So many people have responded to 'LET THEM' that I wanted to add in some encouragement to help long the way. Donna Ashworth - 'I Wish I Knew'. www.google.co.uk/search?q=don...
You helped me in a very bad phase of my life.. may god help you and give you happiness. Thanks from bottom of my heart. Keep helping others I have found that to give me real happiness.. Thanks
Just told myself, a few hours ago, all my faults, and that i think that i must be this and that, feeling down about just not able to get it right. And then you came up in suggested videos. Thank you.
Dee, it is as if you are re-Mothering us, who had neglectful or uncaring parents.😁🙌🥰💕. Thank you for sharing your amazing soul with us. This world really needs your calm and sweet voice. ❤️. We need you. Have a sparkling day. ✨
"Shine bright little fighter, this dark world needs your glow". This made me cry, I'm battling, depression and anxiety and adding to these is the process of trying to heal from being discarded by my ex. Life lately felt I'm in the dark and no hope to see the light, and this reminded me that I can be that light. 😢
You can. I hope that you have friends/family around who can support you and encourage you. Maybe you could buy one of those battery 'candles' to remind you. Please do join us on our video walks - they are relaxing and allow you to escape for a little while. It would be lovely to have you join us. Take care. D
Thank you Dee. It is only now in my very late 40s that I am honouring my inner child and the little things that delight her. I feel like I have rediscovered a precious part of myself.❤
I discovered a trick....when I'm anxious, I take her on my knee and hold her. I tell her everything will be OK and I will look after her. It always helps ❤
Same.... for so many years i stopped myself from enjoying certain things because older kids would think they were childish and i didnt want to look a certain way to whoever.
@xshady313x I think I understand what you said, but I wanted to confirm, your spouse left out of nowhere? As if the relationship meant nothing at all to them? If so, it's exactly what I'm going through now, my heart is broken because it was nothing to him, its like he was just throwing out the trash. My heart hurts for you, I wouldn't wish this on anyone.
What a beautiful deep breath of fresh fragrant air! I just found you today, thank you so much for expressing your kind open heart online, you are a welcome balance in our world. This has lifted my day. 🥰
I found your channel last week and I’ve been watching your videos everyday now especially when I’m having a hard moment. Your videos make me very emotional and cry but it helps me so much more than I thought it would. Your videos give me strength and a open mind and I thank you for that
I could listen to you read poems for hours. Dee, you have given me strength in my day to day life for a while now, and I couldn't thank you enough. Thank you from the bottom of my heart for all of this self loving content.
Hello, Ms. Dee. I'm 23 years old and I'm going to graduate soon, however these weeks have been very hard for me, thanks to the RU-vid algorithm I was able to find you when I needed a friend to comfort me, your words are like a summer breeze, I really want to thank you for opening your channel. I watch your videos from Mexico, so you know that your words are reaching all parts of the world💖
What a way to start a Friday - a lovely cup of coffee with Dee. I feel soothed. And whole. And I am wearing a blue floofy dressing gown.. but more importantly, wearing a smile. Thank you Dee. Have a beautiful day.
Dee-you’re really something special! I recently experienced the end of a deep friendship where the person unexpectedly decided to leave. Your video has helped me on my journey to heal from that situation. Thank you for that. Sending love from Oregon! ❤
I really needed this. I had a fight with the person I tought it was my best friend. After she talked bad about me behind my back (and also did horrible things to my friends) I decided to erase her from my life. It's been 3 years and sometimes I miss her, but this video changed my mind completely. She is not going to change, ever. So why I should wait for that? I should prioritize myself and just that. Thanks precious lady, you are an angel
I am 17 years old and am experiencing my first heartbreak. We were together for two years and he let me know yesterday that he didn’t love me anymore. I am still in love with him and I feel immense pain and sadness, I feel like I can’t talk to anyone because I’m so embarrassed of how I was so naive to love someone who didn’t love me. Thank you for this video and your last one as well.
You have experienced the hardship of lost love. It is painful and it WILL get better. Your pain is a life lesson and test of your strength. We humans are resilient and can move on. I’m not diminishing your pain and loss. My experience as I am in my 70’s, is that “You’ve got this” and you will learn from it. . Don’t regret this experience, learn from it and keep on blossoming. I read my journal from my first “love” and smile as I realize how I have moved on and how much more there is to discover…good 😚, great😍 and the not so great.🥺 😊 Bless you and have faith in yourself! 😎🙋♀️
@@favouritemusic8959I love him . begged cried chased asked him for a chance he straightly denied. I had woven dreams of getting married to him. We were close to it but he left. Now he on occasions calls as a friend and enquires me about my marriage . knowing that he is already talking to another girl it hurts and I still have a hope in some corner of my heart. Cant explain what I m going through 😢
I was named after my grandmother (mom’s mom) and she was beautiful courageous wise woman. She passed away right before I was born. This feels like something I would hear from her. Thank you dearly❤
I just discovered your channel. I’m 24 and currently dealing with the end of a relationship and a lot of uncertainties and failure in my life projects. You seem a sweet, beautiful soul just like my nonna. A hug from Italy
I'm caring for my grandson and his girlfriend atm, and we have a saying "Strong, not wrong". We are focusing on their strengths , not what they have been told is "wrong' with them. ( ps..my grandson is recovering from a mental breakdown ..his parents love him dearly, but the people in the town they live in have had a major impact on his life. He's healing here by the ocean and his working parents spend every weekend here with him). When you focus on someones strengths, empower them, shine a light on what is good within, they bloom. Thank you for sharing xx
So true! We believe what we are told about ourselves .. sometimes we are the hardest on ourselves. Just remember you can always change that voice in your head.
