Handsome Men Intimidate Some Women 

Not to sound arrogant, but you just explained me in a nutshell. What I’ve noticed is that the less attractive Women will try to bring me down a level in a passive aggressive way. I also noticed that the more attractive ones will go out of their way to ignore me. It’s an interesting dynamic when you’re “attractive”,introverted, and somewhat of an old soul. Many times when Women of a lower frequency can’t figure a guy out, you’re put into the “Weirdo or Quiet” category.

People think being attractive doesnt come with problems, it does.

I’ve had plenty of attractive females get intimidated when I simply introduce myself. It’s crazy how the 10’s be the most insecure and shy ones 😂

They want a man that they can control, and handsome men have too many options for them.

A lot of older women in their 40's and 50's will be trying to eat you up lol

Nothing like being told you look like you have a lot of women.

Man it’s definitely tough. Women are intimidated by me. Than you gotta deal with other dudes hating on you. Shit sad.

Few women are intimidated by handsome men bcuz a lot of women feel they look good too. You even have some women who hate on handsome men bcuz they feel they can't get him. But being handsome has many benefits when it comes to the opposite sex. Most women will want to have sex with you right away bcuz of the way you look. But when you get into a relationship with women and your deemed handsome women don't trust you for shit. You could be hard at work and she'll assume you're with some chick and what not. Smh. Now with handsome men you're gonna have problems with certain men. Men see you and hate you even though you try to be cool with them bcuz they're jealous. But you have dudes that'll give you your props and even say they wish they could be you

This completely feels like what I've been through...Not just looks but when some girls are brave enough and hit on me they again get intimidated by my intellect...So its not just looks...A good head is another thing they are scared of...A head that wont take their bullshit,A head with a strong backbone

Let Uncle Rom speak G. He giving out gems 💯💯.

Alot of times women have a bad attitude towards me because im handsome. Even when I'm just trying have small talk.

To me, the best looking dudes get the most sex, but they also have to deal with women becoming crazy, and obsessed with you. Men that are in the 6 to 7 out of 10 range end up in the sweet spot, because they can have sex with women, without worrying about them harassing him at his job.

I remember when I was a ugly duckling as a boy cause very teeth . I was afraid of women and saw them above me . Now that im fixed and sexy I realize that these girls get nervous too when you talk to them . No one is above you , but God

A woman that I had sex with recently told me that she's been liking me for over a year and I asked her why she never said anything she told me that she thought that I would swerve her 😂😂, it actually amazed me lol

i had one woman tell me "you look too good to be with me". i was shocked because shes gorgeous but her self esteem is at 0 because of her troubled childhood. i actually thought she was too pretty for me. she is with a guy in a wheelchair. had a baby by him. go figure.

Plus if you're a good looking man you feel entitled to get a good looking woman, getting unattractive women would be like proving to yourself that you're not manly or have zero charisma

“Women want a good looking guy, provided they aren’t as good looking as them.” Spitting facts my man!

I'm quite handsome, I'm 6'1, good bone structure, full head of hair, slim but lean, very good facial hair, clean cut, etc etc. Most backlash I've experienced in approaching woman stemmed from the least attractive ones

Had an ex say things like “why do you even like me,” “you look like someone that likes girls more fit than me.” Never understood it at the time but now it makes sense. She hated all the pics we had together bc I would make her look less attractive than if she was by herself in the pic. I believe I made her feel insecure in the relationship and she didn’t like that she had to compete with me based on looks.

Dark skinned women been calling me gay for as long as I can remember. Lightskin women, white women, Latino women, n no other race treats me this way. Dark skinned women also always talk to me arrogantly like I did something wrong to them.

And they don’t ever bring up the good looking guys who are actually faithful to their women either.Its like these guys don’t exist.

In my rare moments of being select, I've had women check me out (as my boy would tell me but I wouldn't believe it deep down) but they wouldn't say nothing. And I'm mainly a laidback dude on the shy side.

Soo true!especially if that handsome man has money they'll start hatin on him.

I’m handsome I’ve been told all my life that I’m good looking. People stare at me all the time men and women. I’m 34 I have never had GF and I’m on my own. I’m a bartender and 95% of women I serve are really mean to me very passive aggressive purposely annoy me I feel such a negative vibe from them. A lot of young beta males are also pretty rude to me. I feel so alone it’s horrible. Most of my work colleagues a lot of the times Ingore me in social situations. I have learning difficulties so hard for me to express myself as well. After reading your comments Just glad im not the only one who feels this way.

