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But how many men actually do that, especially when their wife stays home? I think it’s great if it’s like but what about women men don’t go for? What happens if the guy decides to cheat or leave, then she has no options. Women working comes partly from women who have experience this and were left with nothing. I have worked with many women who thought they were going to be married forever and did the whole stay at home, took care of her husband and kids, only to have it blow up because he found someone else. This is exactly why people need to go back to dating and not jumping into relationships, finding out what they really feel and taking the time to seeing it by the way each other acts. It seems people jump right in to sleeping together, moving in together, having kids, getting married and THEN finding out who the other person is. Women’s lib in the beginning was about being able to choose what YOU want, work or traditional roles, and equal rights if you worked outside the home but it has been hijacked to anti-male crap. It’s important for men to be like this guy said but it’s way harder to find a guys like that, even more so today. A lot of the time, this was especially true in the past, they get the “I’m in charge” attitude without the gratitude or respect for their wife. Being raised Catholic, I’ve heard what priests told wives in the past, basically you need to accept even if your husband is abusive etc. so it goes back to really taking the time to know who you are marrying BEFORE you do. I don’t know many women who wouldn’t want a husband who treats her like this guy says he treats his wife and who wouldn’t be happy. You guys give me hope for families of the future.
@@francesostrowski2374 with all due respect, I didn't hesitate to take all the responsibility when I was asked by my wife if it was ok if she stopped working to be with our children. If you have seen nothing but selfish and shitty men, that's a reflection on you... not us. Women need to stop thinking about how they can get men to give them an easy life... and spend more time putting effort into the equality they claim to deserve.
I'm an almost 40 year old single woman with no kids. I turned away from Jesus in my 20's and accepted the liberal lies and lived my life like a hedonistic heathen, drugs and all. Let me tell you, I not only felt empty but the pleasure was incredibly short lived, you can't even imagine it. That emptiness is Hell, literally. The feeling of being detached from God I cannot describe in words to anyone who hasn't felt it themselves. I see all the young and confused kids protesting today and I know EXACTLY what it feels like to be one of them. They are so wrong but they cannot understand it. God is REAL and Jesus is the ONLY way! Satan is real, evil exists and the feeling of being detached from God, our Father and Creator, is what it feels like to be in Hell. God doesn't detach from us, we detach ourselves from HIM. He DOES accept us back but we must turn from our wicked ways. Please, pray for the ones who are still confused and lost.
I am a gen z woman. I am the poster child for feminist. I have a great career, a degree in investment finance, a house, a car etc. I was sold a lie by these feminists. I was told this was the goal, this is secret to being happy. Now that I have everything I’ve ever wanted I sit here, with a yearning soul that craves for something deeper and fulfilling. The deeper meaning of life isn’t about the material. But about the void in your heart. That void that money can’t buy. I am excited and patiently await to be a mother and a wife. Something that no degree/ career or promotion will ever grant me. A happiness that satisfies the soul, not the ego. He is absolutely right in his speech. He never bashed women. He just emphasized the importance of family which is a beautiful thing.
I pray that you God brings you the perfect husband and that you have beautiful healthy children. I unfortunately married a man who did not want children and so I let go of wanting one. After he passed away from Cancer, I was still young enough to have children, but I became permanently disabled from a severe chronic pain syndrome and the second man I met was not father material either. Now at 55,…I’m still sick…I can’t work anymore..I’m completely alone..and fear I always will be. I was also sold the lies and I made some bad decisions. 💔❤️ I’m really happy that your heart is open..your happiness will come.
I pity your mentality Career is not to feed ego but to be useful to society in creativity , in using brain Being useful to human kind other than being only a child bearer and nurture I think women can do both Your happiness seems to be different but many peoples happiness is in career and degree which their parents and they have worked hard to achieve
@SVK1405, young Gen Z lady is not in need of your pity. This is not an either/or concept. You are a striver and not a nurturer, I get it. But not everyone needs to strive all of the time, raising a family is the bedrock of society.
It’s not even about being Catholic. It’s about being Godly. The further this country has moved away from God the more lost we have become. Our families are broken or non-existent. Wake up WOKE America! How’s that workin out for you? Huh?
The economy is so hurting everyone it’s no wonder people have to have double incomes while the celebrities live a life of luxury and politicians are high on power and watching the everyone else struggle. We need change now!
Maybe the problem with this country isn't it's distance from God, but because leadership is corrupt and America lives in a toxic bowl of classicism and racism. Parents are acting like children and leaders are acting like school bullies. We are far from the days where grown ups knew how to be grown ups. Maybe that's not anti-belief in God, but no clear representation of goodness, and responsibility.
