Ex-Pimp Teach ladies MANIPULATION tactics & TRICKS played by MEN 

These are facts dear.🔥

A pimp never needs a woman, just uses them…

@@TYost92 sounds like most every man is a pimp then...and he obviously needs a woman for whatever he is using her for🤷🏿‍♀️

Facts

And hes still pimping women...just on another level.

Real

Right, and that little spoiled child that he was did that out of hate for his own mother, the baby is the baby, mothers don’t have time to baby all there children. So I guess we going to be blamed for all the phylogenetic monsters in the world now.

Notice he ain’t blame his daddy for nothing

This

Especially DEVILS

oh yes there is a difference between a present father who makes a difference.

😅 them matching PJ photos

This needs to be pinned 📌

Exactly

He might not have Ed he might be gay and hiding it and using you as cover up. And you playing build a Ken and he's getting out of his needs met. And whatever he can't get from you he's getting behind closed doors with another man. He don't believe you're going anywhere so he's not going to marry you. He's taking advantage of your sincerity.

True, if you really look at it in the spirit some women really have LOW SELF WORTH and SOME of them don't care who or what they get they just want someone to validate them when instead they just need God, Jesus, and the holy spirit to guide and help them love, respect, care for themselves first and then God, Jesus Christ, and holy spirit will send that person looking for them, but just remember it's a long wait because God is bringing the right person into your life that will FIT YOU LIKE A HAND ✋ 💖 TO A GLOVE. (GET IT) God bless 🙌 🙏

MAKE MEN PAY. go watch shera seven and learn better

@@africanprincessmaya I am right now.

@@africanprincessmaya Shera indeed..

I never felt abandoned by my dad, ever. Hey, I am still struggling with jerks who are thirsty for sex, attention, and disappearing acts. Tired of it. A lot of men are colorist and racist, yes. They see you as less than, especially if you are kind and nice. Stealing kisses, trying to have sex with you on the first date, then making promises to contact you, and then running away.

Smh

His judgement day will come, like the rest of them.

Karma is moving at the speed of light these!

@jtw99235 judgement day is for everyone including you, everyone will stand before God. If he has turned away from pimping and sexual immorality, that means he has repented from that sin and has a chance to be saved. Let's not wish bad on him for his past mistakes, wish him well and keep it moving. Everyone fall short, our righteousness are filthy rags!

@@JamericanGir 👏🏾

Emphasis on "it won't happen again"!!

The one thing I can accept is getting played by the man you love! Once I accepted it I learned how to move going forward. Every thing is a risk but if need be let go!

Many women in the chat _(including me)_ said they've been manipulated over money. No one wants their actual face attached to that tho. HI can't expect more people to call-in when they're also being forced to turn on their cams.

Yeah if you turn on the camera then you become bait!

I feel ya sis 🩷 we came out better not bitter 🥰

Facts

True and I have No Respect for those kind of Men....players are Vain...and Ego....will go with anyone who Flashes their Eye lashes at them... Pathetic...and Dumb..🌻

Yes, it's sad and its hurtful, both sexes usually experience being played in the dating game.

@@headhunter9029 Nah. Because mothers are the only parent ot main parent in charge of raising and emotionally connect with their children and children first learn how to manipulate the mother to get their needs met (a woman), they know the man wont breastfeed them, wont cuddle them, wont take care of them when sick etc. But at a point mothers start to instruct their daughters to be their servants and directly compete with them while relying on their sons to be loved. I know some of these podcast bros and they know that women aren't loved, especially the ones with sisters, they know how to play women, women dont know how to play men.

SO TRUE!!!!

I agree!

It's hard when they lie so well

period. this is it, this is all !

It’s the responsibility of elders in families to teach girls and women the red flags. As Black Americans, we don’t have the proper leadership, which means we don’t have the proper culture for checks and balances to keep bad men subdued.

It’s in his dna. I wouldn’t trust him but at least he isn’t pimping women again. But he has learned how to manipulate on a grand scale so it probably leaks into his life without him even realizing it

😂😅😂😅pimp start up in Atl...lol

Lol

😂😂😂😂

That part....😂

It is utter madness.