I have been called a player because I’am handsome lol. I see myself as average though. But I’am far from a player. I just want to be a family man lol. I personally don’t like the attention. My woman even be talking about how many women be staring at me while we’re out in public, but I never pay it attention. Because my attention is on her. I wish that she would realize what she has. Now, as a man it is important to keep the abundance mindset, because there is a possibility that things may not work out, and for her to realize that she isn’t the only woman that I can get. And anybody can be replaced. Staying in my masculine frame, and demanding respect. Because she doesn’t define my worth, but I do. You’re the prize fellas. But...I have never cheated nor even banged a bunch of woman during my single life. I have always banged in relationships, with my girl. I don’t really care about being handsome, I just care about being a stand up guy, with integrity, strength, and leadership skills. Looks can only get me in the door, but the game will keep you on the winning streak.

A lot of women say they don't like "pretty" or very attractive men. I've heard many say that THEY want to be the more attractive one in the relationship

It’s weird and frustrating sometime. Getting shade for no reason. Doing subtle things to get you off your square. Purposely under minding you taking longer to greet and serve u with your order At food joints shit crazy etc. I’m on the shy/introverted side I feel like I’m damned no matter what I do.

Maybe some want your attention, but fear risking the rejection. Their ego & pride gets in the way leaving them discombobulated

This video made me laugh because I've met women who would say to me that they're probably not good enough for me. I would ask them why they feel they're not good enough for me and they would say, I'm nice looking and got my self together. Peace

Whenever I see or hear the word handsome uncle rom, I always think of my mom dukes (rip) saying to my brothers we always look super handsome when we're well groomed. Make it worst, out of all of us I got the deep voice and smile. Lol

This is extremely true......................a truth most people never talk about. Women get intimidated just like men do. Matter fact, ask yourself when was the last time you actually saw a good looking couple together?

Good looks come in many form as far as men are concerned. Some dude are handsome with properly symmetrical features, others are well built and muscular while some dress well, well droomed and carry a powerful energy. Not all good looking men fit the same bill. Depending on your category of attractiveness, women will react towards you in various manner. As far as I am concerned, I am well built, muscular athletic, decent face, and bear a proud no BS energy. Most young women won't deal with me because I do not play into their bullshits and given them the time of the day. I do not flirt, I am professional at work and courteous and respectful outside. I dress well, I hit the gym hard and my money is straight. Since most of them are conceited narcissists, we do not have anything in common. I have been called " gay", " arrogant", " cocky." But always behind my back. On the other hand though, older women are crazy towards me for some reason. And these mofos are blunt! I just laugh it off. I guess mamas know a man when they see one.

Women start acting all weird and shy when I come around and when I look at them they always put there heads down like they submit to me and I just be laughing plus the body language be saying everything 🤣

That is true. There are a ton of girls that just love to stare or look at me like crazy. There were 2 girls that were interested in me, they were checking me out at the plaza. The other girl was telling her ''Go after him!'' she was like ''nah'' she took a step forward, hesitated but was still staring. She was definitely intimidated. I'm a very attractive man, the most attractive out of the 3 brothers. A lot of girls in high school were approaching me just to say I'm really cute or hot or sexy. They want to be seen with me and shit. There are some very beautiful girls that a lot of guys are thirsty for, that are thirsty for me. With that, there are a lot of jealous dudes. I had a dude try and fake swing at my face as I was just walking by. Did not look at him or nothing, he was just so driven to do that. How the hell do you come at someone like that that you don't know that you just saw APPEAR in your periphirol vision in a couple of seconds? Everywhere I go some dudes give me that ''You think you are all that don't you?'' look. Anyway, those 2 girls were LITERALLY sitting there in their car for like 10 minutes.

Women always told me that my intelligence and love of knowledge intimidating. I never understood that.

Man this is so true women are extremely intimidated by me to the point were they can barely say a word. Your right about us not being players like that, we usually date close to our looksmatch and just try to have healthy long term relationships.

having your body right pulls women more than most things. Thats been my experience. I get the I'm cute thing but my body was in great shape when I was young and financially stable. Fellas, body and just being able to take care of yourself goes far. It will get you in the door. Keep teachin them Rom

Yup, I didnt believe this until I got older. If you take care of yourself, have confidence and STANDARDS, alot women, specially these so called "10s" get VERY insecure, casue they aint use someone else getting more attention then them. You can be an attractive man that loves, respects and wants to be with only her, some will still give you the side eye.