Several of my friends and co workers are not religious,however we all strive to give our kids good values, a balanced homelife, discipline, education and love. I just want to state that attending church and being good parents are not mutually exclusive. Also, when the children were young I worked part time but had time for myself, and equal access to our money. We shared all responsibilities. The children are grown up and are well adjusted members of society ie Ty!
I watched the whole speech. I am a Christian. This man procalimed the Word of God, the Gospel of Jesus Christ and how Christian men and women exemplify a Christian life. I am so proud of him, and applaud him! God is glorified in his speech. The anger from the left is that of Satan. When Satan is reminded of Christ's victory and his destruction he will do anything in his power to bring down Christ! Alas, he has failed...again. To God be the Glory!
Well, I must be a child of Satan then because I don't agree with some of the stuff he said. I am a Christian, a single woman who will very likely never be married, and a follower of Jesus.
@@ChibiPanda8888 sounds like you are a Christian that has actually read the Bible and know the Gospel! 1 Corinthians 7 tells us it's better to be single. You are blessed and favored ❤️ OP, on the other hand, thinks Jesus told the women to go forth and be homemakers.
as a person who loves God very much and knows Jesus Christ is king. Yes, I disagree with him very much. It’s his opinion. Why would I care about his opinion? Do I think he’s Jesus no not at all do I think he had an opinion? Yes, do I care about it? No, do I think he’s right obviously, not. It’s his opinion.
Being a black woman and homemaker a homeschool mom with four degrees; I am most Thankful to God for the opportunity to be a wife,mom,homemaker, home educator. My husband calls me bless 🙏🏾✅👏🏾🙌🏾👍🏾👋🏾😀. I love this speech; it’s beautiful !!! This is GOD’s design!!
I Completely AGREE; I have been an unwed Mother, I was greatly Blessed to have a Precious Daughter, she is my only child, she is 49 years old and has accomplished so Very much , Praise God !!! I have been married, we were married in The Catholic Church, I've been a widow since Dec. 1, 2020. I Loved being a Wife and Mother, wouldn't change Any of IT, AMEN !!!Thanks Be To God !!!
I worked hard in school and became a physical therapist, trained at the mayo clinic. But when i met my husband, i became a stay at home mom. a homemaker. I'm now almost 70 years old and have no regrets. I used my education to home school my kids, I used my professional degree to fix their sports injuries. And best of all I had a husband that truly loved me and honored my work at home. I thank God that I was a stay at home mom.
I worked as a PT for 9 years, then left to be full-time mom and wife. I loved my profession, but I loved being home with my kids more. My daughter has chronic pain (neuromuscular) and I am able to help her with that due to my PT experience. She says, “Don’t worry mom, I’ll take care of YOU when you get old”. ❤
I am so glad that I had a stay at home mother. She hand made our clothes and we never ate out. She died of cancer when I was 25. I was blessed to have taken care of her that last year. She said her greatest joy was being a full time mom and felt lucky to have been able to do so. No, we kids were the lucky ones.
Very good that worked out for your family. What works out for your family? Probably doesn’t work out for everyone else’s family. Yes I disagree with him but I know Jesus Christ is king thank you. God bless.
Why is it WRONG for me, as a woman, to choose to raise my own children? What is wrong with caring for my husband? Why can I not have THAT choice?! To him I say, thank you for acknowledging the silent job of homemaker. “MOM” and “WIFE” are my most pride filled titles! Everything else is secondary!
Nothing is wrong with that because you chose that life. What's wrong is him going to a graduation ceremony where the women chose to get degrees and instead of speakjnh something to that sort, spewed no sense thag they dont agree witj
@@OAlexable ...because women with degrees don't decide to stay home and raise families? Thats false, either way they didn't disagree with him at all, most, if not all were clapping, you disagree with him and he wasn't speaking to you.
@shawnchamberlain7543 women with degrees can decide to stay home and raise families, but who is he to say that they shouldn't have gotten the degrees, shouldn't have been educated and should have automatically chosen to stay at home and rear children Instead of going to college. Everyone has a choice, they can't choose to not get degrees and just stay home and rear children, they can choose to get degrees and work and they can also choose to get degrees and also stay home. But to speak at a graduation where the women chose the option of getting degrees and then telling them that their purpose is in the house is pretty much tone deaf and very dismissive and somewhat controlling. Could have had that speech any other time but the graduation of the women that chose degrees.
