too feel better😅

@jennaletizia5430 Год назад

I cling to people. So hard to detach. It’s heartbreaking to me

@cuteziyanta1473 23 дня назад

Same

@saveldaniels7773 Год назад

Suffering itself is not bad....it creates self-awareness.......

@user-oq9kb5oi5f Месяц назад

Thank you so much. Everyone around me is so needy. It drains the crap out of me. I hide from people.

@kristinmichael6191 Год назад

Thank you so much Lisa Marano! You have inspired me again. I just escaped my narcissistic Husband and I need this guidance! You are wonderful ❤

@tinabrooks4397 Год назад

Thanks so much. I realize that I am codependent and suffer from childhood trauma and my father was an alcoholic. I married a narcissist beyond nothing I have experienced before. Not being myself has rendered me speechless and child like because he always shamed me when I am vulnerable because according to the Bible so he says , feelings are not allowed. I could cry a river , but I allow him in my life, and my feelings about him are nothing but contempt. I need work on myself, but having him in my life is like a relapse. One more thing, it’s the lies, the gaslighting, the know it all mentally he has because he’s a minister. Ouch.

@lisaaromano1 Год назад

A religious narcissist is hard to deal with. Don’t let that stop you from healing your broken parts. www.lisaaromano.com/12wbcp

@Iam_anHeir Год назад

@tinabrooks4397 My heart goes out to you...I assumed for a long long time because I did not know any better, that having a close relationship with God a person would become like JESUS. Only after it was pointed out to me, did I realize this belief was wrong. I have met unhealthy, unsafe, narcissitic people in the church. Those who attend all the time, serve and are very involved. I have met people who have no self-awareness or very little. People who lack empathy & compassion. I'm sorry you were told feelings are not allowed. That is not Biblical. JESUS wept. I hope you realize you matter and your husband is not doing a very good job!! I hope you make yourself a priority and reach out to people who you can trust and feel safe with to begin to heal. God cares very much about you and ALL that concerns you. I hope you let Him minister to your injured soul for HE is near the broken-hearted. Bless you dear one, bless you!

@tinabrooks4397 Год назад

@@Iam_anHeir thank you so much. Blessings.

@dwanavent3067 8 месяцев назад

🙏🙏❤️

@aviana3841 7 месяцев назад

Read a book = anxiously attached ❤

@josephcollins6033 Год назад

i'm glad you got rid of that first jerk you had. I think he came directly to me next!

@angelafayesims1563 Год назад

Thank you soon much for affirming my journey to healing😇🥰🙃

@zzzcocopepe 5 месяцев назад

Oh wow! I have to detach from my own emotions! That's a key point that really helped me. Thank you for that. Because, I've always been good at detaching but I've never necessarily examined what exactly it is that I'm doing. And somewhere along the way I got a little confused. Kind of like what you said about how in our 30 we examine our lives. And I started interrupting my own process of Detachment and went awry. So now I'm trying to get back into that headspace again. And I've been really struggling with it. And when you said that, about how we detach from our own emotions. That clicked it into place. Because, I work with a lot of really horrible people. And they really get in the way of my own success. They really interrupt my process when I'm trying to detach. So it makes it really hard, it exacerbates the problem. So when you said that, I realized that I'm getting even more worked up, not because they're exacerbating the problem. But because I'm mad at my own response. So when I stopped reacting to my own negative reaction, it resolved the problem. However, that still doesn't resolve the issue of the person who has been harassing me. But, it does resolve my own anxiety and panic or Madness that occurs from it. Once I become a master of that technique, of healthy detachment. Then I can start to overcome that conflict, of people who bother me and exacerbate problems for me

@djignatin4043 Год назад

My mother (a covert narc) used to always talk about "attachment and connection." She needed to make people her objects. That is how she needed to attach or connect to people. She treats people as objects because she is too traumatized to relate to people emotional. I know now, that she was attaching or connecting through a false self. As a codependent, I do the opposite.

@disappearingremedy7400 Год назад

Reading your third book is a goal of mine. I've read the first two. I love your work ❤️

@legallyquirkyloretta Год назад

Quantum tools is my favorite

@baleny 8 месяцев назад

Incredible video, reminds me to recommit to meditation, visualizing and manifestation. So many golden nuggets in this clip, I relate to your story so much. And I’m a recovering codependent, the patterns of narc abuse that resulted in me picking partners ironically very much like my mother. How she withheld love, manipulated, controlled, portrayed herself as the ultimate martyr, the cognitive dissonance I experienced as a child that felt so familiar in my adult life - I knew that pain and confusion, it was home. Except, I was sick and lacked rational thought or reasoning - so thank God, AA, my sponsor Nic, my psychotherapist, my hypnotherapist, YOU and so many other amazing humans like you for walking with me, with all of us on our respectively insane journeys into the LIGHT. God bless you Lisa ❤❤❤❤❤❤

@patrickbinford590 4 месяца назад

Psychological process through ACTUALLY dealing with the stuff you NEVER thought you could deal with is SUPER IMPORTANT. The observer IS the observed.

