FIVE GREEN FLAGS to look for in man 

1. Who does their duties and take responsibilities. 2. Their life doesn’t revolve around their partner and are detached from them. 3. Who knows how to balance others emotions & feelings. 4. Who is family oriented. 5. Who value their goals and values more than their partner. 6. Who is not lustful. 7. Who doesn’t expect anything from their partner. 8. Who can live comfortably without their partner or anybody. 9. Who doesn’t simp and is ready to walk away when the relationship doesn’t work or move forward. 10. Who can sacrifice for children & family. 11. Who plays their assigned gender role of traditional masculine and feminine. 12. Who doesn’t cheat.

That’s their loss then. They don’t know what’s good for them.

​@@faithwithmelody women never know what they really want.

That’s your opinion 🤷‍♀️😂😂

Absolutely there should be boundaries, don’t get me wrong. But when problems come he should show his woman that he isn’t afraid of facing them. He should be ready to fight for her and for the relationship, as long as she also is the right woman for him, respects him and isn’t toxic.

Thats an interesting perspective 😂 But I agree that it’s your own responsibility to be happy. But the right man will absolutely want to do things to make you even more happy 😊 A relationship is about giving to each other. You should choose a partner that adds to your life rather than brings you down.

@@faithwithmelody Its reality, not perspective. I think good is to ask old happily maried couple, which is like 2% of population. They give good advice. With what you say, its like disney movies, holywood films, which make people unhappy. Then when getting old(25y+) it will be just choice for money. Even it might sound negative or to bring someone down, its just reality.

@@rm6857 it’s only reality if you choose it. You can always choose not to settle and focus on your relationship with God. He can bring an amazing man into your life at just the right time 🥰

@@adamgd34 Very, VERY well said.

@@faithwithmelody Most women don't show up in a man's life with the intent of making his life easier. At the same time those same women demand to date men who they feel will make their lives easier in some way (by access to his resources, time, energy, emotional support, make her laugh etc etc). What you need to understand about the expectation to be treated like a "queen"-these days men understand this means you're looking for an unfair bargain in your favour. You are describing a job. What previously was held up as female empowerment/women "knowing their worth" has been exposed by the internet as completely exploitative female behaviour. Fortunately this is starting to become well known now and will hopefully force change in the future.