But notice all of them only have a issue with women doing it for themselves, when the men had control over our bodies it was not issue but when women takes autonomy they are losing their minds, 😂😂 which to me is crazy !! It’s ok for men to sexualise us but when women do it for ourself all of a sudden (it’s feminism)

😂😂 And blaming women who did everything for the breakdown of the family… You can’t even make this ish up

I was wondering the same thing…

He stopped pippin 30 you ago. He has had several legit businesses since

They daughters ain't hit no strobe.

They don’t actually care how their daughters are treated. They just want it to look like princess treatment. Ask me how I know.

Exactly may they face the same shit u did to others daughters

His karma will come from his daughters 😊

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What does that mean, rhyming of words?

​@@sp4rkle81 when everything they say rhymes, like a pimp

Lol

​@@Heyu7her3lol

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PEOPLE LOVE to alter scriptures for their OWN benefit!😏

Preach 🗣️

“And the man said, The woman whom thou gavest to be with me, she gave me of the tree, and I did eat.” ‭‭Genesis‬ ‭3‬:‭12‬ ‭KJV‬‬

​@@corriandre1021🤣 At least Adam admitted he was WEAK!😂

@@unapologetic1413 Nigga was in love that he willfully broke God's law because of Eve

Yes, both statements are true.

Every woman don’t deserve better, they deserve what they worthy of.

You don’t only have to stay within ‘the community’

@@renee7113 Preach.

U still gotta pick better so it’s both

Absolutely

Preach!

How foolish of society… you don’t “fall” in love! You choose to love! SMH

Then that is not love. That is appreciation.

lol. Right!

I was one of those women, sheltered and abandoned. No life advice from a man that was very intelligent and could have put me on. But he was so selfish and one of those aint nobody did for me so I don't want to do for anybody kind of parents. I had to learn the hard way, but at least I learned.

THIS 🎯🎯🎯

👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 my father totally failed me in this regard. And continued to fail me when I reached out to him for advice during my terrible marriage. My brothers too. There is a cultural lack of respect for the black woman - well, women in general, really.

Yeah most men leave their own children for the wolves. My dad told me to go "lay on my back" if I want to make money , while I was studying to become a biomedical researcher. He also told me to pick up smoking because I was sckng my thumb until in my teenage years. He WILL d13 alone.

@andreablossom3929 I recently heard on a podcast how men are afraid to talk to their daughters about the ways of men because it may reveal their own indiscretions. They don't want their daughters to see them differently. I can see some truth to this. My father was forced to reveal his indiscretions during our conversations. I didn't lose respect for him. But I saw him as a man, no different than any other man, and that's what he wanted me to see. All men are capable of playing games and to pay attention.

So true

Imagine having to keep your looks like a dolled-up night the first time he saw you... We'd need 3 hours more in every day than men.

Say so!!!

Completely agreed

Thanks sis. So true

Preach 🙏🏾🙏🏾

Where are they you have virgins and reborn again women abstaining until marriage then getting abused, manipulated, learning about spiritual narcissist. My ex husband courted me. I chose him over more financially stable men because he knew scripture, appeared to live God and was willing to wait until marriage for sex. He didn’t have children and we we’d at 28. Fast forward 4 years he’s a dead best dad with his Christian mom co-signing. He’s an absentee dad. Where are the hood husbands because women are doing the work and getting tired waiting. Some women don’t have children waiting on a husband.

@hillaryconsultingservices: instead of ‘pick better’ … the PSA needs to be do better. It is apparent that no one can determine what a man will do. They have proven to be the most unpredictable creatures regardless of education, socioeconomic status, career choices (even pastors have been despicable), etc. There’s nothing a woman can do other than her best to vet him properly, but after that only time will tell. All women should have children with the understanding that any given day they could be a single mother and should plan accordingly. It might even be beneficial to have a man pay a ‘dowry’ of sorts in advance to cover any lost incase of his absence. Smh.

