Esther Perel: The Power of Relational Intelligence 

This woman has taught me more about human relationships than my Bachelor's degree in Psychology ever did.

"A criticism is (often) a veiled wish. Why not say the veiled wish?"

I adore this woman's brain!

I loved the moment she caught everybody by asking "who is sending a check to the family"! That was such a cultural revelation moment.

Esther Perel is to relationships what Steve Jobs is to technology

I found you by random search and I am so thankful.

This woman is amazing, I can just stay here and listen for hours. And let me tell you I will need to hear this more than once’s.

Thank you for this. Esther has been a blessing to those who take relationships seriously and seek answers to their challenges in their relationships.

Relationships are harmony-disharmony-repair, connection-disconnection-reconnection. It's in the reconnection that the trust gets built. You have to have a rupture in order to actually build the trust.

If i ever go back to studying psychology, I want her for every class.

She said something really powerful. She said trust doesn't come from security, Trust is built in the reconnection after a riff

This is why so many people are unhappy- the unrealistic expectations that people place on jobs and relationships to fulfill them and provide them with meaning. What we once got from a village/ faith, we're supposed to get from the aforementioned

On top of her expertise I just LOVE her body language and accent! 😍😍

always, always, always a pleasure to hear you speak, esther

Esther Perel can articulate complex relationship dynamics well by recognizing patterns of behaviour and communication.

She's right, I'm from South Africa 🇿🇦 and we work to feed not only our immediate families but also our extended families as well.

Very intelligent woman. I love listening to anything I can find online from her and listening not only to what she says but the accent is very beautiful. Listening to her seminars & watching her videos have been life changing on many levels. Thank you for all your hard work and for such accurate information. Your an amazing speaker and have helped me tremendously.

Thank you for creating this video and providing this information. I just found your videos yesterday and am learning much as I'm in the Relationship Coaching world as well as being a social worker for the past 20 years.

This Lady is so amazing, I love her presentation, the way she talk, body language and confidence, plus she is able to convey the message.

I always learn from her! Great information!

Absolutely fabulous. For those interested in this topic I recommend Esther´s book The state of affairs - that will help you understand a lot.

Please keep her here with us for as long as possible . I happened upon her other video from a TED talk she gave. It gave a lot of clarity, and was absolutely engaging. There's a ton of reflection when I watch any of her videos. Beautiful work, and look forward to more of these lectures from her.

What a powerful voice. Thank you Esther. I needed this

Thank you Esther. I wish I’d have found you last week. What a difference of a couple of days could’ve made..

I love her ... fan girl!

I just LOVE this woman!!! She has gifted the world a whole new perspective on Relationship knowledge!

Thank you Esther for a relationship-vocabulary and relationship-truths that have been illusive to me until now. Fascinating and inspiring

I was hinted a lot with your book for my life as a father and a husband. Fire needs air, desire needs space! and I just knew that your book, the state of affairs was translated and published in Dec. last year in Korea! I am gonna buy it though I read the book with Audible~

She said "South Africa" and my attention was sealed in.

Brilliant.

She looks beautiful here.

Bravo! Belle présentation et logique. Merci.

These days it is not anymore a job interview, it is a personality interview while understanding nothing about their own personalities, and having no self- awareness, trying to go with the gut, when raised in environment which has nothing to do with development of the senses of the gut

Brilliant! Thank you.

Thank you so much for this.

I love this woman 💟

Revaluation of a relationship is ongoing

She is amazing 😍

Why Values are such a core component on what you build your foundation of intra and inter relationships with

I love her!

Masha Allah... great clinical reasoning

Amazing.

Love love Ester thank you so much for insights

21:46 Utter gold! ✨🙏🏻

I ALWAYS learn when listening to you Esther! Thank you so much for sharing your wisdom. 🙌🏻

All men should be required to take a course on this, and emotional intelligence as well because most men are emotionally constipated it seems.

