Girl Ruins 2 Year Relationship In 34 Seconds! 

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Do we really need to watch a video to find the answer to this question??😂😂😂 hell no! They are attracted to men who don't "waste" a second of their lives doing anything that doesn't make money

I play video games and I know the answer is no. You can still play video games and get women. Video games should not be a topic that comes up when talking with women. They don't need to know about all your hobbies. I also don't play games everyday all day. It's a hobby not a lifestyle.

Women prefer to be the one playing the game. See "Games People Play" by Eric Berne. Specifically the game 'kiss off".

Remain calm and exit. King 👑

Are the scare quotes because this was potentially staged?

@@gm9460 no. Because he is now the EX boyfriend

​@@gm9460 people don't lie on the internet, impossible.

Yo his reaction was on point. Dap the dude up because he know he dodged a bullet.

He had to buy the cow very expensive and now for the rest of his life has to wonder why he can't be the guy to get the milk for free.

That's not a mistake. That is downright sinful

They love being brides, but they hate being wives.

We should go back to the public humiliation of throwing stones while she runs a gauntlet down the street, and if she survives it then she gets exiled to Hag Island.

@@glitch605 I honestly believe that there should be a public record of female promiscuity. Why is there a record of who marries whom? Why the state would care about marriage? Because of the kids? Utter nonsense : if that was the case they would have placed mandatory paternity tests to know who is the father (depending on the type of society and local/tribal characteristics anything from 5% to 20% of kids have a different father than the one declared - in western societies it is about 7% on average, which still is a huge percentage given the severity of this crime that is not even punished by law)

You're not wrong here!

most of society blames men when women are unhappy

@@kjettern I agree. OF is only a thing cause men buy it. Feminism taking over cause men allowed it. Always weak men’s fault

Lol went through my wife's phone as she became increasingly weird. Obviously didn't like what I found and called her on it. It then became my fault why she did what she did and then it became how she doesn't feel "safe" with me in terms of trust... ironic and hypocritical. Never got an apology either. Hope she has fun as a single mother with our 27mo old son. At least we only have one kid together. I've let her know, plenty of guys to hook up, gets pretty difficult if she wants to do better than I. I make six figures... part time. 6ft tall etc. Her coworker she hooked up with makes a bit more than I but he's married with 3 kids and doesn't respond to her messages for days at a time. If you call that a good life then I suppose, have fun!

:o

Savage😂

I have to rewatch this movie, I feel it is better today than when it came out.

Source : **As Good As It Gets** (1997)

Thank you for quoting it correctly,.

Likely 34 months ago.

That is why I am so particular about the girls that I ask out and how I behave in regards to them. Being single is great. Trust is earned and not given. Strange behaviour is confronted and I am ready to leave if her being around brings me more stress than being single does. I do NOT get attached like I used to so if its not working, bye.

Being single is truly underrated. All of society operates under the false assumption that IF you could get a girl, that is the best possible outcome, but even the ideal marriage isn't really the best situation a man can find himself in. So many men of history can and do attest to this fact both with words and example.

Only if you’re always in bad relationships. Good relationships are 100% worth it.

@@maidende8280 your best bet is not to cohabitate that way you can leave when she starts acting up. That makes it about 50% worth it. At best

@jim No, for a lifetime. I think the honeymoon period only exists in suboptimal relationships. If you’re with the right person, & you’re both high quality, most aspects will only improve with time.

majority of women can and will cheat if they can get away with it. Doesn't matter if their boyfriend is an athlete. If a more famous person hits them up they will cheat even if they get nothing out of it. It's actually incredible and that right there should permanently end the institution of marriage along with equal rights for women. They simply don't deserve either

Damn, you mean whole team? Cheater squad

@@gantp5182 every girl, each one was down. As one put it, "hell ya I wanna get team worked done down and sweaty, turn me into a kluuuum dumpster"

Brutal lesson. 🤣

Feral females.

I could see this. Many women are grumpy, so when one is actual nice & approachable I could see how a guy could believe there is more there!

Women are simply more agreeable!

@@maidende8280 or maybe she knows she can't be rude with people who handle her food

show him this video

I mean she could. A woman looking at your and smiling is a tell that she wants you to talk to them.

those are the girls who were already caught once

Yup she'll delete from now on. Oinker

I'm surprised this girl was caught on Snapchat because you can set it up for the texts to be automatically deleted once you read them. Sounds like she didn't do this since it seems like entire conversations were still saved when she got busted.

@@Gnomesmusher it was ment to be the guy was kind hearted therefore she was caught. Karma is real.

simple if she deletes her messages then it is equal red flag

Not really, bc we don’t really want those men.

