Expat Says Goodbye To fiancée & $200K - A Cautionary Story!

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@zeroplague 2 месяца назад

She wasnt jealous of another lady. She was jealous of another lady getting the money.

@GoldKingsMan 2 месяца назад

Yikes

@chailavender7997 2 месяца назад

And not getting to the $200k first

@Liberalismisadisease809 2 месяца назад

Good point, you’re right

@gazelledonald714 2 месяца назад

@zeroplague She was not that jealous, she was not psychotic. She worked her plan.

@annjean8709 2 месяца назад

💯 🎯 🎯 🎯

@Eddy-ev5tm 2 месяца назад

She didn’t want to let him out of her sight. He was her and her family’s meal ticket , reminds me of the old saying. Nothing is more expensive than a cheap woman

@natashadickson4819 2 месяца назад

Then she should have gone with him on the doctor visit. How important can that festival be, if her fiance is het whole life?

@GizmoMaltese 2 месяца назад

@@natashadickson4819 I'm confused about the story. The narrator says that she said, "why would you want to go alone?" Which tells me he wanted to go alone. No woman you're in a relationship would be happy with you going alone to any location in the Philippines. If he insisted on going along then that would be suspect.

@robertlowe5697 Месяц назад

@@GizmoMaltese bc he realized the festival is more important to her than him, so he said, I'm just go alone.

@robertlowe5697 Месяц назад

@@natashadickson4819 That shows the immaturity of the woman or girl. They didn't say, how old is she? Her priority is her self-centered self, instead of what's important to her man. Made it seems like she REALLY didn't understand the situation.

@JSActiveStyle Месяц назад

200$ is a lot of money anywhere.

@VENEMPASTOR 2 месяца назад

If she and her family can't sustain themselves financially without your money, DON'T F/N GET INVOLVED!!!

@patrickmanley4943 2 месяца назад

The family was surviving on their own before he came along and they will survive afterwards. I have a Filipina girlfriend and I have told her that I would only help her a little and if she wants to support her family then she can get a job; and that’s what she did. I’m not giving money to every family member, distant cousins, neighbors, co-workers , the entire Barangay, etc…

@danielribeiro4618 2 месяца назад

becomes difficult if the puss is too good😂 Update: when you go to tailand to retire and you want to taste that cat but you have to pay 200k upfront?!! --> thanks mam but no thanks

@KoguryoKid 2 месяца назад

Why is it always the "poor provincials"? Why aren't there cases where the local person is from a RICH family and the foreigner makes out like a bandit?

@curtisake7431 2 месяца назад

@@patrickmanley4943 you and I both know, if you don't start something, you won't have to stop it.

@GoldKingsMan 2 месяца назад

@@patrickmanley4943One my family friends is a Dr, he met a Filipina UK side I think she’s an accountant. Hope he isn’t paying every family member in his marriage..

@DDK997 2 месяца назад

My recommendation to any guy is when you meet a Filipina online or on a dating site. If she is not educated to at least to a college level, does not have a job and says she is family oriented then run away.

@KoguryoKid 2 месяца назад

It is MADNESS to do such a thing online or on a dating site.

@kinhason46 2 месяца назад

@@KoguryoKid yes a sucker is born every second, why do we guys often have SH## for brains! Man, I never have had a problem even in Southern Cal dating a 23-year-old when I was 39...the minute she window-shopped and like some $300 boots, that was it! There are lots of pebbles on the beach my mom told me after my 1st wife left...best advice! Married a Filipina who had lots of money, was an actress in Hollywood, 10 years younger than me(me 40, she 31. Now I am 77,, she 68...great woman, business, gorgeous, also a boxing referee, official of Olympic boxing. 200K geez this guy is just a sorry case! I lived in PI for many years, and speak the Visayan language as well. So sad!!!

@akcarlosh292 2 месяца назад

Same applies for city girls

@DivineFeminine99 2 месяца назад

Why does she HAVE to be family oriented ? So women's worth is based on whether they will bear children and take on THAT particular risk that is 100 % on her once she becomes pregnant ? Pig.

@eduardochavacano 2 месяца назад

it is a choice. Some people chose to purchase people.

@epicriosonlinemoney3654 2 месяца назад

AH, Yes..."A FOOL AND HIS MONEY WILL SOON BE PARTED"😎

@jefftanasse6958 2 месяца назад

Real original...

@j.l.salayao8055 2 месяца назад

Let us give the Holy Bible the credit. Go read Proverbs and Ecclesastes and you'll no longer a fool. Thank you uncle king Solomon for the heads-up in this time and age. I hear you loud and clear.

@JRspeaking Месяц назад

@@jefftanasse6958 yet accurate.

@ramishrambarran3998 Месяц назад

........And there is no fool like an old fool !!!

@snapoffmonkeybranch1242 2 месяца назад

A perfect example of how low-cost women cost the most.

@Valhalla_Heathen 2 месяца назад

Damn right!

@actionanimations4879 2 месяца назад

Not really. It depends on who you match up with and their family dynamic.

@eduardochavacano 2 месяца назад

whoa good point

@Mindcroscope 2 месяца назад

Walking ATM. 🤣😅

@nicoz7662 2 месяца назад

They cost only as much as the idiot is willing to spend.

@homebasebelgium359 2 месяца назад

I was married when I built a house in the Philippines. We got divorced after 14 years of marriage, so I always tell people: DON'T buy real estate in the Philippines! NEVER! You can't own it and if something goes wrong with your relationship, you lose it! I spent p5M building my house and that was 20 years ago. Buying that same land and building that same house would now cost you at least double! You can rent a very nice house for p25K/month. That means you can rent for 400 months or 33 years before you reach the amount of p10M. Be wiser than me and learn from the mistakes I and men like the one Gio described in this story made!