Other thing I notice is making female friends is tough. I feel this weird sense of tension in our interactions even if I’m not attracted. It almost feels like there’s attraction somewhere even tho there are some females I legit want to just be friends with.

Was Working out and this girl told her bf like 6 feet away from me that he thinks he’s sexy n all because she say how I carried myself and n shape . that I hope he falls off that machine. Because I was doing crunches with a medicine ball at a decline. This happens all the time some stuff people say is still so hard to believe nasty envious attitude

He is 100% correct. Being great looking definitely has drawbacks. It's hard to make and keep friends. Guys like to befriend guys that are less attractive then them. I realized years ago that's why i have problems with male friends, and guys I'm cool with dont invite me to hang in their circles. Women either immediately put their guards up, want to sleep with you immediately, or they will find little ways to chip away at your confidence by saying they like shit you don't have. Ex "I like fat guys" or "guys with tattoos are sexy".

I'm an attractive pretty boy and most women are scared to approach me like it's funny because I find it a bit challenging to talk to a woman. When I try to talk to a woman like people automatically assume I'm flirting with them. As a pretty boy myself most people think I am a player. Men sometimes are intimated by my good looks too because they fear that I'm a gay or I will always know how to get a women. People like judging me based on my appearance and that is sad because my personality is really great once you get to know me. But I was born attractive so I am going to keep enjoying who I am as a person no matter what life throws at my way.

You are still teaching and I am still learning. I have heard this statement from ladies when they tell me why a woman who likes a man and does not act like it towards the man, feels inside, they say, "they are intimated." Like you said, "women are risk adverse," and I have had plenty of women say that they didn't tell me something, when it comes to their attraction or intent internally towards me, because they didn't know how I would take it, and that they didn't want to get rejected. A lot of times, I have been surprised that a woman found me attractive. Anytime a woman that I hardly know or don't know at all walks up to me and gives me her number without me having to ask, blows me away. I am like, "really, you?" Sometimes, I am like, "I didn't even think you liked men." That goes to the last part of your video. I have had women who I swore hated men, or swung the other way, approach me with the "let's get together" tip and that always humbled me. I try my best to stay humble and appreciate any time a lady chooses me because tomorrow they might choose someone else. It is what it is. Much respect brother. You always give great insight.

Rom you're a real one for this!

More than a few times I’ll hear stories from coworkers/guy friends that some girl’s been talking about me saying she and I used to talk, meanwhile I’ve never had a conversation with this girl in my life. Feels like I’m slowly connecting the dots to how insecure these women truly are

A handsome man may intimidate some women as far as a relationship but they all will sleep with a man they find extremely attractive (just the way I like it).

Great video!! I now understand why I get treated the way I do. It's not me it's them

This video has explained so much for me. Thank you

Another Great video Rom. I'm a good looking white dude, slick back hair, nice beard. I'm an old soul for sure, deep into esoteric knowledge but also well balanced with the western world. Older women are smitten by me often, compliment and flirt with me alot. But most women my age don't approach because I come off a certain way. I'm not a model by any means but my childhood and what I went through gave me ridiculously high self esteem and it seeps out of me so most low vibrational women can't even take my energy. I've been called gorgeous or beautiful but this was by women who were either drunk or who I've pulled and opened them up. It's very weird but I tend to get hit on by older men and women or very young women. My age bracket, nah not so much.

I'm very shy around men and especially good looking men. I get so nervous !!

I find that also women pass on better looking men because she dont want to have to compete to keep that man. She will have to be on her sht because she know or at least think she knows, she can be replaced by the many other women she see thats a step above her.

