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Feeling Stuck After A Divorce Or Breakup? What Helped Me Move Forward. 

Jennifer Fontaine
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I want to share the main thing that helped me get unstuck during and after my divorce. Everyone's situation is different, it may resonate with you and it may not. I hope that it helps you in some way, even if you just get a laugh out of it! SO MUCH LOVE!
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@delculbertson2369
@delculbertson2369 3 года назад
Stay strong. My wife left me after 32 years of marriage, came home one day and said she was no longer happy. It crushed me and is hard for me to move on. I admire you for moving past your hurt and share your travel through this difficult time in your life with others. Stay safe and thank you for sharing your positive outlook, Cubby
@A.777-p8m
@A.777-p8m Год назад
I'm so deeply sorry that you had to experience that in your life. May Jesus bless you.
@LosN209
@LosN209 Месяц назад
How are you now? My wife left after 13 years, she's unhappy. Blindsided. Pains so bad s year later.
@krazmokramer
@krazmokramer 3 года назад
Jennifer...having watched several of your videos, several things are evident. 1. There's nothing wrong with you. That's why therapy didn't help. Your ex has the problem. 2. Your friend Carmen is wise and correct. End the pity party and move on. 3. Move out of your Mom's home so you can feel free to do what YOU want to do. Be dependent on yourself, not on anyone else. Not trying to mansplain this. You can do this. Been there. Done that. My ex dumped me for an older instructor we had in dental school, and left me with a 5 year old dental practice and a fortune in debt. I'm better off today than I would have been if we were still together. You come across as smart and talented. I know you can pull this off. Also, that candle thing should be a goal. You did it once. Do it again! Good Luck!!!
@JenniferFontaine5
@JenniferFontaine5 3 года назад
Thank you! You and Carmen are very wise! My mom is 84 and needs me right now. I do not feel sorry for myself at all... I am truly grateful for all of my experiences, both good and bad. I will have a place of my own one day, I will make candles again! Thank you for sharing your story, positively and your advice! I appreciate you!❤️
@adelina7970
@adelina7970 3 года назад
She was not the right therapist for you.
@richardrobinson601
@richardrobinson601 3 года назад
Jennifer, I know you are a good person because anyone who can love your cat that much is a child of a loving God ! Up ! Up ! And away !
@Edward.w417
@Edward.w417 3 года назад
You're so incredible. Inspiring for me going through a traumatic experience right now. Love and light 💕 ⭐ to you. Xxxxxx
@kathleentinley7261
@kathleentinley7261 3 года назад
Did you know that sometimes when you talk about something that happened to you that it just might help! I don't think she is on a pity party. She is just talking about it and just maybe it may help somebody else! Just my feeling.
@CalvinHicks1
@CalvinHicks1 3 года назад
Life’s like a movie. It’s time for you to start treating yourself like the lead actress you are! You are absolutely amazing. Keep your focus forward because your best days are in front of you. Keep rockin’ , Jennifer! Because baby, you’re a star!
@addicted367
@addicted367 3 года назад
We all need a friend like Carmen.
@JenniferFontaine5
@JenniferFontaine5 3 года назад
I Know Right!!! Especially when your world is turned upside down. I am SO thankful for my friiends!❤️🌟🌟
@melodykendall9620
@melodykendall9620 3 года назад
Spiritual Resilience... Awesome! That’s the answer ❤️Love that!
@sheilakieso1700
@sheilakieso1700 3 года назад
I’ve been divorced for 8 years now. I can tell you, it’s a slow process to heal from a divorce. I allowed myself to go through all those emotions & practiced self-care, got a new career, and started making new friends & traveled. Not once, have I ever regretted leaving him. 😁. And I love Def Leppard!
@johnmonteleone6173
@johnmonteleone6173 3 года назад
young lady you are going to be ok . it takes time and positive thinking . you look great and you will have a great future, god bless and have a great safe day
@dawn7220
@dawn7220 3 года назад
This should be shared with everybody, whether you've been thru a divorce or not.