@@OAlexable He's not saying they shouldn't have gotten degrees. He's not saying they shouldn't work or even have careers. He's saying that the most important title they will ever have in their life will be being a wife and a mother. My mother was a nurse before marrying my dad. When she had my oldest brother, she chose to stay home and raise her children and made a wonderful life for all of us. My father worked and provided. My mother renewed her nursing license when I was in my teens and went back to work by her choice. My father started a company with our neighbor and had a flexible schedule, so when my mother went back to work, he took over almost all of the household chores so my mother didn't have to work and take care of the house. Both of my parents were very involved in our lives and I've always been grateful for them showing me how a husband and wife built eachother up, backed eachother up and loved eachother. He never said getting a college degree was a waste. He never said to not use your degree. He said to know the most important title, you will ever have, will be wife and mother. There is nothing to hate on. He's at a Catholic college. Anyone attending a Catholic college is very much about living a traditional family focused life. If it offends you, no one cares. He didn't offend the female graduates there.
I'm a middle aged female who had a very successful career before becoming a mother. I can say hands down, being a wife & mother has been the most rewarding and fulfilling thing I've ever decided to do with my life. If I had to choose one over the other, I would choose being the wife & mom every day!
This guy said nothing off base. He didn't demean women at all, he just gave a shout out for the dignity and beauty of stay-at-home moms, or working moms who prioritize family. He also obviously loves and cherishes his wife, which is noble. The uproar over his comments shows how far from common sense the mainstream has gotten, and how quickly some are outraged by normal, virtuous family values
Bless this young man!! If his speech saves one young woman or man from buying into Satan's lie of "the world" gives you contentment..only doing what God's will is for us..will be the peace and happiness we all want....
I was homeless, got into drugs, went into prisons, then i got to know Jesus, He changed my life.. Now i make 22k weekly. have a home, a wife, a lovely daughter... A child of God. HALLELUJAH
After I raised up to 325k trading with her I bought a new House and a car here in the states 🇺🇸🇺🇸 also paid for my daughter's surgery (Joey). Glory to God.shalom.
Catholics are Christians. Jesus Christ is the founder of the Catholic Church. “Follow the bishop, all of you, as Jesus Christ follows his Father, and the presbterium as the Apostles. As for the deacons, respect them as the Law of God. Let no one do anything with reference to the Church without the bishop. Only that Eucharist may be regarded as legitimate which is celebrated with the bishop or his delegate presiding. Where the bishop is, there let the community be, just as where Jesus Christ is, there is the Catholic Church” (Epis Symyrnaens 8) - St. Ignatius of Antioch (35AD-107AD)
@Erik-jv6fu I'm not disputing that Catholicism is a denomination of Christianity as a matter of fact if you had read what I wrote I said it many times. However, Paul not Yeshua was the one who started the church.
@derpyeh9107 Again there will be people from ALL denominations in heaven, stop trying to push Catholicism because you subscribe to that doctrine...good for you but it is not all you think. And you won't catch me dead in a church that incorporated peagan practices to convert peagans to Christianity. I'm not trying to be mean I have a ton of Catholic friends, but they don't try to force people into their faith either. Yeshua is the ONLY way. Have a Blessed day.
I am a man I love Jesus Christ. I know he is king God I live for every single day of my life. Yes, I disagree with Mr. Harrison. That was his opinion. That’s what he believes in. Do I care about it? No, do I agree with it not at allthank you God bless
I personally want to be a stay at home mom and homemaker. I thought women's rights were about choice. What's wrong with women choosing to take care of their home and family? It makes me happy and feel fulfilled. It feels natural to me too unlike working 40 hours a week.
I was there attending the graduation of a young adult relative.......this was a beautiful speech totally in line with the Catholic identity of this college. Mr Butker was INVITED by Benedictine College. It is a deeply Catholic school that loves our Lord deeply and with great respect. For those complaining about this situation, this is our Catholic faith of God's Plan for Salvation, so that our souls can get into Heaven. Man and Woman, united to procreate and give Glory to He who died for our sins so that we CAN get into Heaven. When we die and stand before God on our Judgement Day, He isnt going to ask us about our top salary, any human accolades, our financial portfolios, etc. He will want to know how we loved one another, how we saw Jesus in the faces of those who needed help, how we followed His Commandments. Peace to all my God loving, God fearing brothers and sisters in Christ. Pray for people like Butker who are knowingly risking everything to proclaim His Word.
As a mother, Latina, immigrant, divorcee, and remarried woman juggling a full-time job and a side hustle, I can confidently say that this man is absolutely correct.
