"She also had to have known that Owen wanted a family BEFORE they got married." She told him she never wanted kids before they were married. However, he DIDN'T say that having kids was a deal-breaker before they were married. She was upfront, honest and clear about what she wanted. Yet, he said nothing, hoping she'd change her mind. So it's understandable that she thought him asking her to marry him meant the he respected her decision never to be a mother.
She still could've walked away when she found out. It's on both of them. And she actually didn't tell him before they got married. They literally argued about that in therapy in a few episodes later.
@@93King she did tell Owen that maybe it was a mistake that they got married when they were discussing about having kids before she even got pregnant. It was the time when Callie was pregnant and she thanked Owen for not knocking her up. But then Owen told Cristina something like "you don't get to say that..."
@@93King she did. It was in season 6, I don't know which episode. Callie, Owen, Teddy and Cristina were operating, and Cristina was surprised that teddy wanted kids, and when Callie asked if Cristina didn't want them, she said hell no. Owen was there. So he knew. He just assume she would change her mind. When Owen proposed, in season 7, he knew. And Cristina knew that he knew, so she assumed that he didn't want kids because, otherwise, why would he proposed? And then when again they talked about having kids, Cristina wanted to walk away and Owen didn't let her, so it's 100% his fault.
No, we see later that Owen laughs off Cristina not wanting kids and thought it was something she would grow out of. I can't remember when it was but the main problem of their relationship is like the problem with Burke. These guys in Cristina's life keep trying to make her somebody she's not because she is so different from most women that they figure it's something they can fix. They don't understand that she is who she is and that it's ok to be that way. They keep thinking they can fix her.
but at the same time Cristina thought that of Owen, he shouldnt have said that but he was just so angry about everything....and Cristina didnt tell him they shouldnt have gotten married im actually rewatching the part where Cristina lost her first baby and was really depressed after and it made me so sad i mean i feel like they shouldve talked about it more and found a compromise
" These guys in Cristina's life keep trying to make her somebody she's not because she is so different from most women that they figure it's something they can fix. " Cristina is basically the guy in the relationship and the guys are the wife.
Here Are My Disagreements 1. Aside from the abortion fiasco, Owen actually had no problem with letting Christina be her authentic self. 2. I think that if anything, Owen was kind of naive when he thought Christina would change her mind not just because he had a traditional upbringing, but also because he’s not very perceptive to begin with. 3. I got the sense Christina was hoping Owen would change his mind too. She didn’t realize how much Owen really wanted kids until she saw him with Ethan. 4. This is NOT a gender issue. If Arizona got pregnant with Mark Sloan’s baby and got an abortion, Callie would be really livid too because of how badly she wanted kids at one point in time. 5. Burke and Christina would have gotten married if Isaiah Washington wasn’t a homophobic asshole towards TR Knight. 6. It’s hard for two people who are as madly in love as Christina and Owen to just walk away from each other, especially if they have to see each other every day. That’s why they got back together after divorcing.
@@audreymoyers635 but there are barely any possible compromises when it comes to babies when you dont want one. and no, owen explicitley accepted it when cristina mentioned she didnt want kids and waited until AFTER their marriage to mention that he wasn't okay with that, thats not the same thing. She was upfront about never wanting children while he lied, believing that "she would come around"
at least burke was smart and left, because he knew that Christina didn’t want kids or the life he wanted. i think it’s worse to do what owen did than burke
I feel like she never won an emmy for Greys because her colleagues were never matching her in scene. Owen seems so off here, with such forced lines and he kinda ruins Sandra's acting, making it seems like she's overacting.
Why is Owen acting like it's Cristina's fault for not giving him the life he envisioned? It's his job to walk away if he wants something different not expect the woman he claims to love to change for him
They both assumed stuff. Christia assumed that if Owen was marrying her that he excepted that she didn't want kids. Owen assumed that she would eventually change her mind.
Notice the term “claim”... that emplies if you truly love someone, you shouldn’t have expectations to change for him. Love isn’t meant to force someone to change something, but it’s meant to even sacrifice for each other. It is meant to be compatible. As for Owen, he tried to convince her to accept the fact that she is a woman and she could have children and be a good surgeon too. Her claims that having children will hinder her from being great was far away from life realities. I think she was a special psychopathic kind of a woman.
Two people can love each other and want different things. That's why Cristina eventually had to leave and make a clean break. She chose her career because it gave her the same feelings that Owen got when he thought about being a father. Those values would never change but their feelings would never change if they were always seeing each other every day. Their relationship is beautiful, tragic, and real. Just because it didn't work out doesn't mean it wasn't real.