@stevemorris3544 2 месяца назад

I just don't understand the need for so many guys to build or buy a house there. All risk no reward. Rent is cheaper and you have the ability to move.

@VloggingLife. 2 месяца назад

Thank you for us New People learning along the way!!😁

@donTeo136 2 месяца назад

As I was just doing these calulations for friend in Colombia,,,u could stay at a 5 star beach hotel in Colombia , Calpurgana, for 10yrs instead of buying a house condo. Since hes old now he probobly wont even live that long. Avoid all these laws and paperwork taxes , employees, its endless. U could sell but these markets here are illiquid.. or U could just make life simple and find some nice places with good people around, and thats it. If got a girl help her out in her own place.. My place in Colombia I'll never get my money out, period,,in the end I'll give to my girl regardless.

@homebasebelgium359 2 месяца назад

@@stevemorris3544 I know, but love does strange things to people! Love and and overdose of empathy for the poor family you marry into. You often have to make the mistake to realise that it was one!

@richieredw2142 2 месяца назад

Many expats including myself who met a Filipina online came to Ph to get peace and quiet, wound up with lots of stress and maybe are worse off than when they were in their respective countries. In my relationship there was also the need for money by my ex's relatives and sure I was willing to help out but when more and more relatives decided that they were going to "jump on the band waggon" that was too much to for me, I just left and decided to stay away for a 5year period, until last Nov. If that guy has the money, he wouldn't miss the 200k so lets hope that his next girlfriend will not be such a drama queen 😊

@toddt5562 2 месяца назад

Wow! 200k... that's some world class simping... 😂

@sting1111 2 месяца назад

Great comment 😂

@henrymcmiller2527 2 месяца назад

Its also about world class pussy!

@andregill2224 2 месяца назад

Facts so delta male

@Iron2011rob 2 месяца назад

Stupid comment

@VENEMPASTOR 2 месяца назад

The other problem is there're too many simping channels recruiting men to simp.

@darlayjones669 2 месяца назад

I was told a very long time ago by an old man that - whenever you find a woman in the mud, just leave her in that mud. Second, don't ever put a woman on a pedestal. Third, always upgrade your life / yourself first before you upgrade any woman's life.

@claudenewton8932 2 месяца назад

Dam good advice.

@semi5alpha 2 месяца назад

Stop over reaching.. If you're 60 don't go for 20s girl or a model. 40s woman is good match is even way younger.. You oldie should know better..

@TheLegend-uq1gz 2 месяца назад

Very correct.

@hashh2019 2 месяца назад

this is for anyone regardless of gender, if one can take advantage of the other they almost always do unless it’s someone of a strong character, principles and faith.

@Accuface2000 2 месяца назад

Don't ever upgrade her life even if you are well set. She must enjoy what you have

@Coffewithsteve 2 месяца назад

Even if you can afford 200k that's stupid

@tonyste12 2 месяца назад

SIMPS will always exist....lonely old men.

@squatch1464 2 месяца назад

Good point on the near-term mentality of Filipinos. When my wife got to the U.S. she worked as a waitress and over a few years saved 5,000 dollars for her family to start a sari sari store, Her hope was that it would create income for the long term . Long story short, they spent it on karaoke machine and other junk.

@jerichojohnson3219 2 месяца назад

TYPICAL >>>> NOT BUSINESS MIND >>>> LIVE FOR TODAY >>>> CAN'T DELAY GRATIFICATION. THE SARI-SARI STORE SHOULD BE TREATED AS A BABY [ A CHILD ] BUT THEY'LL EXTEND CREDIT >>> THE FAMILY MEMBERS WILL EAT CHIPS, ICE CREAM, POP, BEER AND NOT PAY BACK THE STORE >>> SQQN BROKE, BUSTED BANKRUPT !!!

@DrDlane 2 месяца назад

And what lesson did your wife finally learn from that incident?

@topicalstormofficial 2 месяца назад

😂 karaoke machine?

@matthewong2800 2 месяца назад

at least it was her that worked the 5 long years waiting tables for the holy karaoke machine.

@chailavender7997 2 месяца назад

@@matthewong2800But she would have predominantly lived off his money in order to save that $5K

@DamienGWilson 2 месяца назад

I’d say he got exactly what he deserved. He broke every rule in the book as if he was immune… and in the end, he learned the hard way. He can’t be upset with anyone but himself.

@Iron2011rob 2 месяца назад

You are a judgemental soul.

@justgojustdoit3363 2 месяца назад

Every rule!!! Ten thousand videos on youtube about it.

@justgojustdoit3363 2 месяца назад

@@Iron2011roband you're a SIMP. HE'S ABSOLUTELY RIGHT!!!

@Damo_Raze 2 месяца назад

Perhaps-- but he is right...

@leeb5984 2 месяца назад

No one deserves what transpired with him…. Ignorance knows no bounds.

@terrie778 Месяц назад

My brother is doing this, and I've tried to warn him not to send money to someone he's never met. He's building her a house, her father a house and paying college tuition to another female. He will have to learn the hard way. And, he's not even rich!! I'm staying out of it!

@stephenchong972 Месяц назад

No, you NEED to show him this video. And have him read some of the comments on here. He needs someone to have his back, and doing it now is the only option for you as his family. Sorry, but he needs to get the truth!