Thank you. Such a wonderful little gift when you pop up. Hearing you're voice with such brightness makes me think of my grandma. I was extremely close with her and my grandaddy and they were married over 70 years when they transcended. But I speak to both of them often when out in the backyard. Then the cardinals show up and I observe them having some early breakfast and will share their food with one another so it looks like they are giving each other a kiss. One thing that I am sure of is that they are right here with me because I can feel their loving energy. Sorry for rambling on. Much love and many blessings to you. ❤️🕊❤️
Your videos always leave me feeling so much better and lighter, as if all the heavy, harsh feelings and thoughts I have going on in my head slowly fade away. Like thunderclouds gradually uncovering the blue skies. I am grateful for you and the wonderful content you create ♥️ You speak so passionately and gracefully. Thank you Dee! Sending love from Poland xx
You have no idea how much I've needed someone like you to show up in my life. In a world where everything seems so hopeless, you have given me a new perspective of life, a new perspective of me. Your decision to share your thoughts, to share your memories, to share your metaphors was the best thing I could have hoped for, they have left such a beautiful mark on my soul. Simple, yet so remarkable. Thank you, for reminding me, who I am, who I was, and who I CAN/WILL be. Y(OUR) light will always shine from the people you have inspired. Stay well and blessed!
This entire series of both of these ' let them' was very beautiful.This is indeed a best wake up call to this utter reality! . I am so glad to have found this channel! Please never stop this gracious beautiful work.Many many thanks to you !
oh grandma Dee...why is it so hard to learn how to love and respect myself, when I was born from a toxic family that always makes me believe that I'm the problem...I really need to gain my inner strength together 😢
You always choose the prettiest poems to read, and also you have such a talent in telling them, your voice is so calm. Thank you for these videos, they are very peaceful, and you had appeared in my feed during a time i was needing, and read a poem that really spoke to me. Also, the background with the windmill is so beautiful, i don't know the right word to describe the comfort this video bring. God bless you 💝💝
I find it extremely heartwarming to see you like recent comments from hours ago despite posting this two weeks ago. Your "let them" video appeared on my for-you page literally the exact moment i need it. My partner of one year broke up with me a couple days ago, and I dont feel like myself since. I can't believe i begged them to come back, i cant believe i put down my self-respect, my ego, my dignity, and took all the blame to beg someone who immediately got with another girl the day after we broke up. Who broke up with me to "work on himself" despite me telling him if he truly loved me, he would be willing to work on himself beside me. Your takes made me realize that there really is no use ruminating over a past we cant change, over the damage that already has been done. I've been trying my best to get over the fact that we're never speaking again, and letting him go. To try and get over the fact that I still love him despite him absolutely destroying me and this first relationship I've been in, while he's been in 14. Thank you, Dee, for inspiring individuals of all ages, genders, and ethnicities with your wise comments in life.
@@USAneedsGOD Amen!! God put him in my life for me to realize how love should be like. The "right person" will never leave you to "improve themselves", they wont leave you in the first place !!
Love defies the bounds of what we know to be "right". Do not worry much over your self-respect, ego, dignity, etc. because all (or most) true lovers do not let go of their love easily. "Everything I've ever let go of has claw marks on it." you fight for what you want, thats a good thing. Right now the thought of never speaking again is daunting but one day the thought of having to talk to him at all would be a bother because you'd have grown so far from that place! The growth happens naturally, but slowly, give yourself grace. Now is the time to direct that energy towards yourself...and if that energy is too intense, direct it towards an art or an outlet of your choice! The power is yours! In the meantime, have some fun!
I can’t believe this popped up on my RU-vid again! I found your previous video by accident and it ended up having a big impact on me. I was talking with my boyfriend and I was worried that something wasn’t going to work out between us. So I was up front with him that this thing he wanted wasn’t something I was going to provide and in my head all I heard was “Let him” if he decided that our relationship wasn’t going to be enough for him. In the end, we decided to stay together and we have been stronger ever since. You should never hide something in fear that someone might leave you, if you think they can’t accept you and will leave, let them. Just remember to always accept yourself, you are enough.