Yessss go off, queen

Waiting for a book about work relationships. Hope it will be her next book!

I love this lady! Thank you : )

Lover her necklace

Great woman!

Relational n emotional intelligence n innate skills are all one . That's how things work.

Anyone noticed how chic her style is? In every appearance

Re evaluating

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OMG!!! What a brain...

I would like to hear a conversation with Esther and Jordan Peterson😍 could you imagine!!!

Wow!

Noooooo... I want to hear the Q&A session. Where can I find that?

If anyone can answer my question . How do we balance the contrasting economies ?

SHOT FR SURE.... 😊👍👌

I hope to meet someday Esther!

. . .ugh, and now I have the unreasonable expectations that my family, relationships, and job will make me feel like Queen Esther does. . .

God, I wish she comes to Dallas

12:43 👍

Am wondering how long it will take me to be like this lady on the field of relship expert 😎

Warning , if you want to protect your relationship, don’t watch this woman , you will fall in love with her , I warned you !!!

Soulmate on an app 😂😅😂 these is a trip

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0:23 is that Simon Sinek 😌

Im in South Africa... it is very much the opposite what she described.

I often wonder

“We’re looking for soulmates on an app; thats quite a trip” sometimes its just in the delivery of what’s said. Dont get me wrong, I’m still going to use them 👀

Please translate spanish!!! Subtítulos en español

Miss guity, dónde and

And where is the conversation?

power, trust, value... mmmm

18:54 👨‍💻

Im not on the radar of men with massive followers. I’d like to get to know you, Esther, as much as that is possible. I hear everything you say, about the direct path to satisfying Esther be more about the obstacles that get in the way. That resonates with me, more than Bill Maher’s “that sounds crazy”, more that Esther’s mysterious ravishing she searches for being a man who will lovingly brush her hair. And, your husband Esther, I guess that’s why I wonder how it can be worth it. I mean let’s talk, let’s introduce obstacles, let’s masturbate in separate states, let’s send our emotions higher and higher as we get to that sweet knowledge we’ve never had and it seems impossible to share. Remarried to the same man 3-4 times? And that doesn’t do some real damage? I get what you’re saying, your husband wanting security, you still wanting to sow your wild Oates. Im not saying that’s my marriage, or my friends marriage, but it’s definitely your’s. And that’s how I understand the triangulation involved. Esther Perel’s marriage. Yeah, let’s get to it.

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Nice analysis, but it sterilizes the natural love interest. Love has no real value. I cannot be in a relationship that is not based on emotion but only on understanding the changing reality.

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She makes many blanket statements .1st one"We have never expected more from our partners than we do today..."etc.. But where is research to back up her statements? She's talking about her experiences with her patients and insights from specific towns and countries.It doesn't make it 100% so with everybody in the world?

It is absolutely nonsense to claim that what a village did for one he/she now he/she except from one person-- wife/ husband!!!! What changed is more women obtained freedom of choices due to financial independence and with that we have now two bosses in the household and company of marriage goes down the toilet! Woman lost their identity and act like a man.

This woman has a background in art, not therapy. Maybe ask her how long she was actually practicing therapy - it's not 35 years. She waffles on with so much irrelevant information, and what is relevant is obvious to all of us - none of this is groundbreaking. Just because the dating landscape has changed, doesn't mean it's for the better. We are living in a world of narcissism right now, and we don't need more compromising of our morals and ethics when it comes to intimate relationships. I argue that she promotes and even encourages polygamy in relationships as well, and the way in which it is pushed in her books is nothing short of negligent. Lastly, psychotherapy is not backed by science, and they aren't taught anything about trauma, but only skim over the basics of the brain and nervous system. People like her are literally re-traumatising people by making victim-blaming blanket statements that are in favour of abusers. Every couple I've ever met that has subscribed her her nonsense, there is always one extremely selfish partner that cheats, and the other is expected to accept it and have an open relationship even when it goes against their values - all because this stupid woman says it's okay.

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