if ur a good looking guy and u approach her, and she really likes you. She is going to want to get out of that situation asap cuz her heart is beating fast and she has butterflies. So, when a woman is overtly uneasy around you and ur talking to her thats a bigger sign. The vast majority of women who actually likes the guy is the nervous type. The type they are mentioning about getting close is when she doesnt like you like you but wants to. Most women arent that confident.
I need help. She does ALL of these things and throws hints that she wants to do this with me or that. I ask her for a gym session and she cancels on me like wtf?!??
@@riskkillerninja4122Some people are just naturally more touchy and it can be even up to their culture where physical touch is normal and encouraged in regular social interactions. Just remember that men always overestimate interest. I'm a woman and I'm now super cautious not to touch a male friend or keep space in between because i don't want it to be seen as flirting. It gives me anxiety to the point that i avoid face to face interactions with men.
If a woman is just being friendly but not realizing that she's putting out big flirt vibes, she's an idiot or she's toxic. Call her out on it by straight up asking her of she wants to get together some time. If she says no, say 'OK thanks' and walk.
THANK YOU! I do this too, esoecially if I am interested in them as a friend. I am an affectionate person and I hpnestly believe humans are touch deprived reserving it only to their intimate partner.
@@BloodyHeck the good women are inside of you. You learn to appreciate them for what and who they are. It sucks dude, but you're the problem, I had to learn that too and it took more than women or other men telling me.
@@BloodyHeck when you learn to accept the things you can't change, you begin to appreciate the beauty cultivating itself for itself and asking nothing beyond itself it's life
Being naturally affectionate, I do all these things when I am just being friendly, provided I like the person as a human being. This may sound strange but replace 'you' with like a dog - if tou want to interact with a dog you will pay it attention look at it, you may tease it a bit, you may ask it questions like 'whose a good boy', you definately want to touch it too and give it belly rubs and ear scratches. I think our culture is so touch and affection deprived that we interpret any affection as romantic in nature, and may even confuse 'attraction' with 'romantic attraction'. If I like someone as a person, I will feel an 'attraction' towards them, it's just not romantic in sexual in nature, it just means I enjoy being around them and feel happy to see them.
That is bc she like that, she may be happy with herself and it is not about you. She doesnt feel anything about u. That happened to me some time ago, I am friendly and I like to laugh a lot, sometimes I am touchy but I am not in love with the person who tell jokes
yeah but if you become too focused on yourself, ignoring the social skills necessary to get a relationship with a woman, you'll still be single. unless you're not open for a relationship of course.
Not worth the R.O.I, just keep it as the 11th man theory and even then just say hell no in the modern offended mentality. Just read, workout and keep on your purpose, relationships ain't the be all and end all of everything. Life is short, enjoy the hell out of it and make memories, be self sufficient and don't let another in that will inevitably make it where you lose some or a lot of your independence.
Except when you deal with a female narcissist/sociopath/bpd and she does ALL of the signs only to reject you when you make a move and tell you she didn't give you any sign whatsoever.. It's all a power play for them.. it's a game where she keeps you chasing as long as she can only to reject you COLD.
It’s hard to tell. But touching is a good sign, but mostly people just want to be genuinely friendly, sometimes all they want is a friend, the only way u know is that she “touch “ in a flirty way .
This is kinda funny because back in HS this year I made friends with a girl who instantly was very touchy, always grabbing my wrist or hand to lead or drag me, she was physically pushy always telling me to come here with her, I swear she once physically grabbed over my midriff to move me. Keep in mind I’m not a touchy person and wouldn’t even touch my friend friends like that. I wasn’t thinking much of dating, but it was funny as shortly later on after making friends with her then she also said the whole “btw I have a boyfriend so don’t try to date me” and she wasn’t lying either because I did she that she had a BF. I found it funny because of how touchy she was in ways I wouldn’t ever be touchy with a woman even if we are friends, cuz that would be awaked and catch me a case.
@@anotherrandomguy8871 u have a point. It’s better to go ask them straight or maybe ask a friend that knows the person very well . If u want clear answers
An older woman at my job was playfully teasing me about taking my table…next day she sees me and says YOU’RE BACK!” And I said “I am…and you’re back too” and she laughed. I said where’s my table and she said she stole it and won’t give it back. I told her in a joking way that she’s done. Later on she was walking past me and made eye contact with me the whole time as she walked past. Is she flirting?
If I’m attracted to a guy I freeze them out and pretend they just don’t exist.. the feeling will eventually go away then I can just keep it moving in life 👍🏻#foreversingle
Depends because if you have had trauma . You have no eye contact. It can be uncomfortable and give anxiety. I purposefully dont look at people i like, i have so much anxiety about it. dont touch because you want to respect their space because you would want the same. Sometimes, laugh because of nervousness. This is for people who would take laughing as flurting. Sometimes, people are just nervous or dont know what to say. Though i am sure someone will say in a reply, " Well, if they have trauma, we dont want them anyways." Or something like that. I am just posting this for informational purposes anyways just in case.
Pay attention how your girlfriend or wife acts around other dudes. She’ll flirt with other guys if she has no respect for you. Oh wait they all do that 😮😂
I had all the signs so i just straight up asked if she was being friendly or flirting and she said thats just how she is. Also not from the US so customs may be different but so confused. Later we went to dinner with some of her friends and it seems like they were all hinting that she did like me but why wouldnt she just say that before then? Maybe im just too direct 😂😅
I don't do nothing of this. Instead, I do little favors,i listen, cheer up if nessesery, support, and respect, things like that. Aaaan if i like someone, they have my time, and my care.
See I feel like a lot of this can be misinterpreted because I am very, very clearly just friends with this girl and just today she was holding my hand and drawing on my arm that doesn’t mean we’re being intimate. We’re just being friendly.
I have never given a fuck about these signs. Women have been direct with me. They first become friends and then say something that makes it bloody obvious.
I destroyed when I found out all the girls I had talked to just thought I was gay.. Apparently I give off "gay energy" and I "just don't know I'm gay yet" started questioning my sexuality over it and really ate at me...
It is very cynical and game theoretic. It is good reading to be on the safe side, but it assumes every woman is basically a narcissistic psychopath. You'll be well prepared, but you need to keep an open mind for also meeting an actually nice woman that is open to you treating her well, and not engaging it as a game to beat. The best advice is to truly get to know the woman first, and whether she is a keeper.
Yeah the red pill has this all or nothing mindset that every woman is crazy and is out to take advantage of you, they think every woman is the same way…obviously that’s not true, any amount of life experience tells you that. Yes there’s a lot of damaged goods out there, but there are definitely good girls out there too. It’s like a 70/30 split, maybe 80/20.