I wholeheartedly support you sir. Vietnam vet here. Married my Dream Girl during our college years. She introduced me to Jesus Christ. She quit her teacher job to raise our 4 children. Now we have 9 grandchildren, married over 50 years and closer to meeting Christ. God Bless our women
Thank you for your service! I am a retired, disabled Vet. Met my husband on active duty. Although, he did his three years and ETS'd, I continued, mostly reserves. He was very supportive of me continuing with the Army. When the time was right, I became a stay at home mom. Best thing we could have done. Two kids, two grand kids! Gave Uncle Sam 35+ years! I was a glutton for punishment...LOL
I would rather have an audience with my Heavenly Father who knows my deepest motives. Than an audience that bows to Mammon. As Health Wealth & Happiness that isn't guaranteed. If there is anything in me that is I have achieved to wit! God's Wrath will turn that to dust and ashes. He gave me beauty for hashish and theurgic intervention too many times to mention. I'm just a bum telling other bums on seats, where to get bread and meat and greet. scottish vernacular
Implying without being in a sect your wife wouldnt be a good woman or you wouldnt have kids? What kind of nonsense are you trying to spin? That without a sect you cant have a stable family? Christians have higher infidelity and divorce rates than atheists grandpa. Thats because a household without a cult beliefs and religious delusions is stronger because its run by more rational, levelheadded people.
It's much easier than trying to have a family AND work outside the home. It's millions times easier. I LOVE that I now prepare most foods for my family, instead of buying to go or box foods. I LOVE that I get to spend every day with my little ones that won't be that way long instead of aholes out there in the world. Lol i feel bad for not doing it sooner for my daughter whom I don't have a great relationship with because I was working instead of building out relationship
It's just what 21 century society and media pushes, reality is that it just leads to family chasm and "lost" generations, children need both parents to be present to learn core values, children are like learning machines but there is a lot going wrong with our world nowadays that they can go on the wrong path without parents being there when they grow up, this is a fact if we take a look at US for example and this will not fix itself anytime soon, it will take actions and decades probably, if people start understanding that family is important.
Thank you for this. I am a wife, a mother and have had a successful career. Other people raised my children while I focused on my career. My husband always supported me and the two of us tried to make up for being outside of the home by doing fun things with the kids on weekends and taking great vacations. My kids are grown and I continue to work. As I look back, I have regrets, I regret that I was not there for all those precious times in my life as my children grew up becoming amazing adults. I was lucky to have their grandmothers help raise them. Today I see more young mothers stay at home and I have nothing but praise for them. The one constant in our lives has been our faith and always will be. Harrison Butker speaks wise words.
I am 55 years old. Married with a beautiful 13 year old daughter. My husband leads our household. My job is the home. To raise our daughter with her father. I keep our home and ensure that my husband and daughter are taken care of. Being a mother is my most important job. There should be no hate towards this man. We leave in Kansas City and I am proud of him!!! As Jew, anyone who believes in their faith, do not allow others to push you down. Didn’t you hear how he chocked up other his wife and children? That's a real man!!
When I was growing up, people acted as though stay at home moms did nothing and had no drive. It was frowned upon. I graduated high school just after 2000 and at that time it was 'you need college to be stable or happy,' 'you need a career to feel fulfilled.' It makes me sad that myself and so many others weren't told of the wonders that come from having a family (not enough, at least).
Him choaking up while praising his wife was the most beautiful part of his speech. It completely validated womans true role in nature. He had me in tears.
So much about this world is designed to reduce family bonds. Family is our primary community, everything else comes second. Unfortunately for generations now the narrative has been that people should give their kids to the state to raise while they work.
67 year old woman here. I met my husband in 1979, when I was 22 years old. We were having so much fun together. I was definitely on a career track and was unsure about having children. We got married around our 5th anniversary of meeting. Five years after that I started to feel the sparkle of my career life wane. After 13 years together I gave birth to twin girls. The joy and fulfillment I feel (32 years later) after having created our family far exceeds any gratification I got from my career. Don’t get me wrong, I liked my job and I always worked (mostly part time after the kids came along). I don’t think every woman or man is family material. I believe we all can make that choice for ourselves without scrutiny from others. But I also believe that you need to make that choice for yourself and not based on pressure from any other person or group. There is no doubt in my mind that today (I’m retired) I would feel empty and like I missed out on the most amazing opportunity of my life had I not changed my mind when I was 30 and created my beautiful family.
He is the absolute opposite of misogynistic. This man loves his wife & his children. They are surrounded by two living parents.... what's wrong with that??
But not suitable for a commencement speech where women actually spent a lot of money to do exactly the opposite of what he is preaching. It was tone deaf.
@@TheHungarianchick It's suitable for a Catholic college. Every woman there chose to attend a Catholic college to get their degree. They are already all about the traditional family focused life. They weren't offended. People are offended on their behalf? Lol
@@TheHungarianchickYou are not catholic or about a traditional family focused life. You probably do not believe in God. You will never understand. No point in arguing. Have a very pleasant day!