@briancollins5117
@briancollins5117 3 года назад
Your closing words were the.most amazing I think I literally have ever heard. They were so wise, uplifting and kind. Thank you so much!
@rickmenasco322
@rickmenasco322 3 года назад
You're world's not falling apart It's falling into place Just Be Held by Casting Crowns Many of us share familiar stories Jennifer. One of my best friend sent me this song when I was at my lowest. My other dear friend firmly challenged me just like your friend Carmen challenged you. Amazing how God uses our friends with His perfect timing and message. To partially quote the famous John Wayne line from Big Jake, "Your fault, my fault, nobody's fault," let us take ownership of our failures, rise up, dust off, take out the garbage, and take responsibility for all that you mentioned. Be blessed.
@anitaambani3873
@anitaambani3873 3 года назад
You are so beautiful your ex was truly a unlucky guy for losing such a beautiful person. But somones loss is somones gain, I am sure you have better things in store. Be strong beautiful lady ❤
@dissolve3925
@dissolve3925 3 года назад
I love how down to earth and genuine you are. You seem like such a sweetheart.
@debhervol9758
@debhervol9758 2 года назад
It is all about telling your story. Bringing it out of the darkness and into the light!! We are not alone.
@liciaa1372
@liciaa1372 3 года назад
You hit the nail on the head. Responsibility for everything, not just for our actions, but time I have a problem with that, I get depressed and don't move forward , then hate myself for it. Thank you this was a great video
@maddycanfly7217
@maddycanfly7217 3 года назад
Viva Jennifer AND Carmen . I learned this same lesson threw a life coach that I had for 4 or 5 sessions after my separation . It was so freeing once I took responsibility for my part in the relationship . I no longer felt like a victim . I knew my X was a cheater from 28 yrs earlier and I choose to stay . I knew he had givin me an std during my pregnancy and I didn’t leave him then . So I actually forgive us both and I’m just continuing to live my life with as much responsibility as possible . And an equal amount of self love . Thanks for sharing your responsibility story with us Jennifer .
@childofgod2738
@childofgod2738 3 года назад
Thank you for this video! You are so right “responsibility” . You are glowing. I can see the weight has been lifted. God Bless you! Keep up the good work!
@JenniferFontaine5
@JenniferFontaine5 3 года назад
Thank You for your kind words, Yes, the weight has been lifted, God is good!!!❤️
@tonydecicco9342
@tonydecicco9342 3 года назад
After my break up my therapy was riding my motorbike, I think your gorgeous and well on your way
@bluesrockngearwjoeyg8853
@bluesrockngearwjoeyg8853 3 года назад
Spiritual resilience... what a great mantra to have and live by. Life is gonna test us. The world is gonna test us. I think we’re all stronger than we know. And this might sound cliché or cheesy but I believe that through the dark there’s always a light. I’ve watched your earlier videos including the story of how your marriage ended. And your pain definitely transcended then camera. I’ve been through two of them. Thinking each was the one for a lifetime. On both accounts we were both to blame. I was not without my faults and flaws. I’m still not. But through the dark there’s always a light. This vid has a great message! Thanks for continuing to share and inspire resiliency. P.S. your shirt rocks! Best era of rock music ever!!!!! 🤘🏼
@JenniferFontaine5
@JenniferFontaine5 3 года назад
Thank You!!!😍🔥
@bluesrockngearwjoeyg8853
@bluesrockngearwjoeyg8853 3 года назад
@@JenniferFontaine5 🙂
@Kivette
@Kivette 3 года назад
Thank you, Jennifer. You're beyond amazing. I'm so inspired to fix up my Phoenix and fly!