Wow great Video Mr Rom Wills

Real talk fam! I agree because one thing men have to understand who may be considered average looking to women who can have the tendency to be on the outside looking in when it comes to the attractive men, they just automatically assume that those type of guys just have women seducing them and that's not always the case fam, it's the other way around based upon what you've just mentioned! A lot of these women don't want to be with a man that's more attractive than them or too attractive because of intimidation and they don't always want to deal with the hassle of him dealing with multiple women because they're going to automatically assume that he has a lot of women and that's not always the case either The last thing on these women mind is approaching an attractive man, even if he approach her like you said, she'll look in the other direction or spin him off because of intimidation! Now you do have certain that'll approach real attractive men because they're just that attracted to him and those the kind of men they just like, it's rare though because of what you and I just talked about because of the women's self intimidation!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

A lot of females told me i was intimidating cuz of my looks body and i own my own businesses the woman were ashamed of their bodies and thought i wouldn’t like them cuz i was fit and they weren’t smh 💯💪🏾💪🏾

This explains so much So this is why my ex gf thought I was a player. I barely ever interacted sexually with girls to begin with 😂.

Yeah, It’s weird when they just stare especially when it’s a group of them. Another great video, always learning.

I’m always labeled as a player because of my looks and woman rather not deal with me than to find out how I really rock . When I was younger I grew up thinking I was the problem , i was real Insecure about how I looked . I knew I was good looking but I second guessed it because girls wouldn’t take the chance with me . Love the video !!! Another good point is the problem it can have with family/friends . I remember this one time me and my older brother was dealing with these two girls , One of them dated my brother . I was dealing with the other one , we just had a lot of sexual attraction ( you know ) . So the one my brother was dating started to come over more , And I would notice she would try to be more friendly towards me . Before I would keep her at a distance out of respect for my brother but my mom told me I should talk to her more and not be so cold hearted to her , Because all I would say to her is ( Wassup / see you later ) we didn’t talk she would just see me around the house or with her friend . Ok fast forward we talking more and she starting to see my personality and who I am really. And I don’t know when but she started coming to my house when my brother was at work and she would pick me up , And she’ll buy me food and take me to run errands with her . I was 18 at the time so I didn’t know anything about female Psychology at all ... I didn’t know she was showing me off . And tryna be with me alone. A couple of days after that her friend tells me , I need to be careful with her ( my brother EX girlfriend ). She told me that she was starting to have feelings for me and that if she meet me before my brother she would’ve picked me . Which didn’t make since to me at the time because I was only 18 and she was like 20 . I wasn’t attracted to her at all . Being an attractive man you gotta keep some of your family/friends girls at a distance . You can’t have a relationship with them because I wouldn’t say all the time but at times they start to have feelings for you when you open up and show your personality.

I find that interesting that the only RU-vidr who thought about handsome men related topic has only like 40k subs. We need guidance too!

Damn Og Rom..I been listening to locario for a few months and my game has came all the way up..but he always mentions you and arc..I appreciate game big homie , this shit make your life better.peace!

Women always a accuse me of having alot of women or not being single.

DOESN'T MATTER WHAT HE LOOKS LIKE JUST AS LONG AS HE'S A SIMP FOR HER.

Funny you made this video Uncle Rom. I was just speaking to a classmate/employee of mine. He told me that a lot of girls in his dorm think I’m fine, but are scared to even look at me because I come off as rude/arrogant (I’m introverted) and as a player. I’m slim muscular as it is, I’ve stepped up my gym game thanks to you, C Boogie, and Stephon. I’m honestly scared of what might happen when I get that Dom body.

I’m late watching this but I needed this years ago. Struggling man

I’m a model and can verify everything you’re saying is true.

Thanks for stroking my ego Rob. You the man.

I haven't listen to the vid yet but it's true women freeze up when a man has standards lol

You caught my ear around 7:00✅✍🏽 now I know what it means when they say I look like a player, I always thought my reputation was tainted 💯

“He looks like a player” 😂😂😂😂😂

Most definitely. You know when I mentioned this to others I was told that I'm crazy for saying so. Thing is according to my experience your wisdom is on point.

Thanks for the advice coach😆✊

Man it's hard to get the 9/10s because they say I look like a "hoe". In other words attractive, but I've heard that before... I wasn't informed that I was above average looking until I was in my 20s.

Great video! That could explain somethings for me.

straight facts i once had a woman that was so insecure about my physical appearance if i was wearing a wife beater in the summer she would tell me to cover up or say things like why am i showing off

Facts I’m experiencing that a lot 💯

Ron u are speaking by experience resonates all to well.

Very true and one of the side effects of being handsome and fly and fit...every woman wants a relationship with you when they do get comfortable. Trust i know this very well. Hit it once and then they(the women) want all.

