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@yagikataiser434
@yagikataiser434 3 месяца назад
Finally, my math degree comes in handy. Time to grab my crayons and become a misogynist
@johnrice3675
@johnrice3675 3 месяца назад
I wanted to say brand new sentence.. but sadly it's probably not.
@beybladebaby
@beybladebaby 3 месяца назад
his mummy needs to take his crayons away and force him to take a shower
@The.Harsh.Truths
@The.Harsh.Truths 3 месяца назад
You aren’t using the word misogynist correctly, but I hope using it to describe anyone that has a criticism for women is getting you laid.
@reginene
@reginene 3 месяца назад
LMAFOOOO
@me0101001000
@me0101001000 3 месяца назад
I mean, hey, that's one way to put that math degree to use and make some money, right? :')
@coolerrocket
@coolerrocket 3 месяца назад
Hating women with math is cringe. Hating math with women is where it's at!
@isitleeyourelookingfor6352
@isitleeyourelookingfor6352 3 месяца назад
so true
@think_of_a_storyboard3635
@think_of_a_storyboard3635 3 месяца назад
let's hope there's no multiplying!
@GlobnarTheGreen
@GlobnarTheGreen 3 месяца назад
Goddamn right brother
@horadric3
@horadric3 3 месяца назад
first of all how dare you
@lemmmakestunes8312
@lemmmakestunes8312 2 месяца назад
Fuck you math is fire. This post was sent by the Math Multitude.
@thecartographer118
@thecartographer118 3 месяца назад
Love that Anastasia immediately integrated into the bisexual seating position scheme
@theaceofswords
@theaceofswords 3 месяца назад
so nice of anastasia to let jarvis and jordan on her podcast!
@traditionalnative
@traditionalnative 3 месяца назад
Their* they use they/them pronouns (:
@shrinebow.
@shrinebow. 3 месяца назад
⁠@@traditionalnativewait didn’t they call them a girl though?
@secureviolet4328
@secureviolet4328 3 месяца назад
@@shrinebow.pronouns don’t refer to gender in that way. Someone can identify as a girl or present as feminine but their preferred pronouns are simply that. I see them as gender expression almost , so neutral, masc, fem..
@shrinebow.
@shrinebow. 3 месяца назад
@@secureviolet4328 oh thanks :)
@secureviolet4328
@secureviolet4328 3 месяца назад
@@shrinebow.lil late to this but of course :)
@susie8799
@susie8799 3 месяца назад
Free this man from the throes of misogyny and let him follow his real hobby: making charts
@alexandrahenderson4368
@alexandrahenderson4368 9 дней назад
Bro coulda been Aristótels student helping him chart stars but nooooo he wanted to be a 21 century misogyny charter instead
@JinStreams
@JinStreams 3 месяца назад
The chart guy would be absolutely adorable if he dedicated this passion to anything other than misogyny. Imagine these little charts, but for gundams or something
@bingyboi6303
@bingyboi6303 3 месяца назад
😢 a chart like that for gundam would be so cool now I’m actually sad cause of that thought
@The.Harsh.Truths
@The.Harsh.Truths 3 месяца назад
You aren’t using the word misogyny correctly. This guy actually bashes men in his videos all the time.
@bingyboi6303
@bingyboi6303 3 месяца назад
@@The.Harsh.Truths chart guy?
@Jane-oz7pp
@Jane-oz7pp 3 месяца назад
​@@The.Harsh.Truths that doesn't make him not a misogynist lmfao clown take
@Jane-oz7pp
@Jane-oz7pp 3 месяца назад
​@@The.Harsh.Truths oh, of course you're redefining misogyny, I just saw your other comments simping for the misogynist. Settle down little guy, he's not gonna kiss you.
@darkaiel
@darkaiel 3 месяца назад
Jordan's slow break after "vicarriagely" was wonderful. It was like six stages of grief for a pun.
@mizzenmax
@mizzenmax 3 месяца назад
I was losing it with him while the other two kept taking. It was like a grenade went off and I couldn’t hear anything else other than the echo of “vicarriagely”😂
@meinenklinke
@meinenklinke 2 месяца назад
Oh man! I’m so excited to get to this!!
@flooffys
@flooffys 3 месяца назад
jordan on the thumbnail today !?
@awsomeness242ify
@awsomeness242ify 3 месяца назад
Not for long😢
@apeiceofgarbage9848
@apeiceofgarbage9848 3 месяца назад
Glad to see him there
@TylaStark
@TylaStark 3 месяца назад
We have been blessed
@TedTickHectic
@TedTickHectic 3 месяца назад
Quite the treat :)
@bluebell560
@bluebell560 3 месяца назад
Jarvis showed up in my next up tho while I was waiting for an ad
@jillopdog
@jillopdog 3 месяца назад
how am i supposed to live a peaceful life now that jarvis has implanted to phrase "horse is the basketball of the summer" into my psyche
@ericwoods3316
@ericwoods3316 3 месяца назад
As a neurodivergent person, these charts are highly ND my dude. It’s sad because I can see the appeal if you’re a young ND person looking to provide structure to what can feel like a chaotic and unfriendly world. Feels exploitative, in a way
@Guineapigsreadingbooks
@Guineapigsreadingbooks 3 месяца назад
It feels like it preys on young ND men specifically, pretending to explain the world that is often confusing with misogyny dressed up in charts that appeal to people looking for logic in an illogical world.