@slotcarmayhem9765
@slotcarmayhem9765 3 года назад
Excellent chapter... THIS is exactly where I was wishing you to reach. Congratulations on your coming back to life!! 🙂
@JenniferFontaine5
@JenniferFontaine5 3 года назад
Thank You!!!🌟🔥🌟
@j1xcalibur
@j1xcalibur 3 года назад
Same boat here. Hardest part of letting go is erasing all the memories (22 yrs worth). Thing that helped me the most and was the hardest, was learning to appreciate and be grateful for the experience. Only way I could recover. When ur pushed to be a bigger person and rise to the occasion. It’s very liberating!!! I’m so glad ur here
@angelsong3259
@angelsong3259 3 года назад
I got a Phoenix Tatoo on my back to remind me that I have crashed..burned..and risen so many times. Your videos are helping me to get strong. My husband has wanted me to leave so he could have a life with other women and his freedom..he says I've done nothing wrong and that hes just not attracted to me anymore. Then when I pack and try to leave..he doesn't want me to. I do love him so much..but the flip flop effect is killing me. I'm trying to stay strong. I found your videos while searching for answers. Thank you for sharing your story.
@bobsworld2351
@bobsworld2351 3 года назад
You got it! Respond with ability! That's responsibility.
@ZingaroXIV
@ZingaroXIV 3 года назад
I stumbled across your channel (thanks, RU-vid) and have found one more source of learning. It seems you have found, instinctively, your path out of your troubles: creating. You have created this channel as a step forward, and you have found a way to create a new life for yourself and your family. I agree with your take on things, and I tend to view it through the lens of time - past, present, and future. Regret sticks us in a past we cannot change, so never regret the past. You are alive today so embrace the day and life that is in you. You create your own tomorrows. You have learned these things on your own, which tells me there's nothing wrong with you - not then, not now, not tomorrow.
@rickhammar1636
@rickhammar1636 3 года назад
I pretty much agree with what you said but as a man it is a bit different. In my case I was the one that got thrown under the bus. The problem with moving on is when kids are involved. I will be 52 in March , we had kids late, my youngest daughter is 10. My kids don't want to live with their mother but court is so prohibitively expensive that it is difficult to make any headway. I yearn for the day ,8 years from now, when I can put it all behind me. I refuse to be in a relationship with a woman who has a crazy screwed up ex so consequentially I refuse to even try to find someone new because my ex causes so many problems for my kids & myself. I have plenty of responsibility as I am self employed & have been for 20 years but man putting up with all this court crap & seeing my kids suffer needlessly really takes a toll.
@mikemecklenborg5412
@mikemecklenborg5412 3 года назад
Unfortunately this is what most ex's do to you and the children suffer the most. I have seen this in my children's ex's wife's. Its ridiculous so I quit trying to help.
@richardmoore3352
@richardmoore3352 3 года назад
I have been there and did what I thought was best for my children, I got full custody. Was best way could think of to give them least drama. They are all grown now and even have grandkids
@rickhammar1636
@rickhammar1636 3 года назад
@@richardmoore3352 I'm glad you were able to get custody of your kids. Your comment makes it sound easy. Before I go any further I want everyone to know that I am not here to bash, trash or belittle women. The court system on the other hand I am not so fond of. I know there are bad women but I also know there are bad men. It seems to me that both sexes mainly view things as the other side bad. This happened to me 4 years ago in March. 3 days after my birthday. Now I am sure that most if not all women reading this are assuming I'm a dead beat or a cheater or abuser or something else. To this day 4 years after the fact she still hasn't been able or willing to tell me specifically why. She took my kids out of school with the help of the sheriff , who told me the next day that they knew she lied to them but couldn't help me. She got them into protective custody while she filed papers & tried to take them to Tennessee. Kansas won't allow a parent to take the kids out of state without the other parents permission, so that's one good thing the law did.About 2 years before she left I started having debilitating headaches. I have had migraines since I was a kid & still do but these.....I can't even describe how bad they were. Ended up in the emergency room on the demand of the family doctor, spent 2 days in the hospital. Had ct scans & mri's. Had a herinated disc in my neck. Felt good after all the drugs from the hospital so I didn't go see the neurosurgeon. About 6 months later they started again. Went to see him & he said there was nothing he could do that I was in for a life of pain management. They wanted to give me narcotic pain killers & I refused. I swear her face was white as a ghost. I thought at the time that was not the reaction I expected. She was always happy as long as money was flowing but when it didn't flow man did things suck. I think she decided she didn't want to take care of an invalid in her old age & I can't really blame her even though I have known several couples who have stood by each other to the end. It just doesn't seem to be the case any more. So while I am done with relationships, at least for now I am curious of women's perspectives. For instance red flags for me are women who have thrown their previous partner under the bus, women who won't let their ex see their kids( abuser excepted). Women who say they ain't raising someone else's kids. That just seems a bit of self centered given the high number of single moms that " can't find a good man". So I am curious when a man tells his story what do women think?