@@maidende8280 Nope, but you do want their attention. And attention is to women what s*x is to men. Because attention from more guys means a larger pool to choose from. And genetically, picking the best from as large a pool as possible is the only option a woman has. Mating with them all wouldn’t improve the genetic quality of her offspring - on the contrary.

@@maidende8280 you just want attention and validation tbh

Talha Creates…and free meals…

@@talhacreates4944 Yes, that’s correct.

Also remember, when u are maintaining her attention it’s likely bc she’s being given yours reciprocally.

Lack of an abundance mindset is the root to several mens issues.

Rational Male by Rollo Tomassi.

I've thought of this before and surprised you are the only one that nentioned it after many comment secrions i have looked at.

That explanation only makes sense as a response to physical threat from an outsider likely to win in a fight. And likely only worked 50% of the time, since the defenders would likely be able to repel an invasion half the time. Meaning, loyalty and disloyalty would be selected for roughly evenly, and not consistently in any genetic line. Its also situational. Spontaneous disloyalty like this was likely just as dangerous for women as loyalty during a successful invasion. The women would likely have been non-consensually impregnated by the invaders and kept alive even IF they were loyal to the defenders. I don't know that I find your argument compelling.

I suppose there are many bad behaviors from evolution that men can practice too but they can go to jail for that and many do

Totally agree that's what makes women fickle...but your example isn't hypergamy.

You can call it survival, I call it being lazy pacifist that's incapable of anything.

Your feelings are understandable, It's always difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation when my wife of 12 years left me, i couldn't just let her go. I did all I could to get her back, I had to seek the help of a spiritual adviser who helped me bring her back.

@@haynesatteh4463 Wow, how did you get a spiritual adviser, and how do i reach him/her?

@@nikascupcakebar her name is MONICA ERLENE MORA, and she is a great spiritual adviser as well as a caster and healer

@@haynesatteh4463 Thank you for this valuable information, I just looked her up online. impressive.

1. You don't need a spiritual advisor (and the people telling you this need to get their heads on straight because thats not gonna do anything but line someone elses pockets and waste your time) 2. The person left you, it sucks, been there, done that, bought the shirt. It's gonna take time for things to get better, you will think about them often, you'll remember the good times, alot more than you'll remember the bad, and more than likely the bad outweighs the good if you're being honest with yourself but you won't want to look at things for what they really are (so do yourself a favor, turn off the emotions and think rationally) 3. If you caused this because you committed infidelity, that's 100% your fault and he did the right thing leaving you. If he committed infidelity, then you need to move on from this person, they're not the one because a person that truly loves you couldn't do that to you. 4. Remember that none of this matters, you will both pass on one day leaving this physical realm, life is too short and precious to waste on people that really don't care about you or want you around, take your time and energy and put it into something you love doing because you'll regret waiting for someone that left you, 9 times out of 10 they don't come back until you've moved on and if they don't come back, well you're already at that place now, can't really get any worse, only better, now you have room to bring someone new that values your time once you've healed, just don't go bringing past baggage with you when that new person comes into your life one day. 5. Stop trying to get the person that left you back, it's a waste of time and energy, if they wanted to be with you they would be there, clearly this person doesn't want that these days so let them go, close the book, stop writing that Bible of a text to this person saying how you want them, speaking of Bible, I've found reading the Bible helped me ground myself with understanding when I was going through a nightmare breakup, maybe you're not into that, that's fine, not trying to tell you what to do or read, just giving options. Anyways, you'll be ok don't stress, your roof is over your head, you have food, water, a place to sleep, life is good.

Exactly! Most of us men have been conditioned since we were young to tolerate this stuff!

I always needed to believe that the majority of them had to be good or could be changed through "*love*" in better person, not only women but people in general....and hollywood and company are perpetrating this ill believe constantly to keep us enchanted. As i said that is a childhood trauma survival strategy. The best strategy to approach and help to heal is through respect, compassion, kindness and patience, and not with mocking, cause the risk is to inflict another trauma that can flip the mind into a "malignant narcissistic" pattern, if Core values are weak. Also learning that romantic love is a "modern construct" and not a real thing helps a lot. Self respect, stong concept of personal boundaries, knowing when to let go, moral values are the only thing that can make a relationship lifelong lasting. Paul Elam was the best teacher for me.

​@@ganste8310sounds a bit like you've been around someone with bpd or npd or both

@@tomemery7890 yeah, who hasn't in the last century?! 😂

Sadly everything you said is correct.

I'm not like other women and who hurt you? These two are the default defence mechanism women have to protect themselves from accountability.

I’m a woman and this isn’t true for me I am one man woman. However, is this true for men?