@mintallylost222
@mintallylost222 3 месяца назад
THISS. I was previously subscribed to this guy after seeing one video and I thought, huh, that is like math but cool. But upon watching his ick video, I realised that he's not a great guy after all and unsubbed. You're so right on how this can be exploitative to younger neurodivergent individuals. I'm old enough to form opinions of my own, and even I almost got hooked into his bullshit.
@doublejoywilson
@doublejoywilson 3 месяца назад
yeah as an ND person can confirm that i have made charts to try to understand social relationships before lol. it’s sad that he’s using that to be a misogynist bc i agree i see the appeal and how it could be exploitative
@KattReen
@KattReen Месяц назад
Yeah. He's wearing his autistic tendencies on his sleeve. Black and white thinking, taking everything literally, obsessively trying to sort facts into his own little charts and graphs. And it's going to have an appeal to other guys who have the same problems as him. It's really, really sad. Perpetrator AND victim.
@RamenKitsune
@RamenKitsune 3 месяца назад
RIP "Howdy" Gone but never forgotten.
@darkaiel
@darkaiel 3 месяца назад
Looking forward to Jordan coming out fully in a cowboy costume on the first day of summer.
@eminempreg
@eminempreg 3 месяца назад
So long...partner🐴
@ayersem2746
@ayersem2746 3 месяца назад
Jordan has convinced me to start using “RATS” as an expletive. It’s SO FUNNY in a ridiculous way and I’m kind of over saying fck and sht
@kkuudandere
@kkuudandere 3 месяца назад
I've taken to saying "curses!" like an old time movie villain
@Jane-oz7pp
@Jane-oz7pp 3 месяца назад
I'm a big fan of phrases like "Blast it!" and "scorn and lamentations" Getting poetic and weird with your language makes it hit way harder.
@GlobnarTheGreen
@GlobnarTheGreen 3 месяца назад
Gadzooks! Darn it all to heck!
@voidify3
@voidify3 3 месяца назад
I’ve started saying “ah beans”
@abigailoverton7610
@abigailoverton7610 3 месяца назад
i’m more of a ‘shucks’ girl myself
@saraisreading4231
@saraisreading4231 3 месяца назад
Taught my 8th graders about logical fallacies today in class… I think this dude hit them all.
@vklnew9824
@vklnew9824 3 месяца назад
Poorly aged white ♀️
@purpleofallpurple5542
@purpleofallpurple5542 3 месяца назад
@@vklnew9824girl what 😭
@Velvetx4cove
@Velvetx4cove 3 месяца назад
​@@purpleofallpurple5542 They're spamming this and other immature junk in the comments. I think it needs attention.
@Hopeskyesk
@Hopeskyesk Месяц назад
@@vklnew9824did you get the attention you wanted? Feel better now?
@ladyweirdo6035
@ladyweirdo6035 3 месяца назад
Bro, I don't f*ck and I can understand that liking something in fiction isn't the same as liking something in real life. Misogynists either want to justify their behavior or they don't want to put in the effort to humanize the people they want to spend the rest of their lives with.
@beybladebaby
@beybladebaby 3 месяца назад
pretty much its like when they come up to girls and women and say oh you're a feminist? so I can punch you? I can hit you and beat the cr*p out of you? like they're actually frothing at the mouth with excitement at the idea of hurting women its actually insane
@Sanakudou
@Sanakudou 3 месяца назад
I suspect that all the misogynists who fixate on womens fictional fantasies are covert hypocrites and all it’d take is someone leaking a list of their most frequented p*rnhub categories and they’d be real quick to insist there’s no correlation between fictional consumption and one’s actual sexuality proclivities.
@vklnew9824
@vklnew9824 3 месяца назад
Your face needs to touch concrete
@dip_doop
@dip_doop 3 месяца назад
@@vklnew9824 what’s wrong dude
@sakurayankishi9708
@sakurayankishi9708 2 месяца назад
​@@dip_doophis 13 year old girlfriend dumped him for a Chad
@junoestro
@junoestro 3 месяца назад
we should really move the wiki to something other than fandom because of the current boycotting of fandom for being horrendous
@reckless_herb
@reckless_herb 3 месяца назад
what’s up with fandom? or where can i find accurate info on that?
@rat8294
@rat8294 3 месяца назад
just a really bad company in general the website has a horrible user experience especially on mobile where the entire screen is covered in adds far more than needed to run a website of fandoms size and on top of that the site has bad moderation with the site and its mod team doing everything in their power to stop wikis from moving to better sites. also fandom allows anyone to edit pages which causes plenty misinformation on the topic of the wiki also the site doesn't do anything the fact check info that is put on the site or if the info is found to be wrong the don't fix the errors @@reckless_herb
@incendiarypoprocks8700
@incendiarypoprocks8700 3 месяца назад
@@reckless_herbjust some horribly bad platform management and gross misuse of the platform for advertisement. They defaced a bunch of wikis into a major brand ad campaign, are weird about taking down defunct wikis or supporting more well-made wikis on the same topic, and have tanked the site’s performance with an overabundance of ads and auto-playing videos. That’s what I personally remember, but I’m sure there’s more.