@sherryg1838
@sherryg1838 2 месяца назад
My first counselor didn’t help, but the second was amazing. Unfortunately, it takes time to find the right one, and it’s expensive.
@chrissybezuidenhout2648
@chrissybezuidenhout2648 3 года назад
Dont be ashaimed off crying no matter where you are ...hug... thx Carmen
@katiemariewestover
@katiemariewestover 3 года назад
I do not watch a lot of RU-vid BUT I have watched a few of these, this one got me! I was crying watching, well currently crying. I just went through something similar, not as similar bc it wasn’t 25 years but it feels like it to me. I love you, girl! You are definition of resilience! And this has helped me more than you know! Wish you all the best always. One of the most beautiful people I know! 💌 I was trying to heart the thumbs up lol forgot I was on RU-vid. Lol the “guys asked me out w that on my bio.. go figure” had me laughing for real tho.
@delanamcclusky-meza243
@delanamcclusky-meza243 2 года назад
You have helped me in so many ways. Thank you 🙏 Much love ❤️
@tschandraheinze1680
@tschandraheinze1680 3 года назад
I love watching you smile the entire time you shared your story and opinions with us. Made me smile. Today's been kinda a hard day for me not feeling well think I got the flue maybe idk but you sure made me smile and feel lifted. Thank you. I really enjoy your videos so so much your soul is so beautiful I adore you. Keep being strong. Keep sharing because I tell you what you have sure helped me. Sending hugs from Anchorage Alaska Tschandra Heinze
@JenniferFontaine5
@JenniferFontaine5 3 года назад
Thank You Tschandra!!! I’m so sorry your not feeling well! Sending ❤️ your way and positive healing vibes! Alaska! So 😎
@tschandraheinze1680
@tschandraheinze1680 3 года назад
@@JenniferFontaine5 Thank you so very much, I appriceate that alot. I love Alaska very much but I will say at -neg temps i miss Cali lol Hugs.
@wilE6764
@wilE6764 3 года назад
Jennifer..I just came across your channel last night thats messed up what happened to you and all youve been through..i myself have gone through it more than once..and you really dont at the time think you'll ever get over it..it really does suck..and it does make us realize things we need to do differently..I got through it with Gods help also..glad you did too..it does take time and one day youll think back and know it was for the best!..hang in there!
@floydblack7696
@floydblack7696 3 года назад
A woman of strength,courage pursuing fullness and boundary who will never settle for less again. Yay carmen!!!!!!!!!!!!! Learning self respect takes time and the learning of many skills. And that without bitterness. Press on soldier u r in the center of God's healing hand.
@elizabethconroy7665
@elizabethconroy7665 3 года назад
Thank you for sharing Frank and honest Love that cute cat
@lisaamirant5595
@lisaamirant5595 3 года назад
You are so amazing and beautiful inside and out. Thank you for sharing. This is so inspirational for so much more than breakups!!! This is amazing advice for life in general and I am going to share this with my daughter. I’ve been trying to tell her this but coming from me, it goes in one ear and straight out the other. I’m so glad you are away from that man who does NOT DESERVE YOU. ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
@iliahernandez9077
@iliahernandez9077 3 года назад
Hi jennifer the same happened to me . You are a very beautiful & intelligent woman . Dont look back . Look to your future & believe in yourself . The Best is Yet to come !!!
