Growing Up In A Polygamous Home - I Said What I Said

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In This Episode , FK and Jollz sit down with Tobi, a young man who grew up in a polygamous home. He shares with us some of his shocking experiences and challenges he faced living in a large family, and how he has been able to navigate adulthood despite those experiences. Listen to find out more!
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16 мар 2021

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@pharleelat 3 года назад

If “THANK GOD WE DON’T LOOK LIKE WHAT WE’VE BEEN THROUGH” was a person! Proud of his strength to share his story👏🏾🙌🏿

@demiladeodusola2661 3 года назад

Not Bonny and Clyde: Akure Branch😂😂😂😂😂

@DanielOchuko 3 года назад

Men will embarrass you but won’t be embarrassed 😂😂😂

@tiaraboateng463 3 года назад

Tobi narrated his story in a funny manner but it was actually very sad. From physical attack to spiritual attack. God bless his mom for being strong. I have a lot to say but I can't type 😂😂😂😂😂

@elyon5025 3 года назад

the chaos 😭 how can you sell your wife's house to fund your 2nd wedding 😩😭

@bethelmame1680 3 года назад

It's the AUDACITY for me!! I had to pause the video and process what he just said.

@oyinadebayo 3 года назад

Tragic!😂

@n.boakyewaa5589 3 года назад

The word for this episode is “omo” 😂😂😂

@paulcurious2324 3 года назад

Broooo😅

@auntypelz 3 года назад

This is WILD! Patience Ozokwor is learning work

@diannaachando9160 3 года назад

I have DIIIEEEDD 😂😂😂

@ijeoj 3 года назад

Men honestly ONLY think about themselves. And do what is best for them. Smh.

@valerievishnay1358 3 года назад

Can I just say that Jola and FK are good interviewers, because they brought the vim out of Tobi with their questions. It would have been easy for the discussion to be just a bunch of stories strung together but they were asking his perspective and using his answers to give clarity. Top tier babes

@bolanleadebowale6026 2 года назад

Came back to watch this the second time. Still so hilarious. I love his spirit.

@adebamboboluwatife2891 3 года назад

He didn’t want stress but he created stress

@julietnwoye5501 3 года назад

Already listened to the podcast but I have to watch the video to see the facial expressions

@Fabztolly 3 года назад

Same

@christabelekeocha7584 3 года назад

lol me every week

@valerievishnay1358 3 года назад

You sabi work 😂

@maxharrygracia8242 3 года назад

Me too 😂😂😂

@JulietUzor_ 3 года назад

Gbam!

@tayo380 3 года назад

The BOUNCE was truly back in this episode

@lightandspace7938 3 года назад

I’m putting “I detest talking stage. If I want you, I will say it” in my Tinder bio.

@olayideeleso7840 3 года назад

Polygamous home drama, he maybe be laughing but he is been through alot. Love Jola's dress 💓

@megazimi5040 3 года назад

Ngozi catching them packing stuff from the car was my highlight 😭I can imagine how dramatic that was with the Bournvita and stick 😂😂 Also him getting first position and dancing with the daddy😹

@_gbots 3 года назад

This episode was so chaotic. Truly fuji house of commotion, vayolence every minute and YES Ngozi is a lunatic, my mouth was opened most of the time with a sprinkle of "ah" here and there. BEAT YOUR MIL ????? I see that you guys increased the video for us, 30 minutes this time. Thank youuuu ! 💃🏾💃🏾💃🏾

@stellagana 3 года назад

I really really like how FK talks😂😂😩

@victoriaezetv6736 3 года назад

This sounds like the secret lives of baba segi’s wives

@chopcaringche8080 3 года назад

True .Similar dynamics different storylines.

@obidikeuchechukwu6095 3 года назад

I am very sure that that book was adapted from his life 😭

@kofoworolaasabi9785 2 года назад

Yessss

@amandampundu410 2 года назад

Exactly what I thought

@mkpoikanajacob6508 3 года назад

When he said “I detest talking stage” 😂

@obianujuibeabuchi465 3 года назад

He’s so hilarious and unbothered. I’m glad he finds it hilarious too

@Estherogbole 3 года назад

I just want to give Tobi a big hug.

@lightandspace7938 3 года назад

This episode is still crazy to me, because my guy is living in a whole Wale Adenuga production 😭

@ifeoluwapoadebayo5640 3 года назад

I can relate all of Tobi’s story. Trust me if you dint grow up in a polygamous home you won’t understand this. I look forward to telling my story one day.

@ameenahalabi 3 года назад

This is the real fuji house of commotion.....No one can sell polygamy to me and it will be palatable. Imagine going through this at a young age.