I am a Catholic woman in my 60's and I applaud this young man. He didn't say you HAD to only be a homemaker, he simply acknowledged the importance of being a wife and mother and asked the graduating women to understand the dignity of it and not to hesitate to embrace it. The Catholic faith does NOT keep a woman from having a career, but it does consider homemaking to be a noble vocation. Society always made me feel like I should be ashamed that I "only" desired to be a good wife and mother. I got my degree and worked, but I was truly fulfilled when I married and stayed home to raise my children. My husband respected the work I did in raising the future generation. The people upset with this speech are the same ones who chant "inclusiveness" but only want to include those who agree with them. In my opinion, men and women have different roles and different gifts. One isn't better than the other, but rather complement each other. Regarding Biden I will say that he is not really Catholic. He may have been raised in the faith, but he does not practice the faith and teachings of the church. You either follow the teachings or you don't. It would be like picking up taking the Bible and tearing out the pages that have stuff you don't agree with and then still trying to call what's left the Bible. Once you remove parts and teachings then it is not the Bible anymore.
As a woman who grew up watching her Mother nurtured and love her 6 kids and was a HOMEMAKER…..I am so PROUD to follow in her footsteps and my daughter is also a homemaker and I hope my granddaughter will be too.
I ended up being a single Father with custody of my son. I am a Teacher and Head Football Coach. During the summer for 8 weeks, i am basically a "Homemaker". I can tell you it is MUCH harder than most people realize. It is also very rewarding. My RESPECT TO ALL HOMEMAKERS! YOU RULE THE WORLD!! I COMMEND YOU MAM!!
I’m knocking on 70. A woman with a top degree. Married, 4 kids. I used to be so resentful that my career was thrown under the bus for my husband’s. Now with perspective and hindsight no regrets. Once the youngest started school I did get back to a job l loved, though never attaining top levels. But now we enjoy a huge family, successful happy adult kids in marriages, fun grandchildren, little cousins. 13 people in our house this weekend laughing, playing, deep conversations. No price could be too high for this. 41 years married ❤️ I’m fulfilled
You were fulfilled in all parts of your life. You sound like a well rounded woman who pursued both family and career goals at different times of your life. That's absolutely wonderful. Now let us afford these young graduates the same opportunity, and not preach to them to sacrifice themselves for the greater good. I applaud you.
You guys get it! Thanks so much! This is very refreshing to hear you, young men, agreeing that a woman at home makes a stronger family bond. I had a great career that had a flexible schedule. It afforded me the chance to make it to important school events, pick them up and take them to school. I’m Catholic and our children attended Catholic schools. He wasn’t shaming women, he was expressing how important their role is in a family. Thanks again!
As a woman that raised 4 children and now has a successful career. The greatest joy of my entire life was being a home maker, and raising my children. Now I am a grandmother. I do everything I can to encourage my daughter-in-love to understand how she has the most important job in the world...shaping the minds and character of her children for the future. There is NO higher calling. I raised my son to realize the value and worth of a good woman who places her priorities on making her home, a secure sanctuary, a place a refuge, retreat, and blessings for her husband and their children. No child benefits from a burned out mom, chasing a career. My adult children, my children-in-love, and grandchildren call me Mama Bear. The greatest title I've ever had...and I've been a CEO. Proud of you boys!! Keep speaking truth!! ❤
I read your post with longing. This is the type of Mother I wanted to be and to grow up with. A great Mother is a blessing, but most American women HAVE to work and sometimes more than one job. A woman's security nowadays rests squarely on her own shoulders. A woman must be educated, and fulfill herself in some way to give that much to a family with a happy heart. That graduation where a woman should take a moment to think of herself as only herself. To dream of all the possibilities that lie in her future was not the place for a man to tell her to find a husband and get married and have a bunch of children. A thing she may decide to do anyway. But, that was a time for those women to imagine their greatest possibilities. It wasn't right for him, no matter how agreeable his Message was, to rain, or fart his opinion, on those women's day.
@@darkflyonwall - Just as a reminder, that speech is very correct to give to young Catholic men and ladies at a Catholic University. If boys were raised right by a present and loving mother and a husband who loves and supports his wife in raising their children to be a good children of God thereby a productive addition to society, society today would be a different ballgame. I really don't have to tell you this. Just keep watching the news to see I'm right. Children are growing up lacking morals and values because their moms weren't around in their homes while growing up to teach and guide them. Sadly, these same kids have children without any knowledge on how to be good parents. Big, bad cycle this country is experiencing. If you are a God fearing person, you'll understand what I'm trying to explain. Women who are busy being a superwoman at the end of the day if they have kids, their strength, motherly love and patience get zapped before they even enter their homes. What's left for their kids? Have time to make supper even?
