EX WIVES USING KIDS AGAINST FATHERS - EP 10 || BITTER TRUTH SHOW 

Why did you edit out Mahdi?

What was the reason brother Mahdi excluded and edited out from the conversation. Very strange 😒

But the mother needs to believe that no matter what Allah comes first in the child's life. Allah before the parents because Allah can do impossible things. Sometimes 2 parents are bad if they don't stop being bitter with each other.

​@@equityjustice2695 rudeboy was probably saying mad stuff 😭😭

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They are not "women" they are among the shayatine !

@@fabriceharris3364 technically theyre women under the influence of shaytan but i get your point

Why was brother Mahdi edited out from the conversation?

That's why majority of them will follow dajjal and will be in hellfire

Have you guys noticed the ladies kept saying its children’s rights rather than fathers rights? Man you just can’t keep women’s emotions grounded

Stay strong bro 😢

@@cumarmohamed9709 Alhumduliliah -Allah is the greatest ..Baraak Allah Feekum ❤️

One of my friends took his own life. His wife was using the kids against him 😢

@Prince of Arsenal: You spent 30k but by Allah, you ex will pay an even higher price in the next world

​@@zapbranigan5099 Yeah, just ignore the 14 years of alienation that happened and just assume this guy is a bad father. I could not relate to spending 30k on getting to see your kids, I would just get a new family, but it is because I have learnt from others mistakes.

she really was but thankfully she has calmed down in old age. & being nothing like her elhamdulillah it didn’t effect my fathers and my relationship in the long run as i seen through the lies. But that’s not the case for everyone sadly

Your story got me 😢 dripping.

Ameen and may Allah SWT allow these broken homes to become stronger than ever ameen

mate dont get married - u will regret it for the rest of your life. if u wanna get married - move out of the west.

Assalam alaykum. Pin this as well Ahki

Why was Mahdi cut out from the conversation

Ali Dawah, would you say you are a coward for cropping out Mahdi?

@@equityjustice2695 because he is worried about the backlash he will get from sisters.

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Many du'āt and Ulama do, it's wise not to make a blanket statement due to one's own experience, someone such as Abu Ibraheem husnayn has spoke on this matter very in depth , with out causing confusion amongst Muslims

@@razwanashraf5363 I converted to Islam 25 years ago and I can not remember any da'ee or scholar discussing discussing this particular issue of women using their children to punish their ex-husbands. I know several brothers, including myself, who have had to enture this torture from out ex-wives and we have lamented the fact that seemingly none of the da'ees and scholars discuss this problem. Having said that I will look for Abu Ibraheem's lecure insha Allah. jzk Allah kheir

@@DaggerSecurityou are right! I’m in my 30’s and come from a Muslim family, and also noticed many scholars don’t live in the west. So They don’t understand our struggles. In Islamic countries or in the 3rd world, much more can be done to tackle such issues but the west always favours the women or good for nothing dads!!! So to many scholars this isn’t really an issue and they tend to focus on what they see around them.

@@razwanashraf5363can you please list the salafi scholars who have covered this topic in-depth? Jazakallah Khairan

Yes they need to talk more

SubhanAllah, so sad! At least he got his daughter now and I hope she has accepted Islam! Why do Muslim men obsess with the kaffir women in the west who will misguide their kids! At least even if a Muslim woman takes the kids away they will be raised as Muslims and with time, the kids will learn and realise that islamically their mum was in the wrong

Ameen and I seriously don't know why brother/sisters have the heart to do this to their ex spouses 💯💯💯

Why only when he started seeing/visiting his child did the mom die of tongue cancer as per your comment and I’m just curious 🧐

@sadyadey782 Allah alem how she even got cancer. From diagnosis to death was about 9 months. When she was diagnosed social services and private therapist were pushing her to force her to let their daughter see her dad. As she was deteriorating, she didn't have as much energy to manipulate them all anymore. At this point he was married with 2 young kids and had almost given up with the idea of having his daughter in his life

It probably was. He cut out Mahdi Tidjani who knows about this topic first hand. The fact Ali Dawah felt scared of the backlash says a lot about him

@@Wilmao475toxic Mahdi. Can’t force / bully a women to accept polygamy and his unislamic ways then get bitter when the woman leaves . Women have to protect their kids from toxic dads.

It would have been if Mahdi would have been allowed to talk and not censored

They cut Mehdi out of the conversation very sad

@@equityjustice2695 Probably a consensual edit.. Usually with collabs, both sides decide on the editorial aspect of the final result. And sometimes, certain Clips are taken as exclusives for their own channel. Or maybe, it was upon reflection that it was just best to leave some parts out because the rest of it drives a more important message. Either way, it was about an hour long and the information within was sufficient enough as it is tbh.

Ameen

Ameen

Ameen

I think he might have asked Ali to take him out of video. For legal reasons. Let’s be patient and understanding.

@@alm_alb probably. But let's be honest, Mahdi has to stop being redpill. May Allah guide him.

100% Allah is most Just

In Islam the BF isn’t considered the child’s father, only the husband

I'm a woman and I agree with you 100% women should be held accountable for their actions, unless this punishment isn't put in place many more women will follow the crowd and alhumdaulillah im that sheep that stirs away from the herd

Men too btw doesn’t apply only to women ..

She’s a feminist far from amazing women

@@MessiWorldCup-th2de how is she a feminist?

@@MessiWorldCup-th2de Stay hatin' kiddo

@@MessiWorldCup-th2deu just hate seeing an educated women

@@maz8487 have u seen her views?

