I filmed this video last year and never got a chance to post it! It’s crazy how similar I feel, so cool to look back on your past thoughts🤗❤️ How are YOU feeling these days?👇👇👇
Girl, I feel this struggle too hard! I'm also working from home and find it difficult in some ways too. I have to romanticize my life too, lol, and it's hard when it doesn't live up to the picture I have of it in my head. Everything you said about wanting to have a fun fall season, but school, work, and lack of people to do things with are so relatable. Glad your car rides and Starbucks help you
It literally blows my mind how we’re all out here just feeling the same😭😭😭 it’s so crazy but thanks for the vulnerability because SAME!!!! 😂❤️😭 glad to have found your channel! New sub 💙💙
I really appreciate you being so real with us. It’s such a change from other people who never show any struggle. I moved over a year ago 12 hours away from friends and family (driving) I have had such a hard time. I also Romanticize more in my life. ❤️
aww I’m sorry to hear that, it’s def tough 🥲 Thank you I appreciate you saying that!! I do think there’s a large majority of people who feel this way way too often but never share, because it’s hard :( You’re def not alone! There’s always random tough phases, they won’t stay forever!❤️❤️🥲
I loved this video, because it's what everyone who'd be watching your videos feels. I'm a bit older than you, but I see so much of myself (especially my younger self) in you. The feelings you're feeling won't just go away some day, but I think that you being so aware of them is the best and probably the only way to not let them overpower you. There is joy to be had in life, and it may not be found on a pumpkin farm, as much as Pinterest makes us believe it will. It comes from some other place in you, and it's our job to search within ourselves and find it. Wishing you the best and looking forward to more car vlogs from you! 💗
You’re SO right, thank you Annie!! Really appreciate the perspective! It’s true, not letting things overpower you is such a necessary “skill” to have I’m realizing 😂 I really do hope to go to a pumpkin farm this year though 😭 Last year it brought me so much joy (and it was raining too 🥺🥰). Quiet simple adventures are sooo good for the soul!! Thanks for sharing 🤗
Omg I totally feel you! You are not alone! I did the same, I resigned my job and preparing for university, by the time preparing, I got lots of time free, and I lived sooooo far away from city, and my friends moved abroad, I’m sooooo lonely, and thank god I see your videos, everybody needs this!!! ❤️❤️❤️ keep loving girl! Thank you again for this video
thank you Hannah, we are def in this together, it's a really common thing to go through I think, and most of us don't even realize it until we share our experiences!! You're the sweetest and def not alone, I'm here for you!!
I just found your channel and enjoy your content. You are so sweet and give off amazing vibes that keeps me here. I know you haven't posted in a while. I hope you're doing well and staying uplifted. All the best! ❤
aww your comment means the world thank you! I've been having a tough time trying to balance things and think about posting a video every day, haha, don't know where the time has gone! Thank you for your beautiful words!!
I'm an introvert too.... A big part of me is soooo happy to work from home (it's been like 1.5 years now) because I don't have to deal with small talk and I feel more at peace working on my own.... But seems being so alone, has really started to affect me, like even if I don't realise at the time or I feel socially anxious, I do need the interactions cause I've been struggling with my mental health these past months feeling lonely and I have the same thoughts like makes no sense to get all dressed up just to be sitting at home in front of a computer or my TV...so it's hard to find balance between what you want vs what you need.... I'm really struggling with being an introvert so happy at home but still needing people so I don't feel lonely and sad 😔
I totally feel you and relate! I'm in the same boat, which is why I realized a hybrid working environment would be ideal for me---going into the office a couple days of the week, and working remotely the rest of the days to re-charge. B/c as much of an introvert that I am, it really is hard to be balanced. Thanks for sharing with me, I've found that getting out of the house to walk, to drive, anything really, is really helpful for me. Hope things get better, just know you are not alone, we're all in this together
Lolll "as an adult you get to do whatever you want so you just go to starbucks" is such a mood. And WOW you just made me realize this is my first time to enjoy fall without school too! And I feel the same way as I work from home too! I really like working from home, but I never really got to make friends around here to hang out with. 😅
hahha it's the best isn't it!! It's hard to find a balance but you're def not alone girl, I'm here for you!! But yeah I'v def realized a hybrid work environment might work best for me down the line haha. Hope you're doing well!!
I recently came across your channel and felt a good vibe ,its kind of comforting to watch your videos but its been a while since you last posted . Hope you are okay and looking forward to watching more such cosy content 💛
i totally get this and ever since i moved from my hometown, our new church only has 1 young adult group meeting per month and on zoom whereas our old church we can see ppl weekly! we need to work harder to cultivate hangouts. but one day a time. even with loneliness God is #1 to fill the void and we all need social interaction, phoning a friend works wonders for me as i am a student and study at home during the weekdays can get lonely and christianb music fills me up. pls know youre not alone and thanks for sharing your transparency.
Great video! My wife and I feel the same way… we’re both 20 something introverts working from home for over a year now. We go for drives after work just to get out of the house.
