FOREIGNER’S LIFE Ruined By A FILIPINA | He Wanted To Play She Wanted More

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@PassportBrosBusinessClass 2 года назад

It's best to be open and honest with women. If you're only staying a week or two, make sure the women know that so they won't grow an attachment. If you're looking for a long-term relationship and possible marriage, let them know that up front. It's best not to play with women's emotions or to raise their expectations. They are extremely vulnerable and desperate in some cases. Cheating on your wife and family at home is really really low. A scorned Filipina will get into your social media and notify your family you're a cheater.

@TheBlackFilipino 2 года назад

It was low he asked for it somewhat

@crissesaldo470 2 года назад

That's what they do most of the expat 🤔🙄

@setha360 2 года назад

Great advice when I was single I had 3 girls I was seeing, word got out and drama, then I decided to be honest and tell them hey im single and dating and im seeing others, they got mad then they cam back for sex, they knew about my path, my way or highway.

@oahuguy3918 2 года назад

It wasn't the Filipina that ruined his life, being already married, he did it to himself and deserves what he got.

@realsteel8113 2 года назад

Exactly what I was about to say

@mowtivatedmechanic1172 2 года назад

Exactly. If you’re a husband be a husband. Honor that commitment.

@vicunaleather6992 2 года назад

Lying about abuse is not okay even though he cheated. Sound like he told her a little too much about his life.

@shakurshakur7858 2 года назад

harsh as you may sound but it's real talk ..

@keinlieb3818 2 года назад

She didn't ruin the dude's life, the dude ruined his own life. Maybe he shouldn't have been f****g around on his wife.

@TheBlackFilipino 2 года назад

He sure did ruin his own life

@J.Shabazz 2 года назад

That's wicked!!!!! If you gonna play, play all the way, Passport locked, Different name!!!!

@TheBlackFilipino 2 года назад

Yea it’s wild sometimes

@olumidekolajo4133 2 года назад

He got in too deep . This is why the one day rule should always apply especially if you are there for pleasure and not commitment . They start getting attached then they start feeling entitled that’s when the problems can start . If you are going to play play smart .

@craigsphilippines466 2 года назад

When you come to the Philippines to play you should do what most guys do, go to the girl bars enjoy the company of a girl from there, they will give you a girlfriend experience they will give you the best time and then no questions asked. Now if you are looking for a serious relationship you dont go near those places , you go to the markets the malls, plenty of places to find a normal girl, but what I learned is, if you want a serious relationship with a Filipina and for it to work and be true love you need to understand her and her culture, this means you need to spend a lot of time with her, with me I moved to the Philippines to live and now 9 years and 6 years with the one girl , life couldnt be better, but I only found the right one because I learned a lot from dating many girls so when I met my wife i knew she was the one.

@climber222 2 года назад

Right on, Very wise advice mate. Can you please tell me if I can get to the Philippines without vaccination? I'm keen to surf there. Cheers, Ben Mid north coast

@chrishansen2100 2 года назад

@@climber222 U need to be fully vaccinated.

@marvinphillips1326 2 года назад

If a Filipina looks too good to be true, it probably is (a Lady Boy). If you pick up a girl in a bar best do what Crocodile Dundee would do.

@yoyojoe9240 2 года назад

The guy was'nt a "Player"..! A "Player" knows "the rules", knows the boundaries.

@cs77smith67 2 года назад

Hell yeah you already know. That guy trying to be a player and ended up getting play ▶️ like a video game 📸 🎮

@rjnamron1 2 года назад

Damn Jay! You went deep, but you're telling the truth. Great information as usual 👍

@lathamallika1482 2 года назад

well done brilliant advice never let THE SMALL HEAD CONTROL THE BIG HEAD ,i lived in Asia for 8 years and understand fully what you are saying ,

@MrSteelepalm 2 года назад

ID theft, passwords, card #s, keep it locked up

@Will-Thaeta 2 года назад

See this is why you just be honest from the jump, if you just wanna play let it be spoken about so that there's no surprises later. However if 1 person catches feelings then you both handle it like adults

@MrHeart1 2 года назад

He brought that on himself and I feel no sorrow for him. Dave Chappelle had a character in one of his skits from his show in which he stated something profound, he said "trick a&& marks" and "mark a&& tricks". This guy made himself a "trick a&& mark" by being married like that and getting embroiled with a gangster chick like that. If he could not see how grimey she was from jump he definitely deserved the fall and he darn for sure should not have given ANY personal info like that to a street girl, I don't care how well he treated her. He might as well have given her his bank account info and stated: "Okay, you are free to rob me blind now". Damn man......