@terrie778 Месяц назад

@stephenchong972 There's a famous saying ,"You lead a horse to water... but you can't make him drink!" Some folks are hard-headed and stubborn as hell. My brother, a grown @$$ man, is one of them! He'll learn this at his own stubborn pace!!!

@user-ov4wr5yu4r Месяц назад

I'm mad, and I don't even know him.

@Carolina480 Месяц назад

These men are so desperate and dumb that’s what they get for going another country where here are good women

@automedontas-xu1id Месяц назад

Good luck.....

@Tiger-uw6pf 2 месяца назад

*I'm conflicted, I first heard the people in the PI are honest and respectful. Then you give them money or try to help them and it's as if they have no appreciation at all and suddenly lose their own code of conduct. To be honest a lot of women from the PI are experts in manipulation, like it's a way of life for them.*

@ukadventures5660 2 месяца назад

Most are scammers and always have been. They’re only after the money

@DrDlane 2 месяца назад

@@ukadventures5660women everywhere are only after the money. The PI is no different than the West.

@vericacvetkovic9093 2 месяца назад

Spot on. It's a way of survival for them.

@BadmotorScoooter 2 месяца назад

FACTS

@manuelr1405 2 месяца назад

Unless you're young and good looking expect that 99%

@superbirden57 2 месяца назад

He has certainly helped the local economy

@Calamity_Jack 2 месяца назад

He's uplifting the third-world economies of the planet one family at a time.

@PInk77W1 2 месяца назад

I got married once and divorced once. Been single since 1990. Thank God

@suspicionofdeceit 2 месяца назад

Smart !

@malcommagnificent6948 2 месяца назад

She was accusing him of cheating because she was cheating, it’s called projecting!! Also she’s probably bipolar

@patrickclark9156 2 месяца назад

100% she was cheating, bi-polar

@DJ33970 2 месяца назад

This is what I thought too! One of my exe's had bi-polar so I know exactly how it is!

@13GOLGO13 2 месяца назад

Probably started the fights so she could break up - even though the dude did it's the same result - right around the time the house was completed.

@hirokeo Месяц назад

Na bro its apart of the plan. If she just dumped him after she got everything there might be revenge from the guy side. She got this dude to think he broke it off and he came out okay.... He wasn't even that upset after donating 200k to her foundation. This dude got scammed to the fullest.

@maninscrubdallas8694 Месяц назад

Not always true. Mental illness comes in various forms. Had one in my early years who was craaazy about what she got…..each day (if you said she got…., you’re correct) and wouldn’t want to lose it to another girl. She was the one paying our bills 90%.

@NIO3954 2 месяца назад

Yup, that's an important lesson. Do not go over there to be a HERO. Look out for number 1...which is you.

@user-ov9eu4gx3z 2 месяца назад

I can't believe the parents had the nerve to ask if he was going to keep sending money

@plalonde28 2 месяца назад

Typical Filipino family

@homebasebelgium359 2 месяца назад

Filipinos may be shy about a lot of things, but never about asking money!

@fazbell 2 месяца назад

You are an ATM....nothing more.

@patrickclark9156 2 месяца назад

I don't think they asked. I think they just wanted to maintain the relationship with him. I think he clarified for them how things have changed

@gregorylyon1004 2 месяца назад

Filipino families are users

@zenydina7927 2 месяца назад

Some filipino think you are walking atm machine once they see foreigners, especially when their daughter has a foreigners bf lol . thats the reality in the Philippines. I been working in abroad for quite long time. I never send money to my parents, both of my parents are still working in the farm,they have their own chicken farm, rice field, and coconut farm. I learned that if are sending money to your family they will keep asking and expecting , you need to firm to say NO to your family, so they can able to stand on their feet.

@HC-io2ty 2 месяца назад

Good Gurl you do you

@user-if6ix3vi9k 2 месяца назад

I have a question about Filipinos. Some Koreans who do business in the Philippines are doing RU-vid. They show images of poor Filipinos in the video and ask for help. And Koreans extort donations. They also help to approach women for sexual purposes. A Korean woman in her 40s who does RU-vid in the Philippines also extort donations and bought a foreign car. The donation bankbook is still hidden years later. She even threatened not to return the money. The Filipino woman eventually died as her condition worsened. RU-vidrs who do business pay their Filipino employees to dance. There are many Korean RU-vidrs who ignore Filipinos and manipulate them with their money. What do you think of them? Why don't Philippine broadcasters cover this bad behavior? Koreans with normal thinking skills are very offended by these RU-vidrs.

@andrewevans7992 2 месяца назад

My ex filipinas mom tried pawning my necklace i gave to her daughter.. her mom is a total nutcase and mean and i found out she cheated on her husband with her first lover

@user-gw5iy8fj9i 2 месяца назад

I agree 100 %. Thats the same Problem we are facing in Afrika. Hand Outs "Black tax" is creating Generational poverty and people are so addicted to Depending on others for years. We have to break that cycle.

@berlawberlaw1025 Месяц назад

I would always send money to my parents. They are elderly and are declining in health. It is my responsibility to help them. Even if I have to do a part time job.

@georgevaldez1449 2 месяца назад

Lol i don't care how good a girl looks,how sweet she is she is not getting a dime.

@one100billneoone4 2 месяца назад

Amen!

@bonnieupton4114 2 месяца назад

And why don't you just do the old pay and play system? You surly don't think a young women is interested in old saggy butts do you ?

@DivineFeminine99 2 месяца назад

Yet you want to use a woman for her body. Selfish.

@Mari-lv1rd Месяц назад

and that goes both ways..If a man cant make and keep his own wealth to at least equal mine I dont bother with him. Something is missing.