Haha this is such a defeatist loser mentality I keep seeing. Saying all women are like this just gives you an excuse to be weak and lazy and not even try. There are good quality women out there. But it's easier for dudes like you to say they're all bad as a coping mechanism for your own failings in finding them. Stop being weak and lazy and pretending all women are like this. Just like how not all men are equal not all women are the same. I see too many weak men making stupid excuses like you do.

@@WonZZY2003 yup. When a girl plays a guy, she is given access to whoever she wants in society and allowed to seek better options. When a guy plays a girl, the reaction is “who hurt you?” As if the girl isn’t the one who hurt herself by allowing herself to get played like she did to all the loser guys begging for chances with her. Girls will only stop attempting to have their cake and eat it too if men stop allowing them to play both sides of the field. It’s the only way to gain respect and standing over them

He used the term 'investment bias'. It makes a good corollary to the sunk cost fallacy.

There is probably a bit of FOMO overlap too, wouldnt you think?

​@@inconnu4961 - All of these concepts are related by virtue of being under the umbrella of a 'scarcity mindset'.

Girls do already practice these "skills" as soon as they start in school. The problem is that they are also raised by parents who does embrace these traits.

men need to understand most woman are children, just play with them but don't even trust them or give them authority.

This is highly accurate. At least in my case. I’m not a naive person but there have been times in dealing with women when I let things go even though I knew in my gut that my suspicions were logical and well-founded, and turned out later to be accurate, just because I didn’t want to accuse someone of something that MIGHT not be true without absolute proof.

@@wubuck79 Yep--exactly this. It's like an instinct towards honor, but it's misapplied. Men's gut instinct is fairly reliable, yet somehow we all end up ignoring it in favor of conclusive courtroom proof. The fear of accidentally issuing a false accusation overrides any concerns for oneself. This is what leads to the situation where a man confronts a woman RIGHTLY suspicious of her behavior, and she responds by acting like SHE is the victim for him BEING suspicious. Then he ends up apologizing to her, and she doesn't do anything to defend her behavior or allay his suspicions. Meanwhile, he was right all along, his suspicions were justified, and she was just lying through her teeth. My advice (which I admit I struggle to follow myself, but I believe it is solid and we all SHOULD follow it): trust your gut. Ever heard the song, "The Girl I Knew Somewhere" by the Monkees? It's that kind of energy. And frankly, the guy in the song is being even nicer than he needs to be, in my opinion.

Very well spoken. ;)

You are right, but he addressed it. Men have been taught to pedestalize women, that they are the caring ones, the safe ones, the Good ones (Women Are Good bias), and this gets reinforced over our life times until we see it up close & personal. Its not as easy to rationalize away deep-seeded emotional beliefs, the way so many men think!

it happens, women can fake whole relationships. I dont micromanage the woman I date so yeh if she said shes hanging out with her friends, I'm not gonna question it.

@@Boostlagg LOL. Okay. You don't micro manage" women. Good for you. Enjoy being cheated on. Keeping tabs on where your relationship is important.

The one that cheats is their fault

I dont think you understand responsibility at all, are you a woman? oops, I mean, you are a woman.

E doesn’t usually come in tin foil especially tiny amounts. Sounds more like coke or heroin. An addict is the worst kind of partner.

@@maidende8280 It was MDMA, I used a police field lab test, you can order these online, I believe her AF is a dealer, and I showed her the test results and the foil and she said I was crazy and accused me of going through her stuff.

Even if its staged though most men would be absolutely amazed by what's on their partners phone and texting.

For me, it looked the opposite. Most of these are staged. But her minimal but accusatory reactions seemed way too familiar. LMAO

Looked staged a f to me .

Truly underrated book… a little bit dust on it but if you remove it it’s a treasure.

go ahead

Yeah I'm listening

Ok. So then why did you choose a guy who is lying and manipulative and not one who is nice, kind, and puts you on a pedestal? i have zero sympathy for you and women in general becasue you choose your own problems

@@dragorn3212 I didn’t ask for sympathy. And no woman wants to be pedestalised. I did marry a good man, but he died suddenly. I was overwhelmed with chronic pain when I got together with the next guy, which was obviously a huge mistake. In my defense, he acted very differently before we became a couple. He actually did pedestalise me, & was overly nice. Don’t trust overly nice men. It’s a lie or they’re weak, or most likely both. Everyone chooses their own problems, to some extent, both men & women. People make mistakes.

​@@dragorn3212 Why would you even try to put someone on a pedestal? That kind of thinking is what creates the problem in the first place.

@@maidende8280 Trust me lady, as weak as you judge them to be you are 10 times weaker. Don't be a hypocrite. But that's right, in society it's 100% acceptable for women to be weak and pathetic

Yes, its 100% fake lol

Also if you are a man in this modern day and age and think women are "special" it's safer you never leave your home lol