@Pilipinasenvrac 2 года назад

I like when you said THEY ARE ACTIVATED 😂

@ezesagus6177 2 года назад

To lose everything for a fling is stupid. Just go buy an escort if you must do it; They understand what their role is...So I’ve heard!

@terrellwiley4249 2 года назад

SHE WAS THE ESCORT.

@richieredw9218 2 года назад

There was an incident with a man from the Dominican Republic who was sent by his Govt to learn Harbour administration in Ph. One night he met a Filipina at a night spot and according to him she agreed to go with him to his hotel room in Makati. After a night of fun and games, he woke up the next morning to a loud knocking on the door and the girl was nowhere to be seen. When he opened the door the Police arrested him saying that the girl complained he raped her???? At the station he said it wasn't rape she consented to it., there was even the film footage of them kissing in the elevator. Apparently the girl was trying to get money from the guy, turns out the guy had diplomatic immunity and he had to be released from jail, but he was granted person non grata and had to leave Ph. The Filipina didn't get any payout as she had hoped. It goes to show that the threat is real and shouldn't be taken lightly, don't let your d...ck do the thinking for you.🤔

@TheBlackFilipino 2 года назад

That’s exactly what I was talking about. That usually happens to high status guys

@jlawrence0181 2 года назад

Complete lack of responsibility. SHE did NOT ruin his life. HE ruined his OWN life.

@beno6198 2 года назад

Great info My G!! I’ll keep that in mind

@timhnc75 2 года назад

Crazy don't ever give a woman access to your phone lock that shit down!

@coreyhickmanch 2 года назад

I appreciate your honesty this happens everywhere stay safe be cautious my friend.

@ericburd 2 года назад

20 yrs ago it would have been untraceable...but with the internet, its almost impossible

@muhjm1946 2 года назад

While a guy is sleeping she will go through his things and find everything she wants to know. About money, where it’s coming from and how much. If she has enough time she will find out the PIN numbers of his cards. They are very good and cable of doing a lot things. Many of know how to get your money and maybe your life if a person is not careful. Now there are a lot of good Filipino women. Don’t get me wrong, that are wonderful women that would be right by you. But guys have to remember they’re not stupid, they have witness a lot. If a guy play games with them he maybe in a lot trouble. Don’t think because many of them are beautiful and appears to be simple. Filipina’s talks, they share information to one another. They will find away to get back at you if they are miss treated. And there are a lot of Filipina’s will tell them what to do and show them. Remember this is their country.

@TheBlackFilipino 2 года назад

It’s a sad reality

@muhjm1946 2 года назад

Yes it is, but it doesn’t have to be that way. If a guy takes it seriously what you have said. The Filipina’s are looking for a long team relationship. Even those that are scammers. They were not born scamming, they learn how. By coming in contact with the wrong people. If a guy takes your advice seriously he will be happy hopefully with the right one.

@Calyboy59 2 года назад

His mistake was, if you’re going to play like that higher a true professional. That way at the end of the day you walk away (business)

@Will-Thaeta 2 года назад

Congratulations 🎊 40K

@PassportBrosBusinessClass 2 года назад

You are 100% RIGHT J. I would NEVER even consider a bar girl - from anywhere - ever. I'm glad these messages are getting out to warn young expats about these chicks "for the streets". There's an old saying: "You can't turn a ho into a housewife". I'd also like to say, I'd rather not meet women in clubs EITHER. For some reason men think meeting women in clubs is any different than meeting them on the street or in a club. Better to meet them in schools, offices or in their career so you know they have substance.

@TheBlackFilipino 2 года назад

Yes I know a lot of guys even older get over here and think they are invincible

@Dapper_Dean 2 года назад

there are oxygen bars, juice bars, etc. Not all bar girls are trifling. 😂 Just kidding bro.😉

@marksjourneytothephilippin9574 2 года назад

Just be honest upfront. If you want casual fun l, just be upfront and let her know. Maybe she’s ok with that maybe not. A lot of Filipinas want a serious relationship don’t lie to them just to get laid.