@bronze1557
@bronze1557 3 месяца назад
​@@reckless_herbHollow Knight youtuber "mossbag" has a really good video on fandom in a general context and how it has fucked up several wikis, has taken dubious actions and overall has poor management. There is also another video on censorship from an editor on the Fear and Hunger wiki but I don't remember the channel name
@reckless_herb
@reckless_herb 3 месяца назад
@@bronze1557 mmm thanks!! i’ve used it often but hadn’t heard anything bad about it until now. appreciate you pointing me in the right direction :)
@Jane-oz7pp
@Jane-oz7pp 3 месяца назад
as a certified freak: Just because I want to roleplay it, does not mean I actually want to have someone do it to me for real. Half the reason I have a fetish like that to begin with is because I'm reclaiming a story from my trauma. It gives me _control_ of my narrative. Taking that control out of the equation is only going to traumatise me more.
@CSpottsGaming
@CSpottsGaming 3 месяца назад
Yeah, there are plenty of people who have, for example, a non-consent kink that they play out in a safe environment with their partner. That doesn't mean they want the real thing to happen to them. That's the scary thing about dudes like this - they can't separate the fantasy from someone's actual desires.
@seanisadeadude
@seanisadeadude 3 месяца назад
The guy you reacted to is really just “guy who has only ever played d&d with his misogynist friends.”
@Sunny_Mooon
@Sunny_Mooon 3 месяца назад
The Woman in the sword video is Momo O'Brien, she is amazing! Her youtube channel is about immersive experiences (Theme parks, larp, interactive plays, themed fairs, etc) is one of my favorite youtube channels of all times!!! Also she talks a lot about fantasy content and play a lot of characters over her social media... so yeah she was not being realistic, she was playing into the dark fantasy romance fandom stereotypes.
@heatheroic
@heatheroic 3 месяца назад
agreed! things can be very attractive in specific roleplay scenarios, and yet obviously she is not talking about all women wanting that to happen in real life, but simply a trope that a lot of women who are into fantasy tend to enjoy.
@demetriam2408
@demetriam2408 3 месяца назад
Yeah she's just being silly and hyperbolic but he's making it into some big argument. Like dude, she's just into roleplay, why are you making it into a thing.
@Charisdreaming
@Charisdreaming 3 месяца назад
And I’m ONLY commenting to defend Momo but she also said all “we” want- so it’s not even clear if she was talking about all women or just larp players or her friend group- like it’s splitting hairs but it doesn’t seem like she was trying to represent more than a small community
@beybladebaby
@beybladebaby 3 месяца назад
And this freak just stands in the corner heavily breathing and clutching his crayolas
@TheNerdySimulation
@TheNerdySimulation 3 месяца назад
So glad others were here to say this since I haven't watched her in a bit but nothing more immediately put me on team "Fuck This Guy" than seeing he stitched her. I'm so glad they all quite quickly recognized her schtick and it being a fun little bit. I bet they'd even love some of her videos, they're absolutely oozing with genuine passion and love for that craft.
@frankensteinlives
@frankensteinlives 3 месяца назад
Bugs Bunny's government name is, apparently, George Washington Bunny. So that's. Fine.
@julialaurenbm
@julialaurenbm 3 месяца назад
This man doesn't understand the inherent eroticism of swordfights. Smh
@bready2crumble
@bready2crumble 3 месяца назад
Jarvis’ soft spoken voice during the golf bit was actually so calming. I need a Jarvis soft spoken asmr vid bro
@caycecarson
@caycecarson 3 месяца назад
Right? It was a joke but my brain immediately started to shut down into sleep mode lol
@vklnew9824
@vklnew9824 3 месяца назад
Poorly aged white ♀️
@dip_doop
@dip_doop 3 месяца назад
@@vklnew9824what an odd thing to say
@AKA253
@AKA253 3 месяца назад
“Matt Mercer corrupted by necromancy” is such a beautiful way of putting it
@molina616
@molina616 3 месяца назад
honestly you guys should book some audiobook gigs and use your soft voices cuz it was super calming.
@rileylynn5815
@rileylynn5815 3 месяца назад
💯 would listen to “fake basketball game golf style commentary to fall asleep to” every night
@bready2crumble
@bready2crumble 3 месяца назад
@@rileylynn5815 dude!!!! Yes!!
@CallmeMelinanow
@CallmeMelinanow 3 месяца назад
I have to say that the friendship between Jarvis and Jordan is my favorite thing. It’s such a genuine connection, and the mutual respect and platonic affection always shines through. It’s a great way to model adult relationships between men! I know it’s good for all people, but girls are besties online all the time, I don’t see this level of friendship all the time with men! Thanks for showing us this!!
@shadowcharizard10
@shadowcharizard10 3 месяца назад
is anyone else confused by the Jarvis-only thumbnails? before I started watching last week's I genuinely thought it might be a Jarvis solo episode lmao
@occamsaturn
@occamsaturn 3 месяца назад
I had the same thought recently but we have been redeemed
@Donovarkhallum
@Donovarkhallum 3 месяца назад
Who cares it's a thumbnail
@Hera-ln9zl
@Hera-ln9zl 3 месяца назад
I’m pretty sure it’s bc Jarvis has a larger fan base so it’ll bring more of his fans in
@demetriam2408
@demetriam2408 3 месяца назад
Yeah sometimes it confuses me and I think it's just a Jarvis video on his channel until I see it's two hours long and had sad boyz in the title. I don't mind though, I imagine it gets more clicks.