@glendahumphrey4412
@glendahumphrey4412 3 года назад
Bright light and blessings to you. I thank God for being with me all the time. Bless your heart ❤ ♥ 🙏
@JenniferFontaine5
@JenniferFontaine5 3 года назад
Thank you Glenda!❤️
@tidbitsofmylife2367
@tidbitsofmylife2367 3 года назад
I want You to know that your gift with people is humbling and real. 😀
@MiaSunShine14
@MiaSunShine14 3 года назад
Moving on too, we can do it ❤
@JenniferFontaine5
@JenniferFontaine5 3 года назад
You’ve got this!!!❤️🤩
@timhowell2467
@timhowell2467 3 года назад
Hi Jennifer, I'm current going through a divorce myself. I've watched a few of your videos and I would like to thank you. It's the hardest thing I've ever had to go through. But i know I'm better off without the stress that i was going through. I'm 47 years old and I want to say your gorgeous. I'm sorry for your situation, but you got this. Keep your head up and keep moving forward. BTW He should have kept you on his health insurance until you were divorced. At least in Ohio it's the law. God Bless you
@davidhayes9372
@davidhayes9372 3 года назад
Ever look at that way . When things are going good out of nowhere destroyed all the good times. Thank you.
@dianaf9997
@dianaf9997 3 года назад
Powerful message!!! Thank you
@dannydrew8169
@dannydrew8169 3 года назад
Thank you very sharing your life. Your vulnerability, giving nature, honesty and love were taken advantage of for 25 years. Most men would long for those qualities in a woman. What a bogan your ex was. Bet his life is for the worse now that he discarded you. Your story and rebuild process is powerful. Wow!
@dannydrew8169
@dannydrew8169 3 года назад
I'm in same boat but, yet to divorce. 25 years going on 26. Death sentence, I given up on life. She's taken everything from me.
@maxflight777
@maxflight777 3 года назад
Listen to your friend Carmen...... she is the key.... stay close to her.
@susiepummill9391
@susiepummill9391 3 года назад
I’m inspired by your story, and relate to it in many ways. Hang in there- life is going to keep improving
@JenniferFontaine5
@JenniferFontaine5 3 года назад
Thank you Susie! YES!!! Much Love❤️🌟🌟
@joycedominguez1828
@joycedominguez1828 3 года назад
So happy you got a job. You go girl. It's only the beginning of great things
@wolfeyes9357
@wolfeyes9357 3 года назад
Your life has not crashed....it is slowly taking off!!!!!!! Turn it around!!!!
@nightranger3430
@nightranger3430 3 года назад
I am praying for you Jennifer...🙏🏼
@vonseven
@vonseven 3 года назад
such a beautiful, wise woman.. who was dared to hurt you.. Much love from Belarus
@yellowdeer7163
@yellowdeer7163 3 года назад
It was great to see you smile today. You sure Carmen isn't from Texas? She shoots straight from the hip. What a gal.
@kimkeck6266
@kimkeck6266 3 года назад
OMG....I thought you might be getting high and your mother thought she might have smelled weed! Now that is called projection!! I would be the one doing a one hit and filming my life! I have commented before and I too am going through it all like you....remember my comments and remember I too married a person with NPD! You are a beautiful woman, mother, daughter, friend, and have a beautiful quiet voice and soul! Rock on Girlfriend! 🌺🙏💪❤️🇺🇸✌️🌈
@user-yk9sk7pg6v
@user-yk9sk7pg6v Год назад
thank you jennifer
@llamecanse
@llamecanse 3 года назад
Thank you so very much for sharing your experience with us, it has helped me so much, and you are right about everything. I’m glad to see that you’re feeling better now, so that you can help people like me.
@JenniferFontaine5
@JenniferFontaine5 3 года назад
Thanks So much Edita! Whatever has made you feel stuck, you will move forward!!! Nothing is permanent😘❤️❤️🌟Much Love!
@sunshinejohnson8330
@sunshinejohnson8330 3 года назад
Your Spirit Is Amazing
@gazingatthestars6610
@gazingatthestars6610 3 года назад
I bet you're doing great moving on. Btw, Def Leppard is a great band.
