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I am 60 and went no contact a year ago with my narc mother and her victims. I only started learning about narcissism and the dysfunction that it causes. The cycle is now completely broken. 🥳. My children will not be the next victims of generations of dysfunction. We share love, understanding, humility, gratitude 🙏. Things my biological mother and her victims have never known. Thank you for sharing your experience and information. ❤️🙏
Flip the script: 1- Refuse to be an enabler 2- Treat the Narcissist with indifference 3- Do not react!!! 4- Brutally honest 5- Refuse to take the bait 6- Ignore them: radio silence 7- Exposure 8- Unfavourable comparisons 9- Be happy 10- Establish and maintain no contact Some points overlap, point 9 is crucial: if you are confident, know your value, comfortable in your own skin you do not need to worry about anything or anyone for that matter. Thank you Tamie, been listening to you for one year now, I often find myself returning to some videos, they are powerful and factual. I wish you a happy 2024.
Spot on! I’ve flipped my step-sister so hard she could have won an Olympic gold medal. She’s out of my life due to the narcissistic pain I’ve caused her, and good riddance to bad rubbish.
All narcs that i have met tend to age rapidly ,i think its because of the energy that they use to decieve ,disrupt ,destroy.etc. ( brain in constant "overdrive) The funny thing is that the energy couldve been used to make them stronger ,instead it is used to cut people down.
Happiness is a choice. For empathic people, it can be hard to "not care" about the narcissist, but it needs to be done. Be strong... Thanks for the video
The best way I found to silence the narcissist is minimal to no contact unless we maybe want something from them. I like using the narcissists game against them. Minimal to no emotional investment, and if it is - then it’s short lived. Remain detached at all costs. The wise empath understands and uses the narcissists games against them to ultimately take back their own true strength and unbreakable self-reliance. Self-reliance is number 1 for the empath. With the ability to self-regulate one’s own state and not reach out to the narcissist for validation, is the key to personal and universal liberation. “Don’t mistake my kindness for weakness!!” 🤣
I tried being non reactive and the grey rock method. The bullying and triggering behavior intensified to the level of having a drink thrown at me by the narcissist when all her other tactics were failing flat. It is hard to remain non reactive to that kind of physical assault. It may sound pretty harmless just having a drink thrown at you but when you’re dealing with C-PSTD and only one person sticks up for you it is incredibly difficult and demoralizing.
My narc took over all my friends. I had no back up!! I told them all to "flock off". Use humour in situations like that!! I used humour many times...better defense. ❤
They do that when they get frustrated. It says everything about who they are when they expose their character like that for all to see. You don't even have to say a word. Once helped a cousin who needed to save up a deposit for his own place and let him stay for a couple months. Soon his real character started showing... I didn't react to his fight-picking, I instead asked if he was looking for negative attention 🤭 He proceeded to break every appliance/furniture item in my house one by one over time. Eventually I moved out
I also had drinks thrown in my face for reaction. I stayed, calm and cool and left the next day. Cops were called ( careful w them too if narc has $$ ) and an order of protection was granted. The last straw of many.... middle finger up, good rids, karma and GOD will have the last word. 💜🙏✝️
I don't feel bad. The person who threw the drink is the one that's guilty and don't ever feel humiliated. I think next time someone does tha to you just say well, thank you. Do you serve towels with your showers too? Or you could say something like I'd rather take a real shower than the ones that you throw at me. There's another come back.
Yep, my narc just told me that he has never met anyone like me before, that I am genuine. I also just found out that, after knowing him for almost 40 years, he is gay.
@@PhoenixFeathers She obviously had a relationship with him ! Would you not like to know if your partner was gay ! There is no need to hide sexual preference !
ok, on number9...I thought we werent supposed to let them know our super happiness stuff? I thought we were supposed to be grey rocks, give them zero of anything were doing? thereby giving them no ammo to swoop in and create a form of chaos to knock us off abit? Thats what Ive been doing...just withholding the good stuff, making us less of a target for them...
I went NC with my MiL after finally deciding enough is enough. My FIL whined to my husband that I “won’t even talk to her anymore!” It worked! She hates the negative light that shines on her when I ignore her completely 😅
Great video Tamie!! You are building an army of soldiers here! What really bugs me about enablers is they use their God given power to help evildoers and apply double standards all while claiming they just want everyone to get along.