@katelindrum3022
@katelindrum3022 3 месяца назад
When they did the Skibbidi Toilet ep with Rhett, I mistook Skibbidi (or something?) for a goofily photoshopped Jordan and it took weeks before I realized my misunderstanding 😂
@scottjacobson6619
@scottjacobson6619 3 месяца назад
What Jordan said at the end is what I've been trying to say for so long. The type of people that fall into these beliefs genuinely need social help but dont know how/want to ask for help, and when somebody comes around telling them "it's not actually vague and grey" it's the closest thing that feels like answers for them.
@aj_12x23
@aj_12x23 3 месяца назад
If Anastasia has zero fans, I am dead.
@GlobnarTheGreen
@GlobnarTheGreen 3 месяца назад
Get the shovel
@GlobnarTheGreen
@GlobnarTheGreen 3 месяца назад
Just joshing
@4232emmie
@4232emmie 3 месяца назад
The segment with Anastasia was so fun, I loved her energy!! Hopefully shes in more episodes in the future :)
@Guineapigsreadingbooks
@Guineapigsreadingbooks 3 месяца назад
I would not be mad if the show slowly turned into sad boyz and Anastasia
@ellenardi
@ellenardi 3 месяца назад
i am horrified by the guy using Game of Thrones to prove his point, referencing a scene where two Dothraki men fight over the right to SA a woman, and implying that Daenerys "likes" this even though the show depicts her as being SAd by Drogo (and in the book she's THIRTEEN). That is so many red flags in one analogy
@PsychoKama
@PsychoKama 3 месяца назад
Oh my god, that's so much worse than I thought! I've never read the books or watched the show, so I thought it was bad enough that he used a series written by a man as an example of what women want (along with what context he did provide). Knowing the actual context is so important!
@mayaenglish5424
@mayaenglish5424 3 месяца назад
Also I never really got into GoT but from the bits and pieces pop culture has squeezed into my brain without me even trying, I'm pretty sure she was scared and unhappy the whole time and then there was some stockholm stuff going on. GoT is screwed up on purpose, the whole story seems to be almost a "How many messed up things can I do to these characters before they die or go insane?" competition, so using it as a guide on acceptable relationships is pretty funny, in a concerning way.
@certifiedgreg_rose
@certifiedgreg_rose 3 месяца назад
Im a woman and i hate math and myself so its okay
@starparodier91
@starparodier91 3 месяца назад
Was just about to comment this
@tokyotwice8810
@tokyotwice8810 3 месяца назад
Ahaaaa don't say that babe ur so y=mx+b 🤤 (satire I'm sorry)
@anonymixx8106
@anonymixx8106 3 месяца назад
Y'all 😂 my people lmfao
@weewooweewoo906
@weewooweewoo906 3 месяца назад
love u
@DramaBombz
@DramaBombz 3 месяца назад
::double negative::
@dino-seal
@dino-seal 3 месяца назад
I've been so conditioned with Jarvis thumbnails a rare shiny Jordan thumbnail made me instantly click
@kishinumaayumi
@kishinumaayumi 3 месяца назад
Its a jarvis thumbnail for me :(.. (I love Jarvis he's my bestie but I wanted a rare Jordan thumbnail vid too, he's my bbgirl)
@chanyanyanya
@chanyanyanya 3 месяца назад
@@kishinumaayumisounds very parasocial of you
@kishinumaayumi
@kishinumaayumi 3 месяца назад
​@@chanyanyanya SO REAL they're my besties we wiggle our feet and talk about our day everynight on discord video calls (/j)
@godcopter
@godcopter 3 месяца назад
The fact that the girl in the “SWORD” video is quite literally a LARPer is insane. Just like. Click on her page dude she is not being for real. Like. She actually plays swords and princesses she is a dress up girlie.
@lillie4431
@lillie4431 3 месяца назад
u guys always upload whenever i'm crying. thank u so much
@spokeinlilac
@spokeinlilac 3 месяца назад
Hoping your day brightens up love 💜
@lillie4431
@lillie4431 3 месяца назад
​@@spokeinlilacthank u💓
@megan_james
@megan_james 3 месяца назад
🩵 hope you’re feeling better
@SuicidalKamikaze
@SuicidalKamikaze 3 месяца назад
They’re in your walls 👁️👄👁️
@ellerose5997
@ellerose5997 3 месяца назад
same, we're in this together
@AlwaysAmTired
@AlwaysAmTired 3 месяца назад
I know y'all have a lot of young fans and I love seeing you break down sexist theory this way. I think that's really valuable (and very entertaining)
@Guineapigsreadingbooks
@Guineapigsreadingbooks 3 месяца назад
It has been helpful for me in this case because I couldn’t really express what felt icky about the hoe math guy when I saw one clip of him, and watching them discuss him helped me understand/pinpoint it better.
@thesplendor2311
@thesplendor2311 3 месяца назад
R.I.P Howdy 😔 Forever in our hearts ❤
@theaceofswords
@theaceofswords 3 месяца назад
khwa pow (whip noise)
@h1d34w4y
@h1d34w4y 3 месяца назад
ITS SEASONAL!!!!