I hope this is brought up in this and similar conversations. Physical emotional financial abuse are the reasons most women are forced to leave and have to keep children away from fathers. Very often the children are so scared to see the father and even the fathers controlling family members. The abuse they suffer is hard for outsiders to believe becauseit all happens behind closed doors. The wife and children suffer because they leave in a number of ways including being vilified by community for not enduring and staying for sake of the children. Children are being far more damaged when a woman stays in an abusive relationship.

@@Easy-gs9xiignorant people will never understand this. The reason for my divorce was emotional and financial abuse. I know many sisters going through the same as they want to give kids access to both parents! Everyone’s issue is different and people need to stop getting too emotional and listen to men who cry wolf. I don’t care I was taken away from my dad and his family. He wasn’t providing and never did anything for us. It’s toxic for the kids being around a dad who doesn’t understand his role as a dad. They end up with such men and the cycle continues. These dads act so humble and practising but under cover are very evil. I don’t even trust these mens stories as only Allah knows what’s in their hearts. Many good Mums have been through hell and when kids get older also get to understand this. Just Like I did.

Because sadly enough the world doesn’t care about fathers.

Fathers have less rights than a dog u see current law on most western countries. Facts

I think he might have asked Ali to take him out of video. For legal reasons. Let’s be patient and understanding guys.

No, they don't

Yeah man

Why has mahdi been cut off?

Maybe because last time the sisters were upset so he is now pandering to them. This is the definition of simping no matter what Ali says

​@@93boxing81 this is what mainstream media does . They dont want to hear real truth and only talk about women. Because of these Man are getting discriminated all over the world. This is tge reason why red pill exist.

Sorry to hear that bro,

Sorry to hear that, may Allah unite you with your father. Ameen

No, we really didnt want to hear that thing make sounds

@@Babycake. 😂😂😂😂 you got dumped!! Hence your daddy issue syndromes 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

@@Babycake.I can tell ur one of those feminists that would withhold their kids to see their dad.

​@@Babycake. who is we?

I think he might have asked Ali to take him out of video. For legal reasons. Let’s be patient and understanding guys.

He admitted to beating his kid and wife which would make it look bad to have him on this podcast

It's should be scary 😂 right.

Yes In family court many hijabis, niqabis alimas, and also they’re practising families supporting them, in these games of power.

I think it was legal reasons…

@Fortifier1021 totally man.

In the family court all sisters become atheist, along with their brothers and fathers.

Guess the religion is finally dying.

There should be a verse that tells us that parents are enemies as well.

Maybe because last time the sisters were upset so he is now pandering to them. This is the definition of simping no matter what Ali says.

Such fathers obviously exist. But that does not take anything away from the point they are making. One truth does not negate the other.

Take him to the CSA

Most fathers end up in court to fight to see their children. How did you end up in family court??? Was it to ensure he had contact??

@@disqualified_dads he refused to sign daycare papers so I can work .. accused me of tricking him to sign custody papers .. he also is not consistently providing any support for his children.. he hasn’t seen them in months .. he knows he can come see them anytime but would rather tell everyone since I’m going through the courts I’m trying to take his kids away from him and cut him off

@@Jewels347 sister there are good parents and bad parents, ultimately good and bad fathers/mothers. It’s very sad he dosent spend time with his children, I hope for your children, he steps in and spends time with them.

@@disqualified_dads in shaa Allah .. I’ve left it in Allah’s hands.. I know Allah will handle it

@@Jewels347 ameen

Depends on their emotions. They know they can hurt fathers with their kids. One day the children will figure it out and begrudge the mother. What goes around comes around

Yeah I wonder why

Maybe because last time the sisters were upset so he is now pandering to those sisters.

@@93boxing81 it’s more than likely mahdi asked him to cut him out for legal reasons. Besides I don’t think mahdi would give the best advice on this topic seeming as he beat his first and second wife and children

@@mcnxj2724 As if people dont make mistakes? As if you were a fly in the wall to see what her wife did (and yes that matters) There is literally a sister on the panel who said she didnt want her kids to see their father (her ex husband) at first. If she did go ahead with it at first but then changed her mind and applogies we wouldnt have had a problem. But because mahdi is a guy, you think somenow that would mean he gives bad advice.

@@93boxing81 no mahdi admitted to beating his children and first and second wife. And like I said, he is not the best person to talk about how unfair it is for innocent fathers to be separated from their children, when he is a father was not innocent and was rightly separated from his children. Maybe he can discuss other topics but this topic is not the best for him. At the end of the day I think he should not of be cut out so his opinions could be push back on in a healthy debate I’m pretty sure it was mahdi who told ali to cut him out for legal reasons. But I think you’re being hypocritical as you have said it’s good to have “a healthy amount of stigma on divorce women”. Where is the same empathy you’re showing to a women and children beater (something that is haram) to a divorce woman (something that is completely halal).

i know but idk why he was there he didn't introduce himself or talk

@@fatchoumagharbi9939 pre recorded and he’s cut him out due to the reaction from the previous episode he was in

nah, cuz in his case, it was well deserved, lool.

@Kawsar Ahmed damn right you do. his viewpoint is why the ummah is ridden in fahsha in those countries to begin with.

​@@khabibsson7122 Submitted to the mob, yeah?

Brothers know but women don't k ow the value of a man's role darling womne need to do better

@Fortifier1021 It’s okay we can be balanced in our discussion. However I agree with you that if your first instinct is to deflect then you’re probably not listening.

@Fortifier1021 who said in person I don’t hold woman accountable if they do that. Problem with ppl like u on the internet, are apparently mind-readers and knew what I was thinking when writing that. I wasn’t scoring a point. Very negative

@Fortifier1021 Lol May Allah guide u.

@Fortifier1021 again May Allah guide you. Fear Allah on how you talk to others.

@Fortifier1021 thank you. I will reflect on my action and make dua for me that the fear increases.