I agree with you but believe me. Even a “good husband” can fail you too

Amen, I am with you when you are right about. I have often been asked to be a Baby's Mamma and only asked to be a Wife three or four times. I was not flattered. Thanks for sharing

The large proportion of Black women SA'd as children by men is astonishing - far exceeding any other race of girls and women. No one EVER gives women a pass if her SA trauma caused her to make bad decisions.

now see.. there it is. I agree. but you know how sensitive everyone is and you can't say nothing. you just have to be accountable. that's the new word. accountability

Bingo the origin

That bro has never been molested

He could have sought out constructive ways to recover from his childhood like therapy, a mens support group or work in advocacy then to lead a life to use manipulate women.

I agree .. ☝🏾

I will not go into the blame-thing. But i do love to highlight something very foundational and fundamental,that is passed down orally in my family lineage as oral tradition. The word: Raise,is relative to Rose 🌹 and Rise. And those words are connected to the fire-within to awaken or to rise.(rise,rose and raise). Which is shown and seen when a penis rises and stand. Same phenomenal and principle happens mentally. Now,relate this phenomenal and the principle behind it,to Sexuality. Who and what aROSEs the Penis. Which will lead us to Sexuality, being the primary agency of power in and for nature. And feminine principle rules this agency. So there's no creation nor creativity,if she do not influence, incentive it and puts the wheel of creation into motion/action. Do you see what i'm showing you,on how she is the one that is behind the Raise/Rise. Because she wills the Negation principle. If she rejects and sticks to her gun,that she do not want to carry and birth his seed out of wedlock,ie without a Structure of a Family, an Identity and a process of raising them into that identity,under a structure of marriage and family. By so doing she had inspired Creativity and Creation,as he will wants to create an identity for self and his seed, build a structure and institute a process. She didn't only inspire creativity in him,but she has become a positive influence too.

​@@fabulousswag6683even married women become adandoned by their husbands shortly after they give birth and then women are then forced to navigate motherhood alone. There are plenty of men who walk out on his wife and his children for another woman. Even married women become single mothers and parenthood is something that shouldn't be done alone. Yes, women should marry before they carry, but countless married women become adandoned by their husbands causing them to go through motherhood alone. This is why so many women are choosing to stay single and be childless.

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@@timewithrubyWhat the deal with all of this victimization

This says more about the host than the guest! They remind me of Eve willingly talking to the snake in the garden in order to be a god!

Notice he said his mom never addressed his child mullestation and at the same time he also said he didn't tell his mother until he was 52 years old. Forked tonged snakes he is.

So, should I not knock a man out because I have brothers and a father? Stupid logic.

@@agreatmannamedlieu Her explanation made perfect sense. But we know kangs hate what is good and right.

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He is only providing another perspective which we women need to know. Men take this kind of stuff as gospel and we need to know how they are thinking and what is behind the toxic behavior. I appreciate that he stated he hated his mother because she did not give him enough attention and that some old woman molested him made him hate women further. I am here to glean what I should be looking for in partner beyond the checks off the boxes. I need to explicitly ask. - do you hate women? I feel like black men hate women because their single mothers had to discipline them. I get so frustrated when I even think about how black men and women are so maligned and don’t lift the other up. I encounter it all the time. These guys read about great men but I don’t think they take anything away on how to love. First themselves then the women they chose the lay down with and have sex and then create a whole other generation to experience toxicity and dysfunction.

he contributed to women suffering, he took advantage of women...a pimp...sick mf

Being able to have an open mind and see how other people think prevents us from being finessed and manipulated. Seeing things from a different perspective can help you evolve.

More power to you Tay. Do your thing.

😂😂

How do you get it? Do you just outright ask for it?

Honestly, I never took his advice, because I am not the type of women that likes a man for their money. @@sunnysuney5845

It really varies..some give it when you give it

@@sunnysuney5845 yes

@@sunnysuney5845no. give them a scenario or tell them a problem you have. Ex: “I’m so stressed out, I had to get my car worked on last week so now I’m short on my rent.” Then say “I need help”… then he’s going to ask you how much you need or just offer up.