My sister is a narcissist, so I'm trying to learn everything. I can about a narcissist. Thank you so much for your Input Input, you're helping me. And so many Other people's lives. About The narcissist.
👍"Completely and utterly powerless, this is a beautiful thing" (6:40)..."The truth has a vibrational frequency 1000 times more powerful than any lie ever will, that's why the truth wins every time - maybe not immediately, but in the end it always does, you can count on it" (7:06)
Narcissists either glare at me in public for no known reason or try to talk to me in that ," used car salesman " charm. It's interesting and I believe you're right about the frequency empaths carry.
I had to delete my Facebook because my mom found it. Luckily, she doesn't know about my RU-vid. Even seeing us post a pretty picture enrages them. Like, how dare we be happy, how dare we find joy in something nice.
He started out making me feel like I was the thing ever! almost 14 years later myself worth is zero. I have around 6 weeks before I am financially stable to leave and when I say leave I mean from California going to Arkansas I just wish I knew what a Narcisse was or the signs before I married him it really sucks and I'm really stupid staying for this long ....sincerely Bernice.18:14
Wow bernice. 14 years huh? I guess its around a year for me. She was nice to me for around 6 months until i first met the girl in dec 2022. The first 3 months of 2023 she bounced between me and another guy. Please know bernice that not all of us men are like that. I know how you feel. I feel so beat down. My self worth is much less than what worth i had before.
42 years here honey. I’m still trying to get out. I only found out about narcissistic personality disorder about a year ago. WOW to be 17 again 😢. Bless your sister. I pray you find your happy.
Amen Tammy , you are spot on - that’s why through it all , when the darkness within. Him came at me / the Lord kept me still and protected me and kept me from reacting . You are right on - thank you
Thank you for your videos! You look great. A long time ago, I heard this beautiful expression: Speech is silver, but silence is golden! Now I understood and felt how powerful it is against PN!❤
You are hitting the nail on the head. I'm trying these suggestions and already my narcissist mother in law is not liking me not engaging in her gas lighting😊
Tamie, I can't describe how your videos have given me very good insights about narcissism of which I have been a victim. Having understood her antics, I am healing.
Another excellent video Tamie. The narc I've been dealing with for eight years as his line manager at work has now been promoted to be my boss. This might at first seem a nightmare scenario but thanks to your insights I'm now in a position to torpedo him hard. This knife fight in a phone booth has been exhausting for both of us but he's relentless and so am I. He's caused untold damage within our team and now his soft underbelly is exposed above us it's time to put your teaching into practice. God bless you Tamie.
If you want to experience people with juvenile behavior (in their 60's and 70's,) be sure to buy a Condo where there's a group who have lived there for 30 years. Omg. (Feudal lords.) They sure don't like being challenged...and they will fault you (and others who are not in their "club") for the very things that they are doing. And TY for the video....Its very good.
I’ve tried to not engage and when I do, and try to stand up for myself and have boundaries I get “I’m rubber you’re glue” spoke to me. I literally am dumbfounded that he’s such a child.
It’s been a long time since I’ve watched your videos! This one is great info! My first Christmas without the narc I told her all year I was not coming, she could say what she wanted as why I’m not there, I said I know you already have. I hung up went no contact. One of her flying monkeys texted me with a sob story “ What happened to you being a part of our family?” I texted back, “a few things like betrayal,”and refused to tell her what. I said “ As I already told your mom , leave me alone and good bye.” Letting her know I know they talk and make up crap. She texted ok. This is my sister in law and mother in law and they live 10 min away so I’m doing whatever I can to stay away. I went no contact didn’t fall for the bait!! Christmas was wonderful !!
I actually got through one week of non-reactivity towards my covert narcissistic elderly mother. I steered clear of ALL potential for conflict and drama, and things seemed to be going really smoothly. Yesterday, however, we had a pet emergency in our backyard, and we had to take a feral kitten to the Pet ER for treatment. My daughter and her boyfriend, who were visiting for the holidays, drove me to the Pet ER. When we returned home, my narc mom had a nice, home-cooked meal waiting for us, but, then, she had to ruin the happy vibe with her control freakery, pertaining to the aftercare of the animal. She started barking out unnecessary orders to make me look incompetent and stupid in front of our guests. I got triggered and blew my cool by bickering back and forth with her in front of our guests, who could hear the bickering from the other room. Finally, my mom swatted my hand and rattled a bag in front of my face. I got even madder, and she finally got what she wanted: A REACTION. Now, I ended up looking like the out of control “guilty one,” and she finally got the sympathetic attention she was so desperately craving for the WHOLE WEEK. I so regret that my daughter’s visit had to end on such a sour note, but sadly she totally falls for my mother’s petty manipulation tactics and cheap shots. I wonder what I could have done better to prevent this from escalating since the whole week had been going so nicely.
