😂 i remember my ex sil, her mom and her dad didn't even know her real father because both parents sleeping around wildly. I thought she was different, boy, how i was wrong, my niece had been introduced with random men everytime my brother go to work. She was like 3yo when ex sil was actively cheating 😌 glad they're seperated
Her friends blaming her for her fiancé and AP hurting themselves when she exposed their affair? Lol OP dump everyone on the side of the losers, you deserve to be treated with love and loyalty
@@Grumpy_Liri yes, but as soon there is an S attempt they backpedaled. Which is stupid. I can understand being angry but not wanting them to die, but how is it OP's fault or responsibility? If they were good people and they care they would support their friend, either Peach or Alex so they don't end themselves, but without involving OP at all. While obviously still condemning their actions and supporting OP.
At the end the cheaters want to take the heat off them self in reality doesn't work like that the people who still take OP side is good head on the shoulder the people take the cheater side need to rethink on themselves thinking its ok to cheat when it's really not I don't condone the cheater end themselves they put themselves there no one force them to cheat
It couldn't have been that serious of an attempt if they didn't need to pump the guy's stomach, and I doubt that Peach's attempt was any more severe. Threats of suicide and non-serious attempts are a manipulation tactic in the arsenal of the shittiest people. It's emotional blackmail, banking on their targets' empathy to manipulate them through fear, obligation, and guilt. See, if she were a "good person", she would fear anything bad happening to them, feel obligated to prevent it, and feel guilty if she didn't... or at least, that's what's expected of people who possess normal emotional empathy, and those without the sense to recognize when it's a manipulation would rather victim-shame her for not falling for it.
@@bcpr9812The husbands attempt could be serious, but just early caught. I think the ex husbands attempt was real, while peaches attempt was just for attention
My ex threatened to kill himself after I caught him and another girl in the house all set to have a wonderful time. I told him if he decides to go ahead , make it quick and painless. That was 10 years ago, he’s still alive . Suicide should not be used to guilt people back into a relationship.
This is an abuse tactic sometimes used by people with highly empathetic partners. If you have broken things off with someone & they threaten this the best thing to do is (1) call someone in their family who might care & let them know and/or (2) ask police to do a wellness check after determining the person's location. You might feel you're being heartless, but the worst thing you can do is to return to this person. For you, especially. Remember, "always apply your own air mask first" applies in life as well as on planes.
Reminds me of a comedienne I once listened to. "My boyfriend told me he would kill himself if I broke up with him. I did anyways. I ran into him a few weeks later and said, 'I thought we had a deal'."
Yep, sorry but not sorry. If it comes down to a choice of my well being or yours, i'm choosing mine. Especially if you're threatening to self inflict it on yourself, when i'm having it forced on me.
The way the mother reacted when she got called out just shows how truly narcissistic these people can be. They always try to shift the blame to the one calling them out. Saying “they” are the ones ruining their life. Absolutely pathetic of these people to even think this way when they damn well know what they did was wrong and they brought it onto themselves.
Martin Luther King jr also said a good one. In the end it’s not the words of our enemies we remember, but the silence of our friends . I’ve found that to be so true .
0-0 wow. Also, I hate when people decide to use self harm and suicide to get attention. They are meant to be serious matters and not something used for a last ditch attempt to get people to feel sorry for you.(I’m referring to situations such as these)
Ngl after the texts went off I imagined the OP sipping tea while chaos unfold in the background. Overall, She really dodged a nuclear bomb, I hope shes doing better now.
The fact that they thought they could talk the person into a open relationship when it's clear they're not even poly shows that they were delusional. Open relationships only work if everyone was poly from the very start AND if they didn't bring in narcissistic people who wants it to be all about them and gets jealous if everyone is loved equally not just them. otherwise? this whole mess is just straight up cheating. period.
And the fact that He was going to marry her first. If you want a poly relationship you ask first. Even if she would have agreed he still cheat on her behind her back with many others in the family knowing. Like hell no! A true poly relationship would be the couple talking and both deciding yes together then bringing someone in. He is foul and so it she and I bet if the two of them get together still they won’t have a happy relationship or they won’t even end up getting together which would show Alex didn’t love peaches like he thought he did. All I hate the whole looks thing. Because even if peaches is prettier what’s that have to do with anything. Some guys are so vain. There is so much more to a person then looks especially if you are engaged. If you are looking for a hookup for the night that’s one thing. But he looks would have instantly went way down as soon as she was okay with sneaking around behind her best friends back. Also that mother is crazy. It one thing to not really want a kid in the beginning, but how do you raise a kid that long have many more yet still hold that kind of hate? I don’t get it especially when it seemed her life had worked out great and was going well. One of those people who takes advantage of those around them and doesn’t realize how good they have it and can’t never truly love anyone.
@@yvonneburns2786 Reading her last words, I think she's already thinking about it though. He gave me my favorite fruit, he cut off contact with Alex, and I really appreciate him.
The fact that the mother hid her daughter’s fiancé’s affair and claimed her daughter ruined her life when bringing it all out in the open… Then say she should have been terminated. Half sibs leave her so she could be childless like she wished when she first had OP
I went and listened to the whole thing and I’m appalled that people are taking the two villain side because “they hurt themselves so they must feel extremely sorry and guilty so how dare you not comfort them at their time of need!?”. Like the narcissism and manipulation is crazy
Random friend calling: How could you ignore them in their time of need. They tried to unalive themselves because of you! What OP should've said: I am not responsible for Alex and Peach's mental health in the same way they aren't responsible for mine. If they had a mental breakdown they should go to professionals as I am not equipped to deal with such. Also, my concern for these individuals ended when they betrayed me. Anything having to do with them is no longer my concern. You should go take care of your friends since you are no longer mine. Quick things! People are always so quick to put other people's issues on you when you've been hurt. These people betrayed OP and the "friend" has the audacity to call and yell at her??? That's WIIIIILD.
there is a difference in hurting themselves because of OP and it being completely OP's fault. Block The negativity in OP"s family OP deserves a long vacation for all this stress.