Christina told Owen she didn’t want a baby. And then he goes and asks Christina to consider his wants and make a compromise?? Like buddy you can’t compromise on a child
i agreeee! no one talks about how ownen manipulated her so bad in season 7, when he was trying to make her keep the baby instead of aborting it. owen is just so wrong ab this whole thing in so many ways & it’s not cristina’s fault that she doesn’t want a child. it’s her body🤦🏽♂️
I don't think she deserved that. She told him BEFORE they got married that she didn't want kids, but he just ignored her principles thinking she'd change her mind. So you can't really say he didn't know what he was getting into when he married her. Plus he tricked her into operating on Henry and then had her lie to Teddy for hours. She felt responsible to make it up to Teddy (through cool surgeries) b/c he put her in that situation to begin with.
Teddy asked him to put Cristina in that situation, the Webber convinced him of not telling Teddy as well as don’t pull her out of the surgery, and everything that happened after that IT WAS an impossible situation
1. She doesn't hate kids. She is actually good with them: Zola, the little girl whose mom died of a heart attack, etc. 2. She rather not have a kid / raise a kid that would grow up knowing that it was unwanted and resent by it's mother (look how messed up Meredith was having a mother who did not want her / resented her for making her life as surgeon difficult) 3. You don't get married to have kids, not in this day and age.
bro no one talks about how owen manipulated her in season 7 into trying to keep the baby instead of aborting it. owen is just so wrong in so many ways and it’s not cristina’s fault cs she doesn’t want a baby.. it’s her body!
I loved this scene, it gets me every time the honesty and the raw emotion...ugh I miss Christina. But I always felt that Owen, just like Burke, was unfair to Christina. If Owen envisioned a certain life for himself than he should have fell in love with another woman! Christina already said from the jump she didn't want kids but naturally instead of taking her words as truth Owen thought that it was just a phase or she will grow out of it when that wasn't the case, some people honestly don't want children and THAT IS OKAY. I always felt like both Burke and Owen (Who don't get me wrong were great relationships for her though they failed) wanted to change the essence of her and in a lot of ways Christina let them until it got too much and that she didn't recognize herself.
you dont choose who you fall for and loving someone does mean sacrifice , it was not just her baby it was owen s too ,she should have had the baby and given it to owen to raise , she murdered an innocent life .she killed the baby,cristina was unfair to burke and owen. burke sacrificed everything, despite cristina being a sloth bear and everything else burke wanted to live with her ,love her. on their wedding day she didnt come down the aisle it was always burke who sacrificed. she did not even seem interested in the vows .if she knew what it meant to buke she could have at least tried but no she didnt
@@marissaurias5116 I understand both sides and I understand how both are in the wrong. Personally I don't think Yang should even be in relationships. Marriage terrified her and having kids mortified her. She should just focus on her career and leave out the idea of relationships.
@@marissaurias5116 lmao Cristina literally BEGGED Owen to not leave her at the end of S8EP14. She desperately wanted him to stay. While I understand she has every right to make that decision regarding her own body, she has communication issues. Both Owen and her are complete opposites. Owen is emotional and knows what he wants in a relationship while Yang shuts people down and doesn’t know what to do in a relationship. Yes, he should have left her and walked away but he genuinely loved her and was willing to sacrifice the life he envisioned just to be with her. On the other hand, she loved him but she didn’t try all the way the same way he did because her main priority was and always will be her career. Owen and Burked NEVER tried to change her. They just wanted her to be more open and trustful towards them which is very important in a relationship. Whenever Yang had issues, she would always say she was fine and nothing was wrong which sometimes led to her having breakdowns from the feelings she kept bottling up. They just wanted her to not shut them down but she clearly lacks communication skills AND trust issues. That’s literally Yang’s character, she IS a robot.
I love it when Sandra Oh expresses herself slowly and clearly. For instance when she takes the time to say "Your call" at the beginning. I think it's one of the secrets of her acting and her charisma
6x19 Cristina asked Teddy "You want to have have kids?" Callie responded, "Wait, you don't?" Cristina responded, "Have you met me? Teddy gives Owen a look ( /watch?v=SfxSNwi8pHw - skip to around 1:00) Whether Owen forgot in the moment or the writers forgot, I don't know. However, you can't say she didn't make her feelings know BEFORE they got married.