Oh gosh we need a support group. I feel it extra hard because i have no family here, and the pandemic hasnt given me much opportunity to build friendships :(
You are SO SWEET!!! I miss it so so much too 🥲🥲😭😭 Finding it really hard to make time, but I’m trying to make it work hopefully soon❤️❤️ Thanks for the best message ever, hope you’re doing well💗
Do you have friends to hang out? Or just one close friend? It helps if you get together once a week even just for a coffee run. We all need people to be around...God didnt make us islands. Im an introvert but even introverts need that one best friend or close confidant to bypass all the small talk and just do stuff with.
Ahhh 😍 I am so happy you upload a new video and I feel the same way you do except I am going to work in person thankfully.. 😅 btw I love your videos as always
After migrating from Iran to Canada I have been feeling the same loneliness in the past 10 months and this pandemic didn't make it any better. But after the start of winter in Northern Ontario, it has become even worse, right now I can't even go out of house as much as before :(
It's been 1 year and half that I am working from home either and at the last few months I started get a little depressed, tired and unpacient. I am 28 years old, live alone and single, my friends are all married and I feel that my life lately has been just work. I feel that working at home has not done so well, especially for those who live alone, we only see people through the computer screen and we distance ourselves from real relationships. I have been feeling that things have lost their purpose, everything is very ephemeral.
This is a true talk from my heart I'm a boy I'm 21years old I never went in a relationship with a girl all my life and I'm usaly introvert person and shy like to be with animals and kind people and to be at peace and when I see people like you I feel good cause in all around the world even we have different culture we have the same physiological structure It's a common point but we are the best kind of people we are no fake 🎶😌
Hey! I've been watching you for a while and I love your aesthetic and videos! I'm also a girl in my early twenties living around Toronto so if you ever want to talk or hang out sometime I think it might be fun! Anyways, keep making great videos!
we're kinda the same.. i miss dressing up but i'm just staying at home most of the time.. before, that was one thing that excites me every workday but now that I'm working from home, I kinda lose that excitement already..
You are so cute and sweet! Your videos really soothe the heart 🤗♥️ and always make me want to drink the same drink you're drinking, it always seams so good even when you say they are not 😂
omg that's hilarious ahhaa! But I know what you mean I feel the same when I watch others drink iced coffee drinks too ahhahaa. Thank you for your kind words you're so sweet!! Hope you're doing well!
Hello there. I get what it's like when you're out of high school/college/uni in your 20's, meeting new people can be a total nightmare. There needs to be viable alternatives to online dating and bars. It's rubbish when all your friends are in relationships and you see nothing but notifications on fb of how great everyone's life is. We're in a loneliness epidemic because there's no community outside of high school, college or university. Point 2; I would advise against saying things such as 'I can get any guy I want', that WILL turn a lot of guys off, particularly introverted guys. Here's why; -it will make most guys feel that he'd be nothing special 'just another option' -most guys don't want to be compared with previous partners (nobody wants that, except for f-boys, I'm pretty certain you wouldn't want that) -it's contradictory; it makes it sound like you have an easy time -Some guys might be afraid of being judged for having had less 'action' in the past (what better way to kill intimacy than to make it feel like a test) How would you like to see a guy stating 'I can get any girl I want'? Would that turn you on or turn you off? I'm telling the truth mate. I would also advise against saying things like 'I don't need a man'. I don't know any guy friends or colleagues who find 'I don't need no man' attractive. Ask around your guy friends 'do you find it attractive when a girls says 'I don't need a man'?', I'm pretty certain if they're being truthful, the answer would be 'no'. I know it feels cathartic if you're lonely, to try and deny it, same as people with no friends bragging about how 'I'm a lone wolf', it's the same thing. The result is that can end up pushing people away, the very companionship & connection that you're craving. Anyway, I hope this helps. have a nice day.
this absolutely does not help. You went on to interpret and assume random things from what I said that absolutely had no connection to the point or intention I was talking about at all. Like at all. You went on to advise me on things I should not be saying to men as if I'm telling men these very things. This is a vlog channel where I video diary my thoughts to a women audience. I can say the same about your critique here and how it would be a huge turn off for any woman. And you'd be like: what does that have anything to do with what I'm saying???? Which is exactly what I mean lol. I would advise you against telling people what they should or should not be saying based on your very inaccurate assumptions. Hope this helps. (maybe you had good intentions but it came across....not good lol)
Hey fellow Libra Torontonian! 😍I agree with you - adulting can be lonely, that's why we need to find people with similar likes, hobbies and values :) Would love your feedback on my vlogs 🥂
Life is funny my dream is to just get visa to study in Canada I see in you somethings you didn't see it at yourself but we don't know the blessing till we lose it so I hope the blessing be always with good people
I will never get the overly romanticization of "WoRkInG fRoM HoMe". Especially during and after the pandemic. That soporific middle-age house wife life pseudo office sh*t sounds so depressing to me.
