Honey u said that cause there truly is a demonic spirit on this man otherwise he would STOP lying & admit he is the reason for the dismantling of his marriage with his cheating & deceitful behavior. But zero accountability speaks volumes of his thought process
Mel never got a Nanny so why you want one Martel. Now you see how hard it was for her and she BOSSED UP AND LOOKED GREAT AND WAS STILL AWESOME MOM TOO.......AND BUSINESS WOMAN.
yes don't sugar coat it for him at all he was wrong 7 yes women do get tired and not as sexual with the spouse but if he would just be patient things would turn around raising a family & a business is very hard work
But mom also knew about the girlfriend being pregnant which has me on the fence about her as well. Mel is her daughter in-law I think she could've been more stern with her son especially since he was running to his mama with all his dirt
Agree totally..I had one Poke poke poke then why are you so angry Love yourself firstly and treat yourself well If someone doesn't treat you that way Leave
Martell's mom: Thank you for telling your son the truth. He is nothing but a wounded "boy" fixated on his appearance and who is checking him out. Grow up.
When men act up and there is so much prof on them it’s funny they yell full custody. Because they not gon get it lol especially if the mom is a boss and has a good clean reputation no he not getting full custody.
Seems like it shouldn’t be . Men wouldn’t make it past a month anyway ; sounds like mama should take a break . Full custody? Cool, here u go . Women take the brunt of burdens 99% percent of the time anyway smh somebody deserve a break
When that young woman Martell is cheating with starts satisfying another man.. His whole world is going to crush down on him. Just like my ex husband. Everything he did to me the married woman he cheated with cheated on him. Karma will be waiting for Martell. I wish no harm to him but he will be a broken man when that young woman leaves him. She will get tired and if you think for once that things will work out with her ...it wont because the relationship started within a marriage you cant make a wrong a right no matter how hard you try. Martell is fighting against his beautiful family blinded not realizing that what he's fighting for will not and cannot work. What God has joined together let no man put asunder ..Mark 10:09
Yet he still can't see he's so wrong. Had not 1, but 4 kids with her and complaining that he need help with the kids. It's hard being a single Daddy mom😏 Duh!!!
Martell is really out here doing a "Surviving Melody Holt" sympathy tour with his mother, Destiny, Marsau and Latisha. I cannot deal with him or his George Washington handkerchief collars! 😭😭😭
wow. your perspective. I hadn't thought of that. I am going to have to rewind and check out her expressions. we have a saying in the u.s.: "mama knows, child. mama knows."
Actually she said a lot about her son coming to her about his mistress in the beginning 😳 so I'm on the fence with his mama & how must she kept & knew so she may be doing that for the cameras
I maybe wrong, but everyone in Huntsville knew about the mistress, including Mel. His mom told Mel that the mistress was having a boy, so they do talk. Personally, I don't think it's her place to tell Mel everything Martell tells her. Honestly, Mel likely doesn't expect her to.His mom's job is to hold Martell accountable, which she did. And at the end of the day, he is still her son. Knowing Martell,if she were to come down too hard on him, he would withhold the grandkids. It has to be hard being in the middle. Knowing your child is in the wrong, but still trying to mother. Ultimately, Martell is the only one in this storyline who deserves the sideeye.
Agreed...there were moments I felt she was a overly sensitive or extra but her approach in this episode made me feel relieved and pleasantly surprised that she's not always in her feelings.
Martel needs an Iyanla episode just for himself 😂. He went from calling the girl a peasant to now being his best friend. He’s trying to make his wife look crazy for being upset that he cheated on her and is now having a child with the same woman. Who he once called a PEASANT. PLEASE make it make sense 🤷🏽♀️
This episode actually made me feel so sad. I hope Mel ends up finding a man that treats her right. And I hope Martell finds a woman that treats him EXACTLY like he treated Mel!
No because they have four children and Martel is going to cause hell in her life. What man with any sense want to put up with that drama? No she needs to raise her children and when they are grown then she can date. I can't understand why in the world did she allow herself to get pregnant with the last baby knowing her marriage was not solid?. I don't care how controling a man can be we as women control if a baby is going to get made.
Mel should continue loving herself, receive therapy & take time to herself. Long as she finds happiness within, she will eventually attract the right partner.
I’m so glad Martel’s mom told him about himself 😂😂. Alot of these mothers know what their sons are doing & go along with the foolishness. These moms will get in your face smiling & laughing knowing that their son was just entertaining someone else a few minutes ago/last week🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️
Yes!!! He look like he was going to cry like a baby cause his mom hit him with the truth.. dude is going to be spiralling down for the rest of his life due to his serious inability to take responsibility and admit the truth.
I noticed that the friend group has a tendency to cast Melody in this light of being crazy and unreasonable. They invalidate her feelings the same way Martell does but they also want to be in her business. If she doesn't share, they call her selfish, when she does, they villainize her for it. Weirdos
That b is so true because we all now that if she was the one cheating and stepping he wouldn't be able to handle it! So why should she stay if she unhappy! Kids or not! Boy bye 👋
The way he was Gaslighting Mel is Crazy! He even did the classic, I'm going to file for sole custody, knowing full well he doesn't want full custody, he just said that to make her mad and look crazy.
Her heart isn't good? 🤔 It's because it's broken an you did that. Then you gonna try to lie an deflect an say she's the cheater🤔. Being a Typical Narcissistic man.
He's such a childdddd... wow. He did EVERYTHING wrong. And says she kept disrespecting him verbally, as he kept disrespecting her for YEARS. YEARSSS with the side chic. He's a real fukn looser.