@slaugh77ify
@slaugh77ify 3 года назад
I was stuck emotionally for about 3 years after my divorce. I thought we were about to buy a house and then my wife walked out after 23 years of marriage. I feel like she took my heart with her.
@tarrotreadings8895
@tarrotreadings8895 3 года назад
Hi dear I recommend you to a man who can really help you restore back your broken relationship I assure you would be glad to encounter him💕
@tarrotreadings8895
@tarrotreadings8895 3 года назад
Text him on WhatsApp💕
@tarrotreadings8895
@tarrotreadings8895 3 года назад
+ 2 3 4 0 8 1 6 2 0 7 8 3 0 6💕
@PWlangford1
@PWlangford1 3 года назад
I think someone is in your future 🇨🇦
@shogun666able
@shogun666able 3 года назад
Confidence is another magic word, as those who think they may, don't do, and those how think they can generally will. Chatting to a camera about your sadness really just means your a confident lady at heart, bent and abit dented maybe, but move on you can. Put this behind you as a learning curve but not one that makes you a hard lady. As then you will have a problem, so stay soft, stay warm, and stay a women and I'm fairly sure it will all turn good for you and you WILL find your soulmate, be that a real one this time around. Arthur (UK)
@katereaves8710
@katereaves8710 3 года назад
You are awesome! Praying for you and you children ❤️✝️🙏💯
@ketchingmy2ndwindsvchopsticks
@ketchingmy2ndwindsvchopsticks 3 года назад
Good video!! Thanks for sharing your experience!!!
@RosaLopez-zw2ff
@RosaLopez-zw2ff 3 года назад
Thank you for sharing... ~Many Blessings~
@JenniferFontaine5
@JenniferFontaine5 3 года назад
Thank you for watching Rosa! Much Love💕💕💕
@cammierountree5172
@cammierountree5172 3 года назад
Your kitty is so beautiful!!!
@xochitlpedroza5073
@xochitlpedroza5073 3 года назад
I’m grateful I got to find your channel.🌹
@SavingHearts
@SavingHearts 3 года назад
Thank you so much for your videos. I love your channel. God bless you. 💜💜
@kirstymatthews8298
@kirstymatthews8298 3 года назад
🥰🌌 your amazing xxx seriously keep that up and keep pushing forward 💪
@JenniferFontaine5
@JenniferFontaine5 3 года назад
Thank You Kirsty!!!😘❤️❤️
@bcabmac
@bcabmac 3 года назад
Do you date? I think dating is too much expectation and pressure. I think learning to go out or do something together as a new friend, discover things together, and share moments is what can lead to a more intimate relationship if it's meant to be . In today's culture, there's a tendency to approach relationship backwards in the course of things. You learn what's really important with age and unfortunately heartache.
@MrTremors1
@MrTremors1 3 года назад
I like you Jennifer, you are a good soul. I just realized something because of what you said here. I´m not stuck because of a divorce. I'm stuck because I´m in a relationship with the woman of my dreams! However... I´m in Sweden and she's in the US and we haven´t been able to see or touch each other in over a year now because of the plandemic. Thank you for triggering me to see certain things
@radroofer
@radroofer 3 года назад
Lars you are so right about this covid-19 dempanic political scam. You better find a way to get to her before the Covid-20 and 21 are released this year.