In my experience, walking out without a word is really the only sane thing you could have done. At a certain point, we simply have to do whatever it takes to protect ourselves, regardless of what anyone else thinks, says, does, or how they may feel about it. Don't be too hard on yourself. We're human beings with feelings and limits... and no one knows how to push those limits better than a covert narcissist. Give yourself some love and grace, learn from the experience, and consider keeping a safe distance moving forward. You can make sure your elderly mother is safe and her fundamental needs are met without volunteering to be her target and putting yourself in harm's way. Grey rock and low-contact... that really is your best bet.
In the last 6 months with my ex narc, he started throwing out comments about his concern he had dementia. This was his insane excuse for his behavior. Pitiful. They'll come up with anything.
I love your grey/silver shiny dress with the dark crystal necklace! Beautiful! It really expresses winter (think Canada), and the Holiday spirit as we welcome the New Year. Great choice for this video!
I love how you always deliver all the kill shots Tamie - you helped me out alot to get past circles of these people I had been enabling for 15+ years before I woke up to the patterns I was engaging in and realized I wanted out.
I found your videos and am hooked. I live with a double whammy. My 81 year old Mother and 35 year old daughter that are both Narcs. These tips are exactly what I needed and have been practicing often. It’s disheartening that my mom is tearing me down at every end. My dad died in 2016. I live in Maryland and found out he died on Facebook. I moved y mom here with me because every day I was getting phone calls with her crying acting as a damsel in distress. Now that she has been here 8 years she is now calling my siblings whom I do not communicate with acting like the Damsel again causing a rift in my home.
Question: after the narcissist has passed, how do you recommend dealing with those who continue justifying their own enabling behaviors? It’s difficult, to say the least, to be on the receiving end that doesn’t end.
Distance and low contact while doing your own healing and recovery work are always going to be your best bet. You are not likely to ever change their mind. Use the grey rock method instead of wasting your energy trying to get through to people who for whatever reason, are unwilling or unable to see the truth of the harm that they helped cause. This video will help: ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-NA9DKW3Q5X8.htmlsi=Ld3f89ADemdQHdrC
Thank you for this wonderful video! I do think that it is possible for a Narcissist to self-reflect after these huge barriers have been put up, and to possibly look inside him or herself, and repent. But if a total 180 doesn’t occur, I agree that putting up the “No Contact” barriers are so essential for self-healing and growth. I believe in the transformative power of faith and belief in Jesus Christ, so personally I do believe that miracles can occur when in relationship with Him. But until then, if a person hasn’t looked inside and truly seen what is going on in their life, I absolute agree that these “No Contact” barriers are essential for one’s healing. Otherwise, we are just letting someone with a truly angry, destructive, mischievous or arrogant spirit to just attempt to dominate and hurt us. I also love how you said that inside the Narcissist is just acting like a 2-year old. That was a great visual for me. And I think what works great to help 2-year olds (and to help ourselves in relationship to them) is boundaries!! Thank you for a very helpful video!! 🙏💖
Thank you Tamie! I’m having a very difficult time. 3 years now no contact. Been the scapegoat all my life. My father is man of god so he says and says he can heal people. Has everyone fooled…. Has never reached out or has any empathy or compassion . It’s really sad and hurtful. Will these feelings of ever go away? Will my narc family ever wake up?
To be honest Chris, the likelihood that narcissistic family members will ever "wake up" or "get it" is slim to one. Your best shot is to devote all of your time, energy, and attention to your own healing and recovery work. If you're interested, this can really help: www.tamiemcoaching.com/the-freedom-class-self-paced
Tamie Joyce, You give great advice for empath's and people in general trying to get of of any form of relationship with narcissist's. I have spent the 5+ years healing myself and moving out, and forward from 2 narcissistic relationships. I finally drew my unmoveable line in the sand. These are great tips which help place both power and controls back into your hands.