My dear lady, just a short time ago before I lay myself down to sleep, I came across your video about letting go. How beautiful, so is this video and your others. I am a new subscriber from across the pond, living not far from the Kingdom of the Mouse in the Orlando, Florida area, AKA, Walt Disney World. You dear lady, are a bright light in a world that seems many want to strike the lights of people and not only allow them to live and be in darkness, but demand that they do. I thought that we as humans, had largely put that way of being behind us. Keep your kind and gentle light shinning.
Thank you so much for your kind words. So many people are struggling - on so many levels. This human is endeavouring to help - just a little bit. I have fond memories if my visit to Florida many years ago- and of being bitten aall over by the mossies in the everglades despite being lathered in repellant and not showing much skin! Take care. D
Dear Dee, I have only just found you on RU-vid in the past few days, and find you immensely comforting and of course, wise. My mum died two years ago and I find myself crying every time I listen to you, like she is here with me, through you. Thank you xx
I don’t know what twist of the universe put your videos in my path but it’s been a very, very long time since something has hit me so forcefully as the simple messages you’ve shared have. I had to pause and consider the idea of simply believing I am good because I am, and other people will see it. Just the idea of trusting that instead of constantly striving to earn it or prove it. It feels very foreign but revelatory. Thank you for sharing your wisdom!
Thank you for doing this ❤ I’ve been feeling really alone and tired of the circumstances and health I’m in that I can’t control and I’ve been letting it exhaust me mentally. And that I’ve lost the glow I once had.
I have adopted you as my "Internet Grammie" and I'm grateful for you blessing me now with what my Spirit missed and longed for. I prayed 🙏🏽 for this and God sent you. Thank you ❤
"This dark world needs your glow" - that brought tears to my eyes. The colorful wind thingy, I promised myself to buy one if I run into it someday 😊 I'm 34 but loved those as a kid and don't have children myself so was going to put it on my balcony once I get my hands on one, haha. Thank you for sharing these two lovely poems. I watched your video on "Let Them", after recently coming out of a long term relationship. I'm not sure if I commented there too but if not then I'd like to thank you for that as well. I wrote it down in my journal and read it a couple of times since. I'm doing much better now, realised it's all for the best and that I deserve better in my life. I'm working on getting my light to shine again. It's a dim flame as of now but with some care I'll get it shining again. Lots of love and best wishes to you from the Netherlands ❤
I feel like I'm maturing as a person everytime I listen to you. Thank you so much. Please never stop sharing your wisdom, experiences and life lessons. ❤
This video and the previous one came at the perfect time. I recently broke up with my girlfriend of 2 years and even through that's a relatively short time I loved her so much and the last 2 years were the best of my life. I know I have a long journey ahead of me but seeing your video has given me a lot of hope that I WILL get through this and that time will heal all. Thank you from the bottom of my heart ♥
2yrs is a significant amount of time though, I married my husband 2yrs into our relationship and we had a baby so you have every right to feel the way you do.
“Shine bright little fighter…this dark world needs your glow” ✨ This I dedicate to my beautiful, brave son, he’s 27 with severe Cerebral Palsy. They said he wouldn’t live a week when he was born. His name is Emilio and his smile shines brighter than all the stars in the sky. 🤍💫 Thank you Dee, another thought provoking video of wisdom and hope.
Thank you Dee so much for doing these videos for us, for being here on RU-vid, for your gentle and loving words, it brings me calm. Your light is shining bright! ✨
The view of your sunny garden cottage garden with such beautiful nuisances added sparked immediate joy in my heart. The thoughtful poetry just topped it off. Such a precious video! if i could I would like a thousand times. 🙏❤🌱🌳🌺 this video makes us THRIVE 😊 Its winter here in Melbourne Australia but collecting ideas for my garden in spring. Thank you.
You are such a lovely lady and your voice is so calming. Your garden is beautiful too as you are. Thank you so much for your kind words that you put out there for everyone. I'm so blessed to have come across your channel. God bless you. ❤❤
I'm so happy to have found you 😭😭😭😭 What you say and how you say, is almost like a therapy session to me. So healing, so soothing. Thank you for being your true self. Bless the internet. Bless you 💖
Thank you so much I did watch the first part and cried and now this one gave me such a hope, granted me a second breath. I’m truly thankful for this wisdom you’ve shared. You can’t imagine how much you helped
Love your voice of liquid silk! Soothing my mind and heart. Thanking the Lord I found you, Dee, and I truly appreciate you. I need your lovely videos of comfort & inspiration at this point in my life. I'm also sharing them with my sisterhood of family and friends. God bless you. 🐦🎶🦋🌷🌞🩷