@voidify3
@voidify3 3 месяца назад
Speaking as an autistic person, this chart has a potent aura of “I’m the worst kind of autistic man who never got the support to learn that modelling other people as flowcharts will always be an inaccurate model”
@jaconater4539
@jaconater4539 3 месяца назад
found this guys content on youtube before; he was just talking abt phycology in a cool way so i looked at more of his content, but then the second i saw him start to talk about women it just switched to this really passive aggressive and bad faith argument and i was like "oh...." A lot of women he stitches are making really broad and often incorrect statements themselves, but you arent helping anyone by only picking those people to react to, and using it to launch even more assumptions.
@andrea-gp8qv
@andrea-gp8qv 3 месяца назад
yeaaah i liked his video about levels of thinking and then he lost me with all the "woman wrong" content
@jaconater4539
@jaconater4539 3 месяца назад
same exact situation as me @@andrea-gp8qv
@ryanpooley
@ryanpooley 3 месяца назад
Jarvis' hyperfixation on basketball and trying to quiz your knowledge is so real! My hyperfixation is bratz dolls and I am in a reddit group where people ask for ID on a doll and it just feels so good when I know who it is!
@soldiaz7261
@soldiaz7261 3 месяца назад
the dark triad is a very ableist (specifically saneist) concept that is based on the idea that people with personality disorders are evil, violent, toxic, and dangerous. specifically, it frames people with antisocial & narcissistic personality disorder (and in general cluster b personality disorders) as threats who should be treated as something evil and almost subhuman. this is, you know, not true, and also a very violent stereotype. it’s used as a justification for equating a group of mental illnesses with violence and abuse, basically. it’s gross as fuck.
@Jay7Rocka
@Jay7Rocka 3 месяца назад
Cluster b people are problematic random stranger
@reckless_herb
@reckless_herb 3 месяца назад
@@Jay7Rockauntreated mental illness/disorders is bad in general. cluster b or not, untreated people can be toxic and dangerous for a variety of reasons. like untreated ptsd can make vets terrible people to be around. that doesn’t mean they don’t deserve treatment and the opportunity to be a good person. most cluster b disorders are born from trauma, being traumatized doesn’t make you problematic. choosing to do nothing about it, does. (i am not talking about people who literally cannot access help, that’s a different issue)
@jbone877
@jbone877 3 месяца назад
​@@reckless_herbthe diagnostic criteria for cluster b personality disorders are definitionally problematic. Problematic behaviours are what makes cluster b cluster b
@reckless_herb
@reckless_herb 3 месяца назад
@@jbone877yes, that is the diagnostic criteria. but it’s problematic behavior, not a problematic person. a problematic person actively chooses to behave that way, i genuinely do not believe anyone would choose to have a cluster b disorder (if that was possible) even minimal research shows that they heavily negatively affect the person with the disorder, just as much, if not more than the people around them. a common discussion i’ve seen about narcissistic personality disorder specifically, is that narcissists don’t lack empathy, it’s that their trauma response trumps the empathy they have. the issue is when people act like when someone is diagnosed with cluster b, there is no chance of them being good people or treating others well. its hard to treat cluster b, but it isn’t impossible. it takes hard work, and a lot of trial and error, but it can be done. it can drastically improve the person with the disorders life; also improving how they treat others.
@endless_del
@endless_del 3 месяца назад
it's true that folks in the cluster b category can be, and often are, "problematic", as you say. but does that mean they don't deserve empathy and respect? does having a "problematic" behavior pattern mean you'll be a bad person forever? should we hold people accountable for every action they've ever done in perpetuity, even if they do the work to minimize the harm their behavior causes? this is the issue i have with framing cluster b in the way people often do. EVERYONE has room to grow and learn as a person, regardless of mental illness or lack thereof. so extending the same grace to everyone, regardless of what they've done is what i believe in, so long as they've made the choice and put in the effort to atone for it and take accountability. if you are a victim of someone with a cluster b personality disorder, that is a different story, but it is your duty to judge the person-- not the disorder. it's up to you whether or not to forgive the individual if and when they seek help and get better, and it's absolutely okay to not let them into your lives ever again (and this should be known by them, too, because it's part of taking accountability) but you absolutely CANNOT frame the disorder itself as "problematic" because it contributes to stigma that makes people not reach out for help. which has the potential to create more victims.
@ramzikawa734
@ramzikawa734 3 месяца назад
To give context on the dark triad, the biggest usage of this in mass culture is the diagnosis of serial killers. Personally, even that use I find weirdly fetishistic in the same way that people misunderstand the point of Patrick Bateman, where you’re supposed to hate him but it turns into a kind of admiration of him. Or the way that directors remark that it’s impossible to make a truly anti-war movie, in that even the most stark depictions of graphic violence serves the ends of positive propaganda. In terms of manosphere stuff the general implication is kind of equivalent to the Jordan Peterson idea of femininity as derived from chaos. Women, in their chasing of and desiring of men, allegedly perform a kind of psychopathic value derivation of men and the social and economic status delivered to them as a result of the men they sleep with. Ironically, not so different from how many of the men who holds these beliefs think of women. Regardless, the point is that the general conception is that even the most evil man does not hold a candle to the least evil woman. Womanhood is defined by its leading of men away from greatness and the desire to leech off of others. Unsurprisingly, this also becomes used in racial and nationalistic contexts. I love it, it’s great, this is a super cool world we live in!!!