@joycedominguez1828
@joycedominguez1828 3 года назад
@@radroofer don't say the covid is a lie. It was too fricking universal. Now the vaccine I have other thoughts
@thelmaparrilla7445
@thelmaparrilla7445 3 года назад
Your so pretty, dont mind your ex its his loss,not yours,.stay safe,pray that it will be okey.🙏🙏🙏
@JenniferFontaine5
@JenniferFontaine5 3 года назад
Thank you Thelma❤️
@basilqaqish9480
@basilqaqish9480 3 года назад
Thank you. You talk from the heart
@dougfarmer1240
@dougfarmer1240 3 года назад
That’s the way I feel I don’t have a life
@michaelbrookins2720
@michaelbrookins2720 3 года назад
Black Sabbath mug girl after my own heart stay COOL Jennifer because YOU ARE
@ListenWell
@ListenWell 3 года назад
Great share- Hope all is well
@bunnalong79
@bunnalong79 3 года назад
If you have the time to study Stoic Philosophy, I truly recommend it. I happen to stumble across your channel by chance, which may be a sign, nothing in this universe ever happens by chance. There always a reason to everything, a spiritual learning process. Have a bless day
@jwalker9548
@jwalker9548 3 года назад
Loved the video!
@dzset9358
@dzset9358 3 года назад
I too just divorced my wife after 30 years...i am so devastated but so willing to love again...i would love to meet someone like you...
@tarrotreadings8895
@tarrotreadings8895 3 года назад
Hi dear I recommend you to a man who can really help you restore back your broken relationship I assure you would be glad to encounter him💕
@tarrotreadings8895
@tarrotreadings8895 3 года назад
Text him on WhatsApp💕
@tarrotreadings8895
@tarrotreadings8895 3 года назад
+ 2 3 4 0 8 1 6 2 0 7 8 3 0 6💕
@ksokie63
@ksokie63 3 года назад
Love the cat. I watched a few of your videos and yes divorce is hard . But your on the right track and your beliefs in God and help from people that you trust is the best. But you must move on to next steps and get back to living .
@alexafontaine3800
@alexafontaine3800 3 года назад
Cats aren’t supposed to eat M&Ms mom
@nicelynora
@nicelynora 3 года назад
Bahahahahahahahaha
@curtistucker8514
@curtistucker8514 3 года назад
You are beautiful. Now let's put a smile on that face..please be happy and enjoy your life
@nomdeplume2213
@nomdeplume2213 3 года назад
I LOVE MAYA ANGELOU! one of my favorite, if not my absolute favorite, authors. I read Now I Know Why The Caged Bird Sings at least once a year. she was absolutely amazing.
@eddieaustin7020
@eddieaustin7020 2 года назад
Keep Busy Jen
@kingkanoworldmedia4389
@kingkanoworldmedia4389 3 года назад
You not think time and acceptance was the fuel to feed the change Your thoughts
@JenniferFontaine5
@JenniferFontaine5 3 года назад
Yes, time and acceptance were relevant necessary, and helpful, but I was still stuck because I was not taking responsibility for my life, during the divorce or after❤️
@angelbrigg
@angelbrigg 3 года назад
Listen to Cathy Heller's podcast that is called Don't Keep Your Day Job. She talks about creating a life you love finding your purpose. She would tell you you can make a life of making candles. Check her out, she has a lot of great talks.
@1SeanBond
@1SeanBond 3 года назад
A excellent veiw thanks for the suggestions, Appreciate you! Luv&Peace Cheers!
@JenniferFontaine5
@JenniferFontaine5 3 года назад
Thank you! I appreciate you as well! So much Love!!!🌟❤️🌟
@BS-tm3ls
@BS-tm3ls 3 года назад
You can make candles in your free time, as a side business, though. No reason why you couldn’t. It might be cathartic for you.
@HughMadBro
@HughMadBro 3 года назад
I love your necklace stack 😍😬 I would love to see some styling & how your skins so perfect at your age also 💜 I need that lighting necklace. We should be called “your bolt babes” 😝💁🏼‍♀️ whatcha think?
