Fender Bender Destroyed Friendship! | Part 3 

I let a friend borrow my car one time to what I thought was to pay a bill. Nothing happened to my car but later when I got back in my car I ended up finding a baggie with some white powder looking stuff. Never again

And they will never pay for damages!

My friends can borrow my beater any time.

I'd rather give her $30 for an Uber.

Depends on the person and situation, if they value money over their own integrity, and how well you know your friends. I asked to borrow my friends car once for 3 weeks as it was during Covid and I had no car to get to work, but I told him I'd buy insurance on it for 30 days under my name, until my own car was fixed. Needless to say it went well, had the car back within 20 days. I do agree with you though, if it's for only a day or for something insignificant, id just drive them myself or tell them to get an Uber if I'm busy...

I bet there is no ring .

I’m sure she is, when she speaks of him she’s speaking about him in the present tense, not past.

True but she also has to side with the boyfriend otherwise when she gets home she may get an ass beating too

LOL, I bet she doesn’t even remember his name anymore 😂

Unless there’s a wedding date on the calendar, you’re still just dating…imo

I am not sure I agree with your first blanket statement

Same way I have a sister who claims she can't stand narcissists and liars, she's literally lied her whole life and ticks all the boxes for a narc lol

@@bostonteaparty3926I agree

I am one of those who hates liars and am not a liar, so stop assuming everyone is a liar.

YEP!!!!

Sounded like she's dating a bad dude and just constantly making excuses for him

And she wore a motorcycle jacket to court, ha ha

The plaintiff had respect and was nice, defendant not so much

The plaintiff was ok,even when she was being provoked.

At one point they were talking over each other, in the previous episodes, but agree to disagree 👍

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She wanted to show who the defendant was because she was the plaintiff.

It looks like she has the necklace on now.

If it was 14k gold it could have been more than $100.00

Crybaby, nope. She is a scammer and a liar.

Well it’s possibly she wasn’t lying about that part because he might have told her he couldn’t come for that reason. The rest was definitely a lie.

@@anndeecosita3586 We see it in court all the time - defendants who claim that they didn't know that they couldn't do something under bond conditions. It is always a lie because the conditions are always clearly laid out at the time that bond is set. Of course, there are always those who only hear what they want to hear, but if they have the real information, then it is still a lie.. There is little difference between self-serving ignorance and deceit. However, this woman's attitude in court tells me that she is the one who rules what her boyfriend does or does not say, and I am sure that she is the one who concocted the nonsense about him not being there because of the protection order. She was too worried he would tell the truth. And it would probably be obvious to everyone that he is a guy who likes his pizza :)

@@artistjohI don’t think she rules the roost because the plaintiff says he is the one who physically attacked her which I believe. That is a sign that a man has a domineering personality. I wouldn’t be surprised if he told the plaintiff to let him drive. The defendant is a b!+

The bumper estimate was for 1k. She got 1k

@@frigid4realThe bumper estimate was for $1,129, but courts often round numbers because they are aware that shops inflate numbers ahead of a court case, and normally accept the lower rounded judgement. It is part of the game between courts and auto repairers. With anything automotive, the shops habitually inflate numbers for both insurance companies and courts, but ultimately negotiate once they know there is money available to do the job.

There’s always a hidden lesson in JJ’s verdicts. The judgement amount could be attributable to depreciated value of the car by the time they made it to court, or it could be JJ’s subtle way of balancing the ⚖️ scales of justice. Giving the plaintiff the full amount could embitter the defendant and jeopardize the safety of the plaintiff as well. But it could also be JJ teaching the plaintiff a very valuable lesson; Don’t loan your personal vehicle to friends. 🤷🏾‍♂️ U never know the method behind JJ’s madness but I trust her judgement. 🙋🏾‍♂️My $.02

Because she only had 1 estimate. If she brought 3 estimates and they were all between $1100 and $1300 she probably would have gotten the $1129. But JJ is using her experience to say "$1129 seems a little too high. You should be able to find a shop that will fix that for $1000." Its actually GOOD that the judge does this and will not just blindly accept whatever estimate a plantiff gives them.

Judge usually never gives the full amount requested. She looks at estimates and says you can do it for x, unless the plaintiff brings three estimates in which case the judge favors the middle one LOL. It's Judys MO.

She has a car but it’s junk. That’s how they got to the plaintiff’s apartment.

So youre point is that friends are more important than your other half that you might spend your whole life with? Is that your logic???😂

​@lorina13d79 if the boyfriend is bad news, yes, that's exactly the point. He drove so he should have taken responsibility. He should have tried to rectify the friendship and situation as opposed to making matters worse.

right!! she a mess

@@lorina13d79Standing up for what is right is the most important. She borrowed the vehicle. Her fiancé was driving. Take responsibility instead of stiffing your friend with the repair bill.

so you just automatically back your friendship without any evidence no matter what?

Yeah he woke up.

@@mikewaters6980Hopefully he woke up in jail since I believe the plaintiff when she says he physically assaulted her.

@@anndeecosita3586 Interesting...You believe her based on what? a feeling? or maybe you have real evidence that would stand up in court that I don't know about?

​@@mikewaters6980 bc they dont grant a RO unless there is some evidence to support it

Ironic huh???

You pretty much need a certified notary, written appraisal and sales receipt to get reimbursed by JJ.

She didn’t have a receipt. I would think if she ordered the pendant online, it would be easy to get a purchase record from the company or your credit card statement.

​@@wintercameshe doesn't accept notarized letters. There was no receipt. Simple

Right?! And to go to beach.

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If you’re not chronically broke, hanging out with chronically broke friends doesn’t usually go well. My friend went on a girls trip to Las Vegas with some broke coworkers. They are in their 30s and 40s. When my mom told me they wanted to sleep 4 to a double bed room because they couldn’t afford a hotel otherwise I told my friend she shouldn’t go. I told her it was a bad idea. She didn’t listen and wound up having to pay for all the ride shares and event tickets because whenever they arrived somewhere they were all looking around like 🤷🏾‍♀️. She was pissed off. 😡

One was mooching off the other

The defendant states during the closing comments that the plaintiff has a protective order against the fiancé, therefore he was unable to come to court on her behalf as a witness.

good the shoe

Shoe The Good

The good shoe.

_What?_

Exactly.

It’s her accent. I can’t count how many so called educated people I have heard pronounce center like sinner. That’s how some people speak.

😅😂

She doesn’t look anything like Kamala. 😂

The only point of your remark is to may you look rather odd.

Sometimes when someone does something big to you it makes you realize the little things you let slide. In for a Penny in for a pound.

@@TheNuyorker I get it if that’s how she felt tho she should’ve questioned her judgement about lending someone her vehicle

She said that at that point she still thought she was going to get the necklace back.

@@dche64 still it happened before she had lend her car before their friendship had sunk

Too bad she didn't get awarded for the jewelry b/c JJ shorted her on the repair estimate by over $100.

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What did she lie about

@@charmaine583 She lied about the necklace. Why give someone your car if they took your necklace, you should pay attention

@@philipposkasotis8658 she said,the friend said was going to give it back, it was tangled up with her other stuff 🤷and of course it's her word against the other but l don't understand how you concluded she is a liar?

@@charmaine583 Why bring it up than. Because you want money. Like that hear say nonsense about the car. Why give someone your car if she took your necklace. That means I can take your credit card and eat your food no problem

@@philipposkasotis8658 l think you are the one who needs to pay attention and also stick to facts