@beybladebaby
@beybladebaby 3 месяца назад
Such a sane planet
@Jane-oz7pp
@Jane-oz7pp 3 месяца назад
It's just psychological profiling, which has been long since deemed nonsense and shown to actually cause more harm than good.
@skyekeating349
@skyekeating349 3 месяца назад
It's good that someone is finally teaching men how to hate women through math. Previously if I wanted to hate women because of fake toughness I could watch Andrew Tate. If I wanted to hate women because of fake psychology I could watch Jordan Peterson. But who was I supposed to watch if I wanted to hate women because of fake math? Finally someone holds the absolutely necessary position of Master Math Misogynist, truly neither the hero we need or the hero we deserve.
@BrickInTheHead
@BrickInTheHead 3 месяца назад
I think i speak for everyone when i say the reisident woman is very entertaining and needs to appear on the pod more often
@Coast-to-Coast
@Coast-to-Coast 3 месяца назад
37:15 Wisdom from my Horse Girl days: that type of horse racing is called harness racing. The "carriage" is called a sulky. In harness racing, the horse does not gallop, it either trots (the two-beat gait where the horse's diagonal legs move together) or paces (a special two-beat gait that only certain horses can do, where the legs on the same side of the horse move together.) Sometimes trotting/pacing races happen with the jockey actually on the horse, but I think it's more common to do harness racing because the trot is famously uncomfortable to sit because it's so bouncy, probably even more so when the horses are going so fast. The breed of horse usually used in harness racing is called the Standardbred (in contrast with the breed of horse usually used in gallop races, the Thoroughbred.)
@elizabethpemberton8445
@elizabethpemberton8445 3 месяца назад
“Like to see some stuck-up jockey boy sittin’ on Dan Patch?” We had sulky racing at our fairgrounds during the summer in my childhood. Which was not quite concurrent with The Music Man.
@gays4holtby110
@gays4holtby110 3 месяца назад
1:33:26 harnessing dark autism powers for spreading evil and chaos
@octokid7066
@octokid7066 3 месяца назад
Lmao that guy did not understand the concept of enemies to lovers
@nakaka3236
@nakaka3236 3 месяца назад
Billy Mitchell's mother is very proud
@callmelewsor
@callmelewsor 3 месяца назад
Not as proud as Tommy Tallarico’s.
@Ghost-lt4sf
@Ghost-lt4sf 3 месяца назад
I love finding this reference in different corners of the internet 😂
@azark8155
@azark8155 3 месяца назад
Insomnia is a city in Final Fantasy 15!!! which is obviously different from a ff7 attack but it's fun that you guys said "Insomnia" and "Final Fantasy" in the same sentence! I am normal about this video game 👍🏼
@stutterman176
@stutterman176 2 месяца назад
this guy should get into dnd i think he would like making maps
@sirius1696
@sirius1696 3 месяца назад
the charts are so autism coded, especially when he said he made them right angles because they're his favorite
@kittyfangz5262
@kittyfangz5262 3 месяца назад
yeah i also pretty quickly was like ‘woah. this guy is clearly autistic’
@sporemice
@sporemice 3 месяца назад
hi sad boyz. you sold me ice cream in my dream last night. please don't do that again it was scary
@oops6876
@oops6876 3 месяца назад
More Anastasia! She is a wonderful addition to the banter
@Aidan_ODonnell
@Aidan_ODonnell 3 месяца назад
Game Time with Anastasia has to continue
@tarettime9392
@tarettime9392 3 месяца назад
2:20:00 Jordan is exactly right. This es the exact reason I got into these kinds of guys when I was in my early teens. I didn’t really understand social cues and how to navigate interactions and people that presented “rules” I saw as very helpful and useful. It did make me a bit of a shithead because I would essentially blame people for not following rules they didn’t know existed but I at the time lacked the ability to navigate things without them.
@SmellyHam
@SmellyHam 3 месяца назад
They're not absolute rules, they're generalizations. Being aware of true generalizations can absolutely be helpful.
@tarettime9392
@tarettime9392 3 месяца назад
@@SmellyHam a big part of the issue is these people are making exact statements of “this is how things are. Things just are this way. Here’s how people work” etc they’re not “here’s how things tend to be or people usually react” etc. they’re hardline “this is the rule and if they break it they’re wrong actually” and the other issue is they’re usually not even accurate well considered points. It’s not true generalizations is rules for how I want things to work based off my narrow opinion of how the world should be.
@cemetery.chitchat
@cemetery.chitchat 3 месяца назад
The bottles and cans at the bottom of the frame are like a little audience-MST3K style.
@ChristianPierce
@ChristianPierce 3 месяца назад
this is dennis from always sunny with the D.E.N.N.I.S system
@user-jc4ft1hh7l
@user-jc4ft1hh7l 3 месяца назад
i used to work at a company that was owned by the guy who owned the cavs when "the decision" was made. he allegedly sent the most angry boomer-iest email to the entire company in comic sans about it
@isabellaanderson5328
@isabellaanderson5328 2 месяца назад
The dark triad is actually a real psychology term. The three traits being referred to are seen in many abusive partners, friends and relatives, which makes it infuriating to see it being used incorrectly by someone who quite possibly would fit under that umbrella.