Serious question: Why cheat and then beg for forgiveness? If you really loved them, you wouldnt have cheated in the first place. Atlest have the dignity to break up the the person
Either that, or if you truly want to try to be with both... Ask before even starting anything with X. Talk with your partner, explain that you do love them, but also start to love X and ask if they would be ok to have a poly relationship. This is how this is supposed to be done. An open relationship is, as far as I understand, based on trust, telling each other about those things BEFORE doing it and having the approval of all party involved. (meaning if X doesn't know you are dating someone else, you also need to tell them and inform them that you have permission from your partner) As far as I understand... This is how it works.
I hope that karma comes back and bites everybody in the ass, the poor woman did nothing that anyone else wouldn't do if they had done what happened to her, I hope she finds someone who truly loves her and finds a best friend that truly cares for her, seems like her true mom is her aunt and has a sister in her cousin
No but the fact that people can get mad at her for exposing her ex husband and ex best friend is crazy, its like they forgot what they did and went on full blast off when they “hurt” themselves
the way some of the friend group members are saying how its OP's fault that peach and the fiance tried hurting themselves is wild. Like if they gonna cheat she's bound to find out and she's obviously gonna share this shi publicly, cause its acc messed up. Literally a "fuck around and find out" situation
"Peach hurt herself and alex tried to kill himself!" "Sucks to be them, kinda their fault and they deserve it, L bozo, skill issue, you reap what you sow" is how OP should've responded
Bro what is some of them bridesmaids on💀 they think that it's ops fault for Alex and peach's self harm. Not to be mean or anything but it was their fault that they decided to start an affair. So op really doesn't have to care
When they manipulate with selfharm thats just weak shit 💀 if someone claims to love someone friends and romantic partner and they turn around and do this? No one should be on their side because they already shown what they are capable of.
It juat shocked me how after finding this out the mother sided with them. She actually just chose two horrible people over her own child. She doesn't deserve to be called a mother
oooh, Kyle sounds like he's a better man than Alex. He's was kind enough to think of your health after that. I hope things have been better for you and the chaos burned down.
The audacity of those blaming OP for Alex and peach hurting themselves are just as messed up in the head…they CHOSE to cheat, the after effects of the discovery was too much for them they’re taking the easy way out. Not OP’s fault they CHOSE to cheat and backstab her, worst the family is in on it which is just as messed up. Not Op’s fault they “harmed” themselves” all of this is on them. The only people that are MVP in this story is the Aunt and cousin…good to know tony is divorcing “egg donor”, to think she had been screwing around with just anyone worse that her kids have different fathers, she deserves the karma she is getting
This makes me furious! Especially how everyone went to peach and alex side when she hurt herself and he attempted. Idc if they did it out of guilt. Im suicidal irl, i would be mad at myself but i wouldn't be sorry for myself.
Veni. Vini. Vici. [Translation: I came. I saw. I conquered.] "HEAVEN HAS NO RAGE LIKE LOVE TO HATRED TURNED, NOR HELL A FURY LIKE A WOMAN SCORNED." Payback... Well payback is a b1tch.... and OP is that B1TCH!!! "CULPAE POENAE PAR ESTO.: [Translation: LET THE PUNISHMENT FIT THE CRIME.] "What goes around comes around... Sometimes you get what's coming around... and, sometimes, YOU ARE WHAT'S COMING AROUND."
00:01 Fiance's affair with best friend and family betrayal 01:03 Confronting Alex's parents about the affair 02:06 Betrayal exposed at dinner gathering 03:06 Chaos erupts as family relationships crumble. 04:10 Family confrontation escalates, revealing deep-seated resentment. 05:15 Discovering betrayal and dealing with the aftermath. 06:13 Family betrayal and unraveling of deep secrets 07:14 Egg donor's life is falling apart
As someone who lives in a country where polygamy is illegal and knowing that feeling of loving to people I’ve never go to this extreme but that is crazy to me. This is just one reason why polygamy should be legal.
“Men aren’t monogamous.” That sounds like some double standard copium to not admit someone is terrible and also ignores that many men are in fact monogamous and have been for most of human history and it has been the status quo to be monogamous in much of the world for hundreds if not over a thousand years at least.
Go aunt and also it isnt her damn fault the cheaters tried to take their lives they fked themselves over and tried to take the cowards way out( normal wouldnt call it cowards way out but thats literally what they were doing) and for the friends to be upset about that is absolutely bs
This is an eye opening to me why people don't take suicidal people kindly if some of the suicidal people can be this manipulative and traitorous, it's horrifying as hell if you are their victim and the people in your life will rally on you for it
I’m so sorry for what u had to go through I know you love him but people can be…b words sometimes you don’t deserve him u deserve someone way better then him also I love listening to your stories
Girl you are not an evil witch, the way that you exposed them was such a baddie thing you ate them up with that and your mom, peach and you’re ex didn’t deserve you at all
i wouldn't have held the aunt back💀💀💀 a shitton of cheaters and cheating apologizers, some terrible friends, people trying to manipulate op through self harm.
Wow! With friends and family like that, who needs enemies? The girl needs to move somewhere that can be loved and valued. Thank goodness she had her aunt and cousin.
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