True true true , I’ve seen so many of these feminist woman get with these guys who looks wise are complete no hopers! I think it’s a control thing with this kind of woman, they know they can’t control these handsome lads the same way they can control the less handsome lads ,sex wise the handsome man has more options in her mind !

For me women's behavior run in streaks. I get times when most women are teethy and pleasant. Other times I can feel the passive aggression when they do everything in their power to not even look at me. I find it amusing for the most part.

There is this attractive woman at the gym who I caught staring at me. She literally got off the mat and ran out the gym 😂. Just recently she started saying hi with this weird look on her face🤣

Never thought I’d see the day where this video relates to me

I think that's my problem sometimes because there are times people told me a girl was feeling me and I didn't believe them because the girl didn't initiate conversation etc. Then I figured they're shy or scared. Lol.

It can work against you, because if you're not the type that flip out over them ,you don't have a chance

Wow you broke it down perfectly.

this is true women think i'm gay lol

You have great and relatable content

"You look like you like white women". Any players ever got that one before?

You speaking truth Sir! I been growing my dreads for 12yrs, much more hair than the average woman. And been told and also know I am a handsome guy and carry myself like such. Its hard to have real convo with shallow minded women who just look at my looks. I'm ok with ladies, good energy eye contact etc. But man do they think i'mma game spitter. It also make them insecure when I can honestly tell them what I want or expect, yes I have friends and talk to other women but it could all change for the right woman. Most expect men to lie about those simple things and I don't have too. If I use my playa ways inside me in sure I could pimp but keeing it real with them get u looked at as a game runner but they eat up the lies though. Lol

Your videos are hilarious keep doing you bro

That's crazy im quite handsome. I got hazel eyes and brown skinned. When i walk down the street and i glance at women they'll glance as well but then they'll turn their face. I never understood why they do that. It baffles me. I seem to get compliments from older women. Women of my age bracket don't really compliment me.

Damn, Rom was bustin’ all kinds of game 4 years ago?!? I have to go back and watch this content.

Facts I’m say not just looks , but ya mindset , ya conscious can be enough for an woman , not too many woman used to attractive men with high values and some sense

This is all facts, but I’ll still keep my fronts up in a major way and holla at who I want, if she can’t handle the sauce my campaign just keeps rolling on down the road. Yes We can ! 🎩

As a former model as well as personal trainer, I have a couple of observations in regard to this topic: 1. The fact that most women go for men that don't look as good so they can validate themselves, while telling themselves and others that attractive men [that they are too anxious to date] are players just goes to show that women can't really be taken seriously. 2. Trying to assure average looking women that you like them is annoying and makes me respect them even less. 'Adjustable 5s', or average looking women who appear to be slightly above average if they put work into themselves constantly play games just because they want to make themselves believe that they are more attractive than you. Also, this type will try to trap you, which will bring your looks down. 3. Women who are slightly above average looking overestimate their value because they look better than average looking women, especially if you are in a city [I'm in Baltimore] that doesn't have a high percentage of 8s and above. They play the most games, which is a headache to deal with. 4. Actual 8s & above are pretty easy to deal with for attractive men, but they aren't enough of them around outside of major cities. Living in a 'normal' city means dealing with constant shit testing and what not. 5. The silver lining is that learning any game whatsoever opens up a lot of doors, especially in the game of life instead of just women. The fact that your looks affect people can be used in your favor if you know how to be charismatic and make people feel comfortable around you. Also, if you have some bedroom skills to go with the looks and know how to use women's need for validation for your own gain, women will give you what you want. The bottom line about being an attractive male is that you need to learn how to be Machiavellian or you end up being a cute mascot for women and their bullshit.

Great content brother

If she looks better than all her friends that’s a sign

You speak the truth, I’ve barely had to develop game just cause women just throw themselves at me especially the older ones I have hella mothers saying they have a daughter for me lmao

Hey Rom I consider my self average handsome.I think I come off as intimidating but I think my swagger has a lot to do with that as well.A lot of women will look sometimes stare but rarely say anything.

You right about that I've been told I'm handsome but even in my best shape my count wasn't that high and still isn't but was enough to make me chill out for a very Long time!

Unfortunately when you are a handsome guy you will have to deal with a lot of petty and goofy sh*t

True,, Specific with low self-esteem women