@gurgleblurgle7345
@gurgleblurgle7345 Месяц назад
If he simply applied this to toxic relationships instead of assuming all women were like that, it would fix everything
@bornsmooth92
@bornsmooth92 3 месяца назад
Anastasia, honorary sad boy! Would love to see her again!
@lissiemassengale5486
@lissiemassengale5486 3 месяца назад
I want a Jarvis and Jordan ASMR Chanel. They could call it Soft Boyz.
@EvilLobsterKing
@EvilLobsterKing 3 месяца назад
Hehe
@baintreachas
@baintreachas 2 месяца назад
wild to both evoke Christian imagery and “REPENT” in the same notebook u keep your lust diagrams
@utatoners
@utatoners 3 месяца назад
i know bg3 is a popular game goty and all that but every time jordan mentions it im like holy shit he knows the thing i like thats crazyyyy
@DaemonR13
@DaemonR13 2 месяца назад
You wouldn't download a car did not age well faster than when I was a kid being told by my math teacher, "When you grow up, your not going to be walking around with calculators in your pockets!"
@mariya_tortilla
@mariya_tortilla 3 месяца назад
Holy shit the chart guy is a literal nightmare. How is he so wrong and confident at the same time, it's incredible to behold
@gurgleblurgle7345
@gurgleblurgle7345 Месяц назад
Makes me sad that he could use that as a platform to talk about toxic relationships, because SOME people do act like that, but acting like women are all or even mostly like that and therefore means women are shite is of course a problem.
@tsingletary6311
@tsingletary6311 3 месяца назад
Jordan looks well rested, and I'm excited for him. Congrats on that 9 hours, man! 🥳
@catgrrrlart
@catgrrrlart 3 месяца назад
Since my dog doesn’t have thumbs I am typing this comment for him while he dictates it to me. Jarvis and Jordan, your podcast really speaks to me as a fellow very sad (dog) boy. It helps me feel better about being sad. Today I cried because my mom didn’t pet me correctly before breakfast and now I don’t know if I can eat. Before watching your pod, I would’ve felt very ashamed of being sad. But now I know that it’s okay to express my emotions whenever and for whatever reason.
@sarahbischoff2375
@sarahbischoff2375 3 месяца назад
1) Jarvis your puns this ep are ON POINT. Incredible. 10/10 2) f.d. signifier mention?? Could he come on the pod??
@badger6882
@badger6882 3 месяца назад
fd signifier mention timestamp?
@sarahbischoff2375
@sarahbischoff2375 3 месяца назад
@@badger6882 Jordan mentions at around 2:19:30
@aridotdoes
@aridotdoes 3 месяца назад
I THOUGHT Y'ALL WERE JOKING ABOUT THE COLORED-PENCIL CHARTS. Is bro ten???
@Kayla-1
@Kayla-1 3 месяца назад
Jarvis, I saw you were on watcher!! it was so cool to see you collaborate with another one of my favorite creators!!
@jarnvir2227
@jarnvir2227 3 месяца назад
The answer to "why do you need numbers" is autism. This is immediately recognizable to me as an autistic straight man trying to appeal to other autistic straight men who are confused by social cues they've memorized and their unhappiness and loneliness despite trying to follow those cues. Rules, number, and patterns are the key thing- if you trust cues from fiction instead, you'll be in trouble. This is a super common pitfall for a certain type of brain, because you realize the rules you've had to memorize aren't working and were always tpo fictional to work. All we have is rules, not insticts- that's the thing that makes social interaction so challenging.
@phoenixs.1072
@phoenixs.1072 3 месяца назад
So glad our special guest was Anastasia today. She’s so cool
@liamodynsky4871
@liamodynsky4871 3 месяца назад
He talks an awful lot about how men should physically fight over women for a man who would get beaten up by a middle schooler.
@The.Harsh.Truths
@The.Harsh.Truths 3 месяца назад
He’s actually really tall and jacked. You probably shouldn’t make false assumptions.
@Jane-oz7pp
@Jane-oz7pp 3 месяца назад
​@@The.Harsh.Truths damn you're down so bad for him
@The.Harsh.Truths
@The.Harsh.Truths 3 месяца назад
@@Jane-oz7pp ad hominem. Is what I said true or not?
@The.Harsh.Truths
@The.Harsh.Truths 3 месяца назад
@@KathrynElizabeth-uz8hi and how do you know that?
@tarettime9392
@tarettime9392 3 месяца назад
@@The.Harsh.Truthssir this is a RU-vid comment section. Appealing to logical fallacies doesn’t actually help you. You’re not in a formal debate you’re talking to people in a colloquial context.
@MelodyTCG
@MelodyTCG 3 месяца назад
The sword part is a sword lesbian thing and i will not elaborate as i dont want to reveal our secrets For more inquiries watch recolutionary girl utena
@MelodyTCG
@MelodyTCG 3 месяца назад
@KathrynElizabeth-uz8hi definitely
@cupoteena
@cupoteena 3 месяца назад
Jordan describing his sleep app is making me realize we have the same one LMAO
@caycecarson
@caycecarson 3 месяца назад
I think it’s so impressive that you got me, a person who knows nothing about basketball and has no interest in it, to be so invested in Basketball Game aka Not The Game of Basketball
@Sonic6293
@Sonic6293 3 месяца назад
I love how Jordan broke on the slow burn of "vicarriagely".
