Yes! I had a string of toxic relationships because I didn't do these things. Of course I got your book. I had a lot of trauma, forgiveness, and healing to do. When I walked with Christ, I found my purpose. Now I have healthy boundaries and I'm so fulfilled. My friends and family all say I did a full 360. It's all because I surrender to God's will to find my purpose, peace, and love.
Speaking facts Stephan-some are called to fulfill a purpose with their partner. It’s necessary to be open to how God leads you or you will miss it! It’s all for His Glory!
If my purpose is with him, I am moving and doing what God tells me to do. God always confirms!! Obedience is better than sacrifice. if there is a committment I am packing it up. God will rewards. ❤
I've met so many men who are just not aligned with God or myself that I've gotten used to being alone and am so comfortable now that it breaks my heart to have to choose whether I can be with a man I desire or have my desires of being successful, TBH I want Both because I don't want to take another chance on someone for it to not work. These men these days loose interest and focus as soon as they feel something better is in their sight that I'd rather be friends for at least a year before making anything official. I'm just being honest. That way it gives me time to know enough about them because truly we can never know a person in their entirety AND people change up so much. I'm so at peace with where I am.
Stephan, I agree with you and have been on my spiritual healing journey for over the past year and a half. This video spoke to my soul because I have been telling myself that I'm not ready for a man in my life, but after listening to your video I have to decided to do a reset. Thank you very much ❤️
Ok , resetting my life is the best thing I've been doing ! Thanks 🙏👍 Even though it's doesn't seem to be easy . 😪 I love my family, but they are not on the same path of life I'm called to be . By the Holy Spirit !
Nope. A unmarried woman should NEVER move for a man. If that man cared so much about the relationship, he could've made a long-distance arrangement work.
Good message. Change can be scary, and it may not make sense what God wants you to do, but it is always be the best for you! I have started cutting all red meat from my diet and added sugars in foods. I am looking to completely plant based diet with grilled fish by 2 months in to 2024. I have started back doing intermittent fasting. Happy New Year and great message for the new year!
Workin on 2! As an only child, who’s loved her freedom & peace, I’m caring for my 83 year old mother & it throws a wrench in to my personal life with her living with me.🙃😆However, she’s an amazing mom & wouldn’t have it any other way. It’s finding time for myself in organized chaos that’s challenging.
Truth. I’m going through rebuilding myself after covid destroyed everything-health, career, finances, hobbies. Everything was great until I got sick March 2020. A man I noticed is noticing me, and I am making a concerted point to get myself straight before I step to him and flirt back. Whatever happens will be…but imma be ready if it goes down😅
I'm letting go of old people and friends with drommer . Reading the Bible , and finding positive inspirational literature . Your books are truly a great start to hear from God's Holy spirit .
THANK YOU 🙏🏾. This is exactly what I needed, I’ve been single for almost 5 years and I am now ready to start dating after being in solitude and working on myself for years.
Can you blame her. That love wasn't guaranteed. People changed. She had a lot to risk. I agreed with her. It wasn't meant to be obviously. He wasn't God sent for her. Sometimes people just know. You said, they weren't on the same page.😮
Ouch I can’t say enough what a blessing these sessions have been for me. These candid talks are just such a perfect spiritual eye openers You know how to go for the jugular without getting my back up. Thank you for saying yes Here I Am, and helping one alpha female flailing in the dark have hope for meeting, finding and journeying with her Adam out there,
Thank you, Stephan. Can I just say that the ebb and flow of your messages is so engaging. The way you inject joy and humour at just the right moments, and adopt a more serious side when it's needed, is so impressive. Thank you again, and Happy New Year. 🙏
Thank you Stephan, you’re spot on with this video! You can’t be his peace when your life is chaotic or depleted. You have to love yourself first, then others. Also spend time with the Lord and draw close to Him asking Him to reveal your purpose based on His will for you. Lots of distractions out there…and plenty of men who say they are believers but don’t put it into action in their lives. I’ve journaled and made a list for the man God will prepare for me. Now, waiting patiently as I’m still a work in progress, and growing stronger in the Lord everyday!😊❤
I don’t know what it is but most dating coaches are so much more awake and not toxic at all. They genuinely give the best advice to help the individual which enables better behaviour in a relationship. I really appreciate your words of wisdom and continue to creating more content like this. Thank you ❤
17:38 Why couldn't HE move?? Bc she is HIS purpose? Maybe he could be her multiplier...her magnifier!!! The rest of advice here is wonderful for everyone of any gender 19:06
A great life does take work and is worth it. I am working on health, weightloss, language learning, trying to keep up with my spirituality and dance classes. It's been a game changer. Thanks for the video
I just went thru this. I allowed someone to move in with me and began a relationship, which was totally against my belief. I lost all peace. Realized they were wanting to be 100% supported. They had a job, but their paycheck was spent elsewhere. I had to ask them to move out after 2 months of stress.
I already felt that I was ready and watching this video and knowing that I’ve already been working on alll of these things is god speaking to me. Thank you!💕
Yeaaaa speaking from experience, I WAS willing to make the move, but the dude ended up being a bipolar narcissist. So yea, Im keeping myself where Im at until I can trust that a man won't try to screw me over where a relocation would be involved.
This is one of my favorite video from you Stephan 🙏 Working on ourself and gaining clarity with our purpose is a must in every way. Just reveived my copy of your book '' Finding love after heartbreak '' and also '' The man GOD has for you ''. Gonna dive deep into these two 💯 Thanks a looooot for you making all these videos and coaching. Those are the best advice I have found yet and I hope you continue your great work for as long as you find a purpose in doing it ❤
Great video, sir! I like how you incorporate Godly wisdom based on scriptual evidences. 💖 Me too. I have also been going through something these past few months. Praise the Lord.