@yetundealabi5151 3 года назад

This was hilarious!!!! Tobi's calmness made it more funny. Let me go and listen to the full episode

@valerievishnay1358 3 года назад

Lmaoooo I swear. Man's was reeling out information like, "Yeah, this shit isn't that wild" 😭😭

@Temiigold 3 года назад

One thing about problems is that it's not usually funny during that time but after it has passed you laugh about it.

@oyinadebayo 3 года назад

If I were in his shoes, I’d probably be in tears. But I hope that someday, I get to tell my story w my face lit up like his 🤍

@ItsToyoo 3 года назад

FK's expressions are too funny! By the way, this is a story that is worthy of tears...I don't even know how he's still smiling. I'm sure there must have been a lot of tears in years past.

@oladapoolarinoye982 Год назад

This actually made me tear up and laugh and the same time. Tobi is such a great guy , after all he has been through he turned out better than his experiences...sending love and light his way.

@ISaidWhatISaidPod Год назад

❤️❤️

@adeo506 10 месяцев назад

So happy and proud that Tobi could share all he has overcome- seems like such a great guy! BUT no offence it was SOO hard to listen with yall interrupting all the time and editing so harshly! Really wanted to hear the story about Tobis mum beating the Ngozi lady

@damisho 3 года назад

Tobi can not. Will never. Won’t ever do polygamy

@asalaboluwaduro 3 года назад

I like this longer version.

@leonieisibor8467 3 года назад

Lovely finding you here 😚

@sinegugungwenya7663 3 года назад

It’s me binging all of the audio episodes and coming on RU-vid to see how the guests look 😂 and FK & Jola’s reactions!

@Senseiblueberry 3 года назад

Me too😂

@niolasanni5539 3 года назад

Naaaaah I am screaming😂😂😂😂! I love Jola’s dress

@rebekahopara4179 3 месяца назад

'This one even bleached my mum didn't bleach' 😂😂😂😂

@bumzoflife1644 3 года назад

What!!!! Tobi is naturally hilarious. Thanks for this. We all deserve peace ✌, this one is beyond me.

@E_Angel03 3 года назад

I enjoyed watching this!! When i wasnt laughing my Jaws were dropped from what i was hearing. At some point i became a bit sad. He narrates this story with a lot of comic which says a lot, but i cant imagine how living in a home like that was for his mum and sibling (the anxiety from having to walk on egg shells). Though My father had just one wife (my mum), my mum, sibling and I still had to walk on egg shells cos we werent sure when World war III would break out! Unfortunately this kind of messed up upbringing follows you to your adulthood

@Fabztolly 3 года назад

I had to come back and say that this episode over-delivered. Even the hosts were shook. Loved it!

@georgeoshoms3120 3 года назад

Polygamous homes are so traumatic.my gosh,such drama 🤦

@chopcaringche8080 3 года назад

Felt like I was listening to a nollywood script being narrated. Your pops didn’t mean well for his life oh . An only child 😅

@teemah_b5220 3 года назад

I can’t imagine what this guy and his family would be going through at the time😭 narrating it like this make it sound so funny 😂 i am laughing my ass out here🤣🤣🤣🤣

@ngoziokwuegbuna3387 3 года назад

This is not the best time to be proud of my name honestly 😩😩💔💔

@ijeomaokebe1456 3 года назад

I can really feel the pain behind all the laughter. I’m just happy you turned out good in spite of all the drama. I also hope Ngozi is ashamed of her past

@olummiddey 3 года назад

this guy sure has seen a lot and he’s so calm. i really like that he’s not resentful and affected by everything. shows he’s in charge of how he feels and is not easily influenced. great episode all together. Jollz looks fabulous.

@treycybanana 3 года назад

came here after listening to the podcast because i needed to see the reactions for myself.

@adebayoadeniran6675 Год назад

this episode needs a part 2 please. 🙏🏽

@badrahlawal5031 3 года назад

Jola’s laughter really had me screaming 😂😭

@kerenuzo 3 года назад

My best episode so far, thank you for making it longer. This guys story really cracked me up and how he was able to laugh about it is so commendable

@seyifunmioye 3 года назад

I listened to the podcast and knew I just had to watch the video. This was so fun

@simdadedam2688 2 года назад

I just listened to this episode and at different points in the story, my mouth and eyes just kept getting wider. This episode was chaotic

@ibiayi5859 3 года назад

Love the longer videos!

@kangwa_mushili 2 года назад

Am just out of words ...but listening to this is a whole therapy session

@pharleelat 3 года назад

OMG!!!! I didn't want this to end. I also saw tears from the deep laughter in FK's eyes. Omo, his story is too funny than sad tbvh, can't even begin to imagine what he and his mum must have gone through.

@bama9215 3 года назад

Jola, is looking extra peng today! 🥰🥰 Thank you for the longer snippet!