It’s the not calling and communicating sparingly that I don’t understand.

He did that on purpose, and you made the right choice. A woman’s time is more valuable than a man’s time and much more critical. Never waste time it’s too many people out here.

Stop dealing with men altogether, thats the only way

Last I Checked, The Prison Industrial Complex wasn't Dominated by Women. And The Child Support Squad was Arresting Mostly Women.

Facts For real!!

It goes both ways tho because when are women going to be held accountable for what they allow into their lives? Or their lack of boundaries and self worth?

I've raised my sons to not play these "games". They're new adults, so time will tell if it worked. I move honestly in business and in life, they can see the fruits of my life. To paraphrase the old proverb: if everyone swept their own doorstep, the village would soon be clean.

People can change.

Was a pimp 30 years ago

What is cringy. He never said he was a child molester knock it off

@@A_Kingdom_Well tigers don’t change stripes.

@@BamPowBoom11 People do change . Facts. I’m not saying he has changed but I know for a fact people change .

Well said and also stop depositing their seeds irresponsibily into EVERY WOMAN they meet. The y complain about body count etc but they not doing anything to prevent it always contributing to it smh

It amazes me that every time a man state a fact a woman turns the question around back on the man! That’s call deflection 🤦🏾‍♂️

Sounds like an excuse. If your a single mother get a male mentor. No excuses. If the father died and the kid became bad, is it the father fault for passing away. Whoever is in the care of the kid take full accountability. Being a single perent is no excuse

My grandmother taught all 8 of her children about the LORD. Took them to church, and spread the message of JESUS to all of them. However, as we become adults and make our own choices thats on us. Whether we choose to live holy or in the world. I saw my uncles go astray and live opposite lives of how they were raised. So SOME women cant be blamed for how their children's lives turn out. A lot of us have been taught right from wrong. At the end of the day, its the choices we make.

This dude is still a pimp. An educated manipulative pimp. Listen to him speak. I told my woman I told my son I told my daughters. I heard no language about any discussion except for what he told them, talking about how he does not need therapy. You should need therapy after abusing all those girls because you add a few shiny things to your repertoire you think that you are whole? What an embarrassment that you are coming on the heels of Dr. Spirit and Tony Gaskin. It's like eating healthy delicious meals all week and on Saturday going to McDonald's.

Right !!! You're spot on, your spiritual discernment is on point. I 💜 it.

He wanted for her to do 1 year but said at least 2 months

He's right. I've seen all the red flags within 60 days. Men cannot hide their true nature. They aren't good actors and people give too much credit due to being naive and ignoring obvious blaring red flags.

and no again.

@@Pheonixfire2220 🤣🤣. H3ll no!!

This.

Or his daughters are the male in the relationships . You can not infiltrate your kids with toxin and not expect them to be poisoned . Manipulation Manipulation is all you are going to see. I would rather have enough tools to make an informed decision. Thank you. Once TD jakes were asked why he do not teach about the devil that much, his answer was if I teach them about the power of God when the devil show up they will know how to deal with him.

Well the basic core principles are the same. And his daughters may not have to go through this if he's as ACTIVE of a father as he says. My husband does not agree to our daughter dating until college and we need to meet him regularly to read his body language and our daughters, have regular convos and stay looped in...we need to meet his parents too and see where he lives. Let's be real though, fathers don't be father'n...that's the issue. And mothers are WAY TOO SOFT and loose with parenting. Mothers will let daughters bring home a guy with no education. Trust me my daughter would have to be a master minipulator and take off her 360 app for us to not know what's going on. Be real, ppl are NOT PARENTING. Yall feeding and reprimanded and saying do as I say not as I do and yall lack loving your children. We make sure we are very kind and nurturing but firm. They need to NOT lack love so it's not a big deal when some guy expresses like or "love".🙄

He basically said he hated women when he married his wife. I don't believe his hatred for women magically disappeared when his daughter was born. He said "adores" his sons. Nothing about the daughter.