@SvirepiyBambr-xw8rw Месяц назад

So, you are dating girls on pronhub 😂

@TheRocketrob3 2 месяца назад

Ending the relationship was the best thing he could do for his own good with a limited life expectancy of 1-5 years

@brad4231 2 месяца назад

I will never understand the mindset of a man who just gives money to a girl he’s never met. I’m sure someone will still try to explain it tho

@PhilippinesLife101 2 месяца назад

It happens all the time. You can't fix stupid they either learn the hard way or never do.

@Theddoocc 2 месяца назад

Thinking with the wrong head😂

@2000ViperGTSsubscribe 2 месяца назад

Done it before I met a girl, no issues. I'll be in PH next week and a LOT of time there. I own part of a business in Cebu, no issues BUT one need to be careful for sure. I am talking smaller $, nothign like this. A few hundred USD a month or more if serious, but NOTHING of this epic level.

@BigJack273 2 месяца назад

Typical of Old Western thirsty and lonely fools 😢😢😢

@BigJack273 2 месяца назад

Sometimes, it's a single mom as well... you can't make this shit up😂😂😂

@JJthelonelybullinasia 2 месяца назад

I'm sure her family told her to get right back on the dating site and set up her next LDR. Meanwhile her siblings are probably all able to work but just sitting at home waiting for her to give them money.

@ivannovotny4552 2 месяца назад

@JJ Exactly my thoughts.

@gregorylyon1004 2 месяца назад

These women are playing guys on the Internet for money

@brent2438 2 месяца назад

Ouch! $200k may not be so much for well heeled guys, but it's pretty substantial for most of us. I imagine the parents aren't happy with the daughter for driving off the family ATM machine. Hopefully, he can find some peaceful enjoyment with the time he has left

@Theddoocc 2 месяца назад

Maybe the Pinay found a BIGGER ATM😂

@carvercapitalequitypartner122 2 месяца назад

200 K is pretty substantial for him also when he's just making 84k a year. He doesn't want to admit what a fool he was. Apparently lacking in common sense and couldn't restrain himself. Simps don't get respect; they don't deserve it.

@puppyupper4565 2 месяца назад

I am fairly well off, but 200K would hurt no matter how you looked at it. I plan to move to the PH this year, for good. I want to live off grid. 200K can provide me with an awesome solar electic, solar hot water and from that hot water, make a refrigeration plant. That seems counter intuitive but old Servel refrigerators ran on propane to make heat which drove the refrigerant. No electricity needed. I lived off grid half my life in the USA. Had better electricity than most. Will definitely have better electric than most Filipinos or even expats. Yeah, 200K means a lot too me and to most people. Only the insanely rich would throw away 200K. I would rather give it to orphanages.

@kingmaafa120 2 месяца назад

@@Theddooccperhaps already had one or two Passing the money off to Philippines 🇵🇭 guy 😮

@agnesargueza9297 2 месяца назад

Hello Gio! That’s a sad story for your expat friend. Hope he will find his soulmate and spend his life better after this.

@garyzies3486 2 месяца назад

The problem with money is that it never lasts long there....regardless of how much you send.

@offhamsterwheel2789 2 месяца назад

Helping out the Parents is one thing, but the brother too? Oh, come on now

@carvercapitalequitypartner122 2 месяца назад

And the sister

@carvercapitalequitypartner122 2 месяца назад

He set the expectations and screwed himself.

@kingmaafa120 2 месяца назад

Maybe it wasn’t her brother 😮

@13GOLGO13 2 месяца назад

@@kingmaafa120 You're probably right. It's the same in Thailand.

@curtisake7431 2 месяца назад

If the truth be known. It was probably her real Filipino boyfriend. I have seen it over and over again during my time in the Philippines. It appears her and the family had a pretty good racket going on for a few years. SMH!!!

@danielsweeney8164 2 месяца назад

"are you going to keep sending money?" ... "do you have any more daughters?"

@BellaJoyeuse Месяц назад

My uncle dated a Filipina online then went to visit her- her parents made sure they were married and brought his new wife back home. He sent back money to help her parents- because that's what she says is their culture. She was nice at first- they had a child together. But after he was pinned down- she "changed"- she refused to do any chores and expected him to take multiple jobs so she could spend half the year visiting her family and going on vacation just her and her family to shop in Hong Kong. They are very unhappy and she does nothing but spend his money. Meanwhile she disrespects him and his culture. I feel so bad for him!

@chickendogful Месяц назад

@BellaJoyeuse , he does not deserve any sympathy

@jesusisking8502 Месяц назад

@@chickendogful The Women are never to blame. Seriously, Men are so pathetic it makes me laugh and cry because they were not made stupid.

@brucesnyder690 2 месяца назад

Wow, that guy was (is) a total idiot. I'm a retired expst from the US living in Thailand six years. Met my Thai Wife online about four months before I came. We chatted every day. Never sent her a penny, she never asked. We met and have been together ever since. Great woman. Every day here has been great!! Haven't missed the US for a moment.

@Iron2011rob 2 месяца назад

Many of us lost more in divorce but then again this isn't a viedo about money. It is a viedo about knowing when to walk away. Give this guy some credit for this!

@rodhurst5831 2 месяца назад

Does she speak English and have a sister? 😂

@brucesnyder690 2 месяца назад

@rodhurst5831 ha ha Speaks English. Sisters ugh!!

@DManGrand 2 месяца назад

Thai wife no thanks..

@mateor7302 2 месяца назад

She's playing you

@alanaldpal950 2 месяца назад

Blowing $200K on a “relationship” of 4.5 years ? Still cheap compared to many break ups in the USA.