@beno6198 2 года назад

I’m coming there to retire and to never step foot in the US again. Peace america it’s been really real

@jamar1923 2 года назад

Man you have a nice camera your video is on point its visually great .

@TheBlackFilipino 2 года назад

thanks

@kiana3118 2 года назад

This is good information, thank you. -a Filipina who was raised in California, USA

@cs77smith67 2 года назад

I see you must really love California to be here that long hehe

@kiana3118 2 года назад

@@cs77smith67 haha! Had no choice. I would like to visit sometime. Awesome channel. I'm learning a lot from this channel in reference to the Filipinas out there. I didn't know they are like that.. my sisters and I were taught love and devotion as well as independence. Highest good.

@cs77smith67 2 года назад

@@kiana3118 Oh wait, so you a Filipina woman that never visit the Philippines 🇵🇭 yet? Also check ✅ out my channel even know I don't have much like this guy 😂

@mrcoldshower2823 2 года назад

Old Navy saying "don't think with your dick" I spent a 6 month deployment in the PI, 82/83 dry season.

@crissesaldo470 2 года назад

Expat lot to choose but they take it for granted, and when they get the wrong one, they will complained, Filipina that they're scammer, but it's your fault not contented with one women, just saying....

@Dutchy-1168 2 года назад

Great advice !

@HobbsBhipp 2 года назад

Great intel, thanks. I just subbed.

@TheBlackFilipino 2 года назад

Thanks for subscribing

@Thiago_TT_MIA 2 года назад

Moral of the story is… Don’t shit where you eat

@bobkelley8291 2 года назад

It can happen to anyone especially to lonely men That had a hard time getting a date back in their country. I have seen ugly men come to the Philippines and dated a nice looking lady. He thought he was in heaven plus good looking. She told him every thing he wanted to hear for his ego. From a shy guy to an extrovert. I could tell you some of my experiences but not a good idea as I am married to very Filipina here in my home. Good idea warning others to treed lightly. First time I saw your channel.

@TheBlackFilipino 2 года назад

Thanks 🙏 for watching

@maclovioberumen1917 2 года назад

Yea I understand. In my experience, lots of Filipinas like to play games. And I'm not for that. But If you just want to go there just to be a player then it's all good.

@timsretirementjourney8323 2 года назад

The guys was stupid, but the woman was stupid too because did she think the guy would choose her as his new life partner after what she did? Not a chance with all the others he could choose from over there.

@DJunderground73 2 года назад

Big 40 congratulations fam.

@artgrusensky121 2 года назад

if you do others dirty you pay the consequences. Be honest

@derek_the_great7455 2 года назад

Thank u for the info

@lucynuzzello7154 2 года назад

You have a wonderful wife but you have guts talking about this ,while in the Philippines. I've watched many channels and some guys think they know it all but they're not prepared for a hungry Philippina. God has blessed you as a decent man who has a great wife . I've watched you guys for years and your always warning these guys 😇🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂

@JohnMiller123 2 года назад

Thank you, Brother. Are any of your relatives from the PH?

@joehouston2833 2 года назад

13:54 Damn.. Thats a Cold Filipina

@d.7819 2 года назад

Good video. Thanks for the information. Best to be good once in the Philippines. He should of did things a different way. He learned a lesson. This is the consequences of his playful actions. He will be okay. Time heals all wounds. Life goes on. Just wishing this guy the best. Good content.

@TheBlackFilipino 2 года назад

Guys can still do what they want just be careful

@d.7819 2 года назад

Yup. If you can't be good Be careful.

@d.7819 2 года назад

Think with your big head and not with your little head....lol....my dad use to say that to me...good video and content. Thank you so much for posting this. Have a good day.

@cbttrainee5961 2 года назад

Good look'n out!

@PassportBrosBusinessClass 2 года назад

My Filipina got HOOKED on me. Talk about showing her the time of her life: #1 I gave her a laptop as a birthday present. #2 I bought her a new Samsung phone to replace her cheap Cherry Mobile. #3 I took her on her first vacation outside the country -to Thailand. #4 I showed her a REALLY GOOD TIME. She'd never had it that good in her life. Then COVID came and made it so we were separate. She moved on. I moved on...but she's still in my DM's.

@TheBlackFilipino 2 года назад

That’s commitment that’s what all of them want

@TheBlackFilipino 2 года назад

That’s crazy that she moved on like that

@PassportBrosBusinessClass 2 года назад

@@TheBlackFilipino Well there's more to the story.