@breeze529 29 дней назад

This helped me tremendously on my vacation this weekend. I prayed to God to guide me in a high emotional state. Next day I saw this and gained understanding about myself

@SavedByGrace806 Год назад

“True love heals and affects spiritual growth. If we do not grow because of someone else's love, it's generally because it is a counterfeit form of love. True love is unconditional positive regard. Unconditional positive regard allows us to be whole and accept all the parts of ourselves. To be whole we must reunite all the shamed and split-off aspects of ourselves”

@SelfLove65 Год назад

I keep trying my meditation. I see my "monkey mind," like you say. My fears keep scaring me more than anything else and I know now, they are from my chidhood trauma abandonment. I want get through it. I feel the love coming from all scientists included you Lisa A Romano. I appreciate it immensely. ❤❤❤❤❤

@eirinstevenson7738 Год назад

Thank you for this video! The timing, I needed this. After going no contact for a little over a year, I see how my emotional attachment to ideas and beliefs followed me. They keep me stuck in pain, even though I finally physically escaped/cut off the abuse.

@teresarodriguez821 Год назад

What a beautiful photo of your husband and you, it's so lovely. Thank you! to your husband and family for sharing you with all of us empathetic people choosing to live life on our terms without toxicity.

@kimberlymccracken747 Год назад

You're up early my friend 🌷 Happy Easter 🐰🧺🐣 Know you're loved 💝

@akjenx8319 2 месяца назад

When I entered how to detach emotionally in the search bar and saw your video, I knew that your words of wisdom would be perfect for what I've been experiencing. You never disappoint and somehow are exactly on topic with what I've been experiencing. I've never mediatated to clear my mind, but I will definitely start. I want to live above the veil. Thank you

@mokyan7 4 месяца назад

Thanks! This is a fantastic video. I will rewatch and practice meditation and emotional detachment as I pursue healing codependency traits while in a discouraging marriage with a covert narc.

@lisaaromano1 4 месяца назад

Hey thank you Dear One!

@Sandra-mq1nb Год назад

Yes, I'm in my fifties & very very happy getting 3 years ago a recommendation of your channel 🙏 It literally changed my life !! And today, I had an other ephiphany with this video🔮 Although I'm since a while on my healing path - thank you from the bottom of my heart Be blessed dear Lisa 🎆

@Goldenheart2911 Год назад

Excellent video, analogy and visual Lisa.💛 Wishing you and your beautiful family a Blessed and Happy Easter 🐣 By taking baby steps, believing in yourself and wanting to find the answers within that will lead you on the path to a healthier and happier life have faith that you are one step closer to getting there.💛 Namaste🙏❤️✨🕊️😌

@rachelcoloradomy3kidz778 Год назад

Very helpful and You are amazing and Thank You 💖🙏 😘

@candymilton Год назад

You are a blessing. I have a toxic family who tried so hard make it look like i was just making things up and i was crazy.

@Godblessyou219 Месяц назад

❤ Spot on!

@zahreenasimone7303 Год назад

You are so right on!👍

@43warriormode98 Год назад

Powerful..needed these words !!! Truth ☝️ thank you Lisa ❤

@evanowenby3541 Год назад

Thank you Lisa

@debbiemagee3519 Год назад

Good morning, Lisa! Happy Easter! Wonderful video, hearing your work helps me every, single day. Thank you so much for all that you do!

@marren6323 Год назад

Thank you Lisa. I always appreciate your commitment to boldly share your experiences and insights about your own healing and growth. I find your messages inspiring and empowering.

@janeenmpellicane956 7 месяцев назад

This is One of your best that has resonated with me! Ty Lisa. ❤️

@izawaniek2568 Год назад

I am so grateful for having found you Lisa and feel honoured to have had the chance to learn so much from you. Thank you from the bottom of my heart. Happy Easter. God bless you ❤

@mariacvonloewenfeld6713 Год назад

Thank you Lisa. I think this is all your most powerful video. It sure helped clarify many ideas for me

@jammy5181 2 месяца назад

Wow this is exactly what I needed at this exact moment. Thank you for sharing your story and helping me feel seen and like I can heal in the same way

@John-mh7uz Год назад

Thank you for this

@kaylankrolikowski 5 месяцев назад

I absolutely love this video! It puts everything I have said and thought about detachment into the perfect words! Thankful for these wonderful messages!

@saveldaniels7773 Год назад

Amazing insight. Thanks for your wisdom and for sharing!