I have yet to find a real man that has prompt me to want to move and be with him like that. Worst mistake I made in the past yearrrssss ago and learned the lesson and never will do it again. So with that being said I choose my career and my happiness first loving on me and being still like the most high wants me to continue to be up until my real King comes into my life. Trust me I have not manifested him yet but he’s coming. Other then that, I’m staying still doing me. Sounds harsh but it’s my truth. My peace, working on me and healing is priority so that I’m ready for my King when he arrives. I know what I need to do and work on. Great video. 👍🏽👍🏽
This video is it! Get closer to God. God is not the author of confusion. When we align ourselves with God's plan for our lives (our purpose) it will come with clarity, at the same time it will challenge us to make difficult decisions to let go of what is not in alignment. Every day, I ask God to remove anything and anyone that is not in alignment with the plan He has for my life. I pray that God continue to give me the strength, stamina and will to be in alignment with Him.
Stephan I absolutely love this. I have already implemented almost all these things for years, I just need to get back to doing the things that I enjoy. I'm almost ready to walk in purpose WITH the man God has for me.❤
Excellent video to start off the New Year! Have you tried the Daniel Fast? I’m starting my 2nd one next week. It’s a spiritual fast. I had major prayers answered!
Really needed to watch this. This is the journey I’m on starting the end of last year and years to come. Starting to gain a closer relationship with God, see the blessings in disguise, not focus so much on finding the right man, but more on bettering myself. Will continue to watch your videos and invest in buying your books. Again thank you for your videos.
You have really been a blessing to me these past few weeks. I am really grateful for chancing on that first video that opened my eyes to several things. Indeed there is nothing wrong with desiring a healthy loving relationship with someone you want to pursue purpose with.
Thank you for this video. God sent me a man but now he’s delivering test for us to pass. I’m so in my head, I can’t receive the genuine love coming my way 🙃
Fasting is a very powerful tool for our Spiritual growth because your Spirit is wide open to receive!I Thank you once again for the great information you’ve given. I pray that as you pour out to us that God pour back into you so that, you will lack nothing! God bless you and keep you! May his face shine upon you and be gracious to you!
Im in top physical and mental shape. Deep in my faith. Most guys aren't on my level, not even close. Based on what yourself saying, I should kick men to the curb who aren't on my level. Especially since you are telling women to do that. I assume it goes both ways.
I semi agree to a degree, Yes, find and cultivate peace and self happiness, i want to come together with my future partner pour into each other in alignment. I still don't agree with giving up career for a man he could have moved over instead? This view is out dated... why does the woman have to move...? Why can't the man help her multiply? Perhaps the man should commit first prove thier worthiness to her add to her peace and make an effort... then she would adapt. Agree with doing the inner work on self and self management however personal growth is continuous and you will never be 100% happy so we need to meet each other where we are at... I do all this stuff and I'm still single...
This is why muslims fast for 30 days and I encourage everyone else to try it because it builds willpower, patience, appreciation for food and normal life, strengthens faith and so many more benefits. Ramadan is coming soon and it’s the perfect time to try fasting regardless of your religion 💗
I don't need to fnid who I am, I know who I am. I'm 42 years old, I want to be a mother and stay at home wife, I cannot do that until I find the right man so everything else is just wasting my already limited time. My clock is running out and that's not a problem that men have. IDEK why I keep on giving you the time of day.
I do not agree with you on this one. How do you know her purpose was to be with that man? Maybe her purpose was to fulfill that career. Why should she leave everything and move for the man? Why didn't he move instead? They're both responsible for the outcome.
No. Stop. Wake up from you beauty sleep. No one will wake you up with a kiss. You’re not sleeping beauty. Live the life you want whether you have a partner or not.
So many clever and beautiful Christian girls left on shelf year after 6ear. Few men around and those on websites chase until someone closer pops up then they disappear; men skint so want money from women or sex or soo weak want women to chase. Women exercise and diet and do up but a man can age and look awlful but we put up as so few Christian men! Soo depressing. 😢
I listen to you and i think i wanna be just more better than im now, because i know you are so right. And i experimented most things you say in your videos. You really help me so much. Hope one day i found someone so clear as you. And one which is with god to like me. Like you. I will love to meet someone who is so interesting to listen. Thank you so much❤
I think he should have proposed and laid out the future plans. If the relationship was so great, what held back the next step. I too would be afraid to relocate if I was not at least engaged.
Stephan thank you soo much for your videos and your insights!!!! So much real common sense, thank you for how much you put into each one, so much good energy. Thank you and Happy New Year😊
Needed this today letting too many things bring me down.. rather than getting up and taking care of myself and the issues to clear them out of my life.
I 💯 agree with everything you daid in this video. I have never listened to another human being say everything i believe in. Every one of your videos ive seen is on point. It can be really hard to have morals and standards today. The other day i was sitting thinking about hoe much i've allowed just because i have never met a man who is on the same page as me. I always end up feeling overwhelmbed by dating that i just have given up on waiting and settled. Soemtimea ita hard to believe there is a man out there who has the same views as me and is actually loyal and out there waiting to have a real relationship in which we build together. I keep ending up with the takers cause im a giver and narcissists because im the empath. How can you tell when someone is being genuine? I keep getting played.