@DManGrand 2 месяца назад

No its not..

@dennynisevic7848 2 месяца назад

😂😂😂

@hobo1704 2 месяца назад

BS, unless there are kids involved..

@bubblechaser5369 2 месяца назад

My exact thought

@artmota6434 Месяц назад

is better spent my money in my country like home and if relationship not working in a divorce trying to cut in a half the amount and starting with that money somewhere else but spending in a country where you don’t have a chance to get anything and coming back with nothing only a hand in your front and hand in your back plus if you’re older wow start from 0” that’s F. Up

@scottjohnson921 2 месяца назад

200k might be the life savings of a lot of guys. terrible story. That girl sounds unhinged.

@macscotty9997 2 месяца назад

He was unhinged to allow this!

@Botoburst 2 месяца назад

Most are lucky to have 50k in the bank.

@Theddoocc 2 месяца назад

Girl was a vaccum

@garyzies3486 2 месяца назад

The more you give, the more is expected. It's a bottomless barrel.

@sall7029 2 месяца назад

Most people barely have $500-$1k saved.

@mercedescherokee6853 2 месяца назад

Let me guess, was it an older guy and a younger girl? Fellas there were probably 100 warning signs before it got to that point When you lead with your wallet the relationship will always be about money, even for load, it always starts small

@gregorylyon1004 2 месяца назад

It's obvious that she was a lot younger than him. Her looks got his cash. LOL. Sucker. Next time pick on someone your own age

@chickendogful Месяц назад

A fool is born every second .

@damncars2618 2 месяца назад

Western men commonly role play being a White Knight and rescue a damsel in distress. Kinda got what he deserved. But I'm willing to bet he learned nothing and will repeat the same mistakes. 🙄. Being a foreigner can challenge the best of us. Thanks for sharing this story.

@garyzies3486 2 месяца назад

The "White Knight Syndrome" has ruined many of us.

@wanderingdoc5075 2 месяца назад

@@edieiyonI've dated a lot of filipinas and not a single ones asked me for money. They actually pay for a lot of things. Girls here are decent and hardworking and kind. No reason to give any woman money.

@MajorKanoyStorm 2 месяца назад

@@wanderingdoc5075It sounds like you are trying to convince yourself with that statement. 😂

@damncars2618 2 месяца назад

@@edieiyon If you're young and dissing Old guys, then you know an out if shape older man is irresistible to a Young Filipina woman. Maybe you should get yourself an old man mask on Lazada to cover up your irresponsibly. 😆

@WillChil466 Месяц назад

Doubt his bank account can handle another

@MaxZagar 2 месяца назад

Years ago I learned that you can not send money period. As a rule purpose of the relationship will change

@norvin3186 2 месяца назад

Don’t get married and just rent a place.

@cryptogaming9935 2 месяца назад

or find a gf which already oqns a house hehe

@DManGrand 2 месяца назад

If he can afford it and he is still ok financially then its just a big learning lesson for him.. Life goes on..

@paulthurson 2 месяца назад

yeah .. lesson being .. DON'T simp!!! pathetic

@kokalti 2 месяца назад

The nerve of this family to think he will keep on sending them money even after the break up…

@semi5alpha 2 месяца назад

Stop over reaching.. If you're 60 don't go for 20s girl or a model. 40s woman is good match is even way younger.. You oldie should know better..

@retthok 2 месяца назад

This is evidently quite common here in Thailand. No sooner than I met a lady here she Facetime"s me that I should send her money because she is "bloke". Ha. Bye bye baby. Men wise up. Women are the same all over the world.

@Not_A_Tourist 2 месяца назад

Well to fair, a lot of Thai women are blokes.

@boracay12 2 месяца назад

why not ply a fool for all he is worth if he dumb enough to hand out his life savings ?

@hobo1704 2 месяца назад

@@semi5alpha exactly. The larger the age gap the more money it will cost you. They are not with you for your looks.. Simple.

@LesserMe 2 месяца назад

I mean cautionary tale aside, this isn't the first time I have heard of this kind of stupidity. The guy doesn't even sound like he believes he was duped. Stop putting pretty things on a pedestal or stop whining about it when those pretty things take your money.

@Tony-mh3dm 2 месяца назад

Hes so guible I doubt he's whining.

@iamalphalim 2 месяца назад

Yea Gio said he was okay with losing the money Sounds like coping to me, tho’

@JenGioPhilippineJourney 2 месяца назад

Hey if 200k doesn't bother him can he build my house in the Philippines 😂

@dennynisevic7848 2 месяца назад

😂😂😂, just a king

@gregorylyon1004 2 месяца назад

I think that he wants sex first. LOL

@theghostofpennsylvania_11 15 дней назад

😁😁😁🤣

@Al-Storm 2 месяца назад

Being a simp anywhere is going to ruin you.

@thomaspoore3615 2 месяца назад

200k is absolutely insane. 7k a month is not alot if working.

@carvercapitalequitypartner122 2 месяца назад

Yup. Living from paycheck to paycheck if you don't restrain yourself on the spending.

@kokalti 2 месяца назад

Yea you can make 100k a year and nothing to show for it. After paying taxes and all the expense it would take a very long time to save up even at 7k a month. I think he is just downplaying the stupid mistake he made.

@zbigniewdenys6661 Месяц назад

60 monts | 200k = 3333$

@beekeepermariadelgado6806 Месяц назад

That’s nothing in California, my bro in law gets that after retiring as a school district landscape employee.