She made it known, but they never had the conversation until after they were married. They should have talked about it before the wedding. But Owen loved her too much, he just wanted her. It wasn't until it was real, and she was pregnant that he realized it would never happen.
@@lauraschoenborn3544 also, Cristina wasnt in a good mental state when he proposed, when they planned the wedding and after they got married. She literally had ptsd, and he proposed, and she was traumatized and didn't want to be alone, so I don't blame Cristina for not really having that talk before they got married. Owen should had brought it up and he didn't. And when she found out, she gave him and out, and he didn't take it. This is 100% Owen's fault.
Well I understand where Owen is coming from he is totally out of line. Cristina told him a while ago she doesn't want kids but if he really wants kids he should find someone else to be with. Since Owen didn't do that, one would think he is fine or accepting of having a childless life with Cristina. However, no the guy keeps punishing her even though she gave him an out and he didn't take it. I understand people saying but Owen doesn't want kids with anyone but Cristina however since she's practically screamed it at him that she doesn't want kids and will never want them then it's time to either jump on the band wagon or find someone else!!
i kinda agree, like i get that he is upset about the kid but she made it clear she didn't want to be a mom. She told him to date someone who could give him what he wanted, like dude you said you were over it.
Why does everyone put all of this on Owen? It's on both of them. They both knew what each other wanted and still decided to get married to one another. It doesn't fall all on one person, it's on both of them.
King yes but it was owen who kept bringing it up and had a issue with it. it was owen who embarrassed her in front of their friends and cheated on her bc of it and then pushed her away. that was all owen
It's so frustrating because it's like what did both of them expect?? They knew they wanted different things before getting married, and they got married anyway. Cristina was very adamant about not wanting kids, and she's the kind of person who is stubbornly ambitious and driven in her career. So, both of them should have seen this coming.
first comment I actually 100% agree with. I think the entire point of Shonda including this complicated plotline was precisely to highlight just how difficult these kinds of situations actually are. It's not black and white. It's very easy for people like us, who've likely never lived through anything like what these characters are experiencing, to judge one character or the other and say "I hate owen! he's so whiny! this is not his call! he should just shut up and deal with it!" or say "christina's such a bitch for not wanting a kid! she already got pregnant, she should just suck it up and live with it!". It's ok for a guy to want kids, and for it to be crucial for that guy to have kids at some point in his future. It's ok for a woman not to want kids, and for it to be crucial for her to not have any in her future. But I think you also need to be wise enough and considerate enough to the other person's wishes to acknowledge when a relationship (as awesome as it might be in most aspects) is just not gonna work out, because neither person is willing to change their stance. In that way, they're both to blame. They should've had a serious discussion about kids waaay before Cristina even had a chance to get pregnant. They both kind of had it coming tbh.
And I think it’s specially hard because he is not arguing because he wants a kid and Cristina does not. They were not planning on having one and she got pregnant. It was not a question of oh let’s or let’s not have a baby, the baby existed and she decided to get an abortion (I’m not judging the decision she made) but he was against it and he had no say in it. So he has the right of being upset but also she is not wrong either because she did always say she did not want kids. It’s really a complicated situation because in one hand yes she did get an abortion of a child that was both of theirs and he had no say but the alternative was that she was going to have it and be miserable for the rest of her life. There was not a right or wrong answer, either way one of them would be miserable with the outcome.
Well, to be fair, Cristina didn't know that Owen wanted kids. She literally told him in surgery that she didn't want kids before getting married. He did not say anything, and the next season he proposed. So she assumed that he didn't want kids either. And then, when she even offered to walk away because she couldn't give him kids, and he still went after her. Owen is 100% wrong, and this is not Cristina's fault.
Kevin mckidd and Sandra oh just break my heart into a million pieces with their acting! Kevin mckidd especially was beyond brilliant in this scene...what a powerful powerful performance!
That's the thing they did discuss it. She told him before they got married she NEVER wanted kids (back when Callie and Arizona were fighting over it, before the hospital shooting). Then after they get married, she says it again and he's like "Yeah, sure" completely dismissing her beliefs. Then he says he thought she'd change her mind/grow out of it and AGAIN she said she doesn't want kids and never will. Really what did he expect?
I remember seeing this scene and yelling, "NO! NO! Shonda No! Not Christina and Owen" The start of the end of my favorite GA couple. Sighs...well at least I have Jackson and April.