@RebeccaAnneTruly
@RebeccaAnneTruly 3 года назад
Oh! And do a video about your beautiful PuddyTat!😍🤓
@edwardseth1230
@edwardseth1230 3 года назад
The three things I understood after she left was, 1. Its a double edge sword, meaning I am equally to take responsibility. 2. Its a game of egos. 3. She left all the baggage here, the name and the blame that I pushed her away. 4. She wasn't the settling down type.. If there was $$$$$$$$$$ n comfort n controlling she would be. 5. Giving space doesn't mean locking ur partner out of the bedroom for the whole week. 6. Marriage is about give n take, talk when its hectic or worry some. All I got was get lost.. 7. She has 3 older sisters who had difficult marriages themselves. So whatever troubles they had..was labeled on to me... I.e. lier, cheater, faker, blamer. 8. After she left she started a sympathy gaining campaign.. At work..at church...even online. One thing I did was shut myself down..never said anything why not..God only knows..family friends who were friends with their family who came to guide me..eventually found out where the problem was and never said anything again..tho it pissed me off at the time..I understood they were doing it so they can say it to her family that they did their best. Thank you for ur lessons learnt n be able to share em..i am learning..I am grateful.. Stay safe..God bless u.
@roybrewer6583
@roybrewer6583 3 года назад
New to your video's, Never been in a long term relationship myself, have many sister's with many divorces. I can't know how you feel inside, but I do have some idea of the carnage you will have undergone. A friend once said men and women should never marry, men care about things, cars, and women value emotional ties. So men should really marry their car mechanic 😂. You look fabulous by the way for someone in their thirties (never tell your true age, haha). Saw your Black Sabbath mug, so assume you are a British heavy metal fan, me too. Hope you meet someone who deserves you, make sure Carmen reads them their Miranda rights. All the best from the UK.
@ya472
@ya472 3 года назад
A sure sign you have finally healed, most of this stuff you talk about, will not matter anymore. It will take years of retrospective analysis to cleanse your emotional palette.
@louieysursa6973
@louieysursa6973 3 года назад
I'm in love with you
@mikedembo1
@mikedembo1 3 года назад
good luck to you
@Elemenohpea440
@Elemenohpea440 3 года назад
I know this channel isn’t about beauty, but could you share your skincare regime? Because DANG you look SO young. I would think you were mid 30s and was really confused as to how you had been married for 25 years.
@ya472
@ya472 3 года назад
It is called High quality makeup and lighting.. it is seen on tv all the time. A woman without makeup and tinting, is always more beautiful. She is the one you want to wake up with,
@markmangano1731
@markmangano1731 2 года назад
Great job beautiful keep going forward 👍 👏 💪 👌
@iliahernandez9077
@iliahernandez9077 3 года назад
Focus on yourself & what makes you happy . God removes. People from our lives for a reason. When 1 door closes another one opens . You will meet some one else who will care for you .
@yankeewatchdog7299
@yankeewatchdog7299 3 года назад
Hi Jenn. It's D-day+4 and not a peep. I totally expect to have to tell the soon to be ex-GF that we need to go our separate ways. Probably this week end. I'm done with her accusations. I've been here before...I'll get over it. On another note, the look on your face when your Mom came in.... hahaha...like she caught you doing something you weren't supposed to be doing. Liking your ear rings. Smiles
@richardandmichellelifeadve3473
@richardandmichellelifeadve3473 3 года назад
Little bit like the cat no hair on it 😅 like the Phoenix
@ronaldhall2489
@ronaldhall2489 3 года назад
I'm gonna give another and i know you know it. GOD
@nabalnabil3218
@nabalnabil3218 3 года назад
God bless...
@missinginbc
@missinginbc 3 года назад
Jesus is really, really, really, really, really awesome!
@wolfgangmarasevic9539
@wolfgangmarasevic9539 3 года назад
That cat🙂
@RebeccaAnneTruly
@RebeccaAnneTruly 3 года назад
I have watched your videos and I respectfully disagree with your statement of “I’m not creative”. You ARE creative-videos keep getting better. Also DNA can be altered via environment self talk, beliefs, it’s called epigenetics! BruceLipton, Dr JackKruse and many other peeps speak of this.
@regalstylesbymtg2317
@regalstylesbymtg2317 3 года назад
You have to move forward.
@sharonc.2207
@sharonc.2207 3 года назад
Jennifer, I love your wisdom. The universe does not care about you, or anyone. It is a creation of God. However, God loves you so much, Jesus Christ died for you, because He loves you so much.
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