I had no problem with Shiku & Mike getting together. In fact I was a big fan of Shiku when the green calabash was just a blog, way before she moved back to Kenya & got together with Rama. Relationships break down, this is nothing new. & we all deserve to heal & move on. How we move on from them & to our next one is very important though. My disappointment with them both was that use of kids to minimise & bait Rama as a father. I remember how respectful & cooperative Rama was in regard to coparenting with Ella’s dad, it’s a shame Mike & Shiku could not carry this dignity forward when it was their turn to co-parent with Rama.
@@manspeqtiveAfrica You just had a conversation off camera with one side and you decided that the situation is complex? The best predictor of the future is past behavior and one thing we know is certain is that Shiko has a pattern. Parental responsibility is equal in Kenya even if your baby daddy is Hitler himself he has equal rights under the law. Whatever they say Rammzy has done is no reason to deny him access and humiliate him in public. It is wrong for Mike and Shiko to play judge and jury and deny Rammzy access to his kids and make decisions unilaterally. Decisions like introducing Mike, a man with a history of being a chain smoker, to the kids so fast with public disregard and humiliation for Rammzy.
Men are always advised Never to Start 1-0.Kuna wenye huskia na kuna wenye hulilia Kwa Choo.No benefits come from raising someone else's kids .Absolutely None .
I just came to comments,and I realised so many are talking about interrupting na ivyo ndio nimepita hivyo it gets boring when you listen to a story and it's being interrupted all the time😊
Guy has found his rib no wonder he is very positive about wemen these days at classic 105. And you are reminded cheap tribalism ni yenu maskini pekee. Hope they have a great marriage till old age. Hata Letoo amewatoka sasa men of confrence keep hope alive 😁
I really really appreciate listening to this engaging conversations!! I love it when men admit vulnerability which was well said ' vulnerability is seen as weakness' which is what destroys our men.. Love it
I am so proud of you three gentlemen! This is just to show our men are healing and they're not afraid to show vulnerability! I enjoyed this episode! Good job Chito and Danish!
Yo, guy with the hat, please dont interrupt as the guest is giving an important story like how he fluked into radio now we dont know what happened past the script reading. thats what mimi kama listener would have wanted to know😐
If you invite a guest to your table, you are inviting them to tell their story! Let their light shine. Mike has a lot of deep things he shared... One interviewer was very sober and had great follow-up questions, but the other drew story back to himself. Great interview, though! Mike needs to share his story more. I understand him now, especially since I have his back story!
@manspeqtiveAfrica that's the spirit! All the best. You'll definitely go places especially if you also create the space for men to speak! You'd create a great niche for yourselves.
I believe when the other party settles down and gets another family the tune will change currently it's just trying to exercise his "masculinity" over a woman he no longer has control of anymore
The guy with the cap 🧢 is not really interested in the story he's not connecting well with Mike. His story is really deep but the interviewer is just interrupting and laughing loudly 😩