As a woman with two degrees, I actually agree with everything he said. The feminist's agenda has gone rogue over the last few decades and getting worse. To the point, that a stay at home Mom who values her children over the world is condemned. Being a married mother may not be for every woman and as such a career may fill in that gap for her and I say well done to that as well. However, should a woman decide to raise her children instead of a Daycare center doing it, should she decide to instill the morals and ethics in her children that will form their adult lives, instead of Daycare or even Public Schools (who have also gone rogue) then she is truly a super hero. Such a woman will effect the world by the children she raises, teaches, cares for and instills a moral compass into. I do not see how society can find fault with that. Women should be treated equally yes, but the lies we are being fed about who we should be, what we should look like or what clothing we wear or having an attitude of rudeness is an abomination to all women everywhere, whether they realize it or not.
I had an abusive mother and as a result, a traumatic childhood. The most important thing for me was to become a great wife and a great mother. I became a great mother because my mother wasn’t and broke the cycle of abuse I was born into. While it’s not for everyone, it was the best thing I ever did. ♥️
Me too. I learnt how NOT to be a mother through my abusive mother and how much the little things mean. I was so proud and so happy to break the cycle and absolutely love being a mum. Blessings to you and your family 💐❤️
My ex had a very dysfunctional mother and lived a hard life due to it. I thought she would have the same attitude as you but she failed and paid a heavy price for it. She ended up behaving much like her mother. She tore our family apart and we all (me, her and the kids) suffered because of it. Don't get me wrong, the same goes for those men out there who grew up in a dysfunctional family. If your significant other is unable to be strong enough to change, it just won't work. Be grateful you had the right attitude to change.
My Mother gave me a black eye as a young child but taught me not to tell lies. When other adults thinking I had been in a scrap used to ask me "Who gave you your black eye ?" the answer "My Mum" to which she hastily added "He shouldn't of ducked". I learned to duck at a very young age. She had a volcanic temper !
No, he is very positive. But let's be real. Feminism began in a time (70s) when it was needed in the home and workplace, when men treated women as an "object" (you'd be surprised how much). It was for homemakers who were being abused at the hands of their husbands with nowhere to turn. So many programs were developed to help women and children change their lives. It's a misconception given to feminism of degrading men and homemakers. Not many women had the opportunity to have a loving environment, they have to make it for themselves. Its an idealistic speech, but keep in mind the reality women are faced with - sexual harrassment, rape, trafficking, suppression still at the hands of this society and unfortunately, men, who should be leaders if that is the ideal.
Put forth a good argument. I don't care if it was a Baptist, Orthodox, Muslim, or Catholic graduation, those women's lives don't belong to you! Their childrearing years don't belong to Catholics. Those years belong to those women graduates who had earned the right over four long years of hard study to imagine their own lives. Some will have babies, Some will marry Catholic men, but that graduation was no place to encroach on their dreams with that message.
@@zinnia3684 And how much experience will these women have twenty years down the line with a defunct degree and and a disinterested husband to show for their lives. Kids are the only saving grace in this situation provided the woman is suited to motherhood, otherwise this is a sad situation with a lot of dissatisfied women. Career first then family!!!
There is no replacing a real man. A man with values, convictions, confidence, leadership within the family, and above all, faith in God, his family, and himself. All men should listen to him and take his advice. It’s the best thing for American culture.
Proud God Fearing.. Homemaker..Wife ..mother ..grandmother here...the hardest job yet most rewarding job (title's) I ever had...by the Grace of God.. Much Love and Prayer's for All humanity Repent and seek Salvation that only comes through Yeshua Jesus the Christ... Without God Our Creator We are All Nothing! Maranatha
Awww good for u. No one is contesting the wonders of being a stay at home mom. The ability to choose for your self is the matter of contention. No raging feminist is against stay at home motherhood. They are against the imposition of it. That a woman can never be anything beyond a mother.
And we love you for it and that's because there's no greater or more important job on this planet than a mother and a wife. You are the glue that binds our family together as well as our marriages and again we thank you.
I’m a woman who had and still has a career, and I am in no way offended by a young man of faith sharing his views on the importance of the homemaker role and the joys of being a parent and spouse. Homemaker is a critical role in any family and is a full time very hard job in its own right! Those who value that role or choose to pursue the role of a homemaker above careers should be respected and valued in our society.
I’ve been married for 51 years. I was always a homemaker. I wouldn’t change anything. My life as a wife and mother meant everything to me. I’m glad I was home for my son and his friends too. I wouldn’t change a thing!! I loved it!! Thank you guys!!❤️
When I attended college back in 1958, I heard a speaker say "an educated woman means an educated family." Those women in that graduating class are not wasting their education; it is a boon to their future husbands and children.