Owen is kind of an asshole. Cristina has been through enough already, like he needs to stop shaming her for a decision she had every right to make and was 100% upfront with him about. I mean he was right there with her when she had the procedure and it is ultimately his fault for trying to make her change who she is. A marriage in which one party tries to make the other change or just assumes the other will change in the future is rarely a successful one
Even though this scene was so dramatic and all about owen and christina, when i saw zola's face at the end i just melted a little! She is just too damn cute!
i love Cristina. she has the right to be selfish and fight for the life she wants. she lets no one side track her, get anything over on her, and she has all of my respect. it takes strength to live the life you want and deciding not to care who's feelings get hurt about it.
Interesting viewpoint... I personally think that selfishness is one of the most pathetic traits an adult with real relationships can have. If you enter into any kind of personal relationship with someone else (romantic, platonic friendships, etc.) as an adult, you concede your right to be completely selfish. If you want to be selfish, hang out by yourself, but don't stomp on other people just so you can get your way all of the time. Think about it this way, would you ever want to be the other person in that relationship? What if your best friend decided that they don't like listening to your problems and they always get to decide what activities y'all are going to do? Or if your spouse didn't want to listen to your viewpoints on where y'all should live - they just selfishly decide for the both of you without consulting your feelings on the subject? It most does not take strength to decide not to care about hurting other people - that's weak and narcissistic. If you want to live a selfish life, then you most certainly should not get married. Now, I absolutely think that Cristina (and everyone) should fight for the life she wants, but you can't just stomp around on other people's feelings and not expect them to fight back.
lexi219 if you recall, owen got with cristina when she was at her most vulnerable time. he knew this, so he felt he could sway her into doing what he wanted. but he did not count on her getting stronger in herself and living the life she wanted. owen was a snake. so i applaud cristina's decision. being selfish is of the strong minded - meaning you let NO ONE influence you or make your life about them. now, being sneaky and underhanded to try to sway someone like owen did is the most pathetic trait of human existence. had she not been completely selfish, she would have been suckered by him. my thing is if he knew cristina did not want the same things in life he wanted, he could have left her alone and found someone else instead of trying to change her.he didnt, so he got stomped on. i would not be that other person in that relationship because im smart enough not to be with someone who does not share my views and wants in life.
nor would i call a person a best friend who didnt act like one. the same for my spouse. the problem with people is they put these titles and labels on others, expecting them to act how they want them to. but reality is, some people are selfish and some people just do not want to bend for others. not saying that they wont find someone one day to bend for, but they have to be worth it. i love cristina for who she is and her iron will. call it selfish, being a bitch or whatever, but she doesn't crack for anyone. maybe one day she will, but that special person isn't found yet.
OR0R0 Cristina was a grown woman though. By blaming Owen for their problems, you are stripping her of all of her agency, which is incredibly insulting to her as a person, but especially as a strong woman. Yes, she was vulnerable at the time when they got married, but he was the vulnerable one when they got together (remember he had severe PTSD then). Are you saying that Cristina was a snake for entering into a romantic relationship with someone who was that vulnerable? It has to go both ways. She also recovered from that PTSD and wanted to stay married to Owen. That was her choice. But I guess we have a difference of opinion about Cristina and her selfishness. I hope to god to never have someone in my life who has so little regard for others the way Cristina does, but you have every right to like her for the same reasons that I find her pathetic and abhorrent. Different strokes for different folks.
blaming or telling the truth? no matter how you twist it, owen was the initiator of all of this mess. if a person tells you what they stand on in life, it's not up to you to try to be with them, hoping you can change them. had he went for a woman who wanted marriage and kids, then he wouldnt have went through this problem. simple as that. how long has cristina said she doesnt want kids? she's been herself, unchanging since day one. not her fault he couldnt handle it.
My favorite scene out of the ENTIRE series. Beautifully written and acted, and the Jezabels playing in the background just tie it all together to be the perfect scene of heartbreak and hurting. greys anatomy was unbearably cheesey at times, but In the end, it was scenes like these that made the show incredible
I had almost this exact same argument with my ex (not the abortion part, another issue lol) and I can relate to Meredith's speech in this clip so much, I wish we had realized it was a lost cause and end it right then and there instead of dragging the whole thing for years and years.
I love the way people are like “Own should have done this and Christina should have done that”. Guys this is an actual issue real people have, so if you all such experts help real people with these issues and not fictional characters.
Also getting your tubes tied is major surgery. More dangerous that a gallbladder removal, a vasectomy, or an abortion. This is the woman who is working on having a legendary career. She works constantly and was trying to work right after having a ectopic pregnancy burst one of her fallopian tubes (while she was still a patient herself). So I can see how she'd rather rely on birth control than schedule a procedure that would then stop her from working for weeks to probably over a month.
