I absolutely whole heartedly believe valentine and Tommy are the same person. Apparently, the video where amber said that her an valentine were official was the same day that Tommy's ex partner died. She also says that Valentine had a double life, and Tommy was just recently with her late ex during the time ALR had been seeing Valentine. ALR also said that she was in love with Valentine from September 2023, then she told us she was Valentines Valentine on Valentine's day and then in April revealed that she and Valentine had been dating since February. Then she said Valentine had another life, and Tommy literally had another partner and has a whole child with someone else, but clearly ALR didn't want to pass up this opportunity for a live in carer so overlooked it, and I suspect that she knew about Tommy's ex and was basically given a story about how Tommy has to be there for her because she knows shes in the last stretch so ALR just sees this as she has to wait, but in reality, her and tommy were waiting for her partner to pass away. I think she didn't originally know, but she found out about her partner but overlooked it and agreed to keep seeing her (I mean alr has done on this the past and been looking for a new partner whilst living with her last one so this wouldn't be out of character). I think she always knew Tommy was gonna move in but she knew she had to basically wipe the timeline by 'breaking up' with Valentine and then showing Tommy because that way it would hide the fact that she was dating her from February 14th, before Tommys partner died. I think Amber and Tommy were waiting for this poor woman to pass so they could move to this relationship. Also Amber says her future was ripped away but doesn't acknowledge that Tommy literally helped to ensure her last girlfriend had no future at all. There's a woman who LITERALLY has no future because she's dead and Amber is out here complaining that her viewers tried to stop that happening to her and has the gall to say HER future was ripped away. She's out of her mind.
tbh it‘s a symptom of bpd to either idealize people as best ever (sound familiar?) or think of them as worst ever. if you look up bpd splitting you can find more on that.
Sounds about right, because all that Becky did for her, she makes it seem like she was the worst person, but she looks at Tommy as such a great person despite all the evidence coming out that she isn’t, that or narcissism
@@BigALsSeafoodBoili assume becky was probably not the type to shower her in compliments as much as she felt deserving of etc and something like that can potentially cause someone with bpd to think “omg they hate me, they are the worst” and only think of them as an enemy going forward (unless they are aware that they have this issue of black and white thinking, take time to reflect on the situation and rationalize it). someone smart with bad intentions can more easily manipulate someone with bpd (especially if their mark is not that well-informed on their own illness). in particular due to them splitting thus responding like a puppy to love bombing as well as them having abandonment issues. it’s not great. do you know if amber is still in therapy? i haven’t kept up with gworl world much in the past ~2 years but she could definitely use one right about now.
Come on I know she has BPD but can we not excuse her crappy behavious? Mental illness is a reason not an excuse. ALR Idolizes people who pander to her narcism. That's all.
@@BigALsSeafoodBoila person can have both BPD and narcissistic traits or even BPD and full-on NPD simultaneously. In fact it’s common for cluster b traits to go together.
@@buffalowigI don’t think she’s still in therapy. I’ve only been watching for about a year and a half to two years, and I honestly don’t recall her mentioning a therapist or going to therapy once in that time. There may have been an instance or two that I’m forgetting, but it definitely was NOT a regular occurrence if at all.
One of my biggest pet peeves of how people are talking about this is when people call Tommy’s partner who passed her “ex”. She’s not an ex… she’s her “late partner”.
@@mandiebabyxo Exaclty!! Like some people keep saying it and I’m like. She’s not an ex! They didn’t break up!! The partner passed. It’s a VERY different end to the relationship. Especially when they compare how fast Tommy “moved on” cause again. A relationship ended due to a break up and due to one passing is very different. Grief is different for everyone too. But still. Let’s not act like it’s the same as a break up.
@@_..-.._..-.._ But, those are not titles? "A dead ex" and "a late partner" just tell two different stories. It's painting a very different picture from what has happened if she is called an ex.
@@HaileyKat if i fold laundry, my cats will always sit on the freshly cleaned and folded laundry and always on the most delicate fabrics, so I wondered of a decoy pile of laundry would work. I heard of people who kept a decoy book around for the cat to lie on when their butlers wanted to read and I even heard of people who bought fake keyboards so that their cats wouldn't lie down on the keyboard they needed to do computer work
My God THE DRAMA! She's acting like her LIFE LONG spouse just died. She needs to STEP BACK and realize this person was only in her life for 4weeks, WEEKS! She is literally acting like a 14yr old who's mother told her she had to break up with the 16yr old bad boy and couldn't see him again. NO MOTHER, you're RUINING my life! I H8 YOU! 😂😂😂
The only justification would be if Colleen knew the end was near and encouraged Emily to find love again. Orr ..if she was dating her while with Colleen then maybe they were poly? Otherwise, yea Emily is straight up feeding mass lies to the big cherry.
Has anyone found out who valentine was? I really feel like valentine and Tommy are the same person. That they had a falling out when Amberlynn found out about Tommy’s ex and got back together soon after.
In my opinion, ALR knew all along about all the issues with Tommy and thats what she wanted for herself. Because it's boderline weird that one of the first things she said about Tommy is that there were NO red flags when the woman Washington a walking red flag. People that are nice don't need to say or prove that they are nice. Same thing with the red flags - why did she feel the need to tell us that especifically?
