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You don't always have to know what to say to empathize with someone. Sometimes just listening is enough. Trying to understand someone is the closest thing to love that they've known for a long time.
I cannot help but emphathise with the RU-vidr. I've been in an awfully similar spot as him and trust me, the ingratitude you see in people is astonishing. The more you gave them, the more parasitic they became. Of course when I eventually burned out I found myself completely alone. Now I have a few good friends and a few of the previous are trying to come back, but I'm very, very aware of their true intentions and I'm quick to draw the line.
I should add that to play with other people's desires is dangerous. I used to be a """loser""" in the sense that I had few friends and had very few times sex. Eventually something clicked in my brain and I realised how to play on people's true desires in order to get what I wanted. Sounds manipulative, but it isn't. Never got money from them, never got sex from them using deception, nor I lied to make myself look better in front of people. I simply realised that by doing favours and getting what people want can put you into a very interesting position. But to get into that position you truly have to work your ass off. You have to solve their problems, offer them an opportunity or even just a façade of an opportunity and they will follow you no matter what. I did a lot for those people and they didn't even realised. It's hard to explain without sounding as some sort of a obscure character. It's a mix of doing a lot of genuine good deeds to other and then play your cards right. But this puts on you a lot of pressure, a lot of expectations and if you are not meant to live as a leader, then you'll burn yourself. This is what happend to me. Also you'll draw people's attention and many of your friends will become envy. Protect yourself from envy people, for those are the most dangerous beings you can encounter.
@@aramismanzie462 I love the art of trade its quite fun from basically 0$ received over 15k$ in value items and other things and opportunities ,i dont mind being generous and helping out for no benefit for me but you have to limit yourself on that theres a threshold you need boundaries. But for people who do invest in you , you want to offer even more to them because next time they will try to outdo you and give you a lot more and the value you receive you can use to give and trade with others and they give you other type of value which you can give to previous person etc and create a supportive network of helping each other without any monetary exchange just give value and opportunities to each other lives and grow/develop together. So focus on those people who will invest back into you and who have generous nature so the energy of exchange is in constant flux and doesnt stagnate.
@@aramismanzie462 This is v hard to fully grasp still - Be an ace in someone’s back pocket & they’ll always answer your call? Can it be broken down to just that?
@@seenitalready They are basically saying that the more you give the more they will want. It makes you reliable but it is a lot of pressure and strain to keep meeting or surpassing expectations so it can cause burnout
The final chapter shows us how people love good listeners, mr slizzy needs to get things off his chest, but feels empty and alone. He confides with his editor because the editor is the only one who hasn't forced himself into a relationship with Mr Slizzy, and his quietness is like a dry sponge that Slizzy hopes will soak up his emotions.
Not weird at all. Most women and girls these days are shallow and short sighted. I don't mean shallow for just looks but for other aspects no matter the size. Like in this case, youtuber fame. They crave status. They crave money. Selfishly one sided for what someone can do for them. And the youtuber is a weak man that allows it instead of tossing her back to the streets where she belongs. Social media really damaged people's development and attitudes, especially females sadly.
@@joba9429 I agree eith some women being shallow minded but men who take them and act like it's love and those women are not just therr for the money is also just as shallow minded as the woman they are seeing. Saying "most women" is very wrong btw, please be careful
@@joba9429 that's how life works. Your forgetting the girl being the pretty one. That's what most of guys want . Pretty wife over everything . What makes you say that pretty girls are all bad ? Many of them are good. Even ugly girls want man with money . In reality most pretty girls chose the good looking and wealthy man. Think about it.
no way, this guy literally tricked me into thinking the sponsorship was part of the fictional family friendly youtuber's thing and not the actual youtubers
@@sandrohernandez4401That's actually reference to polish youtuber who after recording some type of apology video decided to go to Kenya to try brighten up his reputation but he created more drama instead, including racist abuse
03:28 *The reference to Brazil (Portuguese Brazilian), is because many Brazilians when they see any foreign video that references or mentions Brazil, they are full of views, comments and likes, because of its large population. You can expect that in a little while there is a lot of Brazilians commenting on exactly the same thing as me (if they haven't already commented).* 🇧🇷🇧🇷
Honestly i think that not only "family-friendly" content creators but most big creators and networks are like this, i heard a ton of bad stuff about how networks F over small creators with bad contract's, pressure and straight up psycho terror.
My man your empathy is on whole other level. I haven't experienced such relevant content with such dark humour. I even thought the sponsor as a part of the meme.
I would advise any prospective parent or parent in general to monitor what your kid looks at on the internet. Family friendly channels are a more subtle way by which content creators prey on lonely kids.
I feel bad for the family RU-vidrs who actually want to film their lives but are caught up in one of several situations. Being called fake, being outed as abusing, toxic life behind the camera, or videos being stalked by groomers
Man the reality sometimes hits like a rock.... I swear the friend thing happened to me once in a way when I had a kind of viral video .... and after that well i did not get a lot of steam up so he did not show up as regurally as he did the first days....
0:35 have you ever seen a comment in another language and thought to yourself “I can’t understand that, and even I know you’re a dumb ass” then use this software to formulate an insult that will crush their soul even though you don’t speak the language! (I love the 21st century)
What happens to mr sizzy, is happens to a lot and lot of people in this damn world in every corner! The bad and the good, the rich and the small success
My relationship feels like the anon and the influencer, my dad and me. My dad gets drunk alot, hates everyone doesn't even trust his family and then makes me spend time with him so he can tell him problems
this is probably first time i was happy to see commercial on yt content, you earn that bro, you earn that juciy gains from those masterpieceses you gave us for free.
