God, Stop Bugging Me!!! 

Whoever feewls like this that God doesn't care because He is too big they might as be a Christiann then because that is the view they have. I know because I was one.

Always some inspiration to take even after 100 times.

I'm just at the two minutes mark watching the video. I really would like your take on the following idea: I think the Mitzvos being for us is another way of saying, if Hashem does the Mitzvos, the purpose of the Mitzvos wouldn't be fulfilled, that is to say, nothing can replace us in the action. For this same reason, the fact that nothing can replace us doing the Mitzvos, no angel, no deceased, not even Hashem, then the purpose they are realizing cannot be ours by Hashem's.

וְכֵן תִּמְצָא בְּסֵפֶר הַבָּהִיר וּמַאי טַעְמָא אֲשֶׁר קִדְּשָׁנוּ וְצִוָּנוּ וְלָא אָמְרִינַן קְדֵשָׁתֵנוּ וְצִוִּיתָנוּ מְלַמֵּד שֶׁחֵי הָעוֹלָמִים כְּלוּלְיָן בּוֹ הַמִּצְוֹת כֻּלָּן וּבְרַחֲמָיו עָלֵינוּ נְתָנָם לָנוּ כְּדֵי לְקַדְּשֵׁנוּ בָּהֶם וְאוּלַי נִזְכֶּה מַאי טַעְמָא כִּי בְּשָׁעָה שֶׁאָנוּ נִזְכֶּה בְּעוֹלָם הַזֶּה לְעוֹלָם הַבָּא הוּא גָּדוֹל, ע"כ לְשׁוֹן הַבָּהִיר. וּמִכָּאן תָּבִין שֶׁהַשְּׁכִינָה בְּיִשְׂרָאֵל לֹא צֹרֶךְ הֶדְיוֹט בִּלְבַד אֶלָּא צֹרֶךְ גָּבוֹהַּ, כִּי כֵּיוָן שֶׁהַשֵּׁם הַמְּיֻחָד הַמְפֻרְסָם עַל יְדֵי הַכָּבוֹד הִנֵּה הַכָּבוֹד מְקַבֵּל תּוֹסֶפֶת רוּחַ הַקֹּדֶשׁ וְזֶהוּ (תְּהִלִּים קד) יְהִי כְבוֹד ה' לְעוֹלָם יִשְׂמַח ה' בְּמַעֲשָׂיו וּלְכָךְ יֵשׁ לָהֶם כֹּחַ לְיִשְׂרָאֵל לִהְיוֹת מַחְלִישִׁין אוֹ מוֹסִיפִים כֹּחַ בִּגְבוּרָה שֶׁל מַעֲלֶה כְּפִי מַעֲשֵׂיהֶם שֶׁכֵּן כָּתוּב (דְּבָרִים לב) צוּר יְלָדְךָ תשי, וּכְתִיב (תְּהִלִּים ס) בֶּאֱלֹהִים נַעֲשֶׂה חַיִל (רַבֵּנוּ בְּחַיֵּי, שְׁמוֹת כא)

Or said differently, when a man wants a grandchild, he can get married and have a child, raise him and get him married, but in order to have a grandchild, he needs his son to have a child, he can't replace him into the act of conceiving, otherwise he would end up with a second child, so the only way he could get a grandchild is when the child accepts to conceive a son with the wife that his father appointed for him.

Saying "God doesn't NEED the mitzvos" doesn't mean God doesn't care about the mitzvos/us. Once God set the ball rolling with creating us we are then in a position to be cared about. But our whole existence is not NECESSARY for God. That is why it is ultimate chesed. Chesed born from need is not ultimate chesed.