I thank God for my wife staying home and teaching our kids. No way in hell I'd send my kids off to school, not even a private one. She keeps our quality of life high
I am the youngest of 4 kids. My mom didn't have a full time job till I was 12. She stayed home and raised us. And to this day (I am 63) I thank god for what she gave me. The love. The stability. The trust. The safety. The nurturing. I was blessed. From my heart...thank you mom.
You were truly blessed. Most kids in America need two working parents to support them these days, and usually most kids get only get one. You were blessed and fortunate to have a happy and not forced stay at home Mom. That is truly a dream for a lot of little kids.
I never heard anybody regret having a good solid happy family foundation. If you are lucky enough to have one treasure it. Much love and blessings to all :)
I’m catholic and love everything he said. I can’t believe this gives people heartburn. I pray you fine gentleman find someone that inspires you and walks beside you. That you lead with a strong faith in God and love with all your heart. I pray you are blessed with families of your own. The most important and meaningful titles in life are husband and wife and mom and dad. Build a strong foundation and the rest will come. God bless you guys Peace and love always
Ever wonder why the Protestant reformation exploded, at the very same time the printing press came into existence. For the first time, people were able to read the actual words of Christ, not cherry picked verses to support a papal system ( which Jesus never set up). He didn’t crown Simon Peter the first pope but told all his followers to go and make disciples of all the world. So the Bible has no mention of prayers to Mary, or praying the dead into heaven, or lavish Cathedrals built off the backs of the illiterate poor. The choice to follow Christ is made while you’re alive, hence Jesus telling Nicodemus that a man should be born again. I’m glad Catholics believe in the divinity of Christ and that he is our Rock, not a pastor or a pope like many choose to elevate. Prayers for all who truly seek Christ, and stand up to the World elites pushing the one world govt., religion, and economy, predicted in the book of Revelation!
He doesn’t want women to be anything other than mothers. Is being a parent and having a career mutually exclusive? It isn’t the case for men so why can’t women be excellent ambitious women and raise wonderful kids that fulfill them. It’s the ability to choose that he doesn’t want for women that hurt everyone. May god be with u and may you honour all of gods children by letting them choose who they want to be and explore themselves on a path of self discovery
I’m pretty sure that’s NOT what he said. I certainly did not say anything about making a choice. I simply stated my wish for the 4 young men watching. Go with God
He never said women have to only be mothers, he said that being a mother takes priority over everything else they do. Which should absolutely be the case if you choose to be a mother
Im 35, no kids, no husband, no degree - but a growing career as a musician and a teacher. I make decent money. I have been poor, I have enjoyed success. My vocation lies in the Music, whereever that might lead me. If anyone asked me, if I'd do anything different, I'd laugh out loud with a 'Nej, for fanden!"/ "Heck, no!" It's a good thing, to search and find your vocation. But don't stand there, talking about your wifes vocation, like you know it. Stick to your own. She's is making your life possible. That's a blessing. But by that, she is making some sacrifices, and that's her vocation, to speak on.
As a catholic woman I’m not offended by what he said. He sounds like a decent catholic man. If anyone doesn’t agree with him, then just do your own thing. I really enjoyed listening to you guys. You are great guys. Greetings from IRELAND.
I met my husband in high school when we were 16. We got married at 20 and then I worked while he went to University. Then I had two kids, and it was my time to go back to school. Then I had two more kids, and stayed home and raised all 4. Now they're all grown up, educated and out of the house. Now it's my turn to have that "Career". And we just celebrated our 40th wedding anniversary. Where there's a will, there's a way.
I am Conservative Catholic and a woman I love this speech I love watching you guys grow into the GREATEST GENERATION keep your mind open and always think ahead so you see what is coming You make guys make your parents sooooo proud ❤
I'm sooo glad you guys get it! He's a practising Catholic, speaking at a Catholic college graduation and he's entitled to his beliefs. Thanks guys for keeping it real !
