Whether being “people pleasing” has been a part of your personality or you just don't want to disappoint others; after you have been betrayed, after your world has been flipped upside down, you may still feel a pull to be everything to everyone. To serve. To be there in all the ways. However, this journey is arduous, challenging, fraught with highs and lows, and like or not, to be successful, you will have to disappoint people along the way as you focus on yourself and your healing. It is also temporary.
It is ok to disappoint others, asking for grace, and hopefully receiving it in spades from people committed to being there for you however YOU NEED in this healing journey.
In this blog I wanted to share a story of how my “people pleasing” tendency came into the picture during my recovery and how I felt about it, how I navigated it, and ultimately where I went with it.
So if this is you, if this is something that you know to be true for yourself, that you struggle with; the idea of letting people down, I just want to encourage you to keep practicing. I hope this blog gives you insight, encourage, and some practical methods around disappointing others, as its OK!
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4 мар 2024