Granddaughters are in that line of karma fire 🔥 too

Carma doesn't have an expiration date it'll get you one way or another

Exactly, black men are still complaining about the most basic of things and it’s sad. It shows they’ve been coddled and spoiled too much and lied to by their mothers and abandoned by their fathers and have yet to blame themselves. Even the talk about “not having sex too soon” that’s not how real life works. Chemistry is chemistry, you cannot measure human attraction and love by how “long you wait” and then wonder why black women are less educated about their bodies and sexual hygeine and orgasming and tantra and overall health now. This man has no idea what he’s talking about and it’s truly pathetic. He has no knowledge of the woman’s health, body, and LIFE & SPIRITUALITY. Once black people learn to drop all of these self limiting beliefs and limitations on themselves they will be able to heal as a people and a community.

Your assessment is accurate. It’s still very sad that a man that grew up with both parents and a few sisters (eventually daughters of his own) and still helped women to destroy themselves. Yet this is the kind of man that gets airtime/revered. Beyond sad!! This man is still unhealed and I hear NO repentance.

Exactly

💯 It’s always a “momma” wound when men misuse or abuse women 😢🙏🏾

EXACTLY, MAMA ISSUES, A LOT OF YOUNG BLACK MEN ARE MAD AT MOMIE BECAUSE SHE COULD MAKE DADDY STAY, OR MAKE HIM BE IN THEIR LIVES, THEY BLAME HER FOR EVERYTHING IT'S SAD. THIS MAN WAS NEGLECTED BY HIS MOM SO WOMEN HAD TO PAY FOR THAT, I WONDER IF HE USED VIOLENCE TO CONTROL THE WOMEN.

@@annabellademus9719 I must make a safe assumption that he most definitely used violence! What many fail to realize is that words are violent as well. They call it verbal abuse and it’s the most difficult to heal from. The power of life and death lie on the tongue. This man mentally, spiritually and physically beat women down! He attributes himself to his daughter’s success/turning out well. My mom and dad do the very same and they are two of some of the worst parents there is.

Period! If you know what YOU stand for, you can learn anything from anybody

Ever!

Naw that was just your karma

@@sistersister8830 isn’t it so awesome that I learned from my mistakes and recognized who and what I was and made the necessary changes! Whew it must be hard to be so perfect all your life! And some of the things we go through are called growing pains! We go through things and we SHOULD evolve and grow in time, but not all of us do! I guess some were just borrrrrn perfect 😉

Teach me your ways

@@sistersister8830 nah it’s called growing pains. It is what it is

@@centykaia4450 nah bc I was extremely broken from childhood. But I will say use wisdom and discernment. Don’t put up with anything that is a red flag or a deal breaker for you. The door should always be open for both parties!

Uhhh because he is

Hurt people hurt people

A pimp is a hoe

@@9Mountains9nah. Thats an excuse for people to behave improperly. Adults have the responsibility to heal. Children dont.

That’s an outlier. It doesn’t negate the overall results that two parents household provide to a child than a single parent household.

Especially if the man is toxic or a deadweight. Better to leave that kind behind & raise the child/-ren without those impressions.

@@zongonative7397not an outlier at all. I grew up with people with two parents in the home who still ended up messed up. I was raised by a single mother and I’m in med school.

Just because a male is in the home doesn’t mean a FATHER is in the home🤷🏽‍♀️

your point is explained in details with facts. women needs their own space and men need to be with men. men and women are NOT and never be the same. Women have been forced into this ideology of marriage to benefit the males

Meaning what? Arent we participating by watching it?

Good point! Especially with O.F and other easily accessible sites... at the end of the day every individual is in need of deep healing at some point.@@Spokentruths725

​​@@Spokentruths725you can watch a robbery without doing the robbing.....come on now let's wake those cells up

@@nekea93 and if you stand by and do nothing is that any better? You’re not calling the police or intervening anyway. Bystanders aren’t so innocent anymore. How about you wake up and use that brain of yours.

