Very word you say is so true! I always felt numberless, because I am am selve preserving four. And people said that I am a seven or a three. And also the relationship stuff you talk about. It is 100 % like my husband and me. We developed so much since we are together. It’s almost 20 year. He is sexual four …
Wow. Two 4’s together. That’s either a dream team or a nightmare or both depending on the day. 20 years is very impressive and the work you must have put in is I’m sure also impressive I’m excited for your next 20 years! Drew
Great content, as always. Drew makes a very interesting comment about subtypes and romantic compatibility at the 24:35 mark. I recommend giving it a listen.
The Dave mistake must have vanished because I don’t see it but thanks for watching. I’ll be dropping a ton of new content in the next month so hold on to your pants… we going on a ride!!! Drew
@@drewnewkirk I don’t mean to bother you, but are there any books that you would recommend ( or have read ) on the Enneagram? My 4w5 is screaming for books!
@@colorfulthinker not gonna lie, I’ve only read Richard Rohr’s book on the enneagram. It’s good. I do lots of googling and a lot of listening to clients and friends as they reveal how their number effects them. I recommend Rohrs book. It has a strong Christian perspective though just so you know. I appreciate Beatrice Chestnut too so I imagine her books are thorough
@@drewnewkirk Thank you so much!!!! I’m currently reading the book by Beatrice Chestnut, and I enjoy her mythological references to each type. Thank you for sharing your information with me. 🤍 And thank you for the Christian reference, it helps me to watch what I read.
Ugh, I feel like that might be more of a personal development with a therapist or coach thing. But, stay tuned, I may try to dig in to it more. Send along your email to my email or instagram and I can put you on the mailing list Drew@drewnewkirk.com Or @drewnewkirkpsychotherapy Sorry for the delay by the way
Thanks, such a gd video. Im a self preserver 1, and I know I need to intergrate the other subtypes, but Im a little confused. I guess this means being more in touch/express anger like a sexual 1, and to integrate social 1's type of feeling like I don't need to strive anymore so I can feel I have finally arrived (at my desination of whatever I aiming at) and I already have reserached enough to know I can relax because I know one right way to do things. What else though? Can you direct me to where I can find out more on how to integrate all 3 subtypes of type 1, thank you . This is probably helping me the most out of everything from the enneogram
Like I said, think this is either with a coach or just years of working at understanding and developing yourself It’s such a long process no matter what Wish I had a better answer 🤦♂️
Fantastic content. I think I'd like to find a way to have an enneagram professional type me. I'm not sure if you're offering that as a service. I tend to struggle to figure out whether or not I'm a four or an eight. Pretty sure I'm dominant sexual variant. My dear friend who is definitively of four really thinks I'm an eight. Buy bass lake between the two but I do strongly identify with many aspects of the eight. But I think the variant in which wing are what needs to come into focus. Anyway let me know if that's something I can book with you.
I’ve been so behind on responding to RU-vid messages, my apologies 🙏🏼 I’m working on a book this year and fully immersed. But, yes, I definitely offer that. The information below can help you get in touch with me If you’re interested in being on my mailing list or a typing drop your email on instagram @drewnewkirkpsychotherapy or drew@drewnewkirk.com hopefully I’ll continue to create some cool stuff to share