@GUITARTIME2024 2 года назад

You made every mistake, money bags. You led with your wallet.

@robbyrose6904 2 года назад

@@GUITARTIME2024 Truth different numerators but all have the common denominator . Money

@KevinP32270 2 года назад

thanks for sharing the knowledge for us guys who are not into playing these games. godspeed.

@MrJrweir 2 года назад

Social Media will kill, as Gump said, "Stupid is as Stupid was"....play the game you're going to get burned on social media. As you said, this can happen in the East, West, North or South. I do think the subliminal message you've sent is a simple one, be careful when you come here to the Philippines with the things you do and the games you might want to play.....good video.

@timothysmcnamara5925 2 года назад

TBH, I don't have much sympathy for this guy. Go there to play is ok, but lying to the wife, lying to the girl...these guys basically deserve this kind of outcome.

@alanbennett6534 2 года назад

If she goes missing , just know she bought it upon herself not everyone going to let that slide

@tonyanderson4400 2 года назад

The woman in the story was “Poison” You can’t trust a big butt and smile..lol😉

@jerryhall5759 Год назад

Based on my experience; when a Filipina is into you, she will give you her heart and totally commit, but they are patient and will do total recon on you. To make sure you're for real; if you slip up and break their heart, they will come at you with a vengeance.... if you're not going to be straight up with them; don't get involved with any of them, they take relationships seriously 💯

@OSS1956 2 года назад

She knew way too much about him. The reason why you can have multiple FB accounts, and use of VPNs. She thinks I live in California, I live in Toronto

@josephrelaford6826 2 года назад

He should have gave her a fake name. She knew the game....dont hate the player...hate the game

@HBP2 2 года назад

Do nothing in the dark that you would not do in the light .

@TheBlackFilipino 2 года назад

Exactly

@jogriffin9347 2 года назад

Money will ruin us !! Yup seen it with my friends

@artgrusensky121 2 года назад

bro we all were not born yesterday. We are keeping our eyes open!

@genicksforce3000 2 года назад

Damn, good information. Would've never thought of this

@TheBlackFilipino 2 года назад

Thanks for watching

@antoniocotton5597 2 года назад

He told her too much of his private business he should have just ghosted

@otishuff7475 2 года назад

Jay you should do a video on experiences that you know of from people you know there of single mothers interactions with foreigners

@globalismoblackman 2 года назад

Run avoid trouble with single mother in my opinion. I know what I am talking about regarding Single mom's gf in the Philippines Lol 😆

@sn0wolf 2 года назад

Cheaters pay the price and it’s his fault for lying, not the Filipinas fault.

@darkage5 2 года назад

Get it right. He ruined his OWN life! It wasn't something he should have been doing in the first place.

@michaelsturtevant1936 2 года назад

He shouldnt be cheating in his wife thats his fault

@MRCPromotion 2 года назад

Peace Jay n Kay the Puma shirt is fresh

@dbrivers464 2 года назад

He ruined himself. Period.

@donaldmacdonald4901 2 года назад

It’s easy to play here but you can easily get yourself a lot of trouble. This guy was naive to say the least.

@lashawnrobinson617 2 года назад

Good story, it happened to me. She hacked.my phone and stole all my information. But couldn't destroy me cause I don't have a family and so she destroyed my friends families.

@beno6198 2 года назад

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 “MOOMMM, Mommmiee!! 🤣🤣🤣

@TheBlackFilipino 2 года назад

Lol

@cali3684 2 года назад

Players get what they deserve

@pbchief2 2 года назад

He forgot to ask if she's down for OPP.

@boogiebackues8232 2 года назад

It just goes to show, if you play You pay.

@Airbornejumper69 2 года назад

Hey Jay when you and Kay lived in Manila did you ever go to the restaurant RUE Fort Bonifacio if not when you go back check it out it’s owned by my nephew

@TheBlackFilipino 2 года назад

In Pasig right I would see it all the time on the way to or from the mall

@Airbornejumper69 2 года назад

Yes that’s one of 6 locations

@davidlampkin1121 2 года назад

Yeah some of those girls are gangster when you get a Filipina mad at you and she's mean you better look out. Like you said they'll wait and be patient one of them was patient with me all the way into the ninth year year number 10 community property my house would be and she would have had 150,000. But I got rid of her before the 10th year.