@MsAverageChick In the world we live in what law says you have to assist in a crime fighting activity? You know to help me wake up my brain 🤣🤣🤣🤣

SAME

Glad to hear this and glad you had a good dad.

Bonfide hoes say the same shit😂

Totally agree. She really did not have much to compare him to either. Thank God she did not marry him. I loved her and I believe as she continues to do her work, she will choose better or they both become better.

Once a pimp, always one.

I’m just going to put it out there - black or white - men are a breeding pool of narcissists and sadly it’s not their fault. But it just causes problems. Problem after problem because they don’t realize it and they will not ever admit it long enough to get therapy and just go through life ruining women.

Yeah I'm shocked they have a pimp on here.

She’s one of many women that need to understand a lot of these women that are “using men” are not using men at all. These men are LOOKING for women they want sexually and willing to pay anything to receive what they want from these women. She needs to understand that the men that allow this to happen are foolish and will always trade a “good woman with a good heart” in for their own lust and fleshy desires.

Damm shame he does

He is trying further & already has, and is elevating his pimping status on a multi niche conglomerate & national & international level & the 2 hosts are actually complicit in helping to assist him in doing so, whether they are aware or not.

I’m telling you smh it’s really sad smh

Please tell me , I want to know the same thing ?

You have been lied to what men do we have been doing since the beginning of time. You just come along Johnny come lately and think you are going to reinvent the will

@@israelshells9726 nun of what you just said makes any sense dear. But 👌 🆗️

Exactly he focused on the woman finding out he’s cheating instead of realizing that the woman is entitled to not be lied to or manipulated and it’s best to be honest about your sexual desires and how many women you want with women prior to starting relationships with them.

He is uneducated. Men Kill because it's their nature. PERIOD. The first murder was committed by a Man and the first crime upon a woman came by a Males hands also. If FBI statistics show that 95% of the world's crime would go away if Men cease to exist, that sounds like Nature. 95% of anything is (nature) and the 5% of crime left over is female anomalies. Women should Like men, but rarely if almost Never love them.

In most cases, it's not the mother's fault. It's the lack of a father that enrages these men. Since men only like to follow men, they have zero guidance.

The problem is that you and Ken are generalizing.

@@encouraginglyauthentic43 What was generalized?

@@God-Love-Freedom Thinking that all killers come from single mothers. Or that all killers have hatred.

Exactly, they dont realize women are for your enjoyment and pleasure and seduction. They dont allow women to be women and then when they rather go to work and do everything themselves and dont want to have sex it’s still a problem. Smh when are black men going to realize we are here to dress up, seduce you, love you sleep with you, tell you when you’re wrong or right, tell you when we feel betrayed or lied to and challenge you when you need it. They want women to lie to them and bey them and they think that’s a form of respect and love and it’s not. It’s really sad. Black men need to allow women to just be like other cultures. Being a mother and cooking and cleaning is never just enough for them. We have to be EVERYTHING and it’s sad. Every other culture allows women to be WIVES & MOTHERS & Caregivers and it’s never enough for them.

I hear you love. Who hasn’t been there? Most wouldn’t admit no matter how fine, sexy or so called strategic they think they are, we all been played by a man or two. A famous African female pastor said, ‘all men are born psychologist.’ And she’s right. The only cue to this as cliché as it sounds indeed boils down to truly loving the sh!t outta yourself! Like develop mad love for yourself over time. Figure out what cause you not to accept yourself and get rid of tht thing. Figure it out and fix it meh. Thts all

You are absolutely right. I learned the hard way for sure . No more accepting unacceptable behavior from anyone not just men!! I Iove the 💩 out of myself now, so no more BS! Thanks Queen❤️

Yup, but if black women start giving up their children when a man abandons them we will get called worse. Smh start leaving these boys with their fathers when they want to leave and abandoned their families so they have nobody else to blame.

single moms are the problem

He wants her to help build his business and once it’s successful he can dump her no strings attached and marry the woman who he wants. She blames everyone his mom his sisters yet he grew up in the same house but he’s the only perfect one oh poor him

Naw within a few months you'll know if he is potential or a karmic.

hes manipulating the audience under the guise of 'help'. fkg predator!