@flowersunandmoon 2 месяца назад

Wow this was so wonderful! Thank you for your wisdom !

@dionprice114 4 месяца назад

Awesome video! Thanks

@innerpeace534 2 месяца назад

Best video ive ever listened too thank you

@CDV99 2 месяца назад

Thank you for these insightful tools. I will be working on consciously strengthening my detachment skills.

@evanowenby3541 Год назад

Very good assessment &knowledge of alot of people . Good uplifting video and way to speak to our acknowledgment. ❤

@sarahshaw-sehgal1146 Год назад

Excellent explanation as always Lisa ❤❤❤ Happy Easter

@blessed1969 Год назад

This is awesome! Wish I could afford your course 😢 when you listed the ways we may have been wounded in childhood, literally all of them happened to me. It was eye opening,..Im surprised I made it this far not totally cracking!

@iloveFreedom. Год назад

Really appreciate this intel a lot, Thankyou 🎉❤🎉

@PaulinaAmaralMedeiros 11 месяцев назад

I love this video it describes me very well, I need to learn to detach

@elizabethcummings2283 10 месяцев назад

Thank You

@eyesaidit5195 Год назад

Excellent

@gladysmarine8794 Год назад

Thank you

@thebirima91 Месяц назад

I am a child from a mother who gave me up for adoption. Spent my first year in an orphanage house to be adopted after one year. I later learned that the caretakers were told not to bind with the children over there. Now I am with a woman who can't reciprocate due to undiagnosed aspergers. Isn't that all ironic? Feel so f*cked up. Trying to detach from my partner who is also the mother of my three children. Thank you for the insightfull video.

@hatchet8209 Месяц назад

Subconscious is basically habits and should be called that. Doing things without your realizing it out of habit.

@legallyquirkyloretta Год назад

I love your videos. 😊🎉

@candymilton Год назад

Your Gods open door for me so i can give back and help others ❤

@elizabethcummings2283 10 месяцев назад

Thank Yoiu

@daynagriego9392 Год назад

My husband is very abusive. He watches corn and when I tell him to stop, I am emotionally and verbally abused by him! I need to detach from him!!😢

@natalia6g 25 дней назад

I hear you, my husband follows provocative girls on instagram and I hate showing him that it bothers me, but when I do he gets mad and says all men do it. And now we’re separating..

@irinamladenoska7539 2 месяца назад

I know exactly what happened to me. I am a child of one codependent alvoholic parent and one covert narc parent.

@user-wo2kt3pp8g Год назад

Everything that you were saying. Im going through the same thing

@dexorne9753 3 месяца назад

Ive been emotionally detached since my early teens, it fucking sucks. Im not unhappy, but im never happy either. Repressing feelings is not a one way street.

@candymilton Год назад

I live alone and hve no and no family to be there for me and support. God is the only i need. He blessed me with my dog to that helped me depend on him always.

@fightswithspirits915 Год назад

Very helpful, thank you. I have totally embraced the inner child and his programming. I'm deeply concerned that IC had no real understanding of reality and was totally self centered. While some things were certainly hurtful, there's no doubt IC conclusions have lots of room for error and I carry around those errors as default responses. There must be way to perform a general reset. If we're software, there's a reset to factory specs. I'm totally not digging being bound by a 5-7 year old emotional state. It's total crap.

@Anson7777 10 месяцев назад

But i feel so hopeless because i didn't realize this until now at age 62😢 .... It's too late to go back and re-raise my 25 yo son or to be able to have a happy romantic relationship.... Why couldn't i have woken up at age 35 or 40?? I was diagnosed as bipolar and codependent at age 25 but that was 40 years ago and no help from therapists for the 15 years i went... None of them helped me .. Thank God for your channel for the younger ones who have more life ahead of them

@Christine-nj3kl Год назад

Emotional detach

@JohnSmith-ks5xw 4 месяца назад

I have heard that women's defenses start to unravel in their 30s and men's defenses start to unravel in their 40s. Usually.

@wheneaglesfly8211 10 месяцев назад

Namaste

@sunnyadams5842 Год назад

So neato to see a pic of u n ur sweetie ❤

@jennaletizia5430 Год назад

I will know the truth sooner rather then later.

@josephsworldoftaekwondo5059 8 месяцев назад

Funny. I was never aware of my physical responses to toxic people or stress. I was never aware of the ques from folks that scream “run”.

@yumifl.5133 5 месяцев назад

great knowledge but how does a child define that emotional threat and what can percieve of it when they are older? As a child of trauma how do you know when your brain had not even started to develope, but yet you can recall it(the trauma)?? just asking? thanks

@Pond770 5 месяцев назад

can you recommend any] drugs that would put me in the state recommendations please

@sofy786 4 месяца назад

What kind of meditation should we do please

@charitymaggie9313 9 месяцев назад

Am dying pliz help me overcome this

@stanleymaestas5441 Год назад

This Wednesday youtube channel chosen 144 000. RJ Spina interview 👍

@lucyadeclat8901 Год назад

Lisa, do you take new clients? I am looking for a therapist.