@beekeepermariadelgado6806 Месяц назад

@@kokalti he knows he screwed up and trying to downplay he was burned a pendejo

@lmcc0072 2 месяца назад

Some Filipinas are INSANELY jealous. I’m 1/2 Filipino and I’ve seen some crazy stuff in my life. I mean stuff that would make the hair on the back of your neck stand up. Often times there is absolutely no logic to their suspicions. When I started dating my Filipina girlfriend 15+ years ago, my sister (who of course is also 1/2 Filipino), gave me a lecture and reminded me of our previous life experiences. Fortunately my girlfriend is not crazy like that 😁.

@jesusisking8502 Месяц назад

Not yet.....hehehehehehehehehehe

@MyLifeThai371 2 месяца назад

They ate the goose that lays the golden eggs, when they sold those chickens. The Philippines needs Dave Ramsey and his 7 baby steps!

@Cornflakefan 2 месяца назад

Very few Filipinas have not heard of this way of bettering their families by now, so it is an easy way for them to have a better life

@TheLegend-uq1gz 2 месяца назад

If you have to give a person money for them to like you / marry you, it’s very dangerous because they don’t really like you but your money.

@BillysWild 2 месяца назад

Why in the heck does someone send money to a stranger? I’m just blown away by this. If I was a woman I would be so wealthy.

@builtnotboughtmadeinphilip3955 2 месяца назад

The girls act romantic and do video sex shows on the cell phone

@beekeepermariadelgado6806 Месяц назад

All she has to do is have at least 4 guys online to support her at $100 a month each and is set. She does not even have to give a real address and ghost them.

@prescillaofficial16 2 месяца назад

Let me guess a young woman and old man built their relationship on money?

@gregorylyon1004 2 месяца назад

She built the relationship on money. He built it on wanting a woman who was 30 years younger than him. He wanted young and got scammed. LOL

@L4P-Monk 2 месяца назад

@@gregorylyon1004young or old they are trying to separate you from your money. They will try many strategies. Best to not get involved

@ustabee6091 2 месяца назад

Imagine that

@Feetonthesand 2 месяца назад

I can retire with a $200K and never share it with my woman 😁

@maryannemillendez7547 2 месяца назад

Think it's in Pesos which basically is $ 4,000

@lonniebeal6032 2 месяца назад

@@maryannemillendez7547 in 4.5 years? Then that's cheap. But he definitely said dollars.

@alexdes8097 Месяц назад

@@maryannemillendez7547 its in Dollars not Pesos

@michaeldavis4483 2 месяца назад

Hilarious. One born every minute.

@Theddoocc 2 месяца назад

😂😂😂😂😂😂

@anneb3170 2 месяца назад

There was a older lady here she got scam by a guy from Ghana.Empty her bank account about $1 m+

@marvindockery-lo9cw 2 месяца назад

Lots of truth, this story has happened hundreds of times.

@Yolo942 2 месяца назад

Never stick your thing in Crazy.

@allseeingotto2912 Месяц назад

We would all be Celibate

@WillChil466 Месяц назад

How crass.😮

@johnnyg7899 2 месяца назад

I have already met my girl in the Philippines. She is great, responsible and mature. But that does not mean I have to promise marriage. After we live together for at least a year or two, then I would reconsider. People change all the time and it becomes clearer once you live with them longterm. Never rush into anything.

@gregorylyon1004 2 месяца назад

Don't pick younger than yourself

@michaelenos9467 2 месяца назад

Now that's philanthropy at its finest

@kennethedwards1677 2 месяца назад

In for a penny, in for a pound? I'd have to bail long before then! Let this be a cautionary tale to those thinking about taking the plunge!

@jimscholz2997 2 месяца назад

Awesome subject... Thanks for sharing...

@davidpuente1368 2 месяца назад

The worst part is he was all in and after three years he is back to square one 😢 now what 😩

@bmactattoo1219 2 месяца назад

Hmmm plenty of single available girls crossing the USA border daily via Mexico. You'd save a lot of money on visas, airfare etc... No paperwork involved! Pick her up at the border and take her home. 😂😢

@gregorylyon1004 2 месяца назад

He deserves what he got. LOL

@Feetonthesand 2 месяца назад

Never let a Filipina manage money. Never enter in a relationship with a Filipina unless she can support herself and her family. Always do a background check education, family, lifestyle, character. The man should always take charge when it comes to money and relationship.

@EvelinHolmes 2 месяца назад

Well there would be less money if I let my husband handle the money. He was way more compulsive than me. He learned to trust me with handling the money . I always did the needs, saving and then the wants. It still working after 55 years and he got everything he needs and wanted within reason.

@Feetonthesand 2 месяца назад

@@EvelinHolmes you're probably the 0.01%

@64samsky 2 месяца назад

Rule #1 No money for anyone who I've never met. Rule#2 limited money to the mom & dad, if any. Rule #3 Make sure all of this is understood by all involved. No agreement, no relationship!

@musicman7913 2 месяца назад

Rule Number one is the only one that counts.No need for rule Number 2 or 3.

@michaelpalosaari9460 2 месяца назад

Thank you again Gio! Feel for your friend and for all the other men this has happened to. I hope his health improves beyond that diagnosis!! Appreciate the continued reminder to us guys planning on coming there to be careful! Peace ☮️

@jeffbrandenburg8672 2 месяца назад

Solid video!