It's understandable how Owen blew up. You could tell that he had been holding this pent up anger in him for a while. And they had never actually talked about it. They just had lots of sex. And lots of sex maybe nice, but it didn't solve the actual problem. And the anger and resentment just kept building up inside him. And when Cristina and Teddy pulled this stunt on him, basically undermining his authority as chief, it push him over the edge. I firmly believe that Cristina had this coming.
seiixoxo so, it’s okay for Cristina to expect Owen to change his vision of having kids and stay with her, but not okay the other way. That doesn’t seem fair. I’m not saying Owen is right. I’m saying they’re both wrong
Owen and Burke legit the same character they are hella selfish and wanted Cristina to fit into their perfect box, the perfect life. Both of them didn't deserve her. Cristina literally had some of the most toxic relationships.
What crazy is that Meredith warned Owen to not force Christina to have a baby knowing full well she don’t one. Ellis Grey was a Christina yang. Not saying that Ellis didn’t nor never loved her child, she did, but Ellis love being a surgeon even more.
damn i must admit this one one of the best scenes, or atleast best scene where owens acting really shined. i mean come one hes a great actor all the time but this scene was the cherry on top. brilliant.
Well I guess that after no matter what Cristina says about not wanting kids Owen seems to be not interested in listening to her and yet he blames her for the abortion. I feel sorry for him but I feel more sorry for Cristina that the two guys who love her don't respect her choices.
I don’t want to have kids. My partner seems to think it’s a phase too, my friends would say the same. Like I don’t know what I’m saying or that I will change my mind or that it’s not under my control. Some people just don’t get that it’s my decision. I don’t have the financial means for it and I’m not ready or capable to put my body through such pain. I’m very weakly. Why should I even explain, right?
what do you even expect? tearful comments , a virtual pat on the back ? nobody asks you to explain your decision. I don't understand people who tell their sappy stories from their lives on the internet... it's comment session under the video not fucking group therapy.
Deve ser difícil pro Owen, ver a mulher que ama abortar seu filho. E ver a mesma mulher tratando a filha da amiga com tanto amor e carinho. Yang sempre mereceu ouvir a verdade, todo mundo aliviava pra ela
I'm thinking to understand Owens ideology. Lets say Yang has the baby, you're happy and she's probably not going to be happy. Like what if she hates her own kid, but at least you're a father right? Wouldn't you want a person who wants to be a mother?
i think he anticipated for her to grow to love the kid as she evolves through pregnancy and that maybe she was worried ab being a bad mother or had a past that effected her outlook on motherhood
I like Christina and her ability to know herself. What I do not understand is how an intelligent doctor can get pregnant twice, when she does not want to have a baby? There are so many ways to prevent pregnancies. Why would she allow this to happen? That I do not understand.
That's AWESOME Literally, all forms of contraception have a failure rate. Even if used correctly. Even getting a vasectomy isn’t 100% in preventing pregnancy.
The story of Crowen is about two people loving each other and get along well in life But they ultimately hurt each other by ignoring the difference of what they want in life
What’s funny is I’m watching the seasons over, not once has he sacrificed for her, except maybe not going after Teddy. Literally HE proposed right after the 2nd most traumatic event in her life, at the moment she was not her self. If he wanted any room to be upset, he has none. He didn’t give her time to heal before asking a major question like that, or before bringing up children. Not to mention she has every right to say no to another potential lethal event. I hate to break it to everyone, having kids is hard, but birthing them is life or death. Cristina had an ectopic pregnancy the first time, which is about 98% lethal, the episode with the abdomen baby was a rare best case scenario. It makes up 2% of pregnancies and 3-4% of pregnancy related deaths.
Teddy told him to not tell her it was Henry that she was operating on. Owen had reservations, but Teddy wanted the closest thing to her, which was Christina, to operate on him. So she told him not to tell her that it was her husband. And he had to tell Cristina to lie to Teddy because she was in the middle of surgery. Teddy needed to be fully focused to save the guy's life. And technically, in all the episodes before their marriage, the ideal of having or not having kids wasn't brought up.
I don't think people understand this scene. This thing had been bottling up for weeks. Meredith pushed Cristina for them to talk about because she knew it would blow up like it did. They had not talked about it AT ALL since she got the abortion so that's why Owne yelled that. You could tell from his face that he didn't mean to say it but he's been holding it in for so long it just came out.