@lisaaromano1 Год назад

Coach@lisaaromano.com

@tanyakashyap6944 Год назад

🕊️🕊️🕊️

@tt5405 Год назад

Thank you Lisa. Do you have a book on the steps to heal from codependency? I’m struggling w/ anxiety from abandonment in my relationships and not sure where it’s coming from.

@lisaaromano1 Год назад

Check out my program www.lisaaromano.com/12wbcp

@julianal.573 10 месяцев назад

👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼💐🤗

@heidycoleman9043 21 день назад

youve been listening to abraham hicks i seeeee you

@carnivoreisbetter Год назад

🎉❤❤

@charlottebarden9221 Год назад

Do you know how a child being raised by narcissistic can escape without growing up obedient, passive, allowing them to be the prey of narcissist?

@charlottebarden9221 Год назад

What can a little child do?

@peggygarcia1131 9 месяцев назад

8:55

@rascallyrabbit Год назад

Judas betrayed Jesus rather than confront his own evil heart.

@josephcollins6033 Год назад

I need to say with love and empathy that if you are beginning to have doubts about your FAITH you are in great shape! You are beginning to think critically in an area which tolerates NO critical thinking. All religions are ancient and false. Religion was created by MEN, before we knew anything, to help us with 3 things- fear of death, wonder and to give us magic spells (prayer). You're welcome!

@DrPhilGoode 8 месяцев назад

Brother….let me tell you something. Most people like you brother…haven’t spent deep long hard time in the scriptures brother. Actually hold on a sec brother ….never-mind good brother. I can’t get past Genesis 1:3-5 & 1: 16-18. Day 1-God spoke the light into existence. vs 3-5 Day 4-God made 2 great lights. The sun (day) and moon (night) v 16-19 What was the light on day 1 if the sun was on day 4? And why on day 4 did God create 2 separate lights and send them to separate places for 2 different jobs? Especially when he knew the moon was NOT a light , but merely a reflection of the sun?

@josephcollins6033 8 месяцев назад

@@DrPhilGoode I'm a bit confused, and thank you for writing. It sounds as if you began to preach to me and then discovered that the Bible is ridiculous. I do want you to know that I know the Bible very, very well and translated much of it when I was in seminary. As you seem to say above, one cannot get past the first chapter!

@DrPhilGoode 8 месяцев назад

@@josephcollins6033 Yes..I started to preach at you before getting only a few verses inside the first book… before getting stumped. I was joking though. A bit of drama while proving your original comment to be true.

@josephcollins6033 8 месяцев назад

@@DrPhilGoode It was great. But, this is unusual. You were going to preach at me, telling me that people like myself don't know the Bible; when you had not read it? That's funny. I'm really intrigued at where your thoughts on religion were when you read my statement. You obviously are a gentleman who thinks. I'm a doctor, too, but not in medicine. If you have a chance please tell me about yourself and religion. Your comments are the most interesting I have had on RU-vid. Thanks!

@DrPhilGoode 8 месяцев назад

@@josephcollins6033 When you over explain my joke, it’s not as funny. 🤣 See another joke. Anyway I was raised in very strict and closed of independent fundamental baptist church and attended a small academy on the same campus. They were KJVO in every aspect and would not tolerate other Bible versions. They used circular reasoning to explain away what they could but as children we were not encouraged to ask questions. In fact we were discouraged to feel, think, ask, complain, show emotions etc We moved to Tennessee at 15 and I’m here now at 41. My young daughters 9 and 11 are encouraged to think critically and ask questions regardless if I have the answer. Im not 100% what I believe right now. I want my daughters to be older before they really identify with anything. I was 5 years old having nightmares about hell and by 7 I was “getting saved” every night. That is no way for a child to live. Even though I was joking about my Genesis preaching at you, one of the first passages I questioned on my own years ago was…He made 2 lights. One for day one for night. Wait a second…so God didn’t know the moon wasn’t a light? Anyway there ya go.

@josephcollins6033 Год назад

Age 7, you say? Now, I have to go lie down. Ha! Thanks so much for this. And, why has nobody asked who is the handsome man at beginning of the video? Leave it to a gay man, I guess.

@lisaaromano1 Год назад

He is my darling husband and best friend 🤗

@josephcollins6033 Год назад

@@lisaaromano1 wow! How nice of you to respond. I found your video remarkable. And I have seen several therapists!

@Pond770 5 месяцев назад

weather for that kind of Detachment i need a 12 pack and a pack of cigarettes