I am 57 years old and I am so thankful that God sent his only begotten son Lord Jesus❤ how I see the world so different now my eyes have been opened and I have been given a new heart amen. The negative feedback is the enemy at work. I say prayers for those who are lost. Every knee will bow one day confess Jesus as Lord our great savior 🙌🙌🙌❤️
I'm 37 years old and pregnant my 3rd son. I used to be that "independent boss female" who put work and money first and now I'm weeks away from quitting my job to become a stay-at-home mom because my husband works hard enough to allow it to be so. I have nothing but respect for my husband where I used to think men were not so important, and now God has blessed me with a house full of men and future men. The people calling him a misogynist are ignorant and likely either have kids and spouses themselves (hypocrites) or they're too young to know any better like I once was. I used to have that petty mindset and I wasn't always in line with God like I am now, the greatest decision I ever made was putting others first like God, my husband, and my boys. Don't let this world fool you young men and women, there is nothing wrong with allowing yourself and your career to not be the most important thing in your orbit. The strongest women in the world are the ones who raise strong men and women who in turn grow up to do the same, even if you don't believe in God.
I’m not religious, but I agree with you. If woman want a career go get it, but don’t be ashamed if your priorities change as you get old. As long as men can accept that and respect that then win win! Plus if the shoe is on the other foot and the wife goes to work and the husband takes care of the home, I don’t see anything wrong in that either! 😊
I am a woman and nurturer. Women are capable of holding a career and raising a family when they have the support of the father and husband. It takes a ‘family’ NOT a village!
I dreamed my whole life of being a mom. Today I wake up and take care of my son and get him ready for school, I take care of my husband and send him off to work. The most rewarding thing I do is be the glue that holds my family together. I haven’t missed a second of my son’s life. I get to attend all my son’s school parties, field trips, etc. I didn’t miss his first step, his first word, I was there by his side through everthing while he was a baby/toddler. And now I am by his side through elementary. I greet my husband at the door when he comes home from a long day working 12 hours as a welder. I don’t want to spend my life working for some shit company that doesn’t appreciate me. Life isn’t about money, my life is about my family. ❤
As a traditional Catholic myself that was a speech with profound spiritual meaning and he gave all glory to his wife and how important she is to himself, his children, society and God. If people hate this then they hate all those things
I was raised in a traditional Indian home with traditional values and thoroughly enjoy being a traditional woman. Was ridiculed for it, but held on to my values because they were important and made me and family truly happy.
Listen I'm a 57 year old Mom of 3 all grown up...and honest truth the only regrets I have as an empty nester ..are the things I misses while working full time and trying to live up to career Mom blah blah... I always thought my Mom was crazy because she had a career and was very successful when she married my Dad...she quit her job and became a..Domestic Godess..when she recently passed she spoke of how much she loved her life and mentioned not one time a single regret...just saying Demonizing Mom's and housewives was a huge mistake by society...Mom is the greatest thing I have ever done..it is my life and what I am most proud of...
This is what i've been responding with lately...we're out of the 3rd stage and in the 4th. Men don't NEED to rule everything ,but we have to stop this emasculation of our men. They're raising them to be soft and victim-like and also telling them they can be WOMEN! They want a country of WEAK citizens, to take control of.
@@andrag93strong- men willing to do whatever is necessary to overcome hardship. Physically, mentally, socially, etc. It’s about standing and producing something positive for the betterment of society, regardless if the majority of the people don’t have integrity to do it themselves; for that would mean society isn’t at its weakest times. Strong men overcome against the odds.
@@andrag93 this speech is in the context of marriage. T Hat being said, a strong man is a man who provides for (at least the basic necessities of life and some extra) and protects the woman he loves… physically as well as mentally and emotionally. All the while seeing his wife AS HIS EQUAL whom he respects and elevates. What woman wouldn’t desire a strong man over a soy boy!!!
Your job is not gonna be there for you when your ill, hurt, hungry, scared, mad, or by your side when your on your death bed. But your husband or wife, kids, family, will be there through all those things .
The woke are so broke!!!! Everything Harrison said was truth about the condition and state of certain leaders, church and otherwise. The condition of our country and men, women and families to be strong leaders in the household. He honored his wife, gave credit to her for the man he has become and is blessed beyond the beyond with her love, care and sacrifice. It’s hatred, guilt and insecurity in the hateful comments as always. Lastly, who was he speaking to mainly College young adults in a Catholic Christian school, the perfect audience to hear his eloquent and wise speech! 🧐🙏👩🎓👨🎓✝️ Stellar example of a Godly man, husband, father, son, leader, teammate etc….❤👏💪✅✅✅✅
This was an incredible speech and he recieved a standing ovation at the end of it. He is a true man of God! God bless him and the many men like him in our world.
I did not plan on being a stay home mom but i ended up staying home for 15 years to raise my kids while my husband worked all the time. Now that my kids are grown, im back at work. I look back and i am so thankful that i had that time with my children. Those were the best years of my life
I was a stay-at-home Mom. THE MOST growth and education I had ever experienced was wrapped up in those babies. Going home to raise your family is NOT the end of happiness and fulfillment! Your children will rise up and call you blessed for your time and attention!