The only thing I can think of about dementia and what I'm experiencing is the mirroring that's how I would get my uncle to eat with Alzheimer's I would sit in front of him and eat and he would mirror me it's crazy this is actually one of the things I wanted to talk about how insecure I feel about this
tamie i dont know how thankyou for your positive confrontation and for confirm and tell what im just doing....i cant partecipe to your course cos im italian and i dont know well the english language .i must translate with the subtitres what you tell.....in anycase i thankyou with monerys cos of your job...take cares
Tell them the truth as you see it ONE time and attach some real solutions to the delivery of your message. Then you step back and mind your own business. Sometimes people need to hit bottom in order to become ready and able to help themselves. A "hands off" approach can help them hit their bottom much faster as compared to your being "helpful" by being overly involved and/or meddling in any way. Stay in your own lane and live and let live. 💕
I get so much benefit from checking back to listen again. Especially to gain the courage to ignore them. I received correspondence from a solicitor whom is currently under investigation by NSW law society I initiated the complaint, she is aware that a decision regarding her misconduct & face tribunal. is still pending She is trying to force me to sign my mum’s Illegal Will. I am in no contact with parties involved. I was expecting a pleasant reply to my question of finding another lawyer. I will ignore her. Thanks Tamie ps I just had to tune in as soon as I opened my email an hour ago! I free calmer and this is all about the truth coming out.
I’m on replay 😂. Now I understand point no 4. The truth, now I know why lawyer reacted via email in a very aggressive manner by denying a conversation never took place.
One of my favourite vids from you Tamie, keep up the good work and thank you for giving so many of us profound and wholesome advice for those of us that are dealing with narcy people in our lives :-)
Thank you for your help I'm starting to get counselors on board and helping me Wednesday before last I tested that I'm an infj so I can add that to the list now with the other things like being an empath with cptsd LOL I got counselors coming up to me telling me I think my husband's been gaslighting me I think my son's been gaslighting me LOL how old is counselors did not even know what gaslighting was😅
My ex BPD/Narcissist discarded me two weeks ago, and left out of state to live with her son, daughter in law, and new grandson. I am still devastated. And now more because of the last two text I received from her the day she left, and the second one when she was already in another state. The second one was probably a response to her knowing that I texted her son. My intention was to let him know that his mom probably had bpd, and that he should try to protect her from new partners that might not have the best intentions as she had told me many stories of just meeting complete strangers in the past and letting them into her life. I guess I'm grieving and feel like there was no closure. I posted her last messages to me. I didn't respond obviously. But do you think even after her messages, she'll still try to contact me ever again? Her sister told me she is coming back in April to get the rest of her stuff. Thank you. I just need peace of mind. Thank you. Before she left because I didn't help her move: "Yea so selfish. You're a GROWN man putting me at risk alone as a woman driving all because of your hurt... wow glad I saw this now. DONT EVER CONTACT ME AGAIN" Second message after she moved: Work on yourself and this is a WARNING: if you continue to contact anyone in my family ever again-including me and responding to this message I will get a restraining order on you, I will file for defamation of character for the things you've said about me to family AND I will co tact your work to let them how mentally unstable you are showing you are.
I hope she never contacts you again, but the sad reality is she probably will... when she's run out of supply elsewhere and you suddenly become useful to her again. My prayer for you is that you focus so much on your own healing and recovery that by the time she circles back you're able to tell her to GFHS and mean it, and close the door permanently. There's nothing but more pain coming down the pike for you if you don't.
@TamieMJoyce I appriciate you taking the time to respond. It means allot for someone else to hear me out.Your videos have really helped me get a grasp on some of the questions I still struggle with. Thank you for helping us, the victims on the other side. 🙏
Tammy, need your advice pls! My father and younger sister are textbook covert narcissists. My mother is a pathological liar (started as a survival mechanism). My older sister is married to a neglectful narcissist. Despite all my warnings and attempts to open my older sister's eyes, she refuses to leave him. They'll be married 20 years in May. She knows and understands that her husband is a narcissist, but she keeps saying she's too weak to leave him. Keeps finding excuses to stay with him. Some days its her kids (9 and 13 yrs old), some days its the money. When in all honesty she stays for the social aspect of it, financial status and appearances (and she knows it! she admitted it to me)! i reached a phase where i want to turn my back to her since i cant take supporting her through another round of him having tantrums when he doesnt get his way. He turns to the typical steps in order: baiting, escalating the baiting, then rounding out the kids against her. She just takes it all in a victim attitude when i try everything i can to open her eyes to his behavior. Tammy, please please help me figure out a way not to turn my back on my sister. I understand she married a narcissist since she grow up with 2 at home. But how can i help her better navigate her relationship with her husband. I am trying to respect her choice to stay with him. I understand its not straight forward to just up and leave after 20 years and with kids in the game. please help me help her navigate a less stressful (or maybe a better) way in her relationship! i really hope you make a very detailed video about this!! pls pls pls!