@LAFONESS 3 года назад

My soul was in tears listening to this story 🥺

@JennyOyubu 3 года назад

This was so fun to watch like i was laughing from beginning to end. What a light weight way to discuss such a topic

@sadeo3279 3 года назад

Really enjoyed this! Please keep the longer videos coming

@ngoziokwuegbuna3387 3 года назад

Listened to the podcast a while ago, but coming here to see the facial expressions and I’m just wowed all over 😭

@seyinaike 3 года назад

Watching this after listening 🙋🏾‍♀️

@mobolajiadebayo9326 3 года назад

I enjoyed every bit of this. I laughed all through.

@MichaelRhodesno1 3 года назад

This episode was a jaw dropper ALL through! Just....WHATTT???? Tobi, I hope you're well & keeping safe!

@iam_tessyb 3 месяца назад

This compressed version on RU-vid didn’t do justice to this video at alll. Imagine compressing a 2hr video to 30mins, you guys are missingggg

@BokuaAdwoa 2 года назад

just when i thought of subscribing, the intro just hit me! this is my 4th video watching from ISWS today

@ibukunodujoko5245 Год назад

I paused the new episode to catch up .. Guys I'm crying this is so hilarious

@springchigbu1058 3 года назад

I can truly relate. And I like all the points he made👏

@ibukunadekunle6230 3 года назад

Loved the episode ❤️

@georginagory5968 2 года назад

This was fun to watch... Love love love you guys.

@damilolafamakinwa8057 2 года назад

Awesome piece! Welldone....Tobi is the real deal!

@adesubomiadegbite 3 года назад

Absolutely loved this episode, so chaotic 😂😂😂😂😂

@TheMillennialCEOKE 2 года назад

Best episode ever! He's such a great storyteller 😅

@tagbochioma5730 Год назад

If you can tell your story and laugh about it...That's the one step to healing. Thank you for sharing Tobi!

@nextgistchannel6964 3 года назад

Why am I just discovering this channel 🤩I love love your ladies 😘 new sub here....so glad am here I enjoyed every bit 😁

@Ninuolaa 3 года назад

Aunty jola thank you for a long video o, we appreciate because i know its you, its you lol. Thank you guys for this episode i genuinely enjoyed the chaos..... As usual the bounce is back.

@chopcaringche8080 3 года назад

Finished listening to the podcast and I said I must see your face 😂 . You, your mom and siblings went through very dark times .

@bunmiafolabi6855 3 года назад

This video has me in tears 😂

@demiladeodusola2661 3 года назад

Omoooo😂😂😂, the wife and mother-in-law part killed meeee

@aminaadesope2027 3 года назад

Very insightful ❤️

@ronkegiwa1 3 года назад

This was super hilarious to watch! Oro buruku with laughter. The wall gecko part!!!!!!!

@amakatee3186 3 года назад

Gush!! this episode is crazy I hope Tobi is okay, we need season 2 abeg😃

@lornamaria 3 года назад

I was laughing and sad because this was chaotic, traumatic and dramatic all at once 😂😭

@_gbots 3 года назад

You guys look so good 🥺🥺😍😍 I love FK's dress !!

@stephhadassah6144 3 года назад

I like the way tobi choose to do better regardless of how he grew up..... beautiful show

@demiladeodusola2661 3 года назад

Mannnn, this episode was amazinggg😂😂😂😂

@enehuwazakariyya2098 3 года назад

This episode is so SHOCKING and CHAOTIC! The story that makes me sadder is Shola’s. I still can’t wrap my head around it. “Seeing the foetus?” Wtfffffffff

@olamideniyiafuye Год назад

This guy is dealing with his trauma in the best way possible. With frank humour.

@gabrielleegwu 2 года назад

Omg!! I love him!! I absolutely loved this episode. I laughed all through! 😂😂😊

@Damilola- 3 года назад

Enjoyed it 👏🏽

@The_Cruise_Fam 3 года назад

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 OMG! I laughed so hard… story stared kinda sad, but Tobi made it fun at the end. He’s the kind of friend I need in my life to lol all day everyday.

@ifeodugbesan9062 3 года назад

Why is this funny and sad at the same time?😭

@timidigifa5421 2 года назад

Can't believe this episode had to end

@Stylebyshima 3 года назад

This made me laugh so much, like ya'all laughter is soo contagious.🤣🤣🤣❤️❤️❤️❤️

@christabellanaku 3 года назад

Aaahhhh.....yeeeehh!!! There is resilience in the land..And Tobi you are resilient and strong because....i dont understand how you do not have personality dissociative disorder, schizophrenia??, Borderline personality disorder?, or any kind of trauma related personality disorders...Coz Jesu....this is above nollywood and bollywood production budget🙆🏾‍♀️ God bless you and thank you for sharing!!!🙌🏾🙌🏾