Remember when Amber recently told us how badly she would’ve wanted a daughter? I think she was trying to prime us for Tommy’s daughter….ugh, the last thing she needs is an innocent child’s life to ruin
The absoute drama of this is insane. Her life is "RUINED" and she had an entire future planned with this woman?? Over someone that probably overflowed her cup with compliments and lust, but likely no substantial love of actual, genuine concern or care or love for her. She got blinded by the words Tommy told her without having the ability to process that this person might have an evil, ulterior motive. Amber is very simple and naive. I feel very bad for her.
if anything, amber needs to STEP BACK and say THANK YOU to her followers for potentially saving her life down the line … also her most recent vid is 100% a BPD reaction/breakdown. as someone who had a BPd roommate, the flashes from sadness to anger is almost predictably comical. its always the other persons fault and you can tell ambers actually mad at her followers… not the person trying to slowly k!ll her😂 ridiculous behavior. and shes like 30 right?? like grow up gorlypop
Mayo on fries is actually good but it has to be the right kind of mayo, in Europe it’s thinner and I think also maybe saltier/more savory and maybe also more tangy/vinergary, a bit like kewpie mayo I think or perhaps more accurately kind of like homemade mayo? It’s not thick like Hellmans/best foods which I like in sandwiches but not on fries. It’s kinda hard to find the right kind of mayo here in the US though so instead I just make mayochup if I’m craving some mayo with my fries. Which as much as I HATE Chantal I’ve gotta agree with her on that, it sounded so gross but it actually tastes great. HOWEVER, I just get a little dab of the sauce on my fries, not entire globs like Chantal does which is just repulsive. Mayo is one of those things where the dose VERY MUCH determines the poison.
I lived in Syria for a year and they have this sandwich with French fries, Mayo, ketchup, and coleslaw that I LOVED. When I try to describe it to people it sounds gross but it was amazing
Her talking abut cutting back on sodium is a joke. The double chicken sandwich and large fries were over 2600 mg of sodium, not including the ketchup and mayo plate. That is double what she should have all day, for just one meal. She could have had the grilled chicken sandwich instead and a medium fries.
I don't kink shame as long as people know healthy boundaries. For most feederism isn't a 24/7 thing, it's just a fantasy that people enduldge in from time to time. Death feederism shouldn't even be a kink! Like why would you want to die is my question. I'm a kinky person so I can say that for the most part kink is going to be some form of taboo or extreme to mainstream society, however as long as everything is sane, safe, and consensual "there shouldn't be any problems. Noticed how I said sane, this just wasn't.
Ok, I'm going to out myself: as someone not from the US, I think it's pefectly fine for someone in a fast food restaurant to greet you with "something like 'Hello'" instead of "Welcome to Burger King, can I take your order?"
I remember when the police got called on you! I rarely can catch your lives because of time zones, but I was there for this one 😅 the dogs were going crazy!
Childless cat woman tuning in for the replay! Currently looking after my 3 year old niece and all I can say is, respect to the parents out there, Gorl World is a necessary distraction rn
so my question is … did amber know about slommy’s late ex? or did she really jump into this relationship cluelessly? she’s so naive y’all i can’t handle it
The thing that really gets me is that if Amber is interested in the fetish lifestyle that’s all she has to say. All she had to do was tell us to shut up and that she wants to try this life for a while, but instead she went on the defensive and chose to deny, deny, deny. Which is it, gorl? Did we warn you about a very possible threat or do you just want to hide your feederism fetish
YES! Amber wanted to have a "love" whatever the cost. In her lost mind, she told herself she could control it. She wouldnt end up like the "ex", that wouldn't happen to her. But my thought is, if Tommy is truly innocent then WHY is Amber breaking up with her? Why not stay together? Is it Tommy who said she didnt want the relationship bc she got called out?? Or is it Amber?? Amber says, "you got what u wanted". Umm, no. No one is forcing Amber to do anything. She makes the choices in her own life. She has the ability to TURN OFF YT! TURN OFF social media and live her life! Dont blame anyone but yourself Amber. If u WANT Tommy and that life, then stop posting and go live your bed bound life
Does anyone else find it super annoying when Chantal pauses in her story to stuff her face? I mean I don't really care about what she has to say (as it's all lies anyway probably) but it's just that apprehension feeling of leaving you hanging that I hate lol.
Her ego is shooting thru the roof right now. I dont even want to think about all the gross things she’s doing with herself reading all the comments of people falling over themselves out of concern for her… she inhales this shit 😂😂😂
Amber's channel, much like Chantal's, is dwindling. How long would Tommy really have stuck around with the bottom line getting smaller and smaller? Amberlynn and Chantal both need to understand, total obliviousness to their respective personalities aside, NOBODY, save for opportunists and fetishists, will ever truly love either of them.
if u are interested in boycotting for pal3stine, don’t get a soda stream. they are a main one on the official bds list and have a long history of mistreating pal3stinians. just so u kno!
One dude stopping drinking an overpriced coffee isn't going to stop the war...boycotting starbucks won't do anything. For every one person who gives up one coffee they've already made up 100x that sale in the next minute. It's irrelevant. Besides only the Isralian and Palestinian government can stop the war not an American coffee chain.
Do you filter your comments? No judgement, i would. Also... conspiracy theory; Ambaby cannot hear properly. That's why she has trouble with pronunciation. Thoughts??
