@@GVGINU I understand but it takes a lot to talk about this type of issue and recognizing that you part of it, most people blame others and ignore there short coming, just so you know, your video motive me to have a conversation with my wife on various topic!
The key to control is to let go of it. Once you stop trying to control things, they start to fall in place naturally. May take longer than you prefer, but you forcing something will last nor will it change naturally. Once you truly let go of control and are truly okay without it, your environment will crave your guidance. In other words, be a guide and not a ruler.