Hey, @ketocravins2532. I don't need to make a video about this... it's actually quite simple. Your sister's marriage (and her choice to stay) is none of your business. My suggestion is that you mind your own business, let her live her life however she chooses, and focus instead on your own codependency recovery. She knows what you think and how you feel, so there's nothing more to say. Focus on your own life. 💕
@@tamiemjoyce fair point !! Hehe never thought of it this way! She comes to me for support and advice most of the time. I don’t initiate conversation about her choice. Do you think I shouldn’t respond anymore when she asks ? Maybe change the subject ?
@@ketocravings2532set a solid boundary with her by saying something like, "Look, I love you and it kills me to see you hurting like this, but clearly it's serving you somehow since you choose to stay. Moving forward, please leave me out of it. I can't listen to it anymore knowing you're not willing to do anything to help yourself. Maybe a better option would be to find a good therapist to talk to about it instead. I think that would be healthier for both of us." And then back it up whenever she goes there with you in the future by saying "I've already told you that I'm no longer doing this with you. BTW, how's your search for a good therapist going?" And silence. Not another word. At this point, anything else is enabling her to stay stuck in her shit... and if you really love her, you won't enable her. Remember, tough love is STILL love. 💕
@@tamiemjoyce yes!!! I’m pushing her to see a therapist for help! Wonderful! Thank you! I need to set boundaries for sure!!! I know I suck at that in every aspect 😂 Thank you again 🥰🥰
As a side step, see if you can catch them in the act of doing something. Setup security cameras. Also, recently, I may have had a lucky break, from an antagonistic narcissistic sibling. They were supposed to have reported our mother’s death to SS. Turns out they didn’t. As we’re in probate, I sent a letter to them and the court, letting them know, but also addressing another issue, they’d have likely responded to. While it may be too soon to tell, they appear to have evaporated.
Thank you so very much for this info. Unfortunately, I a married to one and have a mom that is one, but she doesn't live with me. I'm trying to decide if I should stay or go. Right now he is giving me the silent treatment, like a kid.
My narc sister spent 2023 sending me vicious emails, full of made-up lies of things she said I'd done to her. I was silent. Frustrated, she went to our sister and said her ex-husband was trying to kill her. I was asked, "What are WE going to do?" I wrote: Send him flowers and say, "Thank you!" Haven't heard back from any of them.
I need help getting away from this one! I am desperate! He has intensified his attacks because he knows I can’t get away! I work everyday but he ruined me financially and I am in debt. Also, finding another place to live is very expensive 😢
I've had to resign from any relationship with my adult daughter. I am blamed for everything. Every conversation is to devalue and insult me and lam base me in front of people. I quit 10 years ago when she said I was dead to her
My mother is the narcissist. She has manipulated my twin sister and I for years. I’ve gone no contact with both of them because she just love bombs one while not speaking to the other. It’s very painful
My mom is 81 and she always play the card of victim because of her age. I'm the fixer for everything 24/7 but also disrespected 24/7. I perfectly understand life is difficult at 81, but treating me like shit helps? I'm also sick and I must fight with my permanent wish to help her. Besides, it bothers me that her problems are my problems, but my problems are my problems
My son was raised by my mother because I was an alcoholic. (I’m just saying). I got sober and have been so for over 10 years. However, he had a much better life than he would have had with me. I have no idea how he turned out to be an abusive narcissistic person. We had a close relationship when he was younger and when he turned 17 he just went off the rails and no matter what I do he’s still a jerk to me, and that’s putting it mildly, with false hope in the form of intermittent reinforcement.