Yes! I don’t understand how many women aren’t getting this! This is insane!

Your past mistakes never leave…

@@donnachoice3286 The devil is literally a liar and The Most High is a forgiver and redeemer. The past is the past forgive yourself, repent and do better

@@OrganicallyYahs Are you saying men want to have a monogamous, nuclear family more than women?

@@God-Love-Freedom no because generalizations don’t pertain to what is specifically willed for me.

They Also prey on kids especially Run Away Teenage girls.Smh

Yes their main goal is to go after a woman that has no father & if she has kids even better for their games bc she's more vulnerable. That is the American man's fave target. Easy to fool and drain life source energy from. 90% AM have a succubus energy like 🧛🏻‍♂️ but they are the walking dead.

Till he has been paying all of my bills

Exactly! And like I say, personally ima need TWO RINGS!! Not just the engagement ring, but baby you gotta come with the wedding ring too honey before you get all this here! 🙌🏾😁💕💍💍👰🏾

You can always do a background check to see if he's married, plus any other info like criminal history and credit score. He could be a secret drug pusher.

It's funny they wanted to know if men had felt manipulated out of money. Most men will say yes because many think buying a woman a drink means she owes him sex. And men losing money to a woman is not the same. Women don't have findom fetishes, they don't fantasize having their bank drained by a man.

I need this game honey cause girlll I’m sick of it !!

Interesting. That her asking for help is her throwing them under the bus. Interesting

She definitely gave wayyyyy more information than necessary. And he doesn’t trust her either , and this being on a show will be something else he can use to justify his manipulation. Bottom line he doesn’t want to marry her. It was no need to go into detail about his family because she’s the same woman who is with him and taking on the drama and trauma. Hopefully she loves herself enough and her boys to leave. She has so much of her own issues to deal with. They both need therapy and immediately

@patricefeanny497 she didn't just ask for help. You don't tell people on national youtube that your man's mom and sisters are cheating on their spouse. That's not your business to tell. And it's going to cause drama. You don't tell National youtube that your current boyfriend has ED. You can tell your story without being that specific.

@@Ki-Yemaya i understand your perspective. Thats more of a tact issue than it is a manipulation. You can clearly hear from her delivery that she was laboring over it and she felt safe enough (because that's the space they have intentionally created) so she shared authentically. I agree 100 percent there should have been some measure of coding. But she was being transparent about HER experience. It is her story. She has been in relationships with the family and feeling the effects of what their actions has been causing her. And context is King. So she couldn't get a proper place to flesh out her thoughts and gain genuine feed bake if she gave a watered down version and speak in so much code that too much is left to fill in than operating from the reality. That is what I gained from her vulnerability. Because she didn't just come with bashing. As if she was ousting anyone. She was genuinely trying to get help with the internal turmoil she was experiencing. But thats my opinion as you are entitled to yours. Thank you for responding. I was just curious on your outlook on her decision to be transparent. 😊 have a blessed day love.

​@@Ki-Yemaya She's also not better than them for that.

Specifically husband and wife

@@noirefit5954 Absolutely 💯

Although sex is not the only way soul ties are formed, but it is one of the most powerful forms. Sex is NOT only designed and designated for a husband and wife, it MUST be a GOD ordained union. Not only can sex be a tremendous weakness, it clouds and distorts people’s thinking. Sex has been weaponized from the beginning of time. It’s been used for darkness far more than for light/its original purpose.

It most certainly is when you dont have discipline how do you explain all the people with multiple baby daddies and baby mamas? Without really getting to know one another deeply?

@lf3554 well sex in those cases is the symptoms of a bigger issue.

Lol that's what I looked for. It's had it's up and downsides

Legend ? Please.

Yeah when she sold 7 YEARS I WAS like give it up sis. YALL pretty much done did EVERYTHING a married couple does ..Why would he get married NOW at year ..7 ??? I'm a man and I'm not gonna DATe no woman for 7 years if we not getting married...