Toke… the appeal of your podcast is your vulnerability, authenticity & honesty. If you continue like this… this will easily become one of the best podcasts. I’m always looking forward to your next upload. You make your audience feel included without revealing too much but still saying enough.
Toke your podcast is like therapy for me.. I feel like I’m having girls time with y’all. I didn’t have a particularly easy year this year and I’m grateful I can escape through virtual reality
Bolanle is spiritually sound, so full of wisdom and full of laughter. I like how beautiful their friendship is both completing each other's statement/thoughts....leaving us with lots of blank sheets to fill...lol😅 This is my best guest yet. Compliment of the season.
I completely understand Toke. The guy should openly tell her if he wants her. We can’t assume our lives to destruction. If you know you want a lady, let her know in what way you want her so she can accommodate you if she wants. A similar thing happened to me just recently only that I’ve lost the friendship I was supposed have with this person because of lack of comprehension and understanding. We met and he said he wanted a friends with benefit kinda thing. I told him I wasn’t up for that and won’t be open to friendship either. He insisted we could be friends and he genuinely believes I don’t want his friendship because I like him already but that’s false. I don’t want to be with anyone other than a man I’m in a relationship with. I honestly have no room for another person, I don’t enjoy people, small circle is my thing. After much persistence (the reason I don’t like people, they won’t just rest🤦🏻♀️) I told him we could try to be friends. If he wants to take me on dates like he always demanded he should know that I won’t give him sex neither will I play the calling everyday role. It’s just friendship! Nothing more!! He agreed! Friendship started and now he’s asking me what we are doing and why I’m not feeling him like a partner. We fought about him trying to kiss me a couple times and boy is he touchy. I don’t like your hands on me, not the way you do it at least. We don’t talk to each other anymore and I’m back to blaming myself for accepting this friendship thing in the first place. He said he was hoping I would change my mind and want him. Like what?? From the moment you told me you wanted a friends with benefit relationship I lost all sexual interest and attraction towards him. No way are we dating. No fucking way and I’m not sorry. I believe people aren’t naive. If you meet a girl you don’t want to lose let her know with your words and be very direct! Words matter! And stick to the choices you’ve made, don’t go wasting people’s time. Damnnnn this is the first time I’m commenting on a space like this and I’ve got my life story on it. This 2023 will really be a great year 😂 and I receive it, amen. Merry Christmas everyone❤
Yeah! Kudos to Toke, now everyone is on RU-vid. She was the first to jump on RU-vid with Toke moments, never missed an episode as far back as the days of blackberry.
This is so good seeing girls stand and look out for each other. The connection Toke builds with her friends is so dope. Bolanle is that friend that will stand on the gap for her friend once she knows it’s all for your good. She’s such a sweet soul. I wish she find love and friendship she’s looking for in 2023 just like her parents did. Merry Christmas to everyone reading this. 🎉🌲😘
Loved watching this! I’ve found that if a guy doesn’t have the courage to say what he actually wants DIRECTLY, he hasn’t made up his mind. And if he hasn’t made up his mind, he’s not that interested.
Toke said “at the point of God reminding me he showed me mercy” I held on to this because at the at end of all this, God never left me ❤️❤️. I love u TM for this message ❤️😁
Toke is not a small girl that one guy will be playing with her emotions. So if the guy likes her, at this stage of her life saying it is the deal. No time wasters please for our beautiful Toke.
I love Toke, she's very genuine & confident in her own mother tongue & the way she blends it in conversations is really cool. Also there are to layers to her you think you know, but you'd just keep unravelling. Very Typical of a scorpio woman. Bolanle is also a sweetheart, followed her since moment on Ebonylife Tv & i love her growth so far. This is actually how women should relate, not uneccessary competition & beefs.
Thank you so much Toke and Bolanle. Your talk about faith took me to a different phase entirely watching this podcast and found my self crying when you're talking about faith. I found myself on my kneels speaking in Tongues and calling God. Listening to you keeps me on check and I know am actually that girl that you so so much. God bless you always I love you so much.
I have laughed!!! i feel like i was in the room when this was recorded. I was even contributing to the gist at some point. This has to be the absolute best episode.
Toke Toke, I have watched you few times and followed on Instagram sometimes. But this is the first time I have watched anything from you fully and you are honestly misjudged. You are true, authentic and not afraid to be who you are. This topic right here should be discussed further, I have been married 5 year but just beginning to understand what self awareness is and finding my identity in Christ. Everything you have said her is absolutely true, correct and I hope people will learn and not just laugh over the jokes. I hope it will make women sit up, reflect and stand up for themselves. Love you❤❤❤
I saw a share of this video can came running to check out your channel... I think already in love with the vidoes, I'm gonna sit down and listen everything 💃😍😁don't be surprised I view old video.. I am a new subbie... And I love your vibe!