OMG, for 54 years, I have been setting there staring at my shoes, not speaking up, because having been raised in a Christian home, your parents are always right, no matter how they treat you. 54 years................
Maybe you can help me doc. I’ll try to be brief. Some of this winds up being overthinking and that’s what they want. With my issue, I had a person say something about me that needed no explanation from me. I need not even say anything and tried to be a good person and avoid it. At first, it felt like nausea, then confusion, then anger, then a bit of ranting. They had me. I was triggered. I didn’t do anything, I just talked about it with my partner. I didn’t drink, I didn’t act differently. But it effected me. It took he nearly two weeks to crack it. Why? What was the motivation. Just like with a criminal, unless you go inside the head and figure out the why, you’ll never know who you’re dealing with. If you have empathy, you respect people, you listen to people and show them kindness, this kind of vibe will absolutely poison your body. 😂❤it was brutal. So when I looked deeper what I found is, a deeply shallow, unstable, codependent person who was being propped up had no empathy for me. That was the issue. We had a sick one manipulating a weak one. (The flying monkey) the damage from the flying monkey hurt worse, because our narcissist abuser (her X HUSBAND) my significant others unhealthy past relationship, we knew how he is. So there’s no surprises with him anymore. Just danger and damage. Restraining orders don’t work when people just manage your reputation despite having every proof, every bit of honest evidence to suggest otherwise. They pick a sensitive narrative based on a perceived weakness. That’s why it hurt so bad I believe. Ya, it was a bad guy who got ahold of a dark hole who hides her anger. Me and my wife study this stuff in our free time as part of a prosocial thing we try to maintain. 😎👍💯☺️🤟but my question was, how should I treat this person in the future? I know she’s bipolar, histrionic, and almost borderline personality disorder. I’ve tried to be sensitive. But this lack of character has me thinking she’s a real danger to the family. It’s not my job to convince people. So what should I do? No contact? Address it? What do you think. She said the kind of thing that would start an argument in a place where your voice is being held back anyways. Family court. Somebody who’s supposed to be real and a means of support used her anger against me unfairly just because she was inconvenienced. I bagged it. She’s codependent, does t work, watches Jerry and Maury Povich on a couch. That’s her life. So ofcourse high drama must feel awesome. Looking like a hero when everybody’s looking. But if you know us, and asked us? When we needed a hero because of that same old abuser. She was nowhere and wouldn’t so much as even empathize with us. Never mind understand and help in some way. But now she’s the hero advocate. When you feel like crap about yourself standing out is what they want. Hero/victim complex. Histrionics plain and simple. Without to much detail. Imagine telling somebody all about cars because you’re an expert. Only to have them say “Ya, oh who them? Ya they know nothing about cars, he’s never been in one.” 😂❤🤢☺️🤟
I cannot ignore my bosses with the total silence. I can do everything else, though, especially when I have a new job waiting for me, in another town. This is a shitty experience, but I realised that maybe I was chosen by god to make this, because I know about narcissism - most of my workmates propably do not understand what it is and how tangible it is here.
My narc ex-gf told me that her new supply that she got while i did a 5 week no contact that he doesnt engage. I guess thats why she doesnt want me anymore...if she ever did in the first place. I didnt react at first but then i started reacting to her rages. I feel like a failure. She calls me a liar when i never lied to her. So why is she happy and im the miserable one?
This video has confirmed that even though I was very naive about narcissism and involved with I was doing the right things within the relationship I want to let her manipulate me or tell me what to do Not part of my personality lol I didn't even realize who I was dealing with all I did was scratch my head every day wondering what the hell is going on with this person? Now after 2 years it is finally over I have ended it and have studied narcissism at Great lakes along with your channel and understand everything that was going on that I didn't Demonic but fascinating creatures aren't they ? LOL
I’m a super empath and I called my ex covert narcissist out with 100% accuracy however I wasn’t fully educated about the narcissist and that’s was my fault. Because She emotionally collapsed and 2 days later she discard me, she called me night time and asking me to move out of her apartment., I moved out of the house within 2 days of the discard she come back a week later and baiting me, I didn’t engage and ignored her completely.. what should be aware of what coming next??
My ex has custody of our kids and he is abusing our 14 year old daughter, he is refusing me visitation, he is also telling the children that I’m not trying to set up visits and he’s telling them that the only way I will get to see them is if i come stay at his house! HELP!?