@hayleyquinnx94
@hayleyquinnx94 3 месяца назад
the dark triad bs is just "women don't like me because I'm too nice, and women only like douchebags" but with more steps. It's SOOOO many words to say no one wants to ride him into the sunset cause he can't tell ren-fair from reality
@horticulturalist7818
@horticulturalist7818 3 месяца назад
What's so crazy is I spent so much time with people who thought like the h-math guy that i can arrest that is actually an accurate representation of the incel logic
@the_Royal_Crow
@the_Royal_Crow 3 месяца назад
That is wild, how do they even navigate any of it? Just watching this guy felt like he was explaining Kingdom hearts lore.
@horticulturalist7818
@horticulturalist7818 3 месяца назад
@@the_Royal_Crow it's easier to understand the underlying (false) logic when you realize that they don't view anyone other than the people who fit in with them as real people. Everyone else is basically a stat sheet on a NPc with predetermined behaviour. You also have to recognize that to them sex isnt about sharing intimacy or pleasure it's about power/high score. So it's basically them going at all relationships like farming for good drops.
@borderlinekitten
@borderlinekitten 3 месяца назад
I have also been the sleep bandit lately, I’m just allowing myself to sleep when my body needs it & I’ve felt so much better mentally honestly but I’m sleeping a LOT
@dannymarie
@dannymarie 3 месяца назад
Really appreciate y'all givung Anastasia a platform to voice their opinion on the subject
@allisonb8912
@allisonb8912 3 месяца назад
Truly love that Jarvis wears this shirt in every video, because I wear this shirt like every single day, so I'm always unintentionally wearing the shirt when the pods came out and then we match.
@bagelraven
@bagelraven 3 месяца назад
This man is not even doing math, where are the numbers?
@shelbyfawn1337
@shelbyfawn1337 3 месяца назад
I was just calmly playing the video and doing a diamond painting and Matt Mercer cursed by a necromancer caused me to involuntarily scream laugh. dear god.
@OddCanuck420
@OddCanuck420 3 месяца назад
"so today our main topic..." 1 hour and 16 minutes into the episode. classic.
@AWholeRat
@AWholeRat 3 месяца назад
18:41 hey i was one of the three jacob fanarts! now i know yall saw it! yay!
@serenityacheron
@serenityacheron 3 месяца назад
Love this episode. Anastasia is a great addition to the boyz!
@Alice-kr1vu
@Alice-kr1vu 3 месяца назад
this billy mitchell stuff reminds me of that tommy tallarico guy who claimed he made the roblox oof sound and would regularly just say verifiably wrong information. it seems like a compulsion or something because there's no other reason to lie
@adora_was_taken
@adora_was_taken 2 дня назад
massive tommy tallarico vibes
@PDXDelivery
@PDXDelivery 3 месяца назад
Why is this room in a perpetual state of being moved into. It adds some flagrance to the vibes.
@icarus7526
@icarus7526 3 месяца назад
rlly need anastasia in more of these episodes, she's great :D
@alternity7838
@alternity7838 3 месяца назад
Genuinely loved seeing so much of Anastasia, she was so fun
@allylinsmeier3810
@allylinsmeier3810 3 месяца назад
I think what you’re searching for is the midwestern ope, it’s a classic and can be used to say hey, sorry, express mild shock, among others.
@mitigatortish
@mitigatortish 2 месяца назад
My brain constantly going from "I'm laughing too hard and am going to scare the cat on my lap" to "PLEASE someone close that drawer in the background... PLEASE!" and then laughing again. I'm feeling my full range of emotions on this one!
@TheMaskedHero
@TheMaskedHero 3 месяца назад
The Midwest opening should be, "Oop, didn't see ya there. I'm Jordan."
@disdainjames
@disdainjames 3 месяца назад
The most absurd thing about the chart guy imo is that he has trouble with dating and sex and has come to the conclusion that the answer is to make a graph and post it online. That might be the worst thing you could do for your romantic outlook
@madeleineg.2453
@madeleineg.2453 3 месяца назад
Ok just have to say I LOVE how the captions are done on this video!! Thank you!!
@ab33333
@ab33333 3 месяца назад
My seasonal depression is also kicking my ass. Thanks for making this podcast. It helps when you’re feeling awful to talk to people/hear stories that relate but hard to reach out to friends to talk. Good luck boys
@Christine.Baraka
@Christine.Baraka 3 месяца назад
34:20 My ADHD brain also went "we can make it if we try" exactly when Jarvis did 💀
@teddiekozanov2664
@teddiekozanov2664 3 месяца назад
hi jordan hi jarvis
@johnrice3675
@johnrice3675 3 месяца назад
When Jordan's first question came up I laughed way too loud in public with headphones on. So thanks for that.
@Art_does_things09
@Art_does_things09 3 месяца назад
I’ve been constantly refreshing to see if the episode came out thank GOD
@MaeriTheAlien
@MaeriTheAlien 3 месяца назад
Before they zoomed in I thought that “accountability” said “accounting” and my immediate thought was like, “yeah, I kind of get it.”
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