Cheating is not a mistake... It's a CHOICE! I haven't ever cheated in any relationship I've been in. I don't believe in cheating. Putting bad karma out there intentionally isn't smart yet ppl are still shocked when it comes back.
Momma honked the horn on Martell!!! "You started this. You brought it to my attention, and then I talked to you, but you chose to do it again. So, it's all on YOU." "She was no longer taking care of me." "Well, when we take care of y'all, you still step out! It don't matter how much and what we do, you STILL step out. This is what you wanted.....and you got it. So, handle that. Okay?" Whew!!!
When a women emotionally leaves a man for good, then she gains a full power over her senses. She will face his resistance but she must continue to march forward✊🙏💯
I don't know what you do for a living but please keep this picture of you as a headshot for all of your dating profiles and professional profiles. You know the saying, "You can catch more flies with honey than with vinegar."? Well you are all honey and I hope you catch something more than a fly.
Martell, Melody is still the mother of your kids and at the very least you owe her that respect. Don’t you feel bad looking at your kids without their mom and dad in the same home? Smh you threw it all away for nothing.
@My Quirky Bubbly Humble Little Opinion marriage was always a business. It dates back to middle english & during that time “most couples didn't marry because they were in love, but for economic liaisons.” Its no different from today. Marriage is also a legal and financial partnership. When you get married, you’re creating a legal relationship. Thats why divorce lawyers make 70-100k per year from failed marriages.
Honestly, because he don't want them . He still wants some form of control over her an the only way to have that is through the children. Straight Narcissist.
Classic narcissistic behavior! They ALL do stuff like this! People are only tools/crutches to them. Smh. Look how he ran to Marsau trying to mend fences just so he could try to get him in his corner not because he really misses or values their friendship... Just a monster!
Martel irks my soul to the highest level. He is so emotionally abusive. Imagine saying that he wants full custody of the kids and then moaning about it at the same time. Make it make sense!! I’m so glad she’s finally decided to walk away from this narcissistic man child
The scene between Martell and Melody was so hard to watch. It made me sad because I saw how Melody was still trying to bridle her words on camera while feeling raw emotions. Someone threatening to take your kids AWAY will take you there!
The only reason he is apologizing to the Scotts is because once that divorce is final; he will be alone and probably broke if she gets full custody. He needs the comeback crew to make a living. Marsau is hiding something. The statement he made "as a friend, you hurt me." He was basically saying that as a friend you shouldn't have put my business out there like that. Latisha would never believe it though because she is super gullible.
It is sad as he can't admit to his wrongs but wants to deflect everything onto Mel. She seems to have experienced all the emotions during this and we are now seeing it all.
Destiny 🙏.... You’re a REAL friend to the both of them. You didn’t bite your tongue to spare feelings. In a marriage, you have to surround yourself with like minded ppl & ppl who will call you on your bs because they love you!
So Martel straight lied on Mel with the Scott's. This fool said he said what Mel told him. But his coleslaw said Martel was telling her all of this stuff about Marsua. Chyle bye!
Martell is childish and arrogant and needs a REALITY check. Now, I believe he love his kids, but he’s doing all this custody mess to hurt Mel. He needs to seek counseling ASAP and start the healing process because He is hurting and he wants Mel to hurt. Just sad!
This was hard to watch. To think they have 4 children that will grow up and see this, is heart wrenching. I pray they can heal and move forward cordially without causing too much emotional/mental damage to their kids.
You know I have been telling people the word, narcissism is used too much. But in Martell's case, it applies. This man is so selfish...so self gratifying. How do you never ever take blame or fault? He had to have been like this as a boy....mom and dad.
If Martell don’t stop trying to justify his reasons for doing what he’s doing. Just take responsibility for your actions and stop trying to form alliances with the people that are also close to Melanie. He’s such a narcissist. Martell doesn’t understand that Melanie is hurt and she is broken because she believed that she put all in the marriage for her to realize that someone else is getting the best of him. Instead of him communicating with her about things that he’s not happy about that can be fixed, he’s chosen to find someone else to fill the void. So how do you expect Melanie to just be calm about the situation? A divorce is not what she wanted so of course she’s hurting because she’s losing her best friend. So she’s not herself and he needs to understand that instead of trying to make her look like she’s crazy and abusive. He’s wrong.
Martell looks so sad and conniving trying to go make his rounds tryna gather his allies and do his smear campaign against Melody.. its classic narcology and soo transparent..smdh!
Tell it Momma. She is 💯💯💯 CORRECT; and the conversation between Mel and her friend are on point. That pain Mel is going through I know it too well. When you’re fed up, your fed up and done. The way Martel is acting is flipping typical and disgusting. Divorce him and be happy.
Martel is delusional and has seriously got it twisted. Let me just say Mel is fine AF, about her business , and can easily be with someone that will value her worth instead of a manipulative weasel.
Martell is an absolute narcissist, trying to do damage control when even a blind man can see him for what he is. This one time I’d advocate keeping him away from the kids
Martell is too controlling and im happy she is leaving. I hate when they say I'm not gone im going 2mrw bc we got things to talk about. Why talk if its already written. Leave and respond through lawyers
he a straight sucka now he blaming everything on mel he going around tryna recruit all the friends away from mel smh after all these years of her standing by him
Martell Mom and Destiny got him all the way together, he was trying hard to flip the script but they were not having it. Martell needs to move out and leave Melody alone she just wants to move forward. And Martell is doing everything in his power to prevent that from happening with his stupid little mind games. "SHUT UP MARTELL"
Y he saying melody don't have a GD heart he broke her so she just showing him he heart her. That man lying through his teeth. That man is can't get ven apologize to his wife. He made her hate him.and the way she behaving it's just hurt she hurting and that y she acting like that.