Of course not. I'm in favour of abortion but... seeing this scene every time I think about Owen's mind, why he is so sad... he wanted to have a kid with Christina!! Christina didn't even think of that, and that "sometimes" , for me, seems mean (I'm talking about this scene) :'(.
There’s no sides to be taken here. They were both at fault. I mean Cristina STILL wanted to make it work even after all this. I’m just gonna appreciate the great acting lol
Both of them were wrong tbh. Cristina told him she wanted kids, he shouldn’t have married her since he wasn’t ready to give up his dreams. Owen always wanted kids, Cristina shouldn’t have married him since she doesn’t want kids. Another issue they had was that they don’t communicate about their issues. After she had the abortion, they never talked about it. Whether they want to continue the marriage and how to accomplish their individual goals.
1-actual awkward science 2-I STILL DONT UNDERSTAND YOU OWEN!! WHAT IS YOUR POINT IN ANYTHING! 3-it's almost like everything is about Owen but Christina doesn't like that so she actually says stuff about it.
I know Owen has his own problems and it is hard to agree with him on a lot of things. That being said Owen and Cristina relationship was important to show on tv. It shows that sometimes love is not enough. The chemistry of the two actors is amazing. An they played this relationship with such passion and realism.
Actually, episode 8x14 disproves the fact that Cristina said she didn't want kids before they were actually married. In therapy, Owen said that this bombshell should have been dropped BEFORE they got married. And Cristina stated that he proposed and they got married so fast, she didn't mention it at that time. So if Cristina didn't want kids, she should have told Owen that when he proposed to her. She didn't and here we are.
Owen proposed to her after the shooting, when she was going through PTSD. Her mind was not in the right place. After they have a conversation about having kinds Owen says that Cristina is not allowed to quit on him because they were in love and he believed that she would change. They did have the conversation about kids in earlier episodes, and Owen addresses this saying that he believed this was a young persons beliefs and he thought she grew up after the shooting. Cristina was always really straightforward but when he proposed it was immediately after she had a gun to the head. It’s quite unfair to pin it on anyone.
Even Derek was like nooooo you just didn’t. XD You know if I were either Derek or Mer I woulda been like “Dude seriously right now get the fk outta my house” “Right now” RIP DI DIP DIP
I get Owen's anger here. Cristina shouldn't have had the abortion without talking to him about it first. However, he shouldn't have tried to force her to be someone she wasn't just so he could have what he wanted. Cristina and Meredith were great friends, but they were also very different. Meredith warmed to the idea of kids slowly. Cristina was not and probably never would have been the warm fuzzy cookie baking PTA type.
UM i disagree bc its HER body and she can have an abortion if she wants?? she doesn’t need his approval so what if they’re married. she didn’t want the baby so she didn’t have to have it
The comes a point where it all becomes too my much, when we get too tired to fight anymore so we give up, that's when the real work begins... To find hope where there seem to be absolutely none at all
Everyone is talking about how they shouldn’t have gotten married then in the comments but they got married after the shooting when Christian was suffering from ptsd.
Cristina wasn't being selfish. She was doing the hypothetical kid a favor. Had she gone through with the pregnancy and become a mother, the kid would be growing up with a mother that didn't want it. Cristina *was* thinking about the kid and knew it wouldn't be fair for it.
i never really got owen. he knew she didnt want kids, and even if he didnt, he certainly knew when she chose to get an abortion. but he continued to bring this up in fights, almost in like a 'gotcha' way. 'your egoistic. you only think about yourself' but if thats just how she is, how could she ever be egoistic? it feels like owen felt entitled to her unconditional love and devotion to him, and bend over backwards to appease to what he wants out of a wife, just because he 'loves' her. like she owes him in a way? so weird. its so gross.
i mean it's hard for women to get a hysterectomy but considering the greys anatomy world, they would have found a way for that :p plus doctors getting accidentally pregnant? um
And what's funny is that Owen tries to be a stay at home dad in the new season, to do everything he keeps saying he wants to do and he finds it "boring". Such a hypocrite.
This moment is when I stopped extending empathy to Owen. His toxic behaviors, aggression and cheating all because he didn’t get what he wanted. They never really showed his character developing into a better and more self-aware person…just gave him kids, swept it under the rug and paired him with Teddy.
This was totally understandable...Christina thinks that her actions don't have consequences. She had an abortion and afterwards thought Owen was just okay. He's been holding this in for a long while and he needed to get it out. there? No. But what he said was spot on. And i firmly believe that Teddy has it coming too.