@TheBlackFilipino 2 года назад

Wow lucky 🍀 break

@davidlampkin1121 2 года назад

@@TheBlackFilipino you must study the laws in every place that you go.

@greenraider44 2 года назад

Moral of the lesson if you got a good one and good life, just pay the bar fine, or better yet if it’s so bad you need to look for play elsewhere, honesty is best policy and just separate

@Abelius 2 года назад

You either pay to play, directly, and calling it like it is, or you play nice with a nice girl that could be girlfriend/wife material. Trying to get the girlfriend experience from a hooker is just absurd and a huge mistake.

@rustycutts8665 2 года назад

That man was a fool

@TG-gk6fv 2 года назад

Gentlemen please be wise. Tell all the Filipina women that you meet, you're not rich. Tell them your stiuation and be honest with them what your true intentions are. This is such an educational video.

@benmat8931 2 года назад

I think you are telling my story .everything you talk here happend to me .

@xavierwarren9799 2 года назад

All these facts, didn't hear that story though, can't go out like that, I stay on guard.

@whengwen6336 2 года назад

hahaha.... so funny story but it's real in some place... we didnt much experience those story because rare foreigners coming up here in luzon part..

@cosmicquestion9184 2 года назад

Dealing with drugs huh. In the Philippines that's a DEATH sentence. 💀

@davet9708 2 года назад

Is holes, at the end of the day, have fun chuck it.

@TUFFLOVE1985 2 года назад

Please guys think about std

@mowtivatedmechanic1172 2 года назад

Just subscribed. Please Act Right sent me over. Thank you for your insight. Also, what’s your email address? I have some questions. IE Do you do guided tours? I have more faith in a man than a female.

@byronhall2761 2 года назад

Throwing jabs and she throwing hay makers. Body Head shots. Good video and str8 facts

@johnwright9372 2 года назад

A lot of foreign guys go there and think it will be one long sex and drinking binge, but do not realise when they marry or settle there, mainstream Philippines society is very conservative. There are also a lot of Western drunken bums living there who just drink in bars all day. They don't live that long. It ain't for me.

@limelight58able 2 года назад

This is a lesson learned for guys who think just because they're so far away from home, they think they're untraceable. In addition, if those were his intentions, his game should've been more tight, ESPECIALLY if he was married. He definitely brought all his misfortune on himself. The internet remains undefeated 🤣 Great video, Jay! 👍🏿 👊🏿 EDIT: Where are the girls at in the Philippines, with backyard like the pics in the vid!? Good gracious alive!!

@TheBlackFilipino 2 года назад

They are spread out all over.

@TheBlackFilipino 2 года назад

But it’s not that common

@darkisato 2 года назад

that's why u gotta be up front and tell her yeah this wont work.. or just get a escort for a few weeks

@buztes 2 года назад

He screwed himself simple fact But alway keep pinaysunder a watchful eye

@bighoss9705 2 года назад

You can take the girl out of the bar but you can't take the bar out of the girl.

@SirBrucie 2 года назад

Anyone woman scam me to my face ill make sure they never find her remains. I do not like scammers, where im from you mess with a mans money its the dirt box.

@gregnz1 2 года назад

Sure a lot of red flags, reputation still matters, nothing is secret.

@JohnBrown-hl4cy 2 года назад

I'm planning to come to the Philippines by this summer. My intentions are to have fun and for marriage well, if I meet the one am compatible with then shall it be. But I will let whatever girl I meet let's be friends first. Thank for your video and keep up the good work. Vaya Con Dios! from John

@Dapper_Dean 2 года назад

Let her prove herself before committing right? Watch her demeaner and habits. Eventually she'll slip up, if she has shady plans. 😉

@TheBlackFilipino 2 года назад

They always do

@coug1998 2 года назад

That advice goes for anyone starting a relationship anywhere.

@wesparsons5331 Год назад

He ruined his life, she speed up the process…

@gammonbunji9292 2 года назад

never take a girl out of the bar, one night for fun only

@norbertogandara17 2 года назад

This narrative seems to leave out a possible very salient point. He must have lied to her. Her response seems inappropriate to what is said in this story. Makes no sense unless he made promises or outright lied to her. If he was up-front and truthful with her she had no reason to pay him back so badly for the wonderful time he gave her. Quid quo pro.

@TheBlackFilipino 2 года назад

She didn’t care she wanted it all. Sad but it happens