@Miguel863 2 месяца назад

I have experienced that many times where I meet a filipina and she starts with the I am hungry bid, or I need something bid, and I can see right through it. Then if I am involved with her and few months after she starts stressing me, then the first time she stress me its a red flag that she is trying to get you to do something for her and she will take it to the extreme to the point she will threaten self harm. She is not gonna do it. Its just an extreme manipulated attention grabber and believe me, they would not have survived this far if you were not there...its all part of the manipulation game. You would not believe how they are living ...practically better then you... hahahahahaha. Heed all the warnings signs...if it is starting to stress you the first time. Leave and say good bye it will not improve but get worse. Mind you not all...but you really have to be very cautious and know the signs of a good honest girl to a scam manipulated girl. Thanks for the video.

@GiointhePhilippines 2 месяца назад

I've been there myself!

@1truthseeking8 2 месяца назад

@@GiointhePhilippines would he be willing/interested in ACTUALLY investing in a REAL human and actual business WITH legal agreements to show and make a real difference in a life?

@beekeepermariadelgado6806 Месяц назад

@@1truthseeking8 real business agreements in PI are merely paper with no teeth. You cannot get blood from a turnip.

@theVariedLife 2 месяца назад

Wow. Definitely not a mature woman. Self harm and crazy jealousy. Just goes to show take it slow is a good idea. Crazy people are everywhere.

@rustynail3630 2 месяца назад

Keep the simp stories coming. Seems like they are never ending.

@sargonofakad Месяц назад

I would never recommend any guy getting involved with a Filipina in any manner. This is a more than classic example of what can happen.

@mrs.d8921 Месяц назад

I'm Filipina. Your comment is offensive and racist.

@jonathancbc 2 месяца назад

With just a couple years of life left, he has the emotional strength to make a difficult choice and start over. Respect. She wanted to show him off at her town. That's the reason it mattered to her to go to the festival. At her age, she doesn't fully understand or believe when he tells her his serious medical diagnosis. Or, to understand fully how time works. You make this point early in this video. Unlike some who over-invest and it's not a real relationship, this one apparenlty was. The father of a friend of mine made a $2M mistake...twice, with successive 2nd and 3rd relatonships that didn't last long and, in retrospect, a bit schemed. The "we're superior" crowd in this discussion should stuff it. He made some judgement errors, and isn't dwelling or angry. Just moving on. Good character.

@Roadglide59 2 месяца назад

Best comment 👍

@down-the-rabbit-hole 2 месяца назад

couple of years of life left? Is he terminally ill? I must have missed that in the video.

@patrickclark9156 2 месяца назад

@down-the-rabbit-hole Gio said that he had issue with lungs. So, Doctors told him only 1 to 5 years left to live

@scottramey4443 2 месяца назад

Sounds like he had a lot more money than most

@gregorylyon1004 2 месяца назад

Yeah but a fool and money are soon parted. LOL

@tommyofrichmond 2 месяца назад

he had a job that made money, but he had no money himself

@torbjornpihlgren20 2 месяца назад

It's strange how stupid you can become when you fall in love. many make the mistake over and over again.

@beekeepermariadelgado6806 Месяц назад

It nice to have closeness with a person but someone who truly likes you and loves you. You do not need to always be jumping bones, just having fun enjoying each others company.

@themacker894 2 месяца назад

Glad this gentleman learned his lesson, and great to know that he can recover from his losses. Yes, most guys send everything they've ever saved, and then cannot recover. Great story and excellent lesson. Social media is a real mess for sure. Bad for everyone. Loved the views at the start.

@russellfranzi1023 2 месяца назад

Rent everything!

@tonyste12 2 месяца назад

especiallyt when you can get a 'newer model' every so often :) newer car, apartment....whatever.

@CornellSandifer 2 месяца назад

Filipinas as use to being poor it's not a put down just a simply statement of fact, they will except anything they can get their hands on but long-term Filipinas don't think about what's in their best interest, house building don't start until after the 5th to the 7th year of marriage in the Philippines, there is no rush they are use to being poor.

@sanjuanlaunionvlog 2 месяца назад

your recomendations are spot on. For sure.

@hectort8383 Месяц назад

excellent video, great advice!

@dannyboy8644 2 месяца назад

Thanks gio ,these stories never get old, sometimes we forget and need to be reminded of these experiences

@cassiecassie15 2 месяца назад

i feel sorry for the guy, but good decision for him for ending the toxic relationship. wishing your guy friend the all the very best. :)

@gregorylyon1004 2 месяца назад

I don't feel one bit sorry for him. He's probably a 65 year old fart picking on a 25 year old woman. He got played because he wanted young. LOL

@beekeepermariadelgado6806 Месяц назад

Before she popped out a kid from who knows who.

@Destin65 2 месяца назад

He had a huge impact on people's lives, something to be proud of. Not just anyone can say that! I'd be curious to know the age difference between them. She sounds young and immature, while he sounds older and ready to settle down. Wishing him the best.

@johnwray529 2 месяца назад

Thank you sir for allowing Gio to share your story.

@neilonthemove1481 2 месяца назад

At least they’ll always have the chickens 😂

@claudejohnson6532 2 месяца назад

A fool and his money will soon part ways

@twolf20c 2 месяца назад

Wow, I will say this I’ve been with my wife for 12 years, married for 10 years. I was on a dating site, living and working in Kure, Japan. I was talking to a bunch of women in the Philippines. I received a message from a woman in Fukouka, Japan. So I looked at the site and changed the parameters to just Filipinas in Japan. So I started talking with my wife, she was literally a 20 minute drive from I lived. So we spent almost 3 years together before moving to the Philippines. We did multiple trips to the Manila area, which convinced me that I wasn’t going to live there. The point is Filipinas are everywhere in the world and there may be a Filipina near where you live and you could get lucky like I did.