I so muchhhhh love love you Toke, the sincerity and optimism, faith and Knowing God more is the bomb of this episode, you and Bolanle are so good together and feels lyk we all were having gals talk physically 😅😂….Tokemoments is more Dan a podcast it’s a THERAPY!!!!🥰🥰❤
The first post I saw from Toke in 2015 was when she posted about about open heavens… Toke introduced me to Open heavens guys so to me have always seen her as a preacher of some sort for want of a better word more relatable. I love her for always speaking her truth. Meanwhile Bolanle is just we Nigerians forever sweetheart.❤
My two favourite people...Love bolanle sooo much. I remember your "Moment with Mo days"...Love you guys. This episode gave exactly what it should give and some more
I can’t see myself missing any part of the podcast and like Bolanle said Toke was her introduction, Toke has been my inspiration and I can’t even believed a guy from London whom we were supposed to be together dumps me because I will always supporting Toke’s strengths, and I don’t care what anyone thinks about her…my conclusion is if you can literally walk that hall of fame like her then come try if you think it’s easy
Yes he likes Toke 😂❤. You guys are right! The chase is great but the friendship is more important cause like bolanle said, when you’re married who is chasing who again? It’s the friendship that keeps you going even on days you guys are not in love with each other ❤
I really enjoyed this particular episode it’s so beautiful to see Bolanle again because it’s been a while . As regards to the guy you guys were talking about I think I get Toke completely because I totally feel the same about having a crazy attraction to the person I like or fancy but the missing factor is they are barely my friends and this dude seems like he is a real friend to you. Having a male friend you can tell about male shenanigans and your experience with his gender, it doesn’t get better than that . I agree with what Toke said she needs such a man in her life and who knows I will definitely be open minded and be flexible if I were in her shoes because the honest truth I came to terms with recently is that a lot of men are only in love with the idea of women like Toke. They don’t care enough to know the core person behind all the glamour.
Toke your podcast is more like a therapy to me and that’s why I always look forward to it. Thank you for you honesty and thanks for sharing it in all sincerity 😊
Toke, this is by far my favorite. You do amazingly well. This conversation was essential and great. Well done to you and Bolanle. It also reminded me of the saying that people judge others because they sin differently. Keep up the beautiful work and blessings and blessings will be with you always. So happy I listened to this. I’m learning a lot. Thank you 🙏
I just love bolanle too much spitting some truth ,this podcast is one of my best I watched it twice like it should not end lobe to see more ,live and light ur way both ❤️
OMG Toke. I have always followed you in Instagram cos of some connection I felt towards you, but going through this and your other toke moments, I am convinced you are the one God is peeing me to look at. Will explore that more and watch where God is going with this. But Thank you
I love this, so relatable and I didn't want it to end. NB: That man really likes you TM, we ladies sometimes ignore the one who truly cares for us for the one who doesn't think much of us ( I guess it's the law of attraction at work). May genuine love find you both(Amen)❤
Wow Bolanle intelligency is top notch..so intelligent, God bless her. How I wish to know her social media handle too.. Nice one Toke, keep up your good work, wish u success in everything
God has intentionally allowed people to fail me so that I can see it’s being ALL HIM all this time….. What a fantastic way to end this season and to enter a new season. I AM THAT I AM I am HIS
Omg therapeutic toke and bolanle! Bolanle she’s such an amazing lady I loved watching this omg I didn’t want it to end , cracking my head to know y’all were talking about
Tokstarr always have a way of making every episode better than the last. I can boldly say Toke Moments is my best podcast so far. Merry Christmas! See you in 2023 We Love You
You just made me love bolanle more, I’m going to follow her across all platforms now. She’s super cool. I’m a little like you Toke, always dumping my issues on people, later I’ll be like sorry, I didn’t even ask wassup with you. 😂😂
Tokeeeeeeeeee! This was a lot of tea and I loved it. You are such a motivation for me and I like all of who you are. Keep getting the dollar and I hope you find that one thing you are looking for
This is the best thing I've watched on RU-vid this year. Thank you so much Toke. Words can't describe my appreciation for the blessings I've gotten from the wisdom you both dropped in this episode. Thank you so much. Thank you.... This will make 2023 a better year for me.... I've learnt a lot. ❤️❤️❤️💙💙💙
A nice guy without the qualities a lady needs or that she doesn't find attractive, of what use is his niceness?? Please let's stop normalizing this things, and oh just so you know there is nothing like a "nice guy". Guys are calculative, everything done is for a purpose. Personally, I feel the nice guys exist to ensure the smooth running of this other niggas. This is a topic for another day.