@roysandoval8230 2 месяца назад

She drained him as much as possible then dumped him for a new candy daddy ❤

@gregorylyon1004 2 месяца назад

That was her plan. He's probably a 65 year old fart looking at 25 year old women. He deserves it. LOL

@user-bf7ou5ly8u 2 месяца назад

Fantastic story and fantastic advice 💯💯💯💯💯

@Iron2011rob 2 месяца назад

I wonder if the amount was $200 rather than $200 000 if the negative comments would be the same.

@thomassnew1053 2 месяца назад

It's the long con. Nothing more.

@bubblechaser5369 2 месяца назад

Yes ... never sent a red cent ... lived this long without free, what's another year or 5

@gregorylyon1004 2 месяца назад

He didn't lose no $200K

@davet5260 2 месяца назад

Excellent advice!

@rogerhessell9137 2 месяца назад

Gio I been very lucky with my Filipino girlfriend we been 2gether 10 years and I was sending her money after we had been talking 2gether for 6 months but she did not ask me for any money we got a 5 bedroom house and we got 4 business and we got a 8 year old daughter and we just found out are expecting twins she is a 1 in a million we say we love each other all of the time and we just injoy life 2gether we both have different hobbies I go out on my own and we just trust each other

@nelsonsack2694 2 месяца назад

I can't wait for the movie version.

@GiointhePhilippines 2 месяца назад

Coming soon to a movie theater near you 😁 🍿🍿🎥🎥

@gregorylyon1004 2 месяца назад

That movie would be a box office sellout. 65 year old get scammed by a 25 year old hustler. LOL. He wanted young and got scammed. LOL sucker

@thekid1597 Месяц назад

I'm down for the comedy version 🤣 😂

@lolitapadrigano6717 2 месяца назад

Beware of scammers guys,I am a Filipina but I do not like young Filipinas to ask money from their boy friends esp ex-pats be careful always.

@damonmelendez856 2 месяца назад

Man, with 200k, he really set up that family for life!😂

@geraldwilliams8189 2 месяца назад

It’s bad enough that he was supporting a girlfriend that he hadn’t met, but to send @$200 a month to parents and siblings is insane. He has no right to complain. He hit the send button 😂

@gregorylyon1004 2 месяца назад

Her looks sold him. And I'm sure that she was sleeping with another man the whole entire time she was scamming him. . LOL

@Maputi_na_Kalabaw 2 месяца назад

Still a lot less than i wasted on my first marriage.

@ericsmith1562 2 месяца назад

Yep

@thomassnew1053 2 месяца назад

She ran the "long con" in a relatively short period of time. There is no love in the Philippines, just transactional relationships. Good luck to all of the men looking for love in the Philippines. Smile, have your wallet ready & go with the flow.

@andrewwatkins1561 2 месяца назад

I was in the PI with the intention of visiting my girlfriend for 3 months. Soon after arriving, I gave her $5,000 because I didn’t need it. Never gave it a thought what she would do with it. Two weeks later she’s asking for more money. I couldn’t believe it because I could have lived there for 3 months with that amount of money. Anyway, that was the last straw. I ended the relationship after being there only 3 weeks. “What did you spend the money on?” Blah, blah, blah. I had seen her the year before for one week and it didn’t go well. My bad:(

@marisantiago5279 20 дней назад

im sorry to hear that..oh why not try me lol

@lalalalalalalala4264 2 месяца назад

Hopefully these passport bros will start to realize that oversea women aren't that wholesome like they make themselves out to be.

@BudSessions 2 месяца назад

$200,000!? Sheeeeeeeit...a chick's lucky if she gets $10 from me. I ain't no employer.

@Steve-nu4sv 2 месяца назад

Well he made choices he's moved on got his priorities on track. It could have been better but it could have been much worse. Respect to him for sharing his story for the benefit of others. I Don't get the SIMP criticism. His life, his money, his relationship and the associated consequences. HIS CHOICE AS TO HOW TO DEAL WITH IT. Nobody else's place to be critical.

@Roadglide59 2 месяца назад

I totally agree, the dude knew he was not living long and wanted to make sure his love would be taken care after he passed away. It seems like the only issue they had was her jealousy? But he doesn't need the money, he was doing good for the family. He'd probably be a good friend.

@carvercapitalequitypartner122 2 месяца назад

It was just plain foolish to send 10k to at least 3 people and probably the sister too. And then spend $200k on aa house. Not even a mention of whether he liked PI. I bet he never asked her where she is on the jealousy scale, from zero to 100%.

@Steve-nu4sv 2 месяца назад

@carvercapitalequitypartner122 Well that's your opinion and to be fair I wouldn't follow his example BUT it's his money, time, effort and choice. Clearly he didn't and doesn't consider his action foolish.

@patrickclark9156 2 месяца назад

@@carvercapitalequitypartner122It was 10k Ph Pesos or $200 USD

@ronaldhasson3565 2 месяца назад

I'm not a psychiatrist: but her problem is BPD. Her scale of love is at 100...unfortunately her jealousy is also at 100. That amount of jealousy destroys the love part. And he can no longer take the craziness that jealousy causes. He loves her but can't live with her.

@brucebaum1458 2 месяца назад

Most learning life lessons cost money and time, this fellow spent more than most and it sounds like he doesn’t have a lot of time left. Don’t worry be happy is the motto to live by and he did have some good times.

@Reveltrekker 2 месяца назад

Sorry to hear about his story. Totally understand though. There are crazy unjustifiably jealous woman in every country. Cost me